{"id":10722,"date":"2017-12-21T08:33:05","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T08:33:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10722"},"modified":"2024-10-31T11:18:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-31T10:18:48","slug":"o-que-espero-para-si-em-2019","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-espero-para-si-em-2019\/","title":{"rendered":"O que espero para si em 2025"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Espero que aceites o amor de ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I hope you stop with the torment, the guilt, and the misconception that you aren\u2019t good enough. It took me a very long time to accept the very concepts I\u2019m wishing for you now. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It took me a very long time to realize that I wasn\u2019t the awful words people said about me. It took time to trust in the world again, because for such a long time I thought it was made up of people who were only out to hurt you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2024 ensinou-me que as coisas boas do mundo s\u00e3o sempre mais importantes do que as m\u00e1s. Espero que 2025 vos ensine esta mesma li\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Espero que nunca sejas v\u00edtima das palavras vis que ele te chamou. Espero que este ano te ensine que nem todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais, tal como cada amor \u00e9 diferente.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a while, I used to think love was comprised of only the effort you put into it. Love is not that. Love is a feeling that moves you. It\u2019s not a word you toss around when you\u2019ve messed up and you hope that three little words are enough to salvage the relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Love isn\u2019t what continually tarnishes a relationship. Love is what builds it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think back to four years ago when I found myself divorced, living upstairs in my parents\u2019 attic, wondering what in the hell the word \u2018love\u2019 even meant. Back then, I thought love meant someone loving me. I thought it meant male attention. I thought it meant it had to be given by someone else. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>O que descobri foi como a minha defini\u00e7\u00e3o de amor mudou ao longo dos anos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O amor significava escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3pria. Amor significava seguir as minhas paix\u00f5es, por mais rid\u00edculas e rebuscadas que parecessem. Amor significava sentar-me \u00e0 frente de um teclado para derramar a minha alma.<\/p>\n<p>Love meant accepting my flaws. Love meant accepting the stretch marks on my stomach and loving myself for them. Love meant liking myself enough and once I did that, I didn\u2019t really care if someone else went out of their way to hate me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s my wish for you, in the coming year. I wish you a year where you start to love yourself for the girl staring back at you in the mirror. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Espero que gostes das suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es. Espero que ames os seus defeitos. <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Espero que amem os vossos sonhos e os vossos desejos e, pelo amor de Deus, espero que se amem o suficiente para os perseguirem. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Espero que 2025 te fa\u00e7a lembrar a rapariga que eras antes de te perderes nessas inseguran\u00e7as. Espero que 2025 te traga de volta ao teu amor e, acima de tudo, espero que reacenda em ti o fogo que ele tanto tentou apagar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/odeio-o-facto-de-querer-sempre-enviar-te-mensagens-em-dezembro\/\">Odeio o facto de querer mandar-te sempre mensagens em dezembro<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0Courtney Dercqu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O que espero para si em 2025\" class=\"wp-image-177516\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hope you accept love from yourself. I hope you stop with the torment, the guilt, and the misconception that you aren\u2019t good enough. It took me a very long time to accept the very concepts I\u2019m wishing for you now. It took me a very long time to realize that I wasn\u2019t the awful&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":177521,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/What-I-Hope-For-You-In-2025-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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