{"id":108389,"date":"2020-11-03T19:04:44","date_gmt":"2020-11-03T19:04:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=108389"},"modified":"2022-11-27T21:11:16","modified_gmt":"2022-11-27T21:11:16","slug":"marido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/marido\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu marido \u00e9 mau para mim e isso est\u00e1 a arruinar lentamente o nosso casamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

“My husband is mean to me” is, unfortunately, a sentence we hear so often these days. Nada d\u00f3i mais do que ser desrespeitado e maltratado pela pessoa que mais amamos e de quem mais gostamos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esses sentimentos s\u00e3o-me t\u00e3o conhecidos. J\u00e1 passei por tudo isso. Estava constantemente a perguntar-me porque \u00e9 que o meu marido era t\u00e3o mau e desrespeitoso comigo.<\/p>\n

And you know what? No matter what I did or how much I tried, I really couldn’t find the right answer. I couldn’t understand how that good man I married had turned into such a toxic and bitter person.<\/p>\n

I know I wasn’t always the perfect wife. I have my flaws just like all human beings do but I really tried hard to be a better spouse every single day and to make him happy.<\/p>\n

I really tried hard to save our marriage and fortunately, my efforts paid off in the end. We went through that crisis, learned our lessons from it and left it all in the past. We’re still happily married.<\/p>\n

Tu sabes, o pior \u00e9 que come\u00e7a mesmo a acreditar em todas as coisas m\u00e1s que ele lhe diz todos os dias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You start thinking about how the real problem might be you. It all just makes you feel like you’re unworthy of love.<\/em><\/p>\n

In the beginning, you are in the process of denial. Even though you’re aware of the fact that he doesn’t treat you well, you deny it because you don’t want to admit it and you’re afraid of ruining your marriage.<\/p>\n

Then, you start comforting yourself with how it’s all a phase, one little crisis you have to go through to strengthen the bond between you and how it’ll all pass very soon.<\/p>\n

Calas-te perante todos os insultos dele porque pensas que o teu amor o vai fazer mudar.<\/p>\n

You constantly feel like it’s all a bad dream and how you’re going to wake up soon and find your good man, the man lying next to you, whom you fell in love with and married,.<\/p>\n

No fim de contas, you don’t have any other option than to accept that something has changed, that your husband has changed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re aware that you must act fast and try to fix your marriage while you still have time.<\/em><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que o meu marido \u00e9 t\u00e3o mau para mim? 14 raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

O que nunca consegui perceber foi porque \u00e9 que o meu marido era t\u00e3o mau e desrespeitoso comigo e simp\u00e1tico com todos os outros. V\u00ea-lo ser simp\u00e1tico com toda a gente menos comigo partia-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Before dealing with your husband’s anger, you have to understand the reason why he is angry and being disrespectful to you all of a sudden. Here are some possible causes for his angry outbursts.<\/p>\n

O amor que ele sentia por ti est\u00e1 a desaparecer<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

We can’t say that your husband never did love you. He probably did because he married you but there is a possibility that his feelings might have changed.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you at all anymore<\/a>, it just means that he doesn’t love you the same way he did at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 definitivamente algo diferente nas emo\u00e7\u00f5es dele. Se ele realmente a amasse como antes, nunca seria mau e magoaria os seus sentimentos com o seu comportamento desrespeitoso.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t care for you at all<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If he keeps mistreating you and keeps saying mean things on a daily basis, there is only one conclusion for that behavior. He doesn’t care for you, nor did he ever.<\/p>\n

Accept the truth. This is not just one of those little marriage problems. This is huge and it won’t pass just like that. Time won’t help you to ease the pain of being mistreated, nor will your love.<\/p>\n

Como viver uma vida feliz com um homem que \u00e9 constantemente mau para si e que a magoa todos os dias, sem sequer pensar em como se poder\u00e1 sentir mais tarde?<\/p>\n

Se acha que ainda h\u00e1 uma pequena esperan\u00e7a de lutar pelo seu casamento, eu digo: v\u00e1 em frente.<\/p>\n

But the best thing would probably be to leave the man who doesn’t care about your feelings or your well-being. To leave the man who doesn’t love or deserve you.<\/p>\n

Ele tem problemas de raiva<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Is your man always up for a fight? Does he blow up at the smallest things? Does he always try to avoid talking about his angry outbursts once he’s cooled down?<\/p>\n

If your answers to all of these questions are affirmative, you’re probably dealing with um homem que tem problemas de raiva<\/a>, even though he won’t admit it, of course.<\/p>\n

Those issues won’t pass with time if you don’t deal with them together.<\/p>\n

Actually, anger is very contagious and it’s very easy to create a habit out of it, a habit to be angry most of the time, without any reason.<\/p>\n

Deve lidar com esses problemas e falar com o seu parceiro sobre eles, porque podem ter muitos efeitos negativos no seu casamento e na sua fam\u00edlia. Se um dos c\u00f4njuges tiver problemas de raiva, isso conduz a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e abusiva.<\/p>\n

Ele tem uma baixa autoestima incapacitante<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Whenever we were out with our friends or at some family gatherings, I couldn’t wrap my head around why my husband was mean to me and nice to everyone else.<\/p>\n

Mais tarde, percebi que isso se devia sobretudo \u00e0s suas inseguran\u00e7as e \u00e0 sua surpreendente baixa autoestima.<\/p>\n

I also understood that being angry or mean to someone is actually a sign of weakness. That it’s just a coping technique against some fears we all have.<\/p>\n

O meu marido estava realmente a passar por crises muito graves nessa altura, tanto pessoais como profissionais.<\/p>\n

Ele achava que eu era melhor do que ele e que merecia algu\u00e9m melhor, algu\u00e9m que fosse capaz de me sustentar e de realizar todos os meus sonhos.<\/p>\n

He’s just selfish<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is probably the best and only correct answer. He’s definitely selfish because he doesn’t care how you’ll feel when he hurts you with his mean behavior.<\/p>\n

I know it’s difficult to accept but it’s absolutely true. Why can’t you get your revenge or do such things he did to you to hurt your feelings? Precisely because of that, not to hurt someone’s feelings.<\/p>\n

Maybe he’s even being unfaithful to you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

One of the possible causes of his disrespectful behavior may also be his infidelity. Maybe he isn’t brave enough to tell you the truth.<\/p>\n

He probably doesn’t have the guts to tell you how things really are and he actually wants to make you end your marriage by being mean to you.<\/p>\n

You’re married so you’re in a long-term relationship with your partner, so you know him well. Do you find anything awkward in his behavior, any signs that may tell you that your partner is being unfaithful to you?<\/p>\n

Ultimamente, ele est\u00e1 a ser demasiado protetor em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao telem\u00f3vel, fica zangado e \u00e9 mau para si sempre que lhe tira o telem\u00f3vel ou notou alguma altera\u00e7\u00e3o nas redes sociais dele que lhe seja estranha?<\/p>\n

Se tiver raz\u00f5es para duvidar da sua fidelidade, procure as pequenas coisas que possam ser provas de que o seu parceiro a est\u00e1 a trair.<\/p>\n

Ele pode ser um mis\u00f3gino<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If this is the reason why your husband is mean to you, don’t be too hard on yourself and blame yourself for not noticing it before you married him.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s true that misogynists are everywhere around us but it may be very difficult to spot them<\/strong> porque sabem como esconder esse seu lado negro at\u00e9 conseguirem o que querem e depois mostram a sua verdadeira face.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, most of them aren’t even aware that they are a misogynist.<\/p>\n

O seu \u00f3dio pelas mulheres foi provavelmente causado por algum trauma de inf\u00e2ncia ou porque uma figura feminina muito importante na sua vida os traiu e os magoou profundamente.<\/p>\n

A sua melhor carater\u00edstica \u00e9 o seu charme espirituoso, que \u00e9 o isco perfeito para as mulheres. Assim que t\u00eam um alvo, fazem com que ela se apaixone por eles, come\u00e7am a exprimir o seu \u00f3dio<\/a> e tentar p\u00f4-la o mais miser\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a passar por um momento dif\u00edcil<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He started getting home really late from work and he was always bringing some work projects home and working late in his home office. That was the first red flag but unfortunately, I didn’t interpret it well.<\/p>\n

Durante todo esse tempo, pensei que ele me estava a trair. Reparei que ele andava stressado mas, mais uma vez, pensei que era a press\u00e3o de uma vida ocupada.<\/p>\n

I’m still very sorry for doubting his fidelity but he was so mean to me and every time I asked what was happening, he avoided talking about it. You have to admit, he gave me good reasons to doubt him.<\/p>\n

No entanto, felizmente, eu estava muit\u00edssimo enganada. Ele dirigia uma empresa privada e, nessa altura, a sua empresa estava a passar por uma grande crise e ele estava sob uma enorme press\u00e3o e estava todo stressado por causa disso.<\/p>\n

I will never be able to apologize enough for doubting his fidelity but on the other hand, he also made a mistake by not telling me the truth because we swore to be each other’s support in both the good and bad times.<\/p>\n

He’s a control freak<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Lidar com um marido zangado que tem a mania do controlo \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil e cansativo.<\/p>\n

It emotionally drains you because you try and try to be a better spouse for him but no matter what you do, it’s never good enough for him.<\/p>\n

He is Mr. Always Right and every time you do something wrong, he\u2019ll create an unnecessary drama about it and be really mean to you.<\/p>\n

It’s the kind of man who always thinks he is smarter than you and he doesn’t care about your opinion, nor does he want to hear it from you.<\/p>\n

He’ll cross over all of your boundaries and hurt your feelings purposely without having any second thoughts about it, just to get what he wants.<\/p>\n

He’s just taking advantage of your kindness and your honest feelings<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He knows you. He knows how you think, how you feel and how you act in specific situations. That’s why he is being so mean to you.<\/p>\n

He is aware of the fact that you love him, maybe even more than you love yourself, and he knows that no matter what he does or says, you won’t get mad at him.<\/p>\n

Even if you do get mad, he knows that you won’t stay angry for too long. He knows you are a good and kind woman with a big heart and that you’ll forgive him every time he disrespects you.<\/p>\n

Bem, deve tra\u00e7ar um limite algures e surpreend\u00ea-lo. Por muito que gostemos de algu\u00e9m, nunca devemos permitir que essa pessoa nos fa\u00e7a de parvos ou nos trate mal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he’s playing this little game with you, show him how it should be done properly.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Porque \u00e9 que a minha namorada \u00e9 t\u00e3o m\u00e1 para mim (16 raz\u00f5es + formas de lidar com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe it’s actually his very weird way of seeking attention<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se o seu homem gosta de ser sempre o centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es e voc\u00ea o negligenciou durante algum tempo, talvez esta seja a forma doentia de ele procurar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I really don’t know what to say about this one. It’s a little bit creepy but also romantic and funny at the same time.<\/p>\n

If this is the reason why your husband is being mean, then he’s so childish and spoiled too.<\/p>\n

Of course, you shouldn’t neglect him, no matter how many other obligations you have, but still, he must understand that he can’t always be the center of your attention.<\/p>\n

Ele tem um dist\u00farbio de personalidade narcisista<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Alguns tra\u00e7os que definem quase todos os narcisistas s\u00e3o a falta de empatia pelos outros, uma profunda necessidade de aten\u00e7\u00e3o e um comportamento arrogante.<\/p>\n

If your husband is always showing a little bit of each, then I’m sorry for having to break it to you but you married a narcissist.<\/p>\n

People like that are only focused on themselves and only they are what’s truly important. He won’t be careful with your feelings because he doesn’t give two hoots about them.<\/p>\n

He’s an abuser<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sometimes it’s possible that you’re being abused without even noticing it. Also, many people think that there is only physical abuse and that\u2019s untrue.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que qualquer pessoa que diga frequentemente coisas ofensivas e maldosas ou que tente control\u00e1-lo est\u00e1 a abusar de si emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Abusers are great manipulators. They can very easily make you think about how it’s all your fault.<\/strong> Isto \u00e9 conhecido como abuso mental.<\/p>\n

However, you must know that it’s never your fault. No matter what you did or said to him, he doesn’t have the right to disrespect you.<\/p>\n

If you’re asking yourself, “Why is my husband mean to me and nice to everyone else?” the answer is simple.<\/p>\n

It’s that abusers like to behave charming and nice in front of other people because they want to leave a good impression on the people who know you, so no one will believe you when you decide to admit you’re being abused in your relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re really in love with that man and you’re ready to do just about anything to improve and save your relationship, you must know that you’ll have to put enormous effort into salvar o seu casamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even though there is just a little hope for an abuser to change, it’s not impossible. If your love is real and honest, it can be a great motivation for them to change.<\/p>\n

If he starts abusing you physically too, then you definitely mustn’t put up with it and keep hoping he’ll change and that it’ll pass. You must end your marriage immediately.<\/p>\n

Ama esse homem e ser\u00e1 doloroso divorciar-se dele, mas seria ainda pior continuar casada com um agressor.<\/p>\n

You’ll need time and you’ll heal and move on with your life, while your soon-to-be-ex-husband will regret losing you forever.<\/p>\n

Talvez as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es recentes sejam a causa desse s\u00fabito comportamento desrespeitoso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, se o seu marido mudou de repente e est\u00e1 a ser mau para si, deve perguntar a si pr\u00f3pria se fez alguma coisa que possa ter provocado esse tipo de comportamento.<\/p>\n

Se esta \u00e9 a primeira vez que o seu marido lhe diz coisas m\u00e1s e a desrespeita, o problema pode estar em algo que voc\u00ea fez.<\/p>\n

Maybe you said or did something that really hurt his ego and I think we all know how important a man\u2019s ego is to them.<\/p>\n

It’s a huge part of their self-esteem and we already talked about how a man with a lower ego can sometimes be disrespectful in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Again, I’m not saying that him mistreating and disrespecting you is your fault.<\/p>\n

I’m just saying that you should think about your actions over the past few days and see whether you did anything that might have provoked him to be mean to you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 14 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o meu marido nunca faz nada de especial por mim<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8 formas eficazes de lidar com o desrespeito dele<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Lidar com um marido zangado e com os seus tormentos emocionais e mentais di\u00e1rios pode ser realmente doloroso e exaustivo.<\/p>\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 algumas formas de lidar com isso. Ajude-o a perceber os seus problemas de raiva, ajude-o a mudar e salve o seu casamento.<\/p>\n

It’s high time to set boundaries in your marriage<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Okay, you\u2019ve been dealing with his angry outbursts for some time now and you haven\u2019t done anything about it because all this time, you thought he\u2019d change.<\/p>\n

However, now, it’s high time to put an end to it. Enough is enough. You know you don’t deserve it, so why should you keep putting up with and tolerating his toxic behavior?<\/p>\n

Reset the boundaries in your marriage. Confront your husband about his disrespectful behavior. Tell him how it’s bothering you and how it’s slowly ruining your marriage.<\/p>\n

Pe\u00e7a-lhe que coopere mais em tudo, mesmo em coisas simples como as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas.<\/p>\n

Doing some simple things like that together might be fun for both of you and it’ll also strengthen the bond between you and improve your relationship.<\/p>\n

Be open and honest with him. Don’t try to change him by yourself but demand him to change his behavior if he wants to save your marriage.<\/p>\n

Don’t add fuel to the fire<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

One of the best pieces of advice I was given when I was dealing with my husband’s temperament issues was that when one partner is fire, the other one has to be water.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que, sempre que o seu marido estiver zangado e come\u00e7ar a discutir consigo, deve tentar acalmar a tempestade e tentar resolver a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de uma forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Of course, it’s not always possible to do that. Sometimes, he really provokes you and you get angry too.<\/p>\n

However, you should try to calm yourself in those moments as much as possible. Don’t be upset just because he’s upset or angry with you.<\/p>\n

Se vir que algo o deixou muito aborrecido, deve afastar-se e tentar falar novamente com ele sobre o assunto quando ele se acalmar.<\/p>\n

If you start participating in a fight, you’ll end up saying really mean things to each other and you will both later regret it but by then, it may be too late.<\/p>\n

Tentar chegar \u00e0 causa principal da sua raiva<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Before you start dealing with his bad temperament issues, you first must get to the bottom of what’s causing his angry outbursts.<\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason for it, especially if it starts happening all of a sudden. You know that he isn’t the man you married but you must find out what caused him to change so negatively.<\/p>\n

If you can’t figure out the cause by yourself, confront him about it and ask him to tell you.<\/p>\n

If he tells you how you’re just imagining it or keeps avoiding talking about it, seek professional help or ask your or his best friend to help you find out.<\/p>\n

The fact is that his toxic behavior is ruining your marriage and finding out what’s making him treat you that way is the only way you’ll be able to handle it and save your marriage.<\/p>\n

Don’t try to change him because it’s a mission impossible<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A regra mais importante que tem de seguir se quiser salvar o seu casamento \u00e9 que nunca deve tentar mudar o seu marido.<\/p>\n

Pode ser direta com ele, dizer-lhe que os seus problemas de raiva est\u00e3o a prejudicar o vosso casamento e pode ajud\u00e1-lo a mudar o seu comportamento, mas o mais importante \u00e9 que o seu marido perceba o quanto o seu comportamento est\u00e1 a prejudicar o vosso casamento e esteja disposto a mudar.<\/p>\n

This is the only way he’ll show you how much he cares for you and your marriage. And trust me, even if you try to change him, which would be a terrible mistake, you wouldn’t succeed in it.<\/p>\n

Open up to someone about your husband’s anger issues<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You don’t have to go through all of it alone. Open up to someone about the problems in your marriage. Talk to your best friend and ask them for advice.<\/p>\n

Even though they might not give you any guidance, they’ll try to comfort you and make you feel better.<\/p>\n

Pode at\u00e9 pedir ao melhor amigo dele ou a algu\u00e9m em quem ele confie mais, al\u00e9m de si, para falar com ele e avis\u00e1-lo de como o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico est\u00e1 a afetar e a prejudicar o vosso casamento ou apenas para descobrir a raz\u00e3o das suas frequentes explos\u00f5es de raiva.<\/p>\n

Maybe he’ll listen to that person and realize it’s time for a change.<\/p>\n

Sugerir-lhe uma terapia de controlo da raiva<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t just accept his behavior without doing anything to help him realize he has to change.<\/p>\n

Seja direta com o seu marido e diga-lhe que os problemas de mau temperamento dele est\u00e3o a afetar negativamente o vosso casamento e as vossas vidas.<\/p>\n

Ask him to try anger management therapy and tell him that you’ll be there for him every step of the way, supporting him and believing in him.<\/p>\n

If he or you can\u2019t identify his stressors, then he definitely needs professional help and this therapy will help him find the real cause of his anger issues and help him realize those negative emotions.<\/p>\n

Tentar rir para afastar a raiva<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O humor \u00e9 sempre a melhor cura para tudo, por isso pode tentar. Sempre que o seu marido se zangar, tente distra\u00ed-lo com humor.<\/p>\n

Conhece-o muito bem e deve saber o que o faz rir. Quando ele come\u00e7ar a discutir por causa de pequenas coisas est\u00fapidas, no meio da conversa, conte uma piada que sabe que o vai fazer rir.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que toda a gente \u00e9 t\u00e3o m\u00e1 para mim? O problema n\u00e3o \u00e9s tu. (Ou ser\u00e1 que \u00e9?)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

O aconselhamento matrimonial pode ajud\u00e1-lo a salvar o seu casamento<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se ambos querem salvar ou corrigir o vosso casamento, devem tentar o aconselhamento matrimonial. Um terapeuta pode ajudar-vos a perceber os erros que est\u00e3o a prejudicar o vosso casamento e ajud\u00e1-los a lidar com eles.<\/p>\n

Esta pode ser apenas mais uma crise conjugal e, com a ajuda de um profissional, poder\u00e1 ser facilmente ultrapassada.<\/p>\n

You’ll both have to put some effort in and be ready to work on your differences and issues to overcome that crisis.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, tamb\u00e9m pode ser uma \u00f3ptima maneira de fortalecer o seu casamento e os la\u00e7os entre voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n

Todas as crises e todos os problemas entre voc\u00eas podem ser ultrapassados se o amor entre voc\u00eas for forte e honesto e se quiserem realmente melhorar ou salvar o vosso casamento.<\/p>\n

However, sometimes it’s impossible to tolerate specific behavior from your spouse and the best choice for both partners is to divorce.<\/p>\n

Some things can’t be fixed or regained, after all. Lost trust and lost respect are just two of those things.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“My husband is mean to me” is, unfortunately, a sentence we hear so often these days. Nothing hurts more than being disrespected and mistreated by the person you love and care for the most. Those feelings are so known to me. I went through all of it already. I was constantly asking myself why my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":110545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-108389","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/My-Husband-Is-Mean-To-Me-And-Its-Slowly-Ruining-Our-Marriage-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108389","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=108389"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108389\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=108389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=108389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=108389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}