{"id":10563,"date":"2019-12-19T10:12:55","date_gmt":"2019-12-19T10:12:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10563"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:35:11","slug":"obrigado-por-finalmente-sair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/obrigado-por-finalmente-sair\/","title":{"rendered":"Thank You For Finally Leaving Me (Obrigado por finalmente me deixar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t know how long I hated you, how long I wanted to destroy you the way you destroyed me. <\/span>But I\u2019m finally over it, I\u2019m finally over you.<\/b> So, I\u2019m using this chance to thank you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Obrigado por seres a li\u00e7\u00e3o mais dura que alguma vez aprendi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for treating me the way you did. Thank you for never supporting me, for making me feel like I wasn\u2019t enough. Because, you see, now I know my worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Agora sei que mere\u00e7o ser amada, que mere\u00e7o ser abra\u00e7ada e acarinhada. Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que namore comigo para o resto das nossas vidas, s\u00f3 porque quer. Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que me veja como sou e que continue a amar-me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque, <\/span>it took me two years with you to realize that I\u2019m perfect the way I am.<\/b> That I don\u2019t have to change for anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for not loving me. The hardest thing I ever did was beg you to love me. I tried so hard to be perfect for you, I tried so hard to be something I wasn\u2019t, hoping maybe you would love me then. <\/span><\/p>\n

If I try just a little bit more, maybe I\u2019ll be enough for you.<\/b> Mas eu nunca fui. E quando partiste, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o sabia quem eu era. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigado por me ter partido em peda\u00e7os, porque tive a oportunidade de reconstruir-me de novo.<\/a> Tive a oportunidade de amar cada uma dessas pe\u00e7as e de as voltar a colar como queria.<\/span><\/p>\n

Obrigado por me tra\u00edres. Mais do que uma vez. <\/span>Porque agora sei que n\u00e3o ser suficiente nunca foi culpa minha.<\/b><\/p>\n

Agora sei que nunca te preocupaste comigo, s\u00f3 te preocupavas em ter algu\u00e9m para aumentar o teu ego. E sabes qual \u00e9 a parte mais triste? Eu estava pronta para ser o teu refor\u00e7o de ego para toda a vida, estava pronta para te perdoar por me teres tra\u00eddo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Agora sei melhor. Agora sei como \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor, sei como \u00e9 o compromisso. <\/span>Agora sei que o que t\u00ednhamos era apenas uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral.<\/b><\/p>\n

Obrigada por me deixares quando eu mais precisava de ti. Porque agora eu sei como cuidar de mim mesma. Agora sei como me amar de uma forma que tu nunca soubeste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know that I wasn\u2019t unlovable, it was you who was incapable of loving.<\/span> Por isso, obrigado por me deixares, porque isso salvou a minha vida.<\/b> Deu-me uma nova oportunidade de viver. <\/span><\/p>\n

It gave me a fresh start with a new, better and stronger me. Me who loves herself, me who doesn\u2019t need a man to feel loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for leaving me, because I can finally look back and see how much I\u2019ve changed. <\/span>Ver aquela menina quebrada a crescer e a tornar-se numa mulher espantosa e corajosa.<\/b> Uma mulher que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se envergonha por ter ficado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. Uma mulher que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se culpa por ter dado tudo o que tinha a si.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know it was never my fault. Now I know that you were a lesson I needed to learn in order to learn to love myself, in order to see what true love really is. And what we had was never love. It was just another story of toxic love, but this one has a happy ending. You see, you may have broken me, but I\u2019m still standing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m still breathing and my heart is beating.<\/span> I\u2019m still loving, but this time, myself.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t know how long I hated you, how long I wanted to destroy you the way you destroyed me. But I\u2019m finally over it, I\u2019m finally over you. So, I\u2019m using this chance to thank you. Thank you for being the toughest lesson I have ever learned. Thank you for treating me the way…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":10581,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/giancarlo-bastos-189883.jpg",800,567,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10581"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}