{"id":109086,"date":"2020-11-02T12:41:19","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T12:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=109086"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:07:10","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:07:10","slug":"gajos-como-eu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gajos-como-eu\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que os homens n\u00e3o gostam de mim? 13 maneiras de os afastar acidentalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Why don’t guys like me? It seems that pretty girls like o meu melhor amigo<\/a> get all the attention and I’m stuck here hoping for that first date that just isn’t coming. What am I doing wrong?<\/em><\/p>\n

First of all, looks aren’t everything. While I’m certain that you’re a beautiful woman, there are numerous characteristics that you have to factor in when it comes to winning over guys.<\/p>\n

Pode ser particularmente dif\u00edcil para as jovens que ainda est\u00e3o no liceu e n\u00e3o t\u00eam a certeza do tipo de homem de que realmente precisam.<\/p>\n

Mas deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa. Se eu pudesse voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo e mudar alguma coisa, seria sem d\u00favida a press\u00e3o a que me sujeitei para querer parecer uma supermodelo.<\/p>\n

I was so sure that the whole nice girl thing wouldn’t get me anywhere, so I did everything in my power to be the kind of girl I thought guys want. Enganei-me redondamente.<\/em><\/p>\n

These things come with age but you should know that being good-looking isn’t the key to getting o homem certo<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And by focusing on all the wrong things, you’re ruining your chances of finding him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trying too hard to be someone you’re not and obsessing over every little thing is off-putting.<\/p>\n

But don’t worry, I’m going to help you out so that you never have to wonder what’s wrong with you again.<\/p>\n

Abaixo, revelo 13 things that guys (secretly) can’t stand<\/a> sobre as raparigas e como se pode mudar rapidamente a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why Don’t Guys Like Me? These Are The Most Likely Reasons<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Because you think you’re not good enough (and it shows)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Here’s the best dating advice you’ll hear today. If you don’t consider yourself good enough, they won’t either.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se disso.<\/p>\n

Tudo come\u00e7a com a perce\u00e7\u00e3o que temos de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Guys pick up on things like that. If you’re constantly questioning your every move and apologizing every two minutes, it starts getting exhausting.<\/p>\n

No wonder you often ask yourself: Why don’t guys want to date me? It\u2019s because you make yourself appear unappealing.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais cedo come\u00e7ar a criar uma imagem mais positiva de si pr\u00f3prio na sua cabe\u00e7a, melhor ser\u00e1 a sua vida amorosa<\/a> vai receber.<\/p>\n

A tend\u00eancia \u00e9 para gostar da ideia dele, n\u00e3o do tipo em si<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You fall for the Tinder version, the kind of guy who only exists in movies, so when you see them in real life, you start pulling away. That’s not cool.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if a guy ran away the moment he realized that you weren\u2019t this perfect Barbie he had created in his mind? It would feel horrible.<\/p>\n

You’ll never find the right guy as long as you hold on to this idea of a perfect guy who doesn’t exist.<\/p>\n

Not\u00edcia de \u00faltima hora! Toda a gente tem defeitos. Tu, eu, o vizinho do lado, at\u00e9 o Brad Pitt \u00e9 (provavelmente) totalmente imperfeito.<\/p>\n

But that doesn’t make a person any less worthy. It just makes them human.<\/p>\n

Perdes o interesse assim que um homem come\u00e7a a gostar de ti<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o teu modus operandi. Costumas desejar um tipo durante semanas antes de avan\u00e7ares.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a imaginar na nossa cabe\u00e7a cen\u00e1rios perfeitos de voc\u00eas os dois juntos e \u00e9 uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de sonho.<\/p>\n

Esperas, secretamente, que ele repare em ti e d\u00e1 o primeiro passo<\/a>. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Mas quando isso acontece e se consegue realmente a sua oportunidade, perde-se o interesse.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, when he’s no longer the forbidden fruit that you secretly fantasize about, it’s no longer as exciting or dreamy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But here’s the deal. Life isn’t a fantasy. It’s very much real.<\/p>\n

Perder o interesse no momento em que se consegue que algu\u00e9m goste realmente de n\u00f3s revela inseguran\u00e7a da nossa parte.<\/p>\n

Could it be that you’re not actually ready for commitment or are there other underlying factors at play here?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que \u00e9 um relacionamento exclusivo e 15 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 em um<\/a><\/p>\n

You try way too hard to be someone you’re not<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t believe all those dating sites, nobody looks that way in real life! We can all take a hot pic and use Photoshop.<\/p>\n

But trying so hard to look a certain way (when it couldn’t be further from who you really are) is just sad.<\/p>\n

Guys don’t like girls who look and talk like every other single girl they’ve ever dated.<\/p>\n

They like a woman who has something to say. A woman who looks the way she looks and doesn’t feel the need to conform to society’s rules.<\/p>\n

That’s what’s hot and that’s what gets you dates.<\/p>\n

Just ask your guy friends what kind of girls they like and you’ll see what I mean. Substance over beauty any day.<\/p>\n

Analisa demasiado os seus movimentos e pensa demasiado nas coisas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Your body language gives you away every time. The way you can’t calm your hands when you’re suspicious over where he was.<\/p>\n

The way your eyes roll when he tells you he was at his buddy’s house.<\/p>\n

The way you constantly text him, asking about his whereabouts and making him feel stalked. Just like you don’t like being controlled, neither do guys.<\/p>\n

Overanalyzing your man’s every move gets you further and further away from him. It shows a severe lack of trust and insecurity that plagues your relationship.<\/p>\n

Preocupa-se mais com a apar\u00eancia do que em ser simp\u00e1tico<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Looking great doesn\u2019t get you the guy. Sure, it’ll attract him toward you and keep him around for a bit but ultimately, if you’re not kind, respectful and considerate, you can call it quits.<\/p>\n

Don’t go around saying things like, \u201cGuys don’t like me and I have no idea why,\u201d<\/em> if all you put into the relationship is your looks. That’s never going to be enough.<\/p>\n

Se queres que este rapaz se torne o teu melhor amigo, tem de haver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna entre os dois.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es superficiais murcham mais depressa do que se possa imaginar.<\/p>\n

Tem o h\u00e1bito de publicar demasiadas coisas demasiado cedo nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

The first time you go on a date, you take a pic and post it. You don’t even give it a second thought.<\/p>\n

Ever since high school, you’ve loved documenting every part of your life.<\/p>\n

But here’s the deal. You can totally post whatever you want, as long as it doesn’t make your date feel awkward.<\/p>\n

Consegue imaginar como ele se sentiria ao ver uma foto inesperada de voc\u00eas os dois no Instagram com hashtags como #em objectivos para um casal ou #em um homem melhor do que qualquer outro<\/em> antes mesmo de o oficializarem?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> \u00e9 por isso! P\u00e1ra de saltar etapas. \u00c9 preciso tempo para evoluir at\u00e9 esta fase e a pressa s\u00f3 o pode prejudicar.<\/p>\n

A sua qu\u00edmica f\u00edsica \u00e9 \u00f3ptima, mas falta-lhe em todos os outros departamentos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Adoro um homem que me consegue animar sem que eu tenha de lhe dizer que preciso. Isso demonstra uma verdadeira liga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E embora eu adore o contacto f\u00edsico (um aspeto importante, sem d\u00favida), uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e mental \u00e9 igualmente vital.<\/p>\n

How can you be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t get how you think?<\/p>\n

The physical aspect will only take you so far but for as long as you don’t nurture every other part of a relationship, guys will have a tendency to hit the road.<\/p>\n

Ao contr\u00e1rio do que se pensa, n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 isso que os homens querem de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> The more mature he is, the more inclined he’ll be to leave if things aren’t clicking in every way.<\/p>\n

Aposta-se sempre em homens indispon\u00edveis (e queima-se sempre)<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Here are my two cents on relationships. Always go for a guy who can make you LOL when you’re feeling down, as opposed to someone who only likes your perky derri\u00e8re.<\/p>\n

Haven’t you learned by now? If you keep yearning for guys who are clearly not bom para si,<\/a> you’ll always get burned.<\/p>\n

The whole bad boy shtick doesn’t get you your happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

E tenho a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que j\u00e1 sabes isso mas, de alguma forma, continuas a esperar o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

You’re too clingy and don’t have a life outside of the relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 contraproducente para o objetivo de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

While it’s comforting and reassuring having someone you want to spend every second with, you both need space of your own.<\/p>\n

Your love life will never thrive as long as you keep the guy as the center of your universe. Guys get scared away when they realize you’re being too clingy.<\/p>\n

O facto de n\u00e3o terem vida fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o faz com que tenham medo do que o futuro lhes reserva.<\/p>\n

The longer you’re together, the clingier you’ll become, which could easily turn into possessiveness and that’s the last thing anyone would find attractive.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 maneiras de superar com sucesso a din\u00e2mica da rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica de empurra-empurra<\/a><\/p>\n

You’re excessively confident (which translates as arrogant)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Back in high school, no one was ever quite as confident and self-assured as you. And while you took it as a good thing, others didn’t.<\/p>\n

A sua elevada autoestima pode traduzir-se em arrog\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

I know that you probably aren’t like that but it’s important to be self-aware. Be confident but don’t act like you’re better than others. It’s an ugly personality trait.<\/p>\n

Humility goes a long way. Guys don’t appreciate someone who always acts condescending and like they know better.<\/p>\n

Even if you do think that you’re always right, don’t let others know. Stay true to yourself but give credit where credit is due.<\/p>\n

Falta-lhe objetivo e paix\u00e3o na vida<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t let yourself be a 30-year old woman with no purpose in life other than finding a guy. That’s not cute.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow yourself to get to a primeiro encontro<\/a> and when the guy inevitably asks you about your hopes and dreams, you just shrug it off. That’s a major red flag.<\/p>\n

Claro que nem toda a gente tem a sua vida planeada, mas pelo menos sabe o que quer e trabalha para isso.<\/p>\n

Se continuar a deixar as coisas fluir, sem saber de onde vir\u00e1 o seu pr\u00f3ximo ordenado, os homens fugir\u00e3o para as colinas.<\/p>\n

They don’t need a girl who’ll depend on them for everything.<\/p>\n

Relationships are 50-50. You get as much as you’re ready to give.<\/p>\n

Falas mal dos teus ex, o que faz com que os homens hesitem em aproximar-se de ti<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das principais coisas que os homens acham profundamente pouco atrativo<\/a>. Who’s to say that you won’t talk badly about him if things don’t work out?<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m gosta que falem de si nas suas costas.<\/p>\n

If your reputation precedes you, it’s time to re-evaluate it. What do you really get out of badmouthing an ex?<\/p>\n

Traz-lhe alegria ou uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de encerramento?<\/p>\n

In my experience, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth that won’t go away as long as you cling on to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So don’t be surprised if guys aren’t that into you right now.<\/p>\n

How could they be? They all fear that one day, you’ll start spreading rumors about them that aren’t necessarily true.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que podes dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o e fazer com que os homens gostem de ti?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mude a sua mentalidade = mude a sua vida<\/h2>\n

\"imagem<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 algo que todos os jovens precisam de ouvir. A sua mentalidade \u00e9 o que controla n\u00e3o s\u00f3 a sua vida amorosa, mas toda a sua vida.<\/p>\n

The way you think is how you allow yourself to act. And if you’re insecure and feel unworthy, that’s what you’re going to project into the world. So stop.<\/p>\n

Olhe-se longa e duramente ao espelho. O que \u00e9 que v\u00ea? Uma mulher forte, capaz e bonita que j\u00e1 passou por muito e ainda est\u00e1 de p\u00e9<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

A woman who knows her worth and doesn’t let anyone affect it.<\/p>\n

THAT’s what you need to tell yourself every time you think you’re not good enough.<\/p>\n

Remind yourself of every painful memory and heartache you’ve survived and realize what a badass you are.<\/p>\n

Gostar de um homem por aquilo que ele \u00e9, n\u00e3o por aquilo que QUEREM que ele seja<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 outra coisa importante. Tens de parar de criar falsas percep\u00e7\u00f5es dos homens na tua cabe\u00e7a. Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito.<\/p>\n

We’ve all got stuff we’re dealing with.<\/p>\n

But guess what? That doesn’t make anyone any less worthy or acceptable. Embrace people for who they are.<\/p>\n

Aceite as suas pequenas peculiaridades e defeitos irritantes. Tu tamb\u00e9m as tens e todos os que te rodeiam tamb\u00e9m. Se isso fizesse com que as pessoas n\u00e3o pudessem ser namoradas, toda a gente na Terra estaria solteira.<\/p>\n

Relationships are based on accepting each other’s flaws and respecting their individuality. Learn it, practice it, live it.<\/p>\n

Don’t let yourself pull away the moment it starts getting real<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eu percebo. Eu tamb\u00e9m costumava ter medo de compromissos. Depois de ter passado por algumas grandes rela\u00e7\u00e3o PTSD<\/a>A abertura tornou-se um verdadeiro desafio.<\/p>\n

But do you know what I realized? If I keep believing that everyone is going to be like my ex, I’m never going to find love.<\/p>\n

Por isso, arrisquei-me, enfrentei os meus medos e aprendi a dar uma oportunidade aos rapazes. Felizmente, com o tempo, encontrei a minha alma g\u00e9mea.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t happen overnight and it’s not easy but the sooner you allow yourself to let people in, the easier it becomes.<\/p>\n

Seja VOC\u00ca MESMO (todos os outros j\u00e1 est\u00e3o ocupados)<\/h2>\n

\"ador\u00e1vel<\/p>\n

\u201cThere is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.\u201d \u2015 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n

Don’t for a second think that someone else is better than you just because they look different (prettier) in your eyes.<\/p>\n

Your value isn’t based on how well you can pretend to be what others want you to be. It’s all about being your true, authentic self in a world full of copycats.<\/p>\n

Besides, by not conforming to anyone’s norms, you’re going to stand out from the crowd. And what’s cooler than that?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 6 maneiras de ser leal a si mesmo e por que isso \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante<\/a><\/p>\n

No momento em que come\u00e7ar a pensar demais, PARE e fa\u00e7a algo produtivo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A s\u00e9rio, pensar demais \u00e9 a pior coisa para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

It creates scenarios that aren’t real, breeds distrust and leads to serious issues that aren’t really there.<\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que se apanhar a analisar excessivamente uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o perfeitamente simples, pare.<\/p>\n

Conte at\u00e9 dez antes de dizer algo de que se possa arrepender e aprenda a confiar nas pessoas.<\/p>\n

If your man says something, why is your first instinct to think he’s lying?<\/strong> Just because your ex had a habit of being disloyal, it doesn’t give you the right to treat your current man the same.<\/p>\n

If he gives you no reason to overthink something, then don’t. It’s going to do wonders for your mind and your relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s what’s inside that counts (good looks will only get you so far)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nenhuma modelo, nenhuma atriz, nenhuma candidata a Miss Am\u00e9rica que possa ofuscar uma mulher feliz, confiante e segura.<\/em>\u201d \u2015 Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

Amen! Being pretty isn’t all that. Having a nice rack isn’t a guarantee for a happy love life.<\/p>\n

Ter um rabo que os homens gostam de olhar<\/a> at won’t get you a deeper connection. Why? Because without a happy, confident, kind personality, you’ll never get what you want in life.<\/p>\n

As I’ve already mentioned, os rapazes apaixonam-se por<\/a> beleza, mas ficam pela classe (com uma pitada de atrevimento).<\/p>\n

Work on how you treat others and how respectful and understanding you are. Don’t put all your efforts into looking like a Greek goddess. Be good-looking but exude kindness!<\/p>\n

Deixem as redes sociais fora da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o (pelo menos na fase inicial)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Let me give you a priceless piece of dating advice. Leave your phone alone while you’re experiencing those first stages of a relationship.<\/p>\n

The world doesn’t need to know who you’re seeing or how things are going. Some things are sacred, don’t you agree?<\/p>\n

Out of respect for your date, keep things between yourselves for a while. It’s only going to be more amazing, knowing that he is your little secret that no one knows about.<\/p>\n

That way, even if things don’t work out, you’ll avoid having to explain to everyone the ins and outs of your two-week courtship.<\/p>\n

Aprender a ligar-se a um n\u00edvel emocional<\/h2>\n

\"doce<\/p>\n

Para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione verdadeiramente, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio que exista uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna sobre a qual se possa construir.<\/p>\n

Tem de haver alguma subst\u00e2ncia que lhe permita ver essa pessoa como algo mais do que apenas algu\u00e9m muito atraente.<\/p>\n

The physical aspect of a relationship is so important but if you devote all your efforts into being under the sheets and neglect to connect mentally and emotionally, there’s really nothing there.<\/p>\n

If you want a future with this person, make sure you feel comfortable, seen and heard when you’re with them. If all they are is a really good booty call, that’s all they’ll ever be.<\/p>\n

Stop going for guys you know you can’t have<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

We all yearn for what we can’t have; that\u2019s the allure of forbidden fruit.<\/p>\n

And the more you’re told that this guy is unavailable, the more you’ll lust after him.<\/p>\n

This is something I can understand if you’re still really, really young.<\/p>\n

Mas \u00e0 medida que se vai tornando uma mulher madura e capaz, o seu gosto pelos homens deve acompanh\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

If you know that someone is taken, don’t plot a way to his heart. It won’t end well.<\/p>\n

Poupe-se ao desgosto<\/a> N\u00e3o se apaixone por homens inating\u00edveis e indispon\u00edveis e opte por algu\u00e9m com quem possa ter um futuro.<\/p>\n

Encontrar alegria na vida antes de a encontrar com um homem<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Foi isto que a minha m\u00e3e sempre me disse e estou muito grata por lhe ter dado ouvidos.<\/p>\n

As long as you’re unfulfilled and unhappy with your own life, a man can never truly make you feel whole.<\/p>\n

You need to find it in yourself first. Find that thing that motivates you to wake up every morning. Search for something that’ll give your life meaning.<\/p>\n

Procure realizar-se a si pr\u00f3pria antes de encontrar um homem com quem partilhar uma vida.<\/p>\n

That is a sure-fire way to create a happy, healthy, lasting bond that won’t end in tears and disappointment.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 15 coisas que deves colocar na lista de necessidades da tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

Work on your demeanor – you can be both confident and kind<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para mim, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais atraente do que uma mulher bonita com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o de ouro.<\/p>\n

Just because you look like a supermodel, it doesn’t mean that you should stop being kind.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre a perguntar-se: \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> J\u00e1 pensaste que esta pode ser a raz\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a um exame de consci\u00eancia e descubra que tipo de pessoa quer ser recordado.<\/p>\n

While we’re at it, I’ll just leave this jaw-dropping quote here, and let you do what you want with it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.\u201d \u2015 Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

Persiga os seus sonhos e objectivos para encontrar a realiza\u00e7\u00e3o que procura nos homens<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t ever put your life on hold while on a quest for a guy.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 ficar\u00e1 ressentido consigo pr\u00f3prio para o resto da sua vida, como tamb\u00e9m levar\u00e1 a uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o e infelicidade em a sua vida amorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Maybe guys don’t like you because you put all your focus on them and stop thinking about your life outside of the relationship.<\/p>\n

But you can easily put an end to that. Follow your passion. Go after that job you’ve wanted since you were in high school.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t do anything. You know your own abilities.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone limit them and instead, reach for the stars. Happiness lies outside of your comfort zone.<\/p>\n

Manter os problemas da rela\u00e7\u00e3o em segredo por respeito ao seu ex<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A lot of people I know tend to bad-mouth their ex the moment it’s over. But to me, this is the worst quality in a person.<\/p>\n

Unless he truly did you wrong, don’t stoop to that level. Be better than that. Leave the past in the past and move on to better things. It’s much more dignified.<\/p>\n

Your break-up may suck but that doesn’t mean that you get to trash-talk the guy the next day just because you’re dissatisfied with your own life.<\/p>\n

If things didn’t work out, that’s tough but everything that went wrong can serve as a lesson on what to do better next time.<\/p>\n

Boa sorte com o seu homem!<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Hopefully, I’ve managed to answer your question: \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> Here’s what I hope you take away from this article.<\/p>\n

You can look like a legit supermodel but if you don’t put any effort into being a kind person, it’ll never work out.<\/p>\n

Guys are attracted to pretty girls but it’s the personality that makes them stay!<\/strong><\/p>\n

So stop focusing on the wrong things. Be confident but don’t push them away.<\/p>\n

Know what you want in a guy but don’t try to change them into something they’re not. Appreciate your liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> tanto quanto o f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

Relationships are tough work. You’re not always going to like this person, no matter how hot they are.<\/p>\n

So it’s important for there to be a genuine bond, so as to have something to hold on to quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now, read all of this again if you have to and go get that man I know you’re pining for.<\/p>\n

Seja o seu verdadeiro e aut\u00eantico eu e deixe as coisas evolu\u00edrem ao seu ritmo natural.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como atrair um homem: 19 maneiras \u00e0 prova de bala para chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why don’t guys like me? It seems that pretty girls like my best friend get all the attention and I’m stuck here hoping for that first date that just isn’t coming. What am I doing wrong? First of all, looks aren’t everything. While I’m certain that you’re a beautiful woman, there are numerous characteristics that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":109515,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Why-Dont-Guys-Like-Me_-13-Ways-You-Accidentally-Drive-Them-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109086","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=109086"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109086\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=109086"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=109086"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=109086"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}