{"id":10578,"date":"2020-11-19T10:13:23","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T10:13:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10578"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:25:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:25:01","slug":"vais-te-embora-nao-voltes-a-pedir-uma-segunda-oportunidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vais-te-embora-nao-voltes-a-pedir-uma-segunda-oportunidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Se te vais embora, n\u00e3o voltes a pedir uma segunda oportunidade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se teve a sorte de encontrar a rapariga que o ama at\u00e9 \u00e0 lua e que faria tudo pelo homem de quem gosta, seja suficientemente inteligente para ficar com ela.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be just another fuckboy whose intentions are just to use her kindness because, regardless of how good she is, if you cross the line, if she decides it\u2019s over, it\u2019s over forever.<\/p>\n<p>You might not have had the chance to meet someone like her, but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to mistreat her or to behave toward her like you did toward other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make the assumption that she\u2019s the same as any other airheaded girl who was hitting on you. This one is one of the good girls, this one is gold. You\u2019ll be able to see it by the way she treats you.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a believer. <\/b> She has a heart as big as space and she\u2019s the one who gives all of herself to love. She\u2019s one of those rare girls who loves and doesn\u2019t hold back in love.<\/p>\n<p>Tem sempre esperan\u00e7a em dias melhores e tenta sempre encontrar algo de bom, mesmo nas piores situa\u00e7\u00f5es. Mant\u00e9m-se ao lado daqueles que ama, mesmo quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis. Mas quando as pessoas lhe viram as costas, ela nunca lhes pede para voltarem.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123670 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma bela morena triste no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a fighter. <\/b> Luta por tudo o que acredita valer a pena. Nunca descansa, nem por um segundo, at\u00e9 que as pessoas de quem gosta estejam felizes.<\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes desiste da sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade s\u00f3 para ver felizes aqueles de quem gosta. Luta com todos os membros do seu corpo e luta at\u00e9 ao \u00faltimo suspiro.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a forgiver. <\/b> She forgives so easily. Because she always tries to understand, she tries to put herself in other people&#8217;s shoes and she just can\u2019t hold grudges.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo quando as pessoas a magoam, mesmo quando lhe partem o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, ela encontra uma forma de justificar as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. E mesmo que ela se lembre do que aconteceu, mesmo que isso a magoe, ela tenta deixar tudo no passado e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas ela tamb\u00e9m sabe quando \u00e9 que j\u00e1 chega.<\/b> She might try with all her being for the things she wants in her life, she might forgive all the mistakes and she might believe in something with all her heart, but she can also give up on everything the minute she sees you\u2019re not in it as much as she is.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s the type of girl who loves wholeheartedly, but she\u2019s also the type of girl who won\u2019t put up with someone who doesn\u2019t see her worth.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t ever settle for someone who doesn&#8217;t\u2019 respect her or who doesn\u2019t appreciate her values and, most importantly, she won\u2019t welcome back someone who had the audacity to walk away.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123673 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"a morena senta-se no cais do lago e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If she\u2019s the one to fight for love, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-situacoes-quer-lutar\/\">ela espera n\u00e3o ser a \u00fanica a lutar.<\/a> If you\u2019re ready to turn your back on her once, she\u2019s ready to turn hers on you forever. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Just because she\u2019s been so good to you does not give you permission to take her for granted.<\/b> You don\u2019t get to treat her poorly.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t get to take her for granted or use her and then leave her, thinking you\u2019ll find someone better than her.<\/p>\n<p>And moreover, you don\u2019t get to come back and ask for another chance once you realize there isn\u2019t a better one than her. Because that is exactly how things will turn out.<\/p>\n<p><b>As pessoas t\u00eam a tend\u00eancia para tomar as coisas boas como garantidas. <\/b> And once they get used to good things they tend to think that they deserve better and more, so they forget what they have next to them. But don\u2019t ever allow this to happen to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Regardless of how good she is, she isn\u2019t stupid enough to welcome back someone who had the audacity to walk away from her.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123676 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher negra atraente rejeita um homem que lhe pede algo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t that naive and she has more self-love than you\u2019re able to wrap your head around. She will never let someone who once walked away from her to come back. She\u2019ll never give anyone the chance to hurt her the same twice.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019re going to walk away and only then see her worth, you don\u2019t deserve her. <\/b> If you\u2019re only going to see how much she means to you once you don\u2019t have her anymore, you\u2019re not the one for her.<\/p>\n<p>If you walk away, don\u2019t bother coming back. Once you leave, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/desperdicio-sem-segunda-oportunidade\/\">don\u2019t come back asking for a second chance<\/a> because she isn\u2019t a girl who gives second chances.<\/p>\n<p><b>She deserves someone who\u2019ll appreciate her all the time. <\/b> Ela merece ser respeitada e merece algu\u00e9m com quem possa contar.<\/p>\n<p>And she\u2019s aware of what she deserves so she won\u2019t settle for less. Do yourself a favor and value her while you still have the chance.<\/p>\n<p><i> And if you\u2019re going to walk away, don\u2019t bother coming back. Let someone else appreciate her and give her everything she deserves. Let someone else worthy of her love take your place.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123680 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se te vais embora, n\u00e3o voltes a pedir uma segunda oportunidade\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you were lucky enough to find the girl who loves you to the moon and back and who\u2019d do anything for the guy she likes, be smart enough to keep her. Don\u2019t be just another fuckboy whose intentions are just to use her kindness because, regardless of how good she is, if you cross&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":123668,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10578","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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