{"id":10665,"date":"2019-12-20T10:24:11","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T10:24:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10665"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:11:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:11:57","slug":"tempo-certo-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tempo-certo-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"O momento estava certo, mas voc\u00ea estava errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Costumava acreditar que o amor podia ser mal planeado. Que, por vezes, conhecemos pessoas perfeitas na altura errada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o a passar por algo neste momento. Est\u00e3o a recuperar depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eam de se afastar por alguma raz\u00e3o ou outra, mas, em suma, t\u00eam uma raz\u00e3o muito v\u00e1lida para n\u00e3o estarem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o neste momento.  <\/span><\/p>\n

And while for some people this might be true, that\u2019s not the case with you. You never gave me a valid reason for anything\u2014you just used excuses. <\/b><\/p>\n

Melhor dizendo, sempre usaste o timing para justificar tudo.  <\/b><\/p>\n

You wanted it to be the perfect time so you would be able to commit and take our relationship to a next level. And the timing was never perfect\u2014you always had some lame excuses. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ou estava demasiado ocupado, concentrado na sua carreira, com problemas em casa, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n

Querias-me perto, mas n\u00e3o demasiado perto. Usaste o tempo para me enganar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fizeste sempre promessas que nunca cumpriste. E eu estava demasiado apaixonada para ver que s\u00f3 me estavas a usar e a desperdi\u00e7ar o meu tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensei que soubesses a sorte que tens por teres algu\u00e9m que te compreende. Algu\u00e9m que estava disposto a apoiar-te, a apoiar-te quando a vida era dura, a ouvir-te e a fazer tudo o que fosse poss\u00edvel para te fazer feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was wrong\u2014you weren’t feeling lucky. You were feeling deserving\u2014deserving of my understanding, of every sacrifice I made for you because you took my love and everything I\u2019ve done for you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\n

Comportaste-te como se fosse natural que eu pusesse a minha vida em espera at\u00e9 constru\u00edres a tua. <\/span><\/p>\n

You behaved like it was only natural that I would wait for the timing to be perfect\u2014perfect for you not for me. My perfect timing wasn\u2019t something that concerned you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Meu Deus, foste t\u00e3o egoc\u00eantrico. Quem me dera t\u00ea-lo visto mais cedo. Ter-me-ia poupado todos aqueles anos perdidos. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, you know I won\u2019t regret it. I won\u2019t cry for the years that I lost. I will be grateful for the lessons learned. Because that\u2019s all you were\u2014the toughest lesson of my life.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Ensinou-me que n\u00e3o existe tal coisa como momento perfeito. <\/a><\/b>A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 sempre algo a caminho, se quisermos. O timing \u00e9 apenas uma desculpa para que pessoas como voc\u00ea conduzam pessoas ing\u00e9nuas, como eu era. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ensinaste-me que quando damos a nossa compreens\u00e3o, amor e apoio a algu\u00e9m, devemos esperar o mesmo em troca.<\/b><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t settle for one who doesn\u2019t care enough for you. You shouldn\u2019t be with someone who is afraid to commit after everything you been through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ensinou-me que quando a pessoa est\u00e1 errada, o momento ser\u00e1 sempre errado.  <\/b>E, acreditem ou n\u00e3o, estou grato por isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estou grato por todas as li\u00e7\u00f5es. Estou grato por todas as l\u00e1grimas porque agora sei como deve ser quando a pessoa est\u00e1 certa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando a pessoa \u00e9 a certa, o momento ser\u00e1 sempre o correto. <\/b>Talvez o momento nunca seja perfeito, mas a pessoa certa saber\u00e1 como conseguir encaixar-nos na sua vida, independentemente do momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

The right person won\u2019t make excuses. The right person will be modest with his words but rich in his actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

The right person won\u2019t stand in the way of your success and make you choose them over everything.<\/b> A pessoa certa encoraj\u00e1-lo-\u00e1: a esfor\u00e7ar-se mais, a fazer melhor, a sonhar mais alto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eles ver\u00e3o como voc\u00ea e os seus sonhos s\u00e3o incr\u00edveis e far\u00e3o com que queira lutar mais do que nunca.<\/span><\/p>\n

The right person is the one you wait for\u2014not the one that makes you wait. <\/b><\/p>\n

Agora sei que nunca teve a ver com a altura. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O momento era prop\u00edcio<\/a> mas estavas errado para mim.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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