{"id":109363,"date":"2020-11-04T14:21:11","date_gmt":"2020-11-04T14:21:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=109363"},"modified":"2022-11-23T13:26:47","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T13:26:47","slug":"amar-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo leva para amar algu\u00e9m (e o que influencia isso)?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Quanto tempo \u00e9 que demora a amar algu\u00e9m? O amor \u00e0 primeira vista \u00e9 real ou \u00e9 apenas um equ\u00edvoco? Quais s\u00e3o os factores que influenciam a rapidez com que nos apaixonamos por algu\u00e9m?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>O que significa o amor?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O amor \u00e9 um dos sentimentos mais poderosos do mundo que n\u00e3o pode ser definido por palavras, mas temos de o experimentar e sentir com o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o para descobrir o seu verdadeiro significado.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you are a person who falls in love really fast or you&#8217;re someone who needs more time to experience the magic of romantic love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas quanto tempo \u00e9 preciso para nos apaixonarmos por algu\u00e9m?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que cada pessoa \u00e9 \u00fanica. Todos nos apaixonamos a um ritmo diferente. Alguns de n\u00f3s desenvolvem sentimentos mais profundos pela outra pessoa no primeiro encontro, enquanto outros experimentam sentimentos de amor ap\u00f3s um certo tempo.<\/p>\n<p><em>Todos n\u00f3s nos apaixonamos a velocidades e intensidades diferentes devido a determinados factores (a sua personalidade, o historial da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o sexo, etc.) que desempenham um papel importante no tempo que demora a amar algu\u00e9m.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Para o ajudar a compreender o seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo, eis tudo o que precisa de saber sobre os factores que influenciam o processo de se apaixonar, o amor \u00e0 primeira vista e muito mais!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>9 factores que influenciam a rapidez com que nos apaixonamos por algu\u00e9m<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua idade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110704 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher estabelecem contacto visual enquanto est\u00e3o ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por muito estranho que pare\u00e7a, a sua idade desempenha um papel importante na rapidez com que se apaixona.<\/p>\n<p>For example, teenagers tend to fall in love more quickly because they aren&#8217;t afraid of potential risks or they are not thinking about it too much.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Como n\u00e3o t\u00eam experi\u00eancia, acham mais f\u00e1cil seguir o fluxo, ligar-se aos outros e aproveitar cada segundo com eles.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Agora, quando se trata de adultos, estes podem ter problemas em abrir-se aos outros porque est\u00e3o conscientes dos riscos potenciais que adv\u00eam de um envolvimento rom\u00e2ntico com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Por esse motivo, podem reprimir os seus sentimentos para controlar o ritmo e apaixonar-se lentamente.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade para aqueles que foram magoados no passado de uma forma ou de outra, o que nos leva ao pr\u00f3ximo fator importante:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu historial de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110708 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beber caf\u00e9 numa cafetaria\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O seu historial de rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e1 interligado com a sua idade mas, ainda assim, pode ser visto como um aspeto separado. Tudo depende das suas experi\u00eancias passadas ou da falta delas.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a long dating history, you&#8217;ve probably experienced a wide array of emotions linked to different types of romances.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you&#8217;ve probably gone through a few heartbreaks as well, which might change your whole perspective on falling in love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Algumas pessoas tendem a desenvolver o medo de se apaixonarem, conhecido como filofobia, porque t\u00eam medo de se magoarem novamente no futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re getting over a heartbreak at the moment, you&#8217;re probably not even thinking about falling in love again for the rest of your life (okay, I may exaggerated a little bit but you get the idea).<\/p>\n<p>If you had an unfaithful partner, it&#8217;s natural that you&#8217;ll be concerned and overly cautious with every potential partner you meet in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Pelo contr\u00e1rio, se as suas experi\u00eancias passadas foram positivas, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 tend\u00eancia para ser hesitante ou cauteloso quando se trata de conhecer novas pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>Como pode ver, tudo isto pode influenciar diretamente o tempo que demora a apaixonar-se (novamente).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-se-deve-falar-com-alguem-antes-de-namorar\/\">Quanto tempo \u00e9 que se deve falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar? (Um guia)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Intelig\u00eancia emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110712 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar sentados numa rocha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00edveis mais altos ou mais baixos de intelig\u00eancia emocional (QE) podem influenciar o processo de se apaixonar. As pessoas que est\u00e3o mais em contacto com os seus sentimentos e com os sentimentos dos outros apaixonam-se mais rapidamente.<\/p>\n<p>Portanto, a resposta \u00e0 pergunta: <em>\u201cHow long does it take to love someone?\u201d<\/em> reside no n\u00edvel da sua intelig\u00eancia emocional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As pessoas com um elevado n\u00edvel de QE relacionam-se mais facilmente com os outros, o que resulta num desenvolvimento mais precoce de sentimentos por eles.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I remember when I was dating one guy and we were regularly seeing each other, texting frequently and so on. I felt like I\u2019d known him all my life and I was so drawn to him, both mentally and physically.<\/p>\n<p>Comecei a escrever bilhetes rom\u00e2nticos de amor e a fazer outras coisas que as pessoas que est\u00e3o loucamente apaixonadas costumam fazer e pensei que est\u00e1vamos na mesma p\u00e1gina.<\/p>\n<p>To my disappointment, I realized that he wasn&#8217;t making as much effort as I did because he was still unsure of his feelings toward me and it seemed like he wanted to take things slow.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de lhe ter dado algum espa\u00e7o e tempo, ele come\u00e7ou lenta mas seguramente a desenvolver sentimentos por mim e, finalmente, est\u00e1vamos em sintonia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O problema \u00e9 que as pessoas com um n\u00edvel de QE mais baixo tendem a interpretar mal os sinais de amor rom\u00e2ntico (se o estiverem a sentir) ou ignoram os seus sentimentos durante algum tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que precisam de mais tempo para perceber o que realmente se est\u00e1 a passar e depois agir em conformidade.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu tipo de personalidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-110715\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem felizes de m\u00e3os dadas perto de \u00e1rvores\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 mais do tipo imprudente ou<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tipo-de-personalidade-reservada\/\"> tipo de pessoa reservada<\/a>? O seu tipo de personalidade \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos factores que influenciam o ritmo a que se apaixona por algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reckless people are not afraid to take risks or try something new because they live for that! It is their fuel. So, falling in love is like breathing to them because they don&#8217;t overthink things.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They just go with the flow and find themselves in a new relationship before they&#8217;re even aware of it. Contrary to them, reserved and anxious people fall in love at a slower pace.<\/p>\n<p>Precisam de mais tempo para aceitar algu\u00e9m novo e podem ter medo de potenciais complica\u00e7\u00f5es, como magoarem-se de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u00e9m disso, se foi emocionalmente negligenciado em crian\u00e7a, apaixonar-se-\u00e1 muito rapidamente porque anseia pelos sentimentos de amor e intimidade com outro ser humano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is something that you&#8217;re missing and that is why you&#8217;re focused on receiving it from other people instead of getting it from parents during childhood.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua mentalidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110719 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7am-se na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O pensamento positivo \u00e9 uma das for\u00e7as mais poderosas do universo. Ajuda-o a concentrar-se nas coisas positivas da vida e a apreciar as pequenas coisas que s\u00e3o frequentemente subestimadas pelos outros.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you will not focus on your potential partner&#8217;s imperfections but you will focus on the good things about them, so you will not question your decision to open yourself up to them and establish a connection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you&#8217;re a positive thinker, you&#8217;re more likely to be an open-hearted person in general, which helps you fall in love more quickly.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, o pensamento positivo tem o poder de atrair mais coisas positivas para a sua vida. Isto \u00e9 conhecido como a Lei da Atra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que pensamos, atra\u00edmos.<\/strong> If you&#8217;re imagining yourself in a long-term relationship with someone you really love and respect and who knows how to reciprocate, your positive outlook will attract that into your life.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you&#8217;re thinking negatively about your love life, this will result in negative outcomes and over time, you&#8217;ll become more cautious when it comes to falling in love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">G\u00e9nero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110721 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a olhar para um homem, de p\u00e9 junto a uma parede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-man-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As with everything else in your life, your gender impacts the process of falling in love as well. Here&#8217;s one question for you, fellow reader. <strong>Na sua opini\u00e3o, quem \u00e9 que se apaixona mais depressa, as mulheres ou os homens?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Presumo que a maioria de v\u00f3s respondeu mulheres e n\u00e3o admira porqu\u00ea. A raz\u00e3o pela qual muitas pessoas pensam que as mulheres se apaixonam mais rapidamente deve-se aos meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-se de todos os filmes em que as mulheres s\u00e3o representadas como criaturas de cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto e sempre prontas a mergulhar no mar do amor, enquanto os homens s\u00e3o representados como emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis e semelhantes?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade no mundo real.<\/p>\n<p>According to a study in The Journal of Social Psychology, men fall in love faster than women and some experts think that the main reason why has nothing to do with \u2018falling faster\u2019 but with the fact that they don&#8217;t overthink things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Geralmente, os homens s\u00e3o menos emotivos do que as mulheres, mas o que acontece \u00e9 que as mulheres tendem a analisar demasiado os seus sentimentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When a woman thinks she&#8217;s falling in love, it looks something like this:<\/strong> <em>&#8220;OMG I think I&#8217;m falling in love with him. Should I tell him that I love him? But what if we&#8217;re not on the same page? What if he&#8217;s emotionally unavailable?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Maybe I should slow down or maybe I should stop seeing him for a while in order to figure out what to do about all this.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re questioning the validity of these statements, I&#8217;ll just say that they were written by a woman.<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s another <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-ideias-erradas-mais-comuns-que-tem-sobre-os-homens\/\">ideias erradas sobre os homens<\/a>, claiming that they don&#8217;t desire deep connections and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Well, they do and when they are feeling that they are falling in love with someone, they don&#8217;t overthink it but they accept it.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, h\u00e1 sempre excep\u00e7\u00f5es, mas, em geral, os homens apaixonam-se mais depressa do que as mulheres.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-passos-para-manifestar-o-amor-com-uma-pessoa-especifica-usando-a-lei-da-atracao\/\">10 passos para manifestar o amor com uma pessoa espec\u00edfica usando a lei da atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A evolu\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110722 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beber vinho enquanto est\u00e3o sentados num bar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como provavelmente j\u00e1 sabe, cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 \u00fanica e tem o seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a long-distance or epistolary relationship, it will be more difficult for you to connect with your partner than couples who see each other regularly.<\/p>\n<p>Also, it is not the same if you&#8217;re seeing someone from online dating or a person whom you&#8217;ve known your whole life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The progress of your relationship can greatly influence how fast you&#8217;ll fall in love with someone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re able to see them frequently, you&#8217;ll be able to connect with them faster.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, you could type with someone day and night and think that you have so many things in common with them but still you won&#8217;t be able to fall in love with them.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, n\u00e3o at\u00e9 passar algum tempo de qualidade com eles pessoalmente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Semelhan\u00e7as<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110723 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar sentados \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re all familiar with the fact that opposites attract but it&#8217;s actually similarities that make you fall in love faster.<\/p>\n<p>When I was seeing that one guy, I wasn&#8217;t particularly interested in him romantically.<\/p>\n<p>MAS, quando come\u00e7\u00e1mos a partilhar coisas e a conhecermo-nos melhor, senti que, pela primeira vez na minha vida, tinha encontrado algu\u00e9m que gostava das mesmas coisas que eu.<\/p>\n<p>I started to really, really, like him and this affection gradually evolved into something greater &#8211; intense feelings of love and a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong. This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should like every single thing your potential partner likes in order to be able to fall in love faster.<\/p>\n<p>Se tiverem algumas coisas em comum relativamente aos vossos interesses e valores, isso ser\u00e1 suficiente. Afinal de contas, n\u00e3o \u00e9 poss\u00edvel gostar de todas as mesmas coisas que a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re all different but we also have some things in common and those are the things that help us connect and create a stronger bond with one another.<\/p>\n<p>Veja tamb\u00e9m: A diferen\u00e7a entre paixoneta e amor: 22 distin\u00e7\u00f5es fundamentais<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Obst\u00e1culos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110724 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7ados durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably wondering how in the world can obstacles be related to the process of falling in love. Well, we all know the lure of forbidden fruit.<\/p>\n<p>Now imagine that you&#8217;re a teenage girl dating a guy that your parents don&#8217;t approve of. This will make you even more inclined to keep dating him just because they forbid you to do so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u00e9m disso, isto resultar\u00e1 numa liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais r\u00e1pida e em sentimentos intensos de atra\u00e7\u00e3o e amor pela pessoa amada.<\/strong><br \/>\nAnother thing that can make you fall in love faster is fear. Imagine if the guy you&#8217;re dating has a car crash.<\/p>\n<p>Ficar\u00e1 aterrorizada com a ideia de que lhe pode acontecer algo de terr\u00edvel e, Deus nos livre, de o perder.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o estes processos mentais que o motivam a ver as coisas de forma diferente, a apreci\u00e1-las um pouco mais e a dar-lhes toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Em breve se transformam em sentimentos intensos de amor apaixonado por outro ser humano.<\/p>\n<h2>A ci\u00eancia por detr\u00e1s de se apaixonar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110725 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de camisola abra\u00e7ados na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-on-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Scientists claim that we are in a constant pursuit for love (whether we&#8217;re aware of it or not) because our brain is concentrated on reproduction, which is the pinnacle of our survival.<\/p>\n<p>In order to be able to reproduce, we&#8217;re subconsciously focused on finding the right partner, or should I say, the right mate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando encontramos algu\u00e9m que nos atrai tanto mental como fisicamente, o nosso c\u00e9rebro come\u00e7a a misturar um cocktail de qu\u00edmicos felizes (dopamina, oxitocina, serotonina, norepinefrina, etc.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Estas subst\u00e2ncias qu\u00edmicas da felicidade induzem estados de euforia, excita\u00e7\u00e3o e prazer e este cocktail \u00e9 muitas vezes respons\u00e1vel por nos atirar para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Acredite ou n\u00e3o, apaixonar-se provoca a mesma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de euforia que a coca\u00edna.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Assim, de certa forma, tornamo-nos viciados no amor e entramos num estado de limer\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>Nesta fase, passamos muito tempo a pensar no nosso parceiro rom\u00e2ntico e verificamos frequentemente os seus perfis nas redes sociais, enviamos-lhe mensagens de texto, telefonamos-lhe e at\u00e9 sonhamos com ele.<\/p>\n<p>E \u00e9 nessa altura que come\u00e7amos a perguntar-nos: <em>Estou apaixonado?<\/em> Ou podemos estar ainda confusos e pensar nessa \u00fanica quest\u00e3o: <em>\u201cHow long does it take to love someone?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A resposta n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o simples. H\u00e1 tr\u00eas fases para se apaixonar:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lux\u00faria<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Anexo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nestas fases, ligamo-nos ao nosso parceiro a n\u00edvel emocional e f\u00edsico. Criamos uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda com ele e \u00e9 assim que, gradual mas seguramente, nos apaixonamos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Um facto curioso:<\/strong> Among other scientific criteria, we choose our potential partner according to their smell. We all have our own special \u2018smell\u2019, which can say whether we&#8217;re suitable for producing healthy offspring.<\/p>\n<p>Aparentemente, o nosso c\u00e9rebro \u00e9 muito bom a detetar o cheiro certo para n\u00f3s, por isso devemos deixar essa tarefa para eles.<\/p>\n<h2>Amor \u00e0 primeira vista: Real ou mito?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110726 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher em contacto visual durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente j\u00e1 ouviu e debateu v\u00e1rias vezes sobre esse fen\u00f3meno chamado amor \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n<p>Algumas pessoas juram que se apaixonaram pelo seu parceiro na primeira vez que o viram, enquanto outras n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o optimistas quanto a este potencial mito.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, \u00e9 uma coisa real?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s first define the meaning of love at first sight. Basically, it is an instant and intense romantic attraction toward another human being upon the first time we encounter them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Um dos maiores sinais de amor \u00e0 primeira vista \u00e9 sentir um desejo intenso de se ligar \u00e0 pessoa, tanto mental como fisicamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The real complications arise from the fact that many people think love at first sight is another term for a soulmate. I&#8217;m sorry to disappoint some of you but finding your soulmate at first sight is a misconception.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Helen Fisher (doutorada em Antropologia Biol\u00f3gica), explica o amor \u00e0 primeira vista da seguinte forma: <\/strong><em>\u201cLove at first sight is relatively easy to explain. Romantic love runs along certain electrical and chemical pathways through the brain. And these can be triggered instantly. Men fall in love faster, statistically speaking, probably because they are more visual. But women aren\u2019t far behind. It\u2019s a basic drive, like thirst and hunger&#8230; Romantic love leads to bonding, mating and sending your DNA into tomorrow.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So, practically, it is possible to experience this type of love but it is also dangerous because our expectations are too high and our perception of them is not real, which may result in another phenomenon known as a &#8216;fairy tale romance&#8217; which apparently exists only in movies.<\/p>\n<p>The main difference between love and infatuation is that real love is a process, whereas the infatuation stage happens instantly and often doesn&#8217;t last for long.<\/p>\n<p>Lust is based on physical attraction. Many people confuse it with real love. Physical attraction is important but if there&#8217;s no deeper connection to it, then it&#8217;s a red flag.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que isso depende do tipo de romance que preferir na altura.<\/p>\n<h2>Existe apenas uma pessoa para n\u00f3s ou \u00e9 poss\u00edvel apaixonarmo-nos por muitas pessoas?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110727 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no rosto de um homem num caminho rural\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-mans-face--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve already fallen in love multiple times, then you know the answer to this question. Still, there&#8217;s one thing that bothers all of us and that is: <strong>Como \u00e9 que sabe que ele\/ela \u00e9 a pessoa certa para si?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 bili\u00f5es de pessoas no mundo que s\u00e3o potenciais parceiros para si, por isso a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: <em>\u201cIs it possible to choose the one for you and how do you do it?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Algumas pessoas sabem que o seu parceiro \u00e9 uma pessoa que se mant\u00e9m porque t\u00eam um pressentimento que lhes diz que ele \u00e9 a pessoa certa para elas.<\/p>\n<p>Outros n\u00e3o t\u00eam tanta sorte, pelo que t\u00eam de confiar noutros factores que lhes dir\u00e3o se essa pessoa \u00e9 ou n\u00e3o uma pessoa a reter.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se pertence ao segundo grupo, deixe-me ajud\u00e1-lo com esta quest\u00e3o. Sabe-se que ele\/ela \u00e9 um\/a guardi\u00e3o\/a se:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Confia plenamente neles<\/p>\n<p>Partilha os mesmos valores<\/p>\n<p>Amam-se e respeitam-se um ao outro apesar de todas as vossas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e defeitos<\/p>\n<p>Eles s\u00e3o o seu maior apoio (e vice-versa)<\/p>\n<p>Ajudam-se mutuamente a tornarem-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prios<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que h\u00e1 muitos outros aspectos que podem ser acrescentados \u00e0 lista, mas estes s\u00e3o os mais essenciais, por isso, se tiver d\u00favidas, preste muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o a eles.<\/p>\n<p>See also: Top 45 Adorably Romantic Ways To Say, &#8220;I Love You&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>Dizer estas tr\u00eas pequenas palavras significa que a pessoa est\u00e1 apaixonada?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110729 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher estabelecem contacto visual enquanto est\u00e3o perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando estabelecemos uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional profunda com algu\u00e9m e sentimos um amor intenso por essa pessoa, \u00e9 natural que expressemos o nosso amor dizendo estas tr\u00eas pequenas palavras.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas ser\u00e1 que diz\u00ea-las significa realmente que estamos apaixonados?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Uma das minhas melhores amigas namorou recentemente com um rapaz durante algum tempo e, uma noite, ele disse-lhe que a amava.<\/p>\n<p>She was literally in shock because they hadn\u2019t even been dating for a month, so everything seemed a little bit too fast for her.<\/p>\n<p>Evidently, they weren&#8217;t on the same page but she decided to give him a chance and she thought, who knows, perhaps one day, I\u2019ll also be ready to say those three little words to him as well.<\/p>\n<p>That didn&#8217;t happen because later, she found out that he had an affair with another girl. Now, the question is: <strong>Estaria ele realmente apaixonado ou pensava que estava, mas era apenas uma paix\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Chances are he wasn&#8217;t really in love with her because if he had been, he would have been solely focused on her and not other potential partners.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quanto tempo \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para saber que se ama algu\u00e9m? Quanto tempo \u00e9 preciso para dizer <em>Eu amo-te?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No one can give a precise answer to this question because it depends on each person. You could be head over heels in love with someone but still be unable to say those three little words if you&#8217;ve been hurt in the past.<\/p>\n<p>You can be in a serious relationship and still feel weird about saying I love you to your partner. Hearing those three words might motivate another person to reciprocate but this isn&#8217;t necessarily the case.<\/p>\n<h2>Quanto tempo \u00e9 preciso para esquecer algu\u00e9m que se ama?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110730 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 numa ponte a olhar para a \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-bridge-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-devem-ouvir\/\">Passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dolorosas do mundo, por isso \u00e9 natural que queiramos saber quanto tempo demora a esquecer algu\u00e9m que amamos.<\/p>\n<p>Since every relationship is unique, this depends on many factors (whether they are someone you&#8217;ve known your whole life, the reason(s) for your break-up, the intensity of your love and so on).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, quanto tempo \u00e9 preciso para esquecer algu\u00e9m que ainda se ama?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no way of telling how long it could take a person to get over someone they still love. Some people recover faster, others need more time.<\/p>\n<p>Embora n\u00e3o se possa calcular o tempo exato necess\u00e1rio para recuperar de um desgosto amoroso, diz-se que se esteve com essa pessoa numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o durante pelo menos um ano, ent\u00e3o deve permitir-se um ano para passar pela fase de cura.<\/p>\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, n\u00e3o entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o ou algo semelhante. Seja paciente e lembre-se que o tempo cura tudo.<\/p>\n<h2>Apaixonar-se (e manter-se apaixonado) leva tempo!<\/h2>\n<p>Instead of constantly thinking about that one question \u201cHow long does it take to love someone?\u201d keep in mind that falling in love takes time.<\/p>\n<p>Nenhum especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es ou terapeuta de rela\u00e7\u00f5es pode dar uma resposta exacta a esta pergunta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, em vez de se preocupar com o tempo que demora a apaixonar-se, veja-o como um processo cont\u00ednuo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Porque o verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado num tempo m\u00e9dio ou algo do g\u00e9nero. Normalmente acontece quando menos se espera e permanecer apaixonado requer esfor\u00e7o m\u00fatuo, respeito e devo\u00e7\u00e3o. O verdadeiro amor requer paci\u00eancia.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How long does it take to love someone? Is love at first sight real or is it just a misconception? What are the factors that influence how fast you fall for someone? What does love mean? Love is one of the most powerful feelings in the world that cannot be defined by words but we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":110702,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/How-Long-Does-It-Take-To-Love-Someone-And-What-Influences-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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