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<\/p>\nVi tudo na forma como falava comigo, como olhava para mim, como me abra\u00e7ava. Eu vi-o a chegar. O ato desolador de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Porque \u00e9 que tinha de ser assim? Tu em cima de mim, a olhares para a tua j\u00e1 ex-namorada a chorar e a implorar-te para dizeres que estavas a brincar.<\/p>\n
But with the look on your face, I was pretty sure that you weren’t joking. You were dead serious when you told me that you didn’t love me anymore.<\/p>\n
Querias que eu deixasse tudo para tr\u00e1s e seguisse em frente, tal como tu farias. Alguma vez pensaste no que eu estava a sentir naquela altura?<\/p>\n
A forma como fizeste com que deixar ir parecesse ser a coisa mais f\u00e1cil do mundo, quando na verdade senti o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a morrer no meu peito.<\/p>\n
No, I’m not exaggerating. It was the worst feeling in the world, when you’re left by the one person that you thought would be there for you for your whole life.<\/p>\n
Faz\u00edamos tudo juntos, at\u00e9 t\u00ednhamos o mesmo grupo de amigos. Estava t\u00e3o habituada a estar contigo, como esperavas que mudasse completamente a minha vida depois de me teres deixado?<\/p>\n
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It’s not impossible, you were always telling me how much of a strong woman I am, so I can handle it. Do I have any other choice?<\/p>\n
So let me tell what \u2018letting you go\u2019 looks like:<\/p>\n
Por vezes, esque\u00e7o-me de respirar.<\/strong> It’s not a joke. I really do. When I’m crying and sobbing, curled up in my bed between a ridiculous amount of pillows, I start choking.<\/p>\n Simplesmente fico t\u00e3o consumida pelas minhas l\u00e1grimas que a respira\u00e7\u00e3o se torna muito dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n The moment I start to feel like I’m going to be OK and that I\u2019m done with the crying for now, I get a flashback so hard that it breaks me apart and makes me choke on my tears even more.<\/p>\n Parece que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o foi arrancado.<\/strong> Acho que te lembras de todas as vezes que te disse que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o te pertencia.<\/p>\n Mais ningu\u00e9m a n\u00e3o ser tu! V\u00eas, ao deixares-me, tamb\u00e9m o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o me deixou.<\/p>\n Foi arrancado do meu peito, ainda a bater, enquanto tentava apanhar-te. Falhou. Meu pobre cora\u00e7\u00e3ozinho.<\/p>\n I don’t want anyone else.<\/strong> I want you! Can’t you see that? I’m not going to be desperate and beg you to take me back, I’m too proud for that.<\/p>\n Mas se alguma vez voltasses, gostaria de te dizer que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m que possa ocupar o teu lugar.<\/p>\n I’d love to say that it’s only for a certain period of time, but I simply can’t imagine myself in anyone else’s arms but yours. How devastating is that?<\/p>\n Imagino-me a falar consigo. Fa\u00e7o-o todo o dia, todos os dias.<\/strong> I think about something I’ve been going through and how I would like you to be there for me so I could talk about it with you.<\/p>\n You might think I’m crazy, but I really do imagine that you’re sitting next to me, carefully listening to my words, giving me advice and hugging me.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de me dizer que \u00e9 f\u00e1cil deixar ir se tentarmos falar sobre isso com algu\u00e9m ou se estivermos realmente dispostos a deixar ir.<\/p>\n It\u2019s all just bullshit! I don’t want to hear it anymore! My head is full of advice from people and magazines telling me to move on and how to do it.<\/p>\n They keep telling me that it’s the will that succeeds, I want to forget you and move on, BUT I CAN’T! It’s the hardest thing in this world.<\/p>\n I’m really sorry for writing this to you, as you’re probably extremely happy right now, somewhere far away from me.<\/p>\n Maybe you’re not even thinking about me anymore. But I’m thinking about you. A lot. I know this won’t change anything but my heart is still in your hands.<\/p>\n Por favor, cuida bem dele. Ser\u00e1 sempre vosso.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I saw it all in the way you were talking to me, the way you were looking at me, the way you were hugging me. I saw it coming. The heartbreaking act of a break-up. Why did it have to be that way? 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