{"id":105727,"date":"2020-10-22T18:00:36","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T18:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=105727"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:23:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:23:02","slug":"odeio-a-minha-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/odeio-a-minha-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que sinto que odeio a minha mulher? 9 raz\u00f5es comuns e o que fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most people aren’t comfortable hearing this, but someone’s gotta say it: Marriage isn’t for everyone.<\/p>\n

And while I’m at it, I’ll say this too: It’s possible to disconnect with your partner and lose the love you had at the beginning to the point where you’ll think to yourself, “I hate my wife”.<\/p>\n

It sounds scary. It sounds like something you shouldn’t have thought. However, the reality is that’s how you really feel.<\/p>\n

O casamento pode ser frustrante em muitos aspectos. H\u00e1 muitos factores que podem contribuir para a rutura de um casamento.<\/p>\n

Maybe you drifted away and don’t feel close to your spouse anymore, maybe there was a specific event that changed your relationship forever, maybe you’re dissatisfied with the intimacy (or lack thereof) or maybe you feel like your partner doesn’t support you.<\/p>\n

Todas estas coisas podem ser raz\u00f5es v\u00e1lidas para sentir fortes sentimentos negativos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/p>\n

Se se sente profundamente infeliz no seu casamento, algo tem de ser mudado. Mas, antes disso, \u00e9 preciso ter a certeza de que o que<\/em> sente-se exatamente e porqu\u00ea<\/em> se sente assim.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself about which needs aren’t being met. What frustrates you the most about your relationship? What triggers your anger, sadness, or disgust?<\/p>\n

Before doing anything that’s going to drastically change your life, you must be sure that’s what you really want and that it’s not something you want because you feel cornered in the particular phase of life you’re in.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, as coisas que consideramos irrepar\u00e1veis podem ser reparadas e alteradas.<\/p>\n

Para compreender melhor porque \u00e9 que isto acontece, temos de olhar mais de perto para as raz\u00f5es comuns e poss\u00edveis para este estado emocional.<\/p>\n

Controlar o comportamento<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ambas as partes est\u00e3o a dar o seu melhor para impressionar o outro e mostrar as suas boas qualidades.<\/p>\n

However, after they get married, things change because they start to see each other’s real personalities.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 normal e expet\u00e1vel. No entanto, se notar uma mudan\u00e7a dr\u00e1stica que o fa\u00e7a questionar a sua decis\u00e3o de casar com essa pessoa, algo deve estar errado.<\/p>\n

For example, if your wife constantly asks for reports about where you are going or who’s in your company, calls you all the time, or makes you very uncomfortable and shows an alarming lack of trust \u2013 that’s a sign of a controlling wife.<\/p>\n

Maybe she forbids you to do things that shouldn’t be her concern, or she’s very defensive and doesn’t acknowledge her own mistakes.<\/p>\n

A common problem is the “I’m always right” attitude that doesn’t seem to change over time.<\/p>\n

Muitos homens t\u00eam dificuldade em lidar com este problema porque \u00e9 muito emasculante.<\/p>\n

Em suma, muitas vezes pode parecer que a mulher est\u00e1 a adotar algumas caracter\u00edsticas tradicionalmente masculinas e, por conseguinte, por defeito, est\u00e1 a despojar o marido dessas mesmas caracter\u00edsticas.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que isto acontece com tanta frequ\u00eancia? A verdade \u00e9 que nem todos os casos s\u00e3o iguais.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it’s just her personality and at first, the partner didn’t mind but other times it’s a consequence of the way the couple lives.<\/p>\n

For example, many women have jobs and at the same time, they’re the ones who do the housework and are usually the ones who give more attention to the children.<\/p>\n

Naturally, this puts a lot of responsibility on their shoulders and they feel like they’re in charge of everything.<\/p>\n

This often leads to a feeling of resentment towards the husband who doesn’t see that their help is needed. This often creates the scenario of a controlling wife.<\/p>\n

However, there are instances when women are just stubborn, controlling, and\/or ruthless in their stance and don’t show signs they’ll change.<\/p>\n

Isto cria um sentimento de desespero e de confinamento num homem.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 12 sinais de uma mulher controladora<\/a><\/p>\n

Desrespeito e ingratid\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O seu c\u00f4njuge deve ser o seu melhor amigo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, when it comes to moments when you feel disrespected it’s hard not to ask yourself why they liked you in the first place, or what you liked about them.<\/p>\n

If all your efforts and attempts to make things better are disrespected, ridiculed, or taken for granted it’s hard to stay motivated to fix things.<\/p>\n

Em muitos casos, os homens sentem que d\u00e3o muito \u00e0s suas mulheres, como contribui\u00e7\u00f5es financeiras e actos de servi\u00e7o, mas isso parece passar despercebido.<\/p>\n

As suas mulheres s\u00e3o ingratas e n\u00e3o fazem nada em troca aos olhos dos seus maridos, o que os faz sentirem-se desrespeitados.<\/p>\n

Nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira e amorosa pode sobreviver sem respeito. O respeito \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e1veis e saud\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

Sem respeito, simplesmente n\u00e3o h\u00e1 amor.<\/p>\n

Se se sente assim, tente falar com a sua mulher sem a acusar. A melhor maneira de lidar com as coisas \u00e9 com uma conversa honesta e sincera.<\/p>\n

If that isn’t possible then it’s pointless to stay in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 23 sinais de uma esposa desrespeitosa (e o que fazer a respeito)<\/a><\/p>\n

Falta de intimidade<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es para que se crie uma desconex\u00e3o entre os c\u00f4njuges, mas esta \u00e9 a principal. Uma vida sexual saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 muito importante para um casamento feliz. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Os seres humanos precisam do toque f\u00edsico para se sentirem mais pr\u00f3ximos e ligados a outra pessoa, para terem mais compreens\u00e3o, compaix\u00e3o e amor por ela.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9, de facto, muitas vezes, diferente para homens e mulheres. A maior parte dos homens e das mulheres encaram o ato sexual de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

O que acontece \u00e9 que as mulheres acham que as coisas que rodeiam o ato s\u00e3o mais importantes do que o ato em si. Antes do ato, querem sentir-se ligadas ao seu parceiro e sentir-se confort\u00e1veis e amadas.<\/p>\n

For men, the act IS the connection. That’s when they feel the most while women need to feel beforehand to enjoy the act at all.<\/p>\n

While this isn’t true for every woman, most women have more imagination than men and their desire is based on the amount of emotion, anticipation, and desire they feel towards the person or act.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 compreens\u00edvel que este desejo diminua muitas vezes durante a vida quotidiana e que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es se tornem aborrecidas.<\/p>\n

No entanto, com algum esfor\u00e7o, pode ser estimulado e inspirado novamente.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se sentir que a intimidade entre si e a sua mulher \u00e9 simplesmente inexistente<\/a> e que isso \u00e9 irrevers\u00edvel, ent\u00e3o este pode ser um problema maior.<\/p>\n

Muitos homens sentem-se zangados e ressentidos com as suas mulheres quando se trata de reter o sexo e muitos deles nunca falam sobre isso abertamente ou da forma correcta.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s important to say how you feel about something and to listen to why the other person feels the way they do.<\/p>\n

It’s better to do it sooner than later because once it festers the damage is done.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 10 Honest Signs You\u2019re Married But In Love With Someone Else<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e9dio<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sente falta da pessoa que a sua mulher costumava ser? Sente falta do divertimento que costumavam ter? Isto acontece a muitos casais.<\/p>\n

The person you wanted to be with for the rest of your life isn’t there anymore.<\/p>\n

As pessoas mudam simplesmente ao longo das suas vidas e isso acontece por v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

It’s known that most people become “less fun” as they age. They take fewer risks and don’t have the same energy as they did when they were young.<\/p>\n

They also stop putting in effort and adopt the “minding my own business” attitude and that’s not the right attitude for a successful marriage or relationships in general.<\/p>\n

Aside from that, it’s common for many people to give up on their personal goals once they’re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o conduz \u00e0 insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o e \u00e0 tend\u00eancia para manter o status quo.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, o problema mais prevalecente em muitos casamentos \u00e9 a aus\u00eancia de liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional que resulta de uma falta de vulnerabilidade, confian\u00e7a e paci\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Isto leva \u00e0 estagna\u00e7\u00e3o e \u00e0 aus\u00eancia de objectivos. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 objectivos m\u00fatuos que mantenham as coisas excitantes e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 vulnerabilidade que vos mantenha pr\u00f3ximos.<\/p>\n

You probably feel as though you’re wasting your life and find yourself imagining all the things you could do if it wasn’t for your wife and your boring life.<\/p>\n

Neglig\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, a vida emocional de um homem \u00e9 um pouco mal compreendida.<\/p>\n

That’s mostly because of all the hurtful stereotypes surrounding men and how they should or shouldn’t behave.<\/p>\n

Espera-se da maioria dos homens que n\u00e3o demonstrem emo\u00e7\u00f5es e que sejam homens. \u00c9 por isso que acabam por engarrafar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e sentem-se privados da intimidade e do carinho que realmente desejam.<\/p>\n

Os sentimentos de m\u00e1goa, as desilus\u00f5es e a neglig\u00eancia acontecem sem que a esposa se aperceba.<\/p>\n

It’s not unusual for men to feel neglected after the arrival of a baby.<\/p>\n

As jovens m\u00e3es transferem naturalmente a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o para o beb\u00e9 e prestam-lhe cuidados e aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Isto significa, muitas vezes, menos aten\u00e7\u00e3o para os seus maridos.<\/p>\n

The truth is, a lot of mothers, can’t even get time for themselves and that’s exhausting.<\/p>\n

Understandably, men get neglected but it’s also understandable that they can feel hurt and unable to communicate their feelings in fear that they will be accused of a variety of things.<\/p>\n

When neglect happens, besides this particular situation, and it happens over and over again, it’s normal to ask yourself if what you have is a relationship at all.<\/p>\n

After all, marriage is a commitment to take care of someone else and make each other\u2019s lives easier.<\/p>\n

If you experience constant neglect, that means the other person doesn’t care for your well-being which is a solid base for considering a breakup.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 sinais de uma esposa emocionalmente distante e por que ela se tornou assim<\/a><\/p>\n

Responsabilidades ignoradas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There’s a lot of men who feel as though their wives don’t do their share of responsibilities, especially when they’re the only providers.<\/p>\n

They feel disrespected and used when their wives are lazy, e.g. don’t cook, clean, take care of the household, etc.<\/p>\n

Esta din\u00e2mica conduz inevitavelmente \u00e0 ru\u00edna da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 sempre a desleixar-se e a outra est\u00e1 a fazer um esfor\u00e7o extra, haver\u00e1 frustra\u00e7\u00e3o e fortes sentimentos de ressentimento.<\/p>\n

It’s understandable that one party feels frustrated when the other one doesn’t put in equal amounts of time and energy because that’s marriage \u2013 putting in effort to make life easier and more comfortable for each other.<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 tentou tudo para sensibilizar o seu c\u00f4njuge para estes problemas e nada mudou depois disso, o seu c\u00f4njuge \u00e9 provavelmente ego\u00edsta e est\u00e1 a ser desrespeitoso.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 13 sinais infelizes de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 casado com uma esposa ego\u00edsta<\/a><\/p>\n

Caso<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, h\u00e1 casos em que a infidelidade acontece e isso muda uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o para sempre.<\/p>\n

It’s definitely one of the moments or maybe the very first moment when you thought, “I hate my wife”.<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o n\u00famero um para perdoar a infidelidade, especialmente se foi um caso de uma noite, e dar uma segunda oportunidade ao c\u00f4njuge s\u00e3o os filhos.<\/p>\n

No entanto, estas raz\u00f5es, por si s\u00f3, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o normalmente suficientes para um parceiro tra\u00eddo perdoar verdadeiramente e fazer as pazes com o facto de a sua confian\u00e7a ter sido quebrada.<\/p>\n

After the affair, there’s often a lot of resentment, passive aggression, and blaming.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it’s better to rather just go your separate ways than to keep hurting each other and staying in a toxic environment for the kids.<\/p>\n

Kids are capable of understanding that something’s wrong and they will be affected if you stay together in a loveless marriage, anyway.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 6 Lessons My Parents\u2019 Divorce Taught Me About Relationship and 20 Warning Signs Your Wife Is Cheating On You<\/a><\/p>\n

Abuso emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O abuso emocional apresenta-se sob diversas formas.<\/p>\n

As formas mais comuns e facilmente ignoradas, mas alarmantes, s\u00e3o: menosprezar, insultar e humilhar em casa e \u00e0 frente de outras pessoas.<\/p>\n

Inclui a constante culpabiliza\u00e7\u00e3o e mentira, amea\u00e7as e castigos.<\/p>\n

The problem with abuse of men by women is that it’s often not taken seriously by most people, and unfortunately, the man himself often minimizes or ignores the abuse.<\/p>\n

Internally, he feels abused and hurt, but he’s too ashamed to admit it because of societal pressure and not wanting to sound like less of a man.<\/p>\n

O abuso emocional e qualquer tipo de abuso contra os homens \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o muito s\u00e9ria que deve ser abordada e falada com mais frequ\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

There’s not enough information about it and it’s still heavily ridiculed by a society that leaves many men who experience this kind of treatment alone, isolated, hurt, and misunderstood.<\/p>\n

Nenhum ato de abuso ou viol\u00eancia deve ser tolerado em lado nenhum e muito menos num casamento.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 8 coisas que deves fazer depois de sobreviveres a um abuso emocional<\/a><\/p>\n

Insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Em alguns casos, as pessoas projectam no parceiro a insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prias e com a sua pr\u00f3pria vida, porque isso as ajuda a sentirem-se menos culpadas.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, we have to stop and ask ourselves: Is it that our life sucks because of someone else’s doing or because of our own lethargy and unwillingness to change?<\/p>\n

It’s easier to blame someone else or circumstances. The path of resentment towards others usually starts because we have resentment towards ourselves in the first place.<\/p>\n

If you feel unhappy for a long period of time with no signs of getting out of that state of mind, maybe it’s a good idea to seek professional help.<\/p>\n

Se s\u00f3 pensa em coisas negativas sobre a sua vida, isso pode implicar algum tipo de desequil\u00edbrio emocional grave.<\/p>\n

Os psic\u00f3logos podem esclarecer muitas coisas na sua vida, incluindo a principal fonte de insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o e problemas com a sua mulher.<\/p>\n

A lot of people don’t think of their mental health as a serious issue that can be easily treated but stay firm in their beliefs and refuse help because of a number of external pressures.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 sinais de que precisa de mudar radicalmente a sua vida<\/a><\/p>\n

O que fazer?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Even happy marriages have their dark phases. It’s not uncommon for partners to hate each other from time to time.<\/p>\n

It’s often said that the distance between “I love you” and “I hate you” is shorter than it seems.<\/p>\n

Intimate relationships are very challenging and they bring out the best and worst in people. That’s not surprising because where there’s vulnerability \u2013 there’s also intensity.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando as coisas ficam fora de controlo e come\u00e7a a sentir emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas fortes e persistentes em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu c\u00f4njuge, s\u00f3 h\u00e1 algumas coisas que pode fazer:<\/p>\n

Tentar resolver o problema<\/h2>\n

\"conselheiro<\/p>\n

Antes de desistir do seu casamento, deve tentar resolv\u00ea-lo. O div\u00f3rcio e tudo o que lhe est\u00e1 associado \u00e9 extremamente cansativo e, muitas vezes, complicado e emocionalmente desgastante.<\/p>\n

Muitos casais reconciliam-se durante o processo de div\u00f3rcio ou arrependem-se de se terem divorciado.<\/p>\n

Antes de decidir definitivamente deixar o seu c\u00f4njuge, experimente fazer aconselhamento matrimonial, consultar um profissional de sa\u00fade mental ou ir a um terapeuta familiar.<\/p>\n

Tente recuperar o respeito m\u00fatuo que tinha com a sua mulher no in\u00edcio e pense em todas as pequenas coisas que o atra\u00edram para ela em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

Tente uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta ou fa\u00e7a algo especial e fora do comum, algo que a fa\u00e7a lembrar como foi a primeira vez que se conheceram e se apaixonaram um pelo outro.<\/p>\n

It could be a date night or a present that you know she’s going to like.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7am um esfor\u00e7o e tentem fazer algo divertido juntos.<\/p>\n

Ambos ainda t\u00eam a mesma parte de si pr\u00f3prios que amaram um no outro, s\u00f3 precisa de uma boa limpeza.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como consertar um relacionamento quebrado: 10 maneiras de consertar as coisas<\/a><\/p>\n

Retirar-se durante algum tempo<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

When was the last time you’ve taken time for yourself? Even in the healthiest marriages, couples need some personal time and space.<\/p>\n

Tem os seus pr\u00f3prios passatempos e interesses? Sente-se bem consigo pr\u00f3prio, independentemente da sua mulher?<\/p>\n

Dependendo da sua resposta, pode ser uma boa ideia passar algum tempo longe da sua mulher, mas APENAS com uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o muito clara e definida do que isso significa.<\/p>\n

Sometimes “the break” is what brings the couple closer together and sometimes it’s what determines their end.<\/p>\n

Either way, it’s useful for getting clarity about what you really want and feel.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais fazer uma pausa \u00e9 igual ao fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a a si pr\u00f3prio estas perguntas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

a) Foi claro com o seu c\u00f4njuge sobre as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es relativamente ao casamento?<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s important to make clear what bothers you in your marriage, how it makes you feel, and why you can’t tolerate it anymore.<\/p>\n

b) Existe ALGUMA forma de fazer com que o vosso casamento funcione? Qual \u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n

Is there something that would make you change your mind or the way you see your partner? Do you think it’s possible to do it if your partner shows interest?<\/p>\n

c) Seria realmente mais feliz se vivesse sem o seu c\u00f4njuge?<\/em><\/p>\n

Imagine a sua vida sem a sua mulher. Sentir-se-ia aliviado?<\/p>\n

Think about all the details she takes care of and all the things she does in the household and with your kids that you don’t.<\/p>\n

Are you ready to take on those responsibilities once you’re separated?<\/p>\n

d) Porque \u00e9 que tem medo de terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/em><\/p>\n

What’s stopping you from filing for divorce now? Is it the kids or finances?<\/p>\n

Talvez ainda sinta algo pela sua mulher. Pense nisso mais uma vez e depois tome uma decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

e) Est\u00e1 financeiramente preparado para o div\u00f3rcio?<\/em><\/p>\n

Esta pergunta \u00e9 auto-explicativa e muito importante por raz\u00f5es pr\u00e1ticas. Deve saber que o div\u00f3rcio pode complicar a vida por muitas raz\u00f5es diferentes.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 17 sinais de um casamento infeliz (e como corrigi-lo)<\/a><\/p>\n

Pedir o div\u00f3rcio<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If none of the other things work out for you and you can still say, “I hate my wife” without feeling bad about it, then you should consider divorce and going your separate ways.<\/p>\n

There’s no point in living in an unhappy marriage. It makes both partners miserable and continues to disappoint them.<\/p>\n

Before taking this step, you should consult with a divorce lawyer to get an idea of what the divorce process looks like because many people aren’t aware of all the details and possibilities.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: What It\u2019s Like To Continue With Your Life After Divorce For Men and The Destruction of Divorce: Rise Above the Ashes<\/a><\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

No relationship is the same. We’re all influenced by our circumstances and everything that life has put us through.<\/p>\n

Sometimes there’s a strong influence from our parents who went through similar situations and that often subconsciously shapes our views of marriage too.<\/p>\n

Talvez j\u00e1 tenha notado o mesmo padr\u00e3o de comportamento.<\/p>\n

Some people are capable of dealing with certain problems better than others, but that doesn’t mean you’re failing at something. It means your story and your needs are different.<\/p>\n

Maybe you made a choice that you now consider to be the wrong choice. Unfortunately, whatever was done in the past can’t be changed.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se pode mudar o presente e esperar um futuro melhor.<\/p>\n

If you decide to take a step further and end things, in most cases, difficult times are inevitable in most cases, but after that, you’ll start to feel better and start your life anew.<\/p>\n

To say, “I hate my wife” is a strong statement and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. Hate doesn’t simply happen in one moment and then disappear in another.<\/p>\n

O \u00f3dio \u00e9 algo que leva anos a desenvolver-se, anos de sentimentos negativos que foram empurrados para debaixo do tapete.<\/p>\n

It’s extremely hard to live a normal life with someone you feel this strongly about.<\/p>\n

If you’re at that point, it means that a certain limit has been reached and there’s probably no way back.<\/p>\n

In the end, it’s all up to you. It’s about what you feel, think, and are willing to do.<\/p>\n

It’s never too late to change your life and become a happier person, even if that means leaving your spouse for good.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Most people aren’t comfortable hearing this, but someone’s gotta say it: Marriage isn’t for everyone. And while I’m at it, I’ll say this too: It’s possible to disconnect with your partner and lose the love you had at the beginning to the point where you’ll think to yourself, “I hate my wife”. It sounds scary….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":105854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-105727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Why-Do-I-Feel-Like-I-Hate-My-Wife_-9-Common-Reasons-And-What-To-Do.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105727","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105727"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105727\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}