{"id":106388,"date":"2020-10-26T16:25:54","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T16:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=106388"},"modified":"2022-01-17T16:09:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T16:09:11","slug":"nunca-deixes-que-um-homem-te-mostre-que-nao-te-quer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-deixes-que-um-homem-te-mostre-que-nao-te-quer\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca deixes um homem mostrar-te que n\u00e3o te quer duas vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWe\u2019re okay, he just said he needs some time,\u201d I heard my friend saying as I was trying to hide my disbelief. \u201cOh no, not again,\u201d I thought to myself, \u201cnot another player posing like a sensitive guy, who <em>precisa de tempo.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Estava claramente irritado e isso fez-me pensar.<\/p>\n<p>Isto pode parecer um desabafo, mas temos de deixar uma coisa bem clara. Sei que nem todas as mulheres querem ouvir isto, mas a verdade tem de ser dita:<\/p>\n<p>If a man says he \u201cneeds some time\u201d or \u201cneeds a break\u201d or \u201cnot sure about this\u201d and leaves you wondering what that means, only to suddenly pop on your screen in a few weeks time and start it all over again\u2026 <strong>Por favor, <em>don\u2019t<\/em> comprar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Guys use those excuses to catch up with their other \u201coptions\u201d and avoid commitment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about it. Do you want a man who\u2019s not sure? Who\u2019s always hot and cold? Do you think he\u2019ll change? Do you think he\u2019ll suddenly, magically realize he\u2019s in love with you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I understand that sometimes it\u2019s hard to accept that our love is unrequited. But that doesn\u2019t mean we should be naive.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-106392 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido vermelho de p\u00e9 sobre solo castanho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-on-soil-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to feel used, played, betrayed\u2026 It\u2019s okay to have a period where you mourn over something that maybe didn\u2019t even happen.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, it\u2019s not okay to disrespect yourself. It\u2019s not okay to keep hurting yourself over someone who doesn\u2019t even care for you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not okay to measure your worth based on the preferences of a person who doesn\u2019t even really know you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Men are generally straightforward, remember that. When they like something, they will make it clear they do. If he wants to be yours and wants you to be his, he\u2019ll let you know, one way or another.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He will be scared to lose you, so he won\u2019t risk your relationship by sending mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>He will commit to you. That\u2019s what you need in a man. You need a man who is committed. A man who\u2019s sure about what he wants and shows it openly and clearly.<\/p>\n<p>A man who wants you won\u2019t ghost you, keep you waiting, or put you second because something better has come along.<\/p>\n<p>A man who wants you won\u2019t let you worry and wonder about his intentions. It\u2019s really simple, come to think of it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top preto a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s hard to accept, but if a man doesn\u2019t show enough interest and eagerness, he\u2019s simply not into you in the way you want him to be\u2026 And guess what?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not the end of the world. Don\u2019t let the opinion of one man or any man control your life.<\/p>\n<p>Now, to get to the man who is committed, you have to be very clear too. You can\u2019t succumb to the will, promises, and sweet talk of every man who catches your eye. Don\u2019t fall into traps. Always know your worth.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not very hard to figure out why men want a woman for a short period of time and then move on, but I\u2019ll say it once again, just to be sure: It\u2019s not because he wanted you, it\u2019s because he wanted to fill up his spare time with something fun and pleasurable.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you should never let a man show you he doesn\u2019t want you twice. Don\u2019t let him get that satisfaction. You\u2019re not someone\u2019s hobby. You\u2019re not a pastime or a just pretty face.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re not a forced conversation, messages left unseen, or a whole day of waiting for a call.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re not someone\u2019s <em>talvez<\/em> \u2013 you\u2019re a resounding <em>sim<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>O que tu \u00e9s \u00e9 uma mulher digna de um compromisso total, digna do tempo de um homem que te ama e cuida de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nunca deixes que um homem te mostre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nunca-sera-teu\/\">he doesn\u2019t want you<\/a> duas vezes. Merece certamente melhor.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWe\u2019re okay, he just said he needs some time,\u201d I heard my friend saying as I was trying to hide my disbelief. \u201cOh no, not again,\u201d I thought to myself, \u201cnot another player posing like a sensitive guy, who needs time.\u201d I was clearly irritated and it made me think. This might sound like a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":106390,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-106388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Never-Let-A-Man-Show-You-He-Doesnt-Want-You-Twice.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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