{"id":10489,"date":"2017-12-18T08:59:26","date_gmt":"2017-12-18T08:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10489"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:47","slug":"9-compromissos-que-nunca-fazem-a-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-compromissos-que-nunca-fazem-a-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Compromissos que nunca se deve fazer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o significa fundir duas vidas e \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio fazer alguns compromissos.<\/p>\n

A little flexibility goes a long way. But compromising on things that make you you\u2014those compromises should make you question staying in such a relationship.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns compromissos que nunca deve fazer, por muito que ame a outra pessoa, porque se ela lhe pedir para os fazer, isso pode n\u00e3o ser um amor verdadeiro e honesto.<\/p>\n

1. Vida sexual<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/no-emma-stone-andrew-garfield-132j9zkFgTwfkY<\/p>\n

Differences in sex drive are a common thing\u2014there\u2019s no need to feel ashamed if you have a higher or lower sexual drive than your partner. The important thing is to talk and meet on middle ground.<\/p>\n

But if your partner likes kinky stuff, or stuff that borders on true abuse and wants you to go against your will to satisfy him, that\u2019s one compromise you should NEVER ever do.<\/p>\n

Even if he threatens to leave you or tries to guilt trip you, that\u2019s one more reason to leave. That\u2019s no longer a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

2. Objectivos de carreira<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/suitsusanetwork-suits-donna-paulsen-xTiTnhHipnFWwwtI0U<\/p>\n

Se sonhava em ser um diretor executivo dur\u00e3o da sua pr\u00f3pria empresa, ent\u00e3o seja-o. Se sonhava ser uma m\u00e3e que fica em casa, ent\u00e3o seja. O importante sobre uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> \u00e9 que o seu parceiro a aceite, independentemente da escolha que fizer, e a apoie nessa escolha.<\/p>\n

Giving up on your dreams because someone asked you to do it will only lead you to the pit of unhappiness and despair, and maybe eventually depression. No man\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

3. Fam\u00edlia e amigos<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/4D7ksFSUtsnvO<\/p>\n

When merging two lives together, it also means that you merge a whole bunch of people, too\u2014your friends and family with his friends and family.<\/p>\n

But if that merging means you only get to spend time with HIS friends and HIS family, that\u2019s no longer a compromise\u2014it\u2019s manipulation. Again, communication is important. Talk, discuss, and make the best out of your situation.<\/p>\n

4. Estilo de vida<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/fitness-box-lifestyle-QAKOwkCIEEtSU<\/p>\n

If you lived your life to the fullest before you met him, there\u2019s no reason to change that now. You\u2019re into extreme sports and he\u2019s not? He\u2019s into movies and you\u2019re not? There\u2019s no need for both of you to give up on your passions; there\u2019s no need to give up on your lifestyle.<\/a><\/p>\n

You can still have separate life whilst together. There\u2019s a good reason why we make friends. You go hiking, while he goes to the movies. You can sing karaoke, while he drinks and cheers for you.<\/p>\n

Pode ir \u00e0s compras enquanto ele faz o que lhe apetece. O importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o chegar a extremos de compromissos e a uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o doentia de perda de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

5. Seguran\u00e7a financeira<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/paternitycourt-lauren-lake-paternity-court-l378jgHVYAPPUzagM<\/p>\n

Os maus h\u00e1bitos de consumo do seu parceiro afectam-no de v\u00e1rias formas. Se planeia comprar uma casa um dia ou mesmo come\u00e7ar o seu pr\u00f3prio neg\u00f3cio, mas o seu parceiro gasta o dinheiro dele e o seu em disparates, pode deitar esse plano para o lixo.<\/p>\n

The best thing to do is to have your finances separate until their spending habits get under control. Not having financial security in today\u2019s world is a terrifying thing. No one can spread the love on bread and eat it. Unfortunately, we need money to survive.<\/p>\n

6. Princ\u00edpios<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-lady-gaga-i-love-you-QY8cyikxl1JFS<\/p>\n

With time, we start to sacrifice our principles in order to keep our partners happy. But when to know if it\u2019s enough? If you always hated cheaters and flirty idiots, why do you let him do that now?<\/p>\n

Excuses like \u2018They\u2019re just friends, He\u2019s just joking around.\u2019 are okay if you are truly okay with that kind of behavior. But if there\u2019s the slightest chance of that bothering you, don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Sempre sonhaste em ter tr\u00eas filhos e um grande casamento, mas ele n\u00e3o planeia ter nenhum? Desde quando \u00e9 que tens de desistir dos teus maiores sonhos s\u00f3 para o fazeres feliz?<\/p>\n

7. Necessidade de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/chelseashow-chelsea-handler-l1J9IXgmv0iuf6GbK<\/p>\n

I have no idea how many times I said or wrote down: \u2018Communication is important. Communication is key.\u2019 But what to do when your partner avoids talking and ignores your need to discuss things? I\u2019m the kind of person that needs to discuss everything, from the color of shower curtains to which brand of peanut butter I am going to buy.<\/p>\n

As much as I care about myself and my own happiness, I care about his. And in order to make him happy, I need to know how he feels and the way he thinks (hint to fellas: we don\u2019t read minds).<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t care enough to talk with you, to share his feelings, to hear your fears and hopes, maybe he doesn\u2019t care about you that much. This is one compromise no couple should ever make. Nothing good ever came from the silent treatment; yell, scream, talk\u2014just keep the communication flowing.<\/p>\n

8. Desrespeito<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/relationship-santana-lhhny-QlKoqIKuMBVew<\/p>\n

All couples argue, but no one has the right to undermine the opinion of the other one or treat them badly. If you\u2019re constantly being put down in public or embarrassed, that\u2019s not cute or fun\u2014that\u2019s disrespect.<\/p>\n

Talvez devesses repensar a tua se ele v\u00ea o desrespeito apenas como uma divers\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

9. Abuso<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/mic-domestic-abuse-tw-violence-vjsj1yD6vNSYU<\/p>\n

No one should put up with abuse, no matter if he apologizes later on or says he never meant to hurt you. He did and nothing can change that. Leaving abuse is hard, simply because it\u2019s hard to admit that abuse can happen to us.<\/p>\n

I know how hard it can be\u2014you always make up excuses for his behavior: maybe if I didn\u2019t act so stupid, maybe if I didn\u2019t overreact, maybe he would have never snapped. But he did, more than once. Remember, love is not abuse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being in a relationship means merging two lives together and some compromises should be done. A little flexibility goes a long way. But compromising on things that make you you\u2014those compromises should make you question staying in such a relationship. Here are some compromises that you should never make, no matter how much you love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":10497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/almos-bechtold-429429.jpg",772,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10489"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10489\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10497"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}