{"id":109474,"date":"2020-11-04T14:23:54","date_gmt":"2020-11-04T14:23:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=109474"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:12","slug":"porque-e-que-o-amor-e-importante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-o-amor-e-importante\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 importante? 11 raz\u00f5es surpreendentes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para onde quer que se olhe, parece que tudo neste mundo se revela em torno do amor. Os cineastas fazem filmes e os poetas escrevem poemas sobre esta emo\u00e7\u00e3o intensa, que provoca guerras e pessoas morrem por ela. Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 importante?<\/p>\n<p>O amor \u00e9 realmente importante ou \u00e9 apenas uma inven\u00e7\u00e3o moderna? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel ser feliz sem amar e ser amado? Porque \u00e9 que todos os seres humanos t\u00eam o desejo de se relacionar com outro ser humano?<\/p>\n<p>Se quer saber porque \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 importante, aqui ficam algumas raz\u00f5es reveladoras e tr\u00eas factos cruciais sobre esta emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Instinto humano primordial<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110734 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a rir rodeados de relva verde\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muitas pessoas afirmam que o amor \u00e9 uma constru\u00e7\u00e3o social. Embora existam muitas faces do amor, isto aplica-se especialmente ao amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e1 l\u00e1, quantas vezes j\u00e1 ouviste algu\u00e9m dizer que o amor verdadeiro nunca existiu? Que n\u00e3o passa de um logro de Hollywood que coloca expectativas irrealistas \u00e0 frente de toda a gente?<\/p>\n<p>Os c\u00e9pticos dir\u00e3o mesmo que o amor torna as pessoas mais infelizes do que felizes. Se isto \u00e9 verdade, ent\u00e3o tenho uma pergunta para si: Porque \u00e9 que os jovens se apaixonam?<\/p>\n<p>To be precise, they don\u2019t actually fall in love for real because you can\u2019t call this sensation true romantic love.<\/p>\n<p>However, I\u2019m pretty sure you will have heard a kid coming home from daycare, telling you that they have a crush.<\/p>\n<p>They haven\u2019t watched Hollywood movies, have they? They haven\u2019t been brainwashed into believing in love.<\/p>\n<p>So, what\u2019s actually going on here? Well, the truth is that love is a primal human instinct.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para ser exato, o amor rom\u00e2ntico e o processo de se apaixonar s\u00e3o inatos. Esta \u00e9 uma afirma\u00e7\u00e3o feita por muitos cientistas e investigadores.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Est\u00e1 provado que o amor est\u00e1 e esteve presente na maioria das culturas do mundo. De facto, \u00e9 crucial para o funcionamento da sociedade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto inclui sociedades que nunca tiveram nada a ver com Hollywood ou com a civiliza\u00e7\u00e3o ocidental.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A maioria das pessoas, se n\u00e3o todas, em todo o mundo, j\u00e1 teve o desejo de ter uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o \u00edntima com outro ser humano.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns t\u00eam dificuldade em aceitar esta necessidade, enquanto outros est\u00e3o perfeitamente conscientes dela. Seja como for, este instinto est\u00e1 presente em todos n\u00f3s e n\u00e3o vale a pena fugir-lhe.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Inspira\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110735 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com caneta preta a escrever num bloco de notas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-pen-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t seem to find an answer to the question of why is love important, just think about all the art in the world. I\u2019m referring to art that people have been producing since the beginning of time.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about music, fine arts, sculptures, movies, theater\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s think about it; what has been the number one inspiration for most artists? That\u2019s right: love.<\/p>\n<p>So, you still don&#8217;t believe in the importance of love? Love is the most common creative inspiration for all artists out there. Not only that, it\u2019s also the strongest.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns investigadores chegaram \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar apaixonado por outra pessoa d\u00e1 \u00e0 sua mente um n\u00edvel incr\u00edvel de clareza. Alivia-nos da press\u00e3o e permite-nos estar mais concentrados.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Besides, when you\u2019re in love, all of your senses are enhanced. All of a sudden, you see the beauty in seemingly ordinary things and you discover all these creative ways to express love to another person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mais importante ainda, tem o poder de se exprimir como nunca o fez antes.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you have never been good with words or talented at painting, all of this changes the moment you fall in love.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t believe me, believe in science. Namely that romantic love increases the levels of dopamine in your brain.<\/p>\n<p>A dopamina \u00e9 uma hormona, tamb\u00e9m designada por mensageiro qu\u00edmico, ligada ao seu lado criativo.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to be physically next to your significant other to feel this way. It\u2019ll be enough for you to think about them, to imagine you two together or to have them appear in your dreams.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Liberdade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110736 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de m\u00e3os dadas enquanto caminham em \u00e1guas pouco profundas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-in-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando eras mais novo, aposto que pensavas que tinhas de ser perfeito para que algu\u00e9m se apaixonasse por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, teve uma paixoneta e quis fazer tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para se tornar mais simp\u00e1tico para ela. Bem, o facto \u00e9 que isso n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o amor. De facto, o verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o est\u00e1 de forma alguma ligado \u00e0 mudan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t misunderstand me; it will definitely make you better with time. However, you\u2019re the one who\u2019ll have the urge to become the best possible version of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019re the one for you, your partner will never try changing you. Not only that, they\u2019ll never make you think that you\u2019re not good enough the way you are.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, o amor \u00e9 importante porque nos d\u00e1 diferentes tipos de liberdade.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Antes de mais, proporciona-lhe liberdade emocional e aceita\u00e7\u00e3o. D\u00e1-lhe a liberdade de ser quem realmente \u00e9, com todas as suas falhas e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u00e9m disso, muitos associam o amor ao ci\u00fame e \u00e0 possessividade. Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: o amor tamb\u00e9m vos d\u00e1 liberdade f\u00edsica.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It will never make you feel like you\u2019re being caged. It will never make you feel trapped or imprisoned.<\/p>\n<p>You see, the thing is that you\u2019re able to do whatever you want. Nobody is forcing you to stay next to this one person.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite this limitless freedom you\u2019re experiencing, you\u2019re the one who chooses not to go anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Apesar da opini\u00e3o popular, o verdadeiro amor baseia-se na liberdade, n\u00e3o na obriga\u00e7\u00e3o ou num sentido de dever.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Altru\u00edsmo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110737 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beijarem-se sentados na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No matter the relationship you\u2019re in, you should always put yourself first. This goes for romances and friendships as well as relationships with family members and co-workers.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando nos apaixonamos, deixamos automaticamente de ser ego\u00edstas. De facto, esta \u00e9 uma das li\u00e7\u00f5es mais importantes que o amor nos ensina: como ser altru\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden, it\u2019s not just you in this world. Despite all of your independence, now, you\u2019re a part of a team.<\/p>\n<p>You can be the most self-sufficient person in the world but when you express love to someone and when someone loves you back, you\u2019re not walking through life alone anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Just like that, you start taking the other person\u2019s wishes, desires and needs into consideration. You want to make them feel good and their happiness becomes as crucial as yours.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not saying that you were an egomaniac before you fell in love. However, when you fall in love, your selflessness reaches new levels, the ones you never knew existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A partir de agora, aprende a cuidar de outro ser humano, com a mesma devo\u00e7\u00e3o com que cuida de si pr\u00f3prio. Por vezes, pomos o bem-estar dele \u00e0 frente do nosso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Compromisso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110738 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a olhar para o computador port\u00e1til enquanto est\u00e3o sentados no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re stubborn. Everything has to go your way or no way at all. Sound familiar? Well, if you\u2019re wondering why is love important, one of the answers is that it changes this about everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Outra li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida crucial que o amor nos ensina \u00e9 a import\u00e2ncia do compromisso. Quando esta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o divina se apodera de n\u00f3s, aprendemos a encontrar os outros a meio caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, tudo come\u00e7a com o seu parceiro. Sem que ele a obrigue a nada, aprende a adaptar-se \u00e0s suas necessidades e ao seu estilo de vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Now that you\u2019re a part of a union, you understand that your desires are not the only things that count. You learn to take a step toward the other person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Compreende que todas as decis\u00f5es que toma afectam tamb\u00e9m o seu parceiro. Por isso, tem de haver sempre uma concess\u00e3o m\u00fatua antes de fazer uma escolha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, you two are equals. Your opinions and needs are in no way more important than the other person\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>Before you fell in love, you couldn\u2019t imagine yourself giving something up in order to reach a common goal or place with your loved one. Well, now, this is a part of the past.<\/p>\n<p>When you love another person, you do your best to take a walk in their shoes. You start looking at things from someone else\u2019s perspective, even if that means that your point of view is now completely different.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, a pessoa em causa e o seu parceiro t\u00eam atitudes completamente diferentes em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a um assunto importante da vida.<\/p>\n<p>In this scenario, it\u2019s impossible to have your way or for them to have their way because the other person would be left feeling unsatisfied and, consequently, unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>So, you reach a compromise because it\u2019s the only right thing to do. Even though your ability to meet your partner halfway at first impacts only your romance, with time, it changes you as a person.<\/p>\n<p>Fortalece todas as suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<br \/>\nSem nos apercebermos disso, aprendemos a fazer parte de uma equipa. Tornamo-nos mais adapt\u00e1veis e flex\u00edveis.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Bravura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110739 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de m\u00e3os dadas perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A great thing about a happy love life is that it gives you incredible courage, courage you didn\u2019t even know you possessed. After all, remember all the wars that have been fought for love.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love, you feel like there is nothing you can\u2019t do. You\u2019re certain of your capabilities to the point where there doesn\u2019t exist an earthly force that could prevent you from reaching your goals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re literally ready to stand in front of an army of people for the sake of the person you love and to defend your romance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to protect your sanctuary\u2014your loving relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, I\u2019m not talking about physical courage here only.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not just referring to the fact that you\u2019d be ready to take a bullet for the person you deeply care for, without thinking twice. Instead, <strong>I\u2019m also talking about emotional and spiritual bravery.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Antes de mais, o amor d\u00e1-nos a coragem de sermos n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. D\u00e1-lhe a oportunidade de entrar em contacto com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, sem ter a necessidade de as reprimir.<\/p>\n<p>Torna-nos suficientemente corajosos para dar todo o nosso ser a outro ser, sem reter qualquer parte dele. Torna-nos suficientemente corajosos para confiar em algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, whenever you say, &#8220;I love you,&#8221; to someone, you\u2019re giving another person the opportunity to break your heart at any moment. However, you believe that they won\u2019t do so.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you\u2019re not even afraid. You give your loved one your life in their hands without the fear of them taking advantage of it.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re brave enough to be spiritually naked in front of this person. You\u2019re exposing your vulnerabilities and you\u2019re taking a leap into the unknown.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Seguran\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110740 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7ados junto a uma \u00e1rvore\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nothing in this world can make you feel safe as love does. You see, feeling secure is the most important thing for everyone\u2019s mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Estar apaixonado e ter uma vida amorosa feliz significa saber que h\u00e1 sempre algu\u00e9m que nos apoia. Fa\u00e7as o que fizeres, essa pessoa nunca te abandonar\u00e1 nem te deixar\u00e1 pendurado.<\/p>\n<p>Este amor \u00e9 a tua casa, o teu santu\u00e1rio e o teu porto seguro. Algo a que podes voltar quando todos os outros te virarem as costas e algu\u00e9m de cujos sentimentos nunca deves duvidar.<\/p>\n<p>Skeptics might say that being certain of someone\u2019s love makes you take it for granted. Knowing that you can\u2019t lose another person turns us all into arrogant and haughty people.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, tenho de discordar. <strong>You see, feeling safe in someone\u2019s arms is one of the best feelings in the world.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Besides, being in love gives you a sense of belonging. It makes you feel like you\u2019ve finally found your place underneath the stars.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is no more wandering, no more looking for your life purpose and no more searching for yourself. This sensation, that you\u2019re exactly where and next to whom you should be, is priceless.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real; it\u2019s not realistic to think that your romantic partner has the ability to protect you from all the evils of this world. After all, they\u2019re not omnipotent, as much as you idealize them.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse o objetivo. Quando eras crian\u00e7a, aposto que tinhas um animal de peluche ou um brinquedo que te fazia sentir seguro. Talvez tivesses medo do escuro, mas desde que tivesses esse brinquedo especial ao teu lado, sentias-te seguro.<\/p>\n<p>Even back then, you knew that a little stuffed bunny couldn\u2019t really protect you from the monsters under your bed. Nevertheless, you enjoyed the feeling it gave you.<\/p>\n<p>O mesmo acontece agora; por mais irracional que seja esta seguran\u00e7a que o amor nos d\u00e1, ela \u00e9 reconfortante. E isso \u00e9 tudo o que importa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">For\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110741 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7am-se enquanto est\u00e3o perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muitas pessoas dir-lhe-\u00e3o que o amor torna toda a gente fraca. Tem esta incr\u00edvel capacidade de p\u00f4r de joelhos o homem mais poderoso do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>There is some truth about this, I won\u2019t argue against that. However, what many fail to understand is that the absence of love is what makes you fragile.<\/p>\n<p>You break apart once you lose someone you loved. Your heart is crushed into a million pieces when you\u2019re no longer loved by the person who once cared for you.<\/p>\n<p>Agony overwhelms you once you understand that you gave your feelings to the wrong person. You fall into despair when you realize you\u2019ve been played or backstabbed by someone you least expected it from.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o agora, <strong>the presence of love in your heart doesn\u2019t make you weak.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In fact, a famous quote about love by Lao Tzu says the following: \u201cBeing deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone gives you courage.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anyone who\u2019s ever been in love can testify to how strong love has made them. No, I\u2019m not talking about physical strength, it\u2019s all about emotional and mental strength.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love, you forget about each one of your weaknesses. Your insecurities are far behind you, your self-esteem has reached incredible heights and you\u2019re tougher than ever.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O caminho para o amor-pr\u00f3prio e a autoestima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110742 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para uma mulher enquanto est\u00e1 perto de uma \u00e1rvore\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you know what the one thing that is more important than romantic love toward your significant other is? It\u2019s the love you feel for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que temos connosco deve estar sempre em primeiro lugar. Por isso, deve amar a pessoa que \u00e9 antes de se apaixonar por outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, infelizmente, nem sempre \u00e9 esse o caso. Na maioria dos cen\u00e1rios, a sociedade transforma-nos em pessoas emocionalmente inseguras que se concentram apenas nos nossos defeitos.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re honest with yourself, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019re not an exception either. In fact, the truth is that all of your previous relationships convinced you that you\u2019re not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Os teus romances falhados empurraram-te para o caminho das d\u00favidas. Todos os teus desgostos convenceram-te de que n\u00e3o est\u00e1s destinado a ser amado.<\/p>\n<p>Cada uma das tuas m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias fez-te questionar o teu valor pr\u00f3prio. Transformaram-no numa pessoa que se julga a si pr\u00f3prio, sem amor-pr\u00f3prio e respeito por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>However, once you\u2019re loved by the right person, you immediately start seeing yourself through their eyes. At first, you wonder what they see in you but later you realize.<\/p>\n<p>Just like that, you understand that you\u2019re worthy of someone\u2019s love, regardless of what you previously thought. So, you figure out that you should love yourself as well.<\/p>\n<p>After all, if someone else can, what\u2019s preventing you from doing the same?<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, quando amamos os outros, aprendemos tamb\u00e9m a amar-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Deixamos de ser t\u00e3o cr\u00edticos e julgadores e, consequentemente, damos um descanso a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, esta pode ser a maior vantagem do amor e <strong>a resposta crucial \u00e0 quest\u00e3o de saber porque \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 importante: porque nos leva ao caminho do amor-pr\u00f3prio e do respeito por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sentir e receber amor \u00e9 uma estrutura de apoio para se amar a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But why is self-love important? Why is it important to love yourself? Well, you can change friends and romantic partners. You can even cut off your family members if you don&#8217;t enjoy their presence in your life.<\/p>\n<p>However, what you can&#8217;t do is break up with yourself. You&#8217;re stuck with yourself for the rest of your life and I bet you don&#8217;t want to coexist with someone you despise or have no appreciation for.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Felicidade geral<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110743 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem feliz ao colo de mulher com top cor-de-rosa ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-carrying-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estar apaixonado n\u00e3o \u00e9 obrigat\u00f3rio para a verdadeira felicidade. De facto, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel viver a vida de solteiro e estar perfeitamente bem com a sua vida sem um homem ou uma mulher ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you can&#8217;t expect love to come, erase all of your problems and magically make you feel better just like that.<\/p>\n<p>However, the fact is that we\u2019re social beings. We need company and sooner or later, solitude negatively impacts our mental and emotional health. Whether you like to admit it or not, love does increase your overall happiness.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that the sensation of love itself makes you happier, meaning you don\u2019t have to necessarily be in a successful relationship or marriage to feel joy, even though a healthy romance is one of the preconditions for true happiness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por outro lado, por vezes, basta-lhe estar aberto a sentir amor e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o \u00edntima com outro ser humano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Even if you still haven\u2019t found your great love but hope you will and are ready for that possibility, you\u2019ll be happier than the ones who closed their hearts to the possibility of unconditional love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Muitos tipos de investiga\u00e7\u00e3o concluem que os f\u00f3bicos do compromisso e as pessoas que se consideram incapazes de amar se sentem menos felizes do que aqueles que, pelo menos, esperam que uma uni\u00e3o com outra pessoa lhes bata \u00e0 porta.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que nem todos os tipos de amor s\u00e3o iguais.<\/p>\n<p>You certainly won\u2019t be happy if you\u2019re involved with an abusive or toxic partner, if you&#8217;re going through a shattering breakup, if you\u2019re stuck in a relationship that makes you feel miserable or if the love you feel for someone is one-sided.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Benef\u00edcios para a sa\u00fade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110744 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher apoiada no ombro de um homem, de p\u00e9 numa colina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-mans-shoulder-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A \u00faltima, mas n\u00e3o menos importante, raz\u00e3o pela qual o amor \u00e9 importante \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, os benef\u00edcios que traz para a sa\u00fade.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Estes benef\u00edcios n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas presumidos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>De facto, est\u00e1 cientificamente provado que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica feliz e experimentar a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de amor tem impacto na sua sa\u00fade f\u00edsica e mental de mais do que uma forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De acordo com a investiga\u00e7\u00e3o, a solid\u00e3o e o isolamento podem ser as causas profundas da depress\u00e3o. As pessoas que passam a maior parte do tempo sozinhas t\u00eam mais probabilidades de desenvolver depress\u00e3o, o que acaba por conduzir ao abuso de subst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n<p>A pr\u00f3xima condi\u00e7\u00e3o da qual o amor nos protege \u00e9 a ansiedade.<\/p>\n<p>Os casais que conseguem manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura t\u00eam menos possibilidades de desenvolver ansiedade do que os solteiros e os que saltam de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o para outra.<\/p>\n<p>Ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 igual a ter um santu\u00e1rio. Basicamente, quando se tem um parceiro rom\u00e2ntico, tem-se um companheiro: algu\u00e9m que nos ajuda a partilhar os nossos problemas e a assumir uma parte do nosso fardo.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing this, it\u2019s perfectly natural to see why couples have an easier time dealing with stress.<br \/>\nNo que diz respeito aos benef\u00edcios f\u00edsicos do amor, um menor risco de tens\u00e3o arterial elevada \u00e9 o primeiro da lista.<\/p>\n<p>Those stuck in an unhappy relationship have a higher possibility of developing blood pressure issues. They\u2019re followed by single individuals, while those who are happily in love come in last.<\/p>\n<p>Existem tamb\u00e9m estudos que estabelecem uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o direta entre o amor e a gest\u00e3o da dor. Sim, \u00e9 isso mesmo: estar apaixonado ajuda a lidar melhor com a dor f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n<p>Consequentemente, o amor d\u00e1-nos uma vida mais longa. N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso, mas tamb\u00e9m uma vida feliz.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\"><em><strong>3 factos sobre o amor<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>O amor \u00e9 a emo\u00e7\u00e3o mais forte que existe<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110746 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a bochecha de uma mulher em p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-cheek-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Para alguns, o amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 provavelmente o tipo de amor mais forte e uma das coisas mais importantes do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, I&#8217;m not talking about just any kind of love here. <strong>I&#8217;m not talking about temporary passion or romances that mean nothing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Instead, I&#8217;m referring to a once-in-a-lifetime kind of love. About a love which transforms your entire life and which affects the depths of your soul and personality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando se ama algu\u00e9m a s\u00e9rio, essa pessoa torna-se a pessoa n\u00famero um da nossa vida. Ter uma vida feliz sem essa pessoa ao nosso lado \u00e9 absolutamente imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Estar com essa pessoa e adquirir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel com ela passa a ser o seu objetivo n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n<p>Outra prova que apoia a import\u00e2ncia do amor \u00e9 o facto de o amor ser a causa principal de basicamente tudo nesta vida.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 o que desencadeou guerras, o que inspira a arte e o que faz com que as pessoas estejam dispostas a comportar-se de uma forma nunca antes vista.<\/p>\n<h2>Maslow\u2019s hierarchy of needs<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110748 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7ados junto ao mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-4-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maslow&#8217;s hierarchy of needs is a psychological theory. Simply put, it is a pyramid of human needs. Abraham Maslow published a work in which he classified and divided into categories all of a person&#8217;s needs.<\/p>\n<p>According to this theory, an individual&#8217;s motivation moves through each of the stages. However, it cannot level up to the higher stage until all the lower ones are satisfied.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In Maslow&#8217;s hierarchy of needs, love is a part of social needs (love and belonging needs). These needs are quite important in the hierarchy since they come right after psychological and safety needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Basicamente, o que Maslow defende \u00e9 que todos os seres humanos t\u00eam a necessidade de amar e de ser amados.<\/strong> Naturalmente, isto inclui tamb\u00e9m o romance e a intimidade.<\/p>\n<h2>O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 raro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110750 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a testa de uma mulher enquanto est\u00e1 perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Realizing how and why is love important, you&#8217;ll probably assume that it should and could be found in every corner of the earth. Well, sadly, this is not the case.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, real love is quite rare. It&#8217;s not easy to find, so once it appears in your life, make sure you don&#8217;t lose it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar<\/h2>\n<p>If you still can&#8217;t seem to figure out why is love important, it can only mean one thing: you have never fallen in love for real.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca foste totalmente consumido e dominado por esta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o que muda cada aspeto da tua personalidade e cada \u00e1tomo do teu ser.<\/p>\n<p>However, once this happens, you&#8217;ll see its significance and power. All of a sudden, everything will be crystal clear.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wherever you look, it appears that everything in this world reveals around love. Filmmakers make movies and poets write poems about this intense emotion, it causes wars and people die for it. So, why is love important? Does love really matter or is it just a modern fabrication? 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