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<\/p>\nSente-se um fracasso devido ao fracasso da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Muitos de n\u00f3s sentem-no.
\nO que \u00e9 que se pode fazer?<\/p>\n
Well, the first step is to stop believing you\u2019re beyond repair or doomed. That\u2019s simply not true.
\nA segunda coisa \u00e9 deixar de se ressentir com a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n
Sometimes relationships aren’t about the other person but you.<\/p>\n
Of course, the point of a relationship should be both of you, together, but I’m talking about curveballs that life throws at us in the form of a relationship.<\/p>\n
If you had a relationship that made you insecure about yourself, the way you look, what you do, how you do it, the way you are\u2026 take it as a lesson.<\/p>\n
Isto acontece muitas vezes depois de rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas, que normalmente incluem abusos verbais: menosprezar, envergonhar ou deixar cair casualmente coment\u00e1rios que obviamente o magoam vezes sem conta.<\/p>\n
It’s so easy to fall under someone\u2019s spell \u2013 and not just in a romantic sense. It’s easy to start believing what other people think of you. It\u2019s easy to lose a sense of self.<\/p>\n
I’m here to tell you that whatever happened to you, whatever is said to or about you, doesn’t define you. If you’ve been left by someone you loved deeply, that doesn\u2019t define you.<\/p>\n
It hurts like hell. It’s real. It’s part of you. But it doesn’t define you. You’re not a girl who’s been left. You’re not someone\u2019s pastime or second option.<\/p>\n
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However, to realize that, you first must believe it yourself. That’s where any healthy relationship starts: with self-love.<\/p>\n
De facto, a maioria das nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o apenas espelhos do que pensamos sobre n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e da forma como nos tratamos.<\/p>\n
In this case, there’s a possibility you already thought you weren\u2019t not good enough even before the first unsuccessful relationship.<\/p>\n
You may have been carrying that belief about yourself since you were little, and now it\u2019s manifesting through your romantic relationships. Think about it. Why don’t YOU think you’re worth keeping?<\/p>\n
Whatever you come up with can be changed. Our personalities aren’t set in stone. You can be whatever you want, you just have to believe it first.<\/p>\n
O magnetismo que atrai as pessoas e as ajuda a manterem-se juntas \u00e9 mais forte quando ambos os parceiros est\u00e3o a ser aut\u00eanticos.<\/p>\n
Men don\u2019t want women to control them. Men want companions. They want a partner in crime. Even when they don\u2019t know it.<\/p>\n
If there\u2019s no personality, no authenticity, there\u2019s nothing to pull them in and make them stay.<\/p>\n
A m\u00e1 not\u00edcia \u00e9 que nem todas as mulheres compreendem isso. A boa not\u00edcia \u00e9 que pode sempre mudar isso, come\u00e7ando por se amar a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n
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Todos n\u00f3s temos algo de especial que nos torna uma pessoa a reter. Quanto mais agirmos como n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, maior \u00e9 a possibilidade de sermos encontrados por algu\u00e9m que gosta de n\u00f3s pelo que somos.<\/p>\n
Once that person comes into your life, you\u2019ll forget that you ever thought about not being a keeper and crying over some half-relationships you had.<\/p>\n
Como j\u00e1 referi, por vezes as experi\u00eancias traum\u00e1ticas ou desoladoras servem para nos lembrar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, para nos lembrar das nossas pr\u00f3prias necessidades.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s time to stop thinking about that last person who hurt you and start thinking about why you\u2019re hurt.<\/p>\n
I promise you that once you find the source of your pain (that isn\u2019t another person), you\u2019ll find freedom. You\u2019ll be in control of your own emotions.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t matter that you\u2019re not a keeper to someone else, what matters is that you genuinely feel good in your own skin.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s when good things start to happen. That\u2019s when life finally starts feeling right.
\nDon\u2019t be afraid to say goodbye to things you know aren\u2019t good for you, even if you\u2019re crying while doing it.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s something better waiting for you. There\u2019s someone who\u2019s going to make you feel like you\u2019re the only person in the world and, trust me, that will make up for all the times you felt like you weren\u2019t.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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