{"id":10885,"date":"2017-12-22T10:40:26","date_gmt":"2017-12-22T10:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10885"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:30:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:30:11","slug":"apanhar-o-batoteiro-nao-deve-ser-dificil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apanhar-o-batoteiro-nao-deve-ser-dificil\/","title":{"rendered":"Ultrapassar um traidor n\u00e3o devia ser assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil (\u00e9 por isso que \u00e9 mesmo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Parece tudo t\u00e3o simples. Ele mentiu. Ele fez batota. Ele traiu a vossa confian\u00e7a<\/a> and played you for a fool. He broke your heart and the pieces are still stuck, intensifying the pain. There is nothing to think about, it\u2019s all clear as day, you should just cut the cord, block him out of your system, kick him out of your life and forget he ever existed. He is not worthy of even being in your thoughts. You know that. It sounds simple yet you have such a hard time getting over him.<\/p>\n

Kicking the cheater out of your life is the easy part. But kicking him out of your mind and heart is something completely different. It\u2019s not at all as easy as it seems when you rationalize everything that happened. It\u2019s not easy, it\u2019s rather hard and there are a lot of reasons that make getting over a cheater so hard. It\u2019s important to know them to be able to let go.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because somebody worthless meant the world to you.<\/strong> P\u00f4s a sua f\u00e9 e confian\u00e7a nele, deu-lhe o melhor de si, deu-lhe o seu amor e ele n\u00e3o teve qualquer problema em virar as costas a tudo isso. N\u00e3o teve qualquer problema em arriscar perder tudo o que constru\u00edram juntos por uma noite de paix\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m que mal conhecia.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente conseguir ultrapassar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o, lembre-se sempre que, apesar de o ter perdoado, nunca poder\u00e1 esquecer ao ponto de lhe dar mais uma oportunidade. He doesn\u2019t deserve one.<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because of all the good you shared.<\/strong> All those nice and priceless moments didn\u2019t disappear just because he is an asshole. They are still with you and they hurt the most.
\nYou can\u2019t believe that the same man you shared your heart and mind with is the same one who betrayed you so shamelessly. That kind and loving man is the same heartless bastard who caused you all this pain. It\u2019s a lot to process. It\u2019s a lot to deal with so you keep holding on to the memories.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because of all the bad you shared.<\/strong> Because of all those nights you were talking endlessly about some problem and crying, trying to figure it out. Because you understood his silence and his mood swings. You were the one who offered him a hand to pull him up when he would start to fall. It\u2019s hard to realize that he had no respect for that. That he didn\u2019t value you as much as you did him. It hurts.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because all the dreams you had with him will never come true<\/strong>. E nada d\u00f3i mais do que sonhos n\u00e3o realizados. Sonhos que \u00e9 preciso deixar para tr\u00e1s<\/a> mesmo que seja a \u00faltima coisa que queiras fazer.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because despite their actions, love still remains and we can\u2019t pull it out of our heart overnight.<\/strong> It makes us angry and it\u2019s hard to admit that but no matter the reason, you need time to let that love go. You need time to realize that it was never meant to be.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because you can\u2019t make sense of all of it.<\/strong> You were left without closure, without a good enough reason for his actions. And no, it wasn\u2019t a mistake. \u201cIt will never happen again,\u201d is not reason enough.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because you are replaying all of the above and all sorts of different scenarios in your head.<\/strong> S\u00f3 queres dar sentido a todos estes sentimentos confusos e entrela\u00e7ados dentro de ti. S\u00f3 queres acabar com eles e acabar com ele.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to get over a cheater because you still resent him for everything.<\/strong> You are still mad at him and he is still a part of your thoughts. That gives him power over you. It still influences your life even though you don\u2019t want it to. The sooner you forgive, the sooner you will let go of him and everything that is holding you back. It\u2019s not as easy as it seems but you will get there.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It all sounds so simple. He lied. He cheated. He betrayed your trust and played you for a fool. He broke your heart and the pieces are still stuck, intensifying the pain. There is nothing to think about, it\u2019s all clear as day, you should just cut the cord, block him out of your system,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":10889,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/pablo-heimplatz-275438-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10885","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10885"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10885\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10889"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}