{"id":10809,"date":"2017-12-21T13:04:09","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T13:04:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10809"},"modified":"2022-05-11T19:50:27","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T19:50:27","slug":"beleza-coracao-consistentemente-aberto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/beleza-coracao-consistentemente-aberto\/","title":{"rendered":"A beleza de um cora\u00e7\u00e3o constantemente aberto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tenho uma amiga chamada Lauren. A Lauren inspira-me de muitas formas, mas, em particular, fico admirada com a sua capacidade inabal\u00e1vel de recuperar de rela\u00e7\u00f5es quebradas<\/a>. Ela tem uma capacidade extraordin\u00e1ria de continuar a expandir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o atrav\u00e9s da dor, em vez de o contrair.<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga j\u00e1 passou por tudo. Namorou, namorou e namorou mais um pouco, mas ainda n\u00e3o encontrou uma pessoa com quem queira partilhar a sua vida. Esta seria a t\u00edpica rapariga de vinte e poucos anos, mas os seus cen\u00e1rios s\u00e3o um pouco diferentes porque a sua as rela\u00e7\u00f5es tendem a terminar de forma muito abrupta<\/a> and not peacefully. She has had a relationship with someone who was verbally abusive to her. She\u2019s had relationships that seemed to be going great and then out of nowhere taken a turn for the worst. She\u2019s had a relationship with an alcoholic and still she manages to always lead with her heart. She dusts herself off again and gets right back up.<\/p>\n

Whether or not she knows this about herself, Lauren recognizes that each person she\u2019s with for any amount of time is essential for her growth. She doesn\u2019t look back, she keeps going. This is what makes her beautiful. She doesn\u2019t wrap her identity up with any other human, no matter how much she loved them. This is what makes her beautiful. When a new opportunity presents itself to her, she says yes with an open heart. This is what makes her beautiful.<\/p>\n

I see so many young women face the end of a relationship and believe that is the end of the road. They can\u2019t get over their past which in turn destroys their future. Let me help expel the thoughts in your head that are saying, \u201cBut I could\u2019ve done it differently<\/a>. I should have done more for this person, otherwise they wouldn\u2019t have left me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yes. You absolutely could\u2019ve done things differently, you could have said, done, been something that you weren\u2019t but you didn\u2019t and that\u2019s okay. You were exactly who you were supposed to be in the relationship, you did exactly what you were meant to. I firmly believe that what comes into our lives is supposed to be enjoyed with great pleasure, but when it leaves (however it does) it should be let go with the same amount of ease that we welcomed it.<\/p>\n

I know this is hard to do because as human beings we become attached and we want things to stay the way they are, but they don\u2019t. Life evolves, that is just a very natural cycle of life and humans change along with it. We can evolve too or we can resist. If we choose to resist we are setting ourselves up for great suffering, but if we accept it as it shows up\u2014that is a wildly powerful thing.<\/p>\n

The beauty of my friend Lauren is that she is able to feel great sadness when it shows up, but not cling to it. Of course she\u2019s not smiling when the break-up happens, she feels her grief and does what we all do\u2014pensar demasiado em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte<\/a>. Then little by little she gathers herself up off the floor and rebuilds her life. She finds solitude in herself again and does not identify with her past. And then away she goes on more dates as if she\u2019s never been hurt, venturing off into the wilderness on the hunt for the one whom her soul will love.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me dizer-vos que, quando ela encontrar essa pessoa, n\u00e3o se lembrar\u00e1 de todas as m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias passadas, de todas as l\u00e1grimas que derramou, de todos os momentos de dor ou tristeza. Porque ser\u00e1 engolida pela pureza do amor verdadeiro e aut\u00eantico e isso \u00e9 intemporal.<\/em><\/p>\n

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por Hailey Yatros<\/em><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I have a friend named Lauren. Lauren is inspiring to me in so many ways, but in particular I am in awe of her steadfast ability to bounce back from broken relationships. She has an uncanny capability to keep expanding her heart through pain instead of contracting it. This girl has been through the wringer….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":10813,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/yoann-boyer-293779.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10809","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10809"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10809\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10813"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}