{"id":104914,"date":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104914"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","slug":"as-almas-gemeas-sao-sobrevalorizadas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-almas-gemeas-sao-sobrevalorizadas\/","title":{"rendered":"As almas g\u00e9meas s\u00e3o sobrevalorizadas, o que conta \u00e9 a liga\u00e7\u00e3o e o esfor\u00e7o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ever since we were little girls, my best friends and I have dreamed about love. The four of us would get together once a month at someone\u2019s house for a sleepover.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d throw a pajama party and talk about what we wanted to be when we grow up. One of us wanted to be a lawyer, another a teacher, the next a doctor, and I wanted to be a writer.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, todos n\u00f3s quer\u00edamos estar apaixonados e felizes. Sonh\u00e1vamos com um Pr\u00edncipe Encantado a galopar para as nossas vidas no seu cavalo branco e, de repente, tornar tudo perfeito.<\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, \u00e9ramos obcecados por todos os filmes rom\u00e2nticos. Os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es derretiam-se sempre que v\u00edamos uma rapariga e um rapaz apaixonarem-se \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n

Aposto que sabes como \u00e9: Os dois chocam literalmente um com o outro. Ela deixa cair os livros, ele ajuda-a a apanh\u00e1-los e os seus olhos fixam-se.<\/p>\n

Time stops and in that exact moment, they just know that this is it. They realize they\u2019ve been searching for each other throughout eternity.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever happens from that moment on doesn\u2019t really matter. Yes, they go through dozens of obstacles. They need time before they end up together. But eventually they do have their happily ever after.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Porque s\u00e3o almas g\u00e9meas. Est\u00e3o destinados a ficar juntos e tudo o resto \u00e9 completamente irrelevante.<\/p>\n

Por isso, n\u00f3s, tolos, quer\u00edamos o mesmo tipo de amor. De facto, pens\u00e1vamos que tudo o que fosse diferente disso era um acordo com menos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Recus\u00e1mo-nos a aceitar um romance sem o fogo de artif\u00edcio. Quer\u00edamos borboletas na barriga e toda a montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Mais de vinte anos depois, os meus melhores amigos e eu reunimo-nos de novo e lembramo-nos disto. Record\u00e1mos os nossos desejos e sonhos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alguma delas se transformou em realidade? N\u00e3o. Alguma de n\u00f3s encontrou a sua alma g\u00e9mea? N\u00e3o. Que triste, deves pensar. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I beg to differ. And you know why? Because soulmates are overrated. In fact, I\u2019m not even sure they exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Actually, as I\u2019m getting older, I\u2019m more and more convinced that it\u2019s nothing but a Hollywood fabrication \u2013 that soulmates are made up by some producer or writer who ran out of ideas to make his work interesting.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s forget about fairytales, and let\u2019s turn to real life. You know what counts here? Effort, dedication, connection, and compatibility. These are what every healthy relationship is based on.<\/p>\n

Moreover: These are all the things you have to work on. They don\u2019t appear out of nowhere or fall from the sky.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For a romance to succeed, it\u2019s not enough for some random guy on the street to knock you off your feet. It\u2019s not enough for you to feel butterflies throwing a party in your stomach.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest here: Chemistry is important. However, it\u2019s not crucial and it\u2019s definitely not enough to build a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

True love needs fighting. But I don\u2019t mean fighting against the evil forces that try to break you two apart.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to everyday battles that seem completely unimportant and uninteresting, yet actually matter the most.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about fighting against your differences, against the house chores, the finances, the in-laws, the kids who refuse to listen, and a host of other seemingly trivial things.<\/p>\n

You see, there\u2019s a lot of effort that goes into making any relationship work.<\/strong> E a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t magically be perfect just because you two are a match made in heaven.<\/strong>
\nE adivinha? N\u00e3o h\u00e1 felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n

When the movie ends and the two protagonists kiss at the altar, you think that this is it \u2013 their battles are over and they\u2019ll have the rest of their lives just to enjoy their love. Well, the truth is quite the opposite.<\/p>\n

De facto, \u00e9 aqui que come\u00e7a a verdadeira luta. Uma luta para manter o seu amor, para manter a sua uni\u00e3o firme e para se levantarem mais fortes de cada vez que caem.<\/p>\n

A struggle that lasts a lifetime. Only when you win this war will you understand that what counts is finding your forever person \u2013 not your soulmate.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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