Undoubtedly, a casual relationship means that you’re not interested in marrying anyone (at the moment).<\/p>\n
It also means that you don’t have any intention of being in a long-term relationship either because you’re primarily interested in having fun with sem compromisso<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Tal como s\u00e3o precisos dois para dan\u00e7ar o tango, tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o precisas duas pessoas para conseguirem ser casuais uma com a outra.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se uma pessoa come\u00e7a a sentir os sentimentos, deixa de haver espa\u00e7o para encontros casuais<\/a>.<\/p>\n When your partner has the desire to be in a committed relationship, your casual journey becomes a nightmare (assuming that you don’t want to be in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> com eles).<\/p>\n Por esse motivo, \u00e9 importante estabelecer algumas regras de relacionamento<\/a> que o proteger\u00e1 a si e ao seu parceiro casual de se magoarem!<\/p>\n 12 regras b\u00e1sicas para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n The first and the most important rule of going casual is informing your potential casual partner of what you want. But don’t get me wrong.<\/p>\n You don’t need to tell them that right on the first date but you can do it the next time you see them or when you feel it’s convenient to do so.<\/p>\n By telling them that you’re not interested in anything serious, you’re giving them the opportunity to think about what they want.<\/p>\n Pode dizer-se algo como: “I truly enjoy hanging out with you but I want you to know that I’m not interested in anything serious at the moment.”<\/em><\/p>\n Se eles disserem que est\u00e3o na mesma p\u00e1gina que voc\u00ea, a\u00ed est\u00e1: A sua viagem casual est\u00e1 prestes a come\u00e7ar!<\/em><\/p>\n Regardless of whether you’re in an rela\u00e7\u00e3o exclusiva<\/a>, a namoro<\/a> ou apenas algo casual, deve sempre respeitar o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Just because you’re not in a committed relationship and you’re not a legit couple on social media, this doesn’t mean that they don’t deserve to be treated with respect.<\/p>\n \u00c9 um ser humano como tu e eu e deve ser tratado com o mesmo n\u00edvel de respeito e bondade.<\/p>\n Let’s repeat; what are casual relationships? Such relationships have no conditions and they scream ‘no strings attached’.<\/p>\n Here’s another casual relationship definition: Faz o que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o desejar!<\/strong><\/p>\n In such a relationship, you don’t need to worry about compromising, their whereabouts or going out of your way to meet their needs.<\/p>\n Heck, you don’t even need to think about perguntas para o primeiro encontro<\/a> ou estar ansioso por causar uma primeira impress\u00e3o duradoura.<\/p>\n \u00c9s completamente LIVRE e capaz de fazer tudo o que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o desejar.<\/p>\n (Esta \u00e9 uma das raz\u00f5es pelas quais este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeito para os estudantes universit\u00e1rios).<\/p>\n A casual relationship is a type of relationship where you’re allowed to have a backup (or backups) in case you want to.<\/p>\n Assim, pode sair casualmente com uma pessoa de cada vez ou pode ter uma vida amorosa ativa e sair com algumas pessoas ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n I’ll repeat again. Pode fazer tudo o que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o desejar sem se sentir culpado por n\u00e3o cumprir os padr\u00f5es convencionais de namoro\/relacionamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n In other words, you don’t need to do what you’re expected to but what YOU want to and that’s the beauty of being casual with someone.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica coisa a que se deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a n\u00e3o captura de sentimentos (o que por vezes pode ser bastante dif\u00edcil).<\/p>\n O ci\u00fame n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas o principal destruidor de rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um destruidor de qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, incluindo uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o deve ter ci\u00fames de encontros de uma noite ou de encontros com outras pessoas.<\/p>\n If you see on social media that your casual partner is dating other people, you shouldn’t make a scene or be mad about it.<\/p>\n O ci\u00fame \u00e9 um dos primeiros sinais de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual est\u00e1 a tornar-se s\u00e9ria.<\/strong><\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, se notar que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a ficar possessivo, saiba que isso \u00e9 uma enorme bandeira vermelha e que deve considerar terminar as coisas o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: O guia definitivo sobre como n\u00e3o sentir nada por algu\u00e9m<\/a><\/p>\n Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria exige muito esfor\u00e7o, tempo e energia.<\/p>\n Well, lucky you, because you’re not in one right now, which means you can focus on the other things in your life!<\/p>\n Comece a trabalhar para melhorar a sua sa\u00fade mental e o seu bem-estar corporal e continue a passar tempo com os seus entes queridos e amigos.<\/p>\n Fa\u00e7a algo novo pela primeira vez na sua vida, explore o mundo, saia da sua zona de conforto!<\/p>\n By focusing on the other things in your life, you will also prevent yourself from establishing an emotional connection with your casual partner because you won’t be spending much time with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n You already know the drill. When you’re feeling bored or lonely, it comes naturally to you to contact that one person you’re seeing at the moment and initiate a hangout.<\/p>\n While this is okay from time to time, it shouldn’t happen on a regular basis.<\/p>\n Let’s say you want to initiate a hangout on Friday night.<\/p>\n In that case, you shouldn’t make plans a week in advance but doing it a day or two before the event is okay.<\/p>\n The reason why you shouldn’t do that is because it prevents you from living in the moment and focusing on the other things in your life (the things we mentioned above).<\/p>\n E se entretanto conheceres algu\u00e9m novo?<\/p>\n If you only focus on making future plans with your casual partner, you will direct your mindset and all your energy to it, which screams \u2018SERIOUS\u2019.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, concentre-se nas coisas que tem \u00e0 sua frente e pense em novas formas de evoluir e de se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Todos os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es lhe dir\u00e3o que passar demasiado tempo com algu\u00e9m pode resultar na cria\u00e7\u00e3o de la\u00e7os e na captura de sentimentos.<\/p>\n O mesmo se aplica \u00e0s mensagens de texto ou aos telefonemas entre os encontros.<\/p>\n Don’t send them tons of texts or pictures during the day. Don’t call them all the time and don’t even think about doing that.<\/strong><\/p>\n Keep in mind that the more things you share or do with your casual partner, the closer you\u2019ll get to each other.<\/p>\n Por conseguinte, a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 reduzir ao m\u00ednimo as conversas e as mensagens de texto.<\/p>\n Se notar que tem vontade de partilhar todos os pormenores da sua vida com ele, ent\u00e3o pode estar numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil, porque isso \u00e9 um sinal de que as coisas est\u00e3o a ficar s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n Est\u00e1 a pensar em apresentar o seu parceiro casual \u00e0 sua fam\u00edlia? Pense melhor. Se o fizer, eles pensar\u00e3o imediatamente que voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o ou estar\u00e3o em breve numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria e comprometida.<\/p>\n You don’t want them to get too attached to a person they might never see in their life again after a few months.<\/p>\n Also, you don’t need any external pressure regarding your love life situation.<\/p>\n Deve aplicar a mesma regra aos encontros com os seus amigos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se levar o seu parceiro casual para sair com ele, em breve ele tornar-se-\u00e1 uma parte leg\u00edtima da sua equipa e n\u00e3o conseguir\u00e1 fazer nada sozinho.<\/p>\n O vosso povo tornar-se-\u00e1 o povo deles, o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada casual.<\/p>\n So, the best thing to do is keep them as your little secret or just tell a few best friends that you’re in a casual relationship but don’t introduce them to each other (even if they start insisting on it).<\/p>\n E esque\u00e7a os pedidos de favores pessoais! Precisa de algu\u00e9m para o ajudar nas tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, no trabalho ou em qualquer outra tarefa?<\/p>\n Don’t ask your casual partner to help you with any of these.<\/p>\n Seriously, don’t. No matter how stressful or desperate you are, it is never a good idea to ask for their assistance.<\/p>\n Why? Because you shouldn’t expect them to be there for you whenever you need them.<\/p>\n That’s not how casual dating and open relationships work.<\/p>\n Se o fizer, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o chamem para o ajudar em alguma coisa tamb\u00e9m e pronto: uma forma segura de passar de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o casual para algo s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n “Should I call them now or tomorrow? What should I wear? What if I say something that I shouldn’t and as a result, scare them away? Is this a casual hookup or are we friends with benefits?”<\/em><\/p>\n Pensar demais pode levar a sentimentos feridos.<\/strong> Pensar demais pode levar a situa\u00e7\u00f5es de stress.<\/strong><\/p>\n You don’t need either in your life if you decide to go casual.<\/p>\n As always, the ball is in your court. If you say to yourself that you’ll follow these rules and will not overthink things, you will become a master of casual dating.<\/p>\n However, if you start overanalyzing your and your partner’s every move, you will not enjoy the journey of going casual but you will end up feeling frustrated over it.<\/p>\n Como ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual sem se magoar? Basta ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e com o seu parceiro casual.<\/p>\n Converse com eles sobre a exclusividade.<\/p>\n Se desenvolver sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos e come\u00e7ar a pensar em ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica e de compromisso, deve dizer-lhes isso mesmo.<\/p>\n Or if you want to break up with them, end things by letting them know that you’re no longer interested in dating them.<\/p>\nMake it clear that you’re not looking for anything serious<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLembre-se que o respeito continua a ser uma parte importante da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFaz o que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o desejar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPode ter uma c\u00f3pia de seguran\u00e7a (se quiser)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o \u00e9 permitido o ci\u00fame ou a possessividade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPode concentrar-se nas outras coisas da sua vida<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t make plans too early<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t talk to them too much between meet-ups<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t take them to your family gatherings or hangouts with your friends<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t ask them for personal favors<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t overthink things<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSeja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e com o seu parceiro casual!<\/h2>\n
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