{"id":109523,"date":"2020-11-02T12:46:04","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T12:46:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=109523"},"modified":"2022-06-20T23:50:20","modified_gmt":"2022-06-20T23:50:20","slug":"regras-para-amigos-com-beneficios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regras-para-amigos-com-beneficios\/","title":{"rendered":"17 Regras para amigos com benef\u00edcios para manter as coisas casuais"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Penso que todos vimos a com\u00e9dia rom\u00e2ntica \"Amigos com Benef\u00edcios\", onde Justin Timberlake e Mila Kunis fazem com que este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o pare\u00e7a muito suave.<\/p>\n<p>Mas esqueceram todas as regras dos amigos com benef\u00edcios quando se apaixonaram.<\/p>\n<p><em>Existem dois cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis com um<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-sinais-melhores-amigos\/\"> amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This is the first one, where both partners fall in love and realize they can&#8217;t continue with this type of relationship and decide to make their relationship official. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>T<\/em><em>Este \u00e9 o que tem um final feliz.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>O segundo cen\u00e1rio, com um final n\u00e3o t\u00e3o feliz, \u00e9 quando um dos parceiros come\u00e7a a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-nao-sentir-nada-por-alguem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">captar sentimentos<\/a> for their FWB and that makes them end their relationship before it&#8217;s too late.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This doesn&#8217;t mean that a FWB relationship can&#8217;t work. It really can but it&#8217;s almost always short-lived. You can&#8217;t be in such a relationship forever.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t be with someone for pure physical pleasure for too long. After some time, one of you will fall in love with the other person or will want a more <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-ways-know-youre-serious-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll want someone with whom you&#8217;ll be able to talk about your day, someone to confide in and someone you&#8217;ll be able to date without any ground rules or anything like that.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so much easier for guys to follow the friends with benefits rules. They&#8217;re used to no-strings-attached hookups.<\/p>\n<p>Women are a lot different. We fall in love much faster than guys and that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s much more difficult for us to maintain a relationship without any romantic feelings being involved.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>17 Regras necess\u00e1rias para amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Eis algumas regras importantes se quiser ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida com o seu companheiro de divers\u00e3o e n\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/quanto-tempo-e-necessario-para-se-apaixonar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">apaixonar-se<\/a> com eles ao fim de algum tempo e estragar tudo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 preciso estar 100% preparado para este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109529\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher marota a segurar um smartphone e a morder o l\u00e1bio enquanto est\u00e1 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naughty-woman-holding-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Antes de entrarem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ambos t\u00eam de ler e estar preparados para seguir todas estas regras e t\u00eam de compreender o seu verdadeiro significado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you fall in love easily or catch feelings too quickly, this relationship definitely isn\u2019t for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, if you want to have fun without any commitment or if you&#8217;re looking for some random <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-ele-fizer-estas-6-coisas-nao-passa-de-um-engate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">engate<\/a>, entre no seu perfil do Tinder e deixe a busca come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Escolher sabiamente o seu parceiro FWB<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola interior a sorrir enquanto olha para o seu smartphone na cama com as luzes apagadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-in-tank-top-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You must find a person who&#8217;s also willing to accept all of these rules. Before you get involved in anything, you must define your relationship and be sure that you both want the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>I wouldn&#8217;t recommend for you to be involved in this type of relationship with your co-worker or best friend; actually, it would be better to choose someone you&#8217;ve just met.<\/p>\n<p>If you start a FWB relationship with someone you know, it&#8217;ll just complicate the relationship between you once the affair ends.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">The &#8216;friends&#8217; part is really important<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109547\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal atl\u00e9tico a conversar no gin\u00e1sio com roupa desportiva\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/athletic-couple-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t just pay attention to the &#8216;benefits&#8217; part. You should also have a friendly relationship even before getting physically intimate.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/the-best-of\/5-signos-do-zodiaco-sao-os-melhores-amigos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">melhores amigos<\/a> who&#8217;ll share all of your secrets and keep in touch 24\/7 but it&#8217;s nice to get to know them a little bit more.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll then both feel more sure that it\u2019ll positively affect your intimacy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ter expectativas muito claras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109543\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple.jpg\" alt=\"imagem recortada de um casal a despir a camisa com os corpos molhados perto um do outro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cropped-image-of-a-couple-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 definir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>There shouldn\u2019t be any unrealistic <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/gerir-as-expectativas-na-sua-parceria\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">expectativas<\/a> and you shouldn&#8217;t expect for the relationship to become official after some time, even if you do develop some feelings for your fun buddy.<\/p>\n<p>The only expectation you should have is that there shouldn&#8217;t be any expectations or obligations. It&#8217;s a relationship without any commitment and that&#8217;s the way you should keep it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estabelecer limites \u00e9 um DEVER<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109544\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"casal sexy a beijar-se na cama \u00e0 noite com o homem em cima da mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexy-couple-kissing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Como em qualquer outra rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estabelecer limites claros \u00e9 crucial para que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A defini\u00e7\u00e3o de limites ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a saber que ambos est\u00e3o na mesma p\u00e1gina emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Both partners must be clear about what they want from the relationship and both of you have to respect each other&#8217;s boundaries.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Verificar regularmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109545\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"homem a sorrir e a enviar mensagens de texto enquanto est\u00e1 sentado no sof\u00e1 com uma camisa casual\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-smiling-and-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to be in contact all day long but you should check in regularly, at least every other day.<\/p>\n<p>Texting your fun buddy only when you want to meet up with them is a little bit disrespectful and even if it&#8217;s not a real relationship, you should show them respect and appreciation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You aren&#8217;t dating, therefore dates are off-limits<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109535\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"bela senhora sentada no parapeito da janela a pensar profundamente \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/beautiful-lady-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Going out for a coffee or to the cinema or preparing them dinner at your place is something you should definitely avoid because that&#8217;s a sure way you&#8217;ll catch some feelings.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t a real relationship and you aren&#8217;t dating, that&#8217;s why you shouldn&#8217;t go on dates. The only date you should have is the one in the bedroom.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os mimos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o permitidos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa a cobrir-se com um edred\u00e3o branco na cama, no interior de um quarto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-covering-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como se trata de uma esp\u00e9cie de rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica, muitos casais FWB pensam que devem acariciar-se durante os preliminares ou depois da intimidade.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, it&#8217;s better to avoid <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-que-o-estilo-de-caricias-dele-diz-sobre-os-seus-sentimentos-por-si\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">acariciar<\/a> porque produz oxitocina (a hormona do amor ou do carinho) e as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es v\u00e3o atrapalhar e arruinar o acordo que tem.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, you aren&#8217;t dating and cuddling will probably just confuse you both and complicate your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar aberto a experimentar coisas novas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109530\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image.jpg\" alt=\"imagem de conceito sexual de um homem em cima de uma mulher nua na cama de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sexual-concept-image-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While you&#8217;re having fun with this kind of relationship, this may also be a perfect time to try some new things you always wanted to do in the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>Pergunte ao seu companheiro de divers\u00e3o quais s\u00e3o as suas fantasias ou se ele gostaria de experimentar algo novo.<\/p>\n<p>If they suggest something new without you even asking them, don&#8217;t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and have a little bit more fun.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tentar, mas mesmo TENTAR, n\u00e3o apanhar os sentimentos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109538\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a tocar nas janelas de vidro com gotas de chuva \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-woman-touching-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This won&#8217;t be difficult if you both do follow these rules. Keep in touch but don&#8217;t spend too much time together.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to become friends with them and get to know a little bit more but you shouldn&#8217;t tell them everything about your life.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha a rela\u00e7\u00e3o leve e divertida e tente n\u00e3o a aprofundar demasiado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Respect the &#8216;no sleepover&#8217; rule<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109528\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman.jpg\" alt=\"imagem de uma mulher nua que deixa um homem deitado na cama e traz os seus sapatos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/shot-of-a-naked-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Passar uma noite juntos pode complicar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll see how confused you&#8217;ll be the next morning, when you wake up by their side.<\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t know whether you should stay and wait for them to wake up or just sneak out of their place. It&#8217;s unnecessary and definitely not good if you want to keep things casual.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re both allowed to date other people<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher no bar a conversar enquanto bebem cerveja\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-in-the-bar-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With all FWB arrangements and rules, both sides have the right to date other people because their relationship isn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-que-e-uma-relacao-exclusiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">exclusivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Being in a casual relationship like this doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re taken.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re still single and in the dating game and whenever you meet someone new, someone you would like to date officially, you have the right to end the affair with your fun buddy.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez isto possa parecer injusto, mas as regras s\u00e3o estas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O ci\u00fame est\u00e1 fora de quest\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109553\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres a beijar um homem com cara de surpresa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/two-beautiful-ladies-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>No strings attached means that there shouldn&#8217; be jealousy either.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re both allowed to date other people, meet new people and go out with whomever you want.<\/p>\n<p>Se come\u00e7ar a sentir-se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/formas-de-combater-os-ciumes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ciumento<\/a> because your partner finds someone new and starts dating them for real, it&#8217;s a good sign that you do have some romantic feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep being emotionally unattached, you won&#8217;t probably have any problems with the other side dating someone else.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It would be better if you didn\u2019t meet each other&#8217;s family and friends<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa no topo do telhado de um edif\u00edcio com vista para a rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-on-top-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll probably want to tell someone about your little affair and you should but only one of your best friends. Be aware that the fewer people who know about it, the better it is for you.<\/p>\n<p>Pensa nisso. O que dirias \u00e0 tua fam\u00edlia sobre o teu amigo? Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas o seu amigo e n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas o seu amante.<\/p>\n<p>Would you have the guts to tell them the truth, that he\u2019s your fun buddy?<\/p>\n<p>Meeting each other&#8217;s friends and family members would just unnecessarily complicate things.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, ser\u00e1 mais dif\u00edcil lidar com a separa\u00e7\u00e3o depois de terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque a sua fam\u00edlia ou amigos poder\u00e3o perguntar frequentemente por eles e poder\u00e1 n\u00e3o saber o que lhes dizer.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t create unnecessary drama<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109555\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista traseira de uma mulher de frente para o lago ou corpo de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/rear-view-of-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If something happens, like if you disagree about something or your partner starts dating someone, don&#8217;t immediately start creating unnecessary drama.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Most people like this kind of relationship exactly because they&#8217;re completely drama-free or at least they should be.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso saber porque \u00e9 que se est\u00e1 l\u00e1. S\u00f3 pela divers\u00e3o, certo? N\u00e3o h\u00e1 piada nenhuma em criar dramas desnecess\u00e1rios.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilizar sempre prote\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109539\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down.jpg\" alt=\"homem deitado na cama a ver uma mulher a despir as cuecas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-lying-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re aware that this relationship is just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-bandeiras-vermelhas-que-indicam-que-esta-numa-relacao-temporaria\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tempor\u00e1rio<\/a>, right? You know you&#8217;re there for fun and excitement only, right?<\/p>\n<p>Then stay safe and always use protection. It will keep you STD-free (as you&#8217;re in a non-monogamous relationship) and will also prevent the risk of pregnancy.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ruin all the fun and excitement there is just because you&#8217;re in a hurry or you simply forget to use protection.<\/p>\n<p>Esse momento de irreflex\u00e3o pode ser lamentado para o resto da vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Seguir cegamente todas estas regras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109542\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying-.jpg\" alt=\"homem nu a tentar beijar mulher loira de cuecas encostada \u00e0 parede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/naked-man-trying--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, I know what I&#8217;m talking about. I have been there already and it didn&#8217;t end well because I thought we\u2019d be able to function like that without any rules.<\/p>\n<p>We still don&#8217;t talk, even though it was so long ago. And the worst thing is that person is my co-worker.<\/p>\n<p>Tenho de os ver todos os dias no meu local de trabalho e ainda h\u00e1 alguma tens\u00e3o entre n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I would honestly advise you to follow these ground rules that will help you get a better understanding of this kind of relationship and maintain it for as long as you want.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Os amigos com benef\u00edcios funcionam?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109537\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa na cama, com a m\u00e3o na cabe\u00e7a, apoiada na cabeceira da cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-in-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A FWB relationship is really trending nowadays and it&#8217;s becoming more and more popular every day because of many reasons.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s popular with people who aren&#8217;t ready for a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-coisas-que-ele-so-fara-se-voces-estiverem-numa-relacao-de-compromisso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a> e s\u00e3o, de facto, os que mais se envolvem neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This option works best for them because they need that \u2018no strings attached\u2019 fun and they don&#8217;t really even want to think about getting into more serious relationships yet.<\/p>\n<p>The other day, I read the question, &#8220;Can friends with benefits work in real life?&#8221; and it made me really laugh.<\/p>\n<p>Tal como qualquer outra rela\u00e7\u00e3o, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre amigos tamb\u00e9m podem funcionar se ambos os parceiros se esfor\u00e7arem para que resultem.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it doesn&#8217;t require saso much effort as a more serious relationship; however, there are some very important rules that both sides must respect if they want to maintain their relationship.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>J\u00e1 alguma vez ouviu falar de um contrato do tipo \"amigos com benef\u00edcios\"?<\/strong><\/em> Sim, isso tamb\u00e9m existe.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel it&#8217;ll be better for you both to make your arrangement official, this is a great solution.<\/p>\n<p>Pode encontrar alguns modelos de contrato na Internet e modific\u00e1-lo de forma a que fique bem para ambos.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, if both sides are ready to stick to their part of the arrangement, you&#8217;ll be able to maintain your FWB relationship without getting attached for sure.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, pode durar at\u00e9 mais do que algumas rela\u00e7\u00f5es reais.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Como terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos com benef\u00edcios?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos com benef\u00edcios \u00e9 quase sempre muito dif\u00edcil e doloroso para um dos parceiros.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, uma das partes esquece a regra mais importante do FWB e apaixona-se pela outra parte.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, um dos parceiros quer algo diferente, algo mais s\u00e9rio, e isso leva-o a p\u00f4r fim ao seu caso atual.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to get out of your friends with benefits situation, here are some dos and don&#8217;ts that will help you to end it in the least painful way possible.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Tem de o fazer pessoalmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste a passear na praia a falar a s\u00e9rio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-couple-walking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be a coward and stand behind the decisions you make.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t start avoiding your FWB partner all of a sudden just because you don&#8217;t have the guts <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-acabar-com-alguem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">para romper<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don&#8217;t hide behind text messages or social media. If you make a decision to end your FWB relationship, you have to do it face-to-face.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re afraid of the other&#8217;s side reaction or how they&#8217;ll deal with the breakup but still, it really is the best choice to do it in person.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you shouldn&#8217;t do it in public because your partner might be hurt and they might deal with it even worse if you do it this way.<\/p>\n<p>They might be surprised by your decision and they won&#8217;t know how to react to it while there are other people around you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sente-se e tenha uma conversa honesta com o seu parceiro FWB<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109565\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar seriamente dentro de um caf\u00e9 a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-seriously-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Seja qual for o motivo que o leva a p\u00f4r fim ao seu pequeno caso, deve ser honesto com a outra parte e dizer-lhe.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que n\u00e3o tenha motivos ou que se tenha aborrecido com esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deve dizer-lhes honestamente.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t leave the relationship open-ended or give them any false hope.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you aren&#8217;t sure about your decision, you mustn&#8217;t lead them on until you&#8217;re completely sure or until you find someone else.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you&#8217;ve spent a part of your life with that person and even though it wasn&#8217;t a committed relationship, you must be fair to them and end things in the right way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mas mant\u00e9m a separa\u00e7\u00e3o leve<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109567\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada na cama ao lado de um homem adormecido no quarto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re both aware that you agreed on a casual relationship with no strings attached. That&#8217;s exactly how your breakup should be.<\/p>\n<p>A outra parte pode ter come\u00e7ado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/inside-his-mind\/6-sinais-precoces-que-podem-ser-um-sentimento\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">captando sentimentos<\/a> for you and the breakup might be painful for them but you shouldn&#8217;t feel like it&#8217;s your fault.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eles sabiam desde o primeiro momento no que se estavam a meter e entraram nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de livre vontade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They made a mistake by not respecting your FWB rules so you shouldn&#8217;t feel bad if they don&#8217;t take the breakup well.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t try to comfort them in the moment with some silly words like, &#8220;You\u2019ll be fine,&#8221; &#8220;You\u2019ll move on,&#8221; &#8220;You\u2019ll meet someone new soon&#8230;&#8221; No, you are the last person they need in their support network right now.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dizer-lhes que gostaria de continuar a ser amigo deles<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109569\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"casal a falar ao ar livre sentado com uma mota na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-outdoors-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t push it but ask them how they feel about staying in contact and hanging out as friends sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>If they haven\u2019t fallen in love with you, they&#8217;ll probably take the breakup well and they&#8217;ll be able to stay friends with you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, because of your history, you won&#8217;t be able to be best friends immediately but who knows&#8230; <em><strong>Talvez, com o tempo, se tornem os melhores amigos e se riam da vossa pequena aventura no passado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If they don&#8217;t take the breakup well, they probably won&#8217;t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-deve-continuar-a-ser-amigo-do-seu-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">permanecer amigos<\/a> consigo depois.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll know that it would be impossible to become friends with you without hurting their own feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Also, when you mention how you would like to stay friends with them, don&#8217;t do it in a stupid way, like asking them, &#8220;Can we stay friends?&#8221; or just by stretching your hand out to shake hands with them and simply asking,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Friends?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Se o fizeres dessa forma, deves esperar que te d\u00eaem uma bofetada ou, pelo menos, que virem as costas e se v\u00e3o embora sem te dizer uma palavra.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ou\u00e7a o que eles t\u00eam a dizer sobre a separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109572\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversarem seriamente durante uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 no interior de um caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-seriously-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you tell them the news about the breakup, sit down, as it\u2019s now your time to listen.<\/p>\n<p>As suas opini\u00f5es n\u00e3o devem afetar ou alterar a sua decis\u00e3o, mas deve mostrar-lhes respeito e ouvir o que t\u00eam para dizer.<\/p>\n<p>If they feel like you did something wrong to them or how you didn&#8217;t respect your part of the FWB arrangement and you realize they&#8217;re right, you should apologize to them and ask for their forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Se perguntarem <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-amigos-com-beneficios-falam-todos-os-dias\/\">n\u00e3o telefonar<\/a> or check in with them for a while, you should agree to that and promise them that even though you would like to stay friends with them, you won&#8217;t do it until they&#8217;re ready to talk and hang out with you.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, it wasn&#8217;t a serious and committed <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/dinamica-de-relacoes-romanticas-push-pull\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/a> mas pode ser doloroso para o vosso amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they got used to you or maybe they became attached to you even though they knew they shouldn&#8217;t. Sometimes, we can&#8217;t order our heart what to do or whom to love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t devalue them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a tomar o pequeno-almo\u00e7o num caf\u00e9 a conversar \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-and-woman-having-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re breaking up with them and it&#8217;s probably because you no longer like them or you no longer enjoy the thing you have.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, passou algum tempo com essa pessoa e ela merece o seu respeito e apre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t make this FWB situation more difficult than it is already, especially if you see that they&#8217;re suffering because of your decision to split up.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ele precisa de saber o quanto o aprecia como amigo e o quanto significaria para si se pudessem continuar amigos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Diga-lhe que tamb\u00e9m aprecia o tempo que passaram juntos e tudo aquilo por que passaram.<\/p>\n<p>Also, tell them how your relationship was really fun and that you&#8217;ll always cherish those good moments and memories but now the time has come for you to move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manter a sua decis\u00e3o, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109577\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado \u00e0 beira da estrada, sozinho, a pensar profundamente \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-sitting-by-the-roadside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Some people can&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/as-7-formas-mais-saudaveis-de-lidar-eficazmente-com-a-rejeicao-e-finalmente-seguir-em-frente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lidar com a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> bem.<\/strong><\/em> Your partner may be one of those people and even if they don&#8217;t have romantic feelings for you, they might get angry after you end your affair.<\/p>\n<p>However, once again, that isn&#8217;t your fault so don&#8217;t let it affect your decision.<\/p>\n<p>If they start crying or begging you not to break up, that shouldn&#8217;t change your mind about ending that little affair you had.<\/p>\n<p>Tiveram o vosso acordo de amigos com benef\u00edcios e eles sabiam que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabaria por chegar ao fim.<\/p>\n<p>Tem as suas raz\u00f5es para acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e deve manter-se fiel a elas, independentemente da forma como a pessoa reagir \u00e0 not\u00edcia.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cortar todos os contactos ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o durante algum tempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109578\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher acabou de acordar a olhar para o seu smartphone encostado ao sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-just-woke-up-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to ask them to stay friends after the breakup. However, you should give both them and you some time to process it all.<\/p>\n<p>If they are emotionally attached to you, the breakup will hurt their feelings and it&#8217;ll be more difficult for them to process their emotions.<\/p>\n<p>You should give them some time to grieve and to decide whether it&#8217;s really a good decision for you to stay friends or not.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Pode haver alguma tens\u00e3o entre voc\u00eas depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o e provavelmente seria melhor que ambos respeitassem a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Passado algum tempo, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ambos sigam em frente e, se sentir falta do amigo, pode contact\u00e1-lo e convid\u00e1-lo para um caf\u00e9 ou algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t immediately get back in the dating game<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109653\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a relaxar numa cama de rede no interior de uma casa\/quarto enquanto pensa profundamente e relaxa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-relaxing-in-a-hammock-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you end your FWB relationship, don&#8217;t immediately activate your Tinder profile again and start looking for a new FWB partner.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que tenha sido voc\u00ea a terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deve dar a si pr\u00f3prio algum tempo para pensar na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior e reconsiderar se quer mesmo uma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-10-principais-regras-de-encontros-casuais-que-tem-de-seguir\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">casual<\/a> uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o como essa novamente ou se est\u00e1 pronto para algo mais s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, ao fim de algum tempo, poder\u00e1 aperceber-se de que sentiu algo pelo seu ex-parceiro de FWB e que, na verdade, rompeu com ele porque tinha medo do que poderia acontecer a seguir.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 aperceber-se de que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi um grande erro e querer\u00e1 reconciliar-se com a pessoa e levar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte.<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself some time to clear your thoughts and your feelings. Give yourself some time to see whether you&#8217;re going to miss that person.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;ll regret the breakup and be able to save the relationship before it&#8217;s too late.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mais-do-que-amigos-com-beneficios-mas-nao-uma-relacao\/\">Mais do que amigos com benef\u00edcios, mas n\u00e3o uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Desfruta da tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB enquanto dura<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109654\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal sexy a fazer amor em cima da cama dentro do quarto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sexy-young-couple-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7aram este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o apenas porque querem divertir-se sem terem quaisquer obriga\u00e7\u00f5es reais um para com o outro, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Then don&#8217;t think too much about whether it&#8217;s going to work out or not and just enjoy it while it lasts.<\/p>\n<p>However, don&#8217;t get into such a relationship if you don\u2019t think you will be able to be with someone and spend time with them without your feelings getting involved.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode parecer excitante e divertida, mas tamb\u00e9m pode lev\u00e1-lo a ficar de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Ambas as partes devem seguir estas regras de amizade com benef\u00edcios e s\u00f3 assim conseguir\u00e3o manter a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tenha sempre em mente a raz\u00e3o pela qual est\u00e1 ali. Se come\u00e7ar a sentir alguma coisa pelo seu parceiro FWB, saia dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tente seguir em frente o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I think we have all watched the romantic comedy \u2018Friends with Benefits\u2019, where Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis make this kind of relationship look very smooth. But they forgot all the friends with benefits rules once they fell in love. There are two possible scenarios with a friends with benefits relationship. 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