{"id":10871,"date":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10871"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","slug":"nao-se-apegar-mais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-apegar-mais\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me apego mais a ningu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o me apego porque aprendi que as pessoas me v\u00e3o deixar, por muito bom que eu tenha sido para elas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mais cedo ou mais tarde, v\u00e3o criar um problema a partir do nada e, devido ao seu orgulho, v\u00e3o riscar-me da lista dos seus amigos.<\/p>\n

E acabo a chorar outra vez, amaldi\u00e7oando a minha m\u00e1 sorte por n\u00e3o conseguir ser feliz.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that sometimes it is better to let go of the toxic people.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because of them, I was putting myself last and that is something I don\u2019t want to do anymore. This time, I want to colocar-me em primeiro lugar<\/a> porque eu mere\u00e7o isso.<\/p>\n

E os que entram na minha vida precisam de me provar que s\u00e3o dignos de l\u00e1 estar.<\/p>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t want to be the only one who is attached.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a friendship or love where I will be the only one trying. I don\u2019t want to be the only one making an effort for things to work.<\/p>\n

Quero que os outros me mostrem que me amam tal como sou e que querem que eu fa\u00e7a parte das suas vidas.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I suffered every time a person abandoned me.<\/i><\/b> And that is something I don\u2019t want to feel anymore.<\/p>\n

Por muito que goste de algo que algu\u00e9m faz, nunca revelarei totalmente as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Em vez disso, vou parecer uma cabra de sangue frio, porque ningu\u00e9m quer magoar uma pessoa assim.<\/p>\n

Everybody thinks that she is too strong and that they can\u2019t do any harm to her.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally learned to move on.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to complete me because I am enough for myself. They can just be a part of my life but I will never give myself all in.<\/p>\n

And it is not because I don\u2019t want to but because I am too scared to get hurt again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to feel good in my own skin.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to make me happy<\/a> porque se eu tivesse de depender deles, estaria sempre triste.<\/p>\n

I learned that the only one who should run my life is me and that I can just listen to people\u2019s suggestions but in the end do things my way.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t have any more tears to cry.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Antes desta decis\u00e3o, eu era uma rapariga que amava cegamente todas as pessoas, sem saber que algumas delas queriam fazer-lhe mal. Pensava que todas as pessoas eram boas porque eu sou assim.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t believe that someone could sit with you and drink coffee one day and the next day gossip about you behind your back.<\/p>\n

E de cada vez que isso acontecia, chorava at\u00e9 adormecer, perguntando-me porque \u00e9 que coisas destas me aconteciam quando eu nunca quis que algo de mau lhes acontecesse.<\/p>\n

Estava sempre a perguntar-me se existiam pessoas boas como eu, que s\u00f3 queriam viver e deixar que os outros fizessem o mesmo. Mas, infelizmente, nunca obtive uma resposta.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to love myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need anyone to give me the love I deserve because I will give it to myself. That will be the best gift I ever gave to myself and I am very proud of that.<\/p>\n

Desta vez, sinto verdadeiramente que sou digno e que Eu sou suficiente.<\/a><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally realized that you cannot force love to stay.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If it is destined, love will leave you, not because you don\u2019t deserve that kind of love but because you deserve a better one.<\/p>\n

Now I know that I can\u2019t have everything just because I want it but there are other people who have an effect on that.<\/p>\n

I just hope that one day, heaven will bless me with the kind of love I crave so much\u2014the one that feels like home.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that people will leave me no matter how good I was to them. Sooner or later they will make a problem out of nothing and because of their pride, they will just cross me off the list of their friends. And I will end up in tears…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":103757,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Dont-Get-Attached-Anymore.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10871"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103757"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}