{"id":10979,"date":"2020-07-25T10:07:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T10:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10979"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:30:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:30:22","slug":"que-se-lixe-a-dor-a-rapariga-simpatica-tem-medo-de-amar-de-qualquer-maneira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/que-se-lixe-a-dor-a-rapariga-simpatica-tem-medo-de-amar-de-qualquer-maneira\/","title":{"rendered":"Vai-te lixar por teres magoado a rapariga simp\u00e1tica que tinha medo de te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

She didn\u2019t want to fall in love with you.<\/a> Isso era o que ela mais temia.<\/p>\n

She tried to avoid you because she knew her heart was going to defy what her mind wanted. She knew her heart had made another decision\u2014a decision she knew she would regret.<\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t even want to like you, let alone love you. And then, all of a sudden, she found herself in a situation she couldn\u2019t control anymore.<\/p>\n

Every time she saw you, she felt butterflies in her stomach. Every time someone mentioned your name, a smile sneaked up on her face. She knew you were bad for her, but her heart wouldn\u2019t listen.<\/p>\n

She knew she shouldn\u2019t love you and she feared to love you. Her heart had been broken too many times before and she knew the feeling too well. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, desta vez o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o lhe deu outra alternativa sen\u00e3o bater e sofrer por ti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ela tinha medo de o amar porque j\u00e1 tinha passado por isso. Ela sabia o que a esperava.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She knew one person will get out of this with their heart shattered into a million pieces and that person won\u2019t be you.<\/p>\n

Ela tinha medo de o amar porque sabia que essa falsa felicidade a cegava temporariamente.<\/p>\n

Este sentimento de excita\u00e7\u00e3o de curta dura\u00e7\u00e3o, a esperan\u00e7a de ter finalmente encontrado o verdadeiro amor, fez com que ela perdesse o rumo.<\/p>\n

It made her forget about her past and about all those times she\u2019d been happy at the beginning\u2014and wounded and hurt at the end.<\/p>\n

Ela teve medo de te amar porque tu lhe deste esperan\u00e7a. Deixaste-a acreditar que eras o verdadeiro homem para ela. Sorrias-lhe como se ela fosse a \u00fanica pessoa no mundo que te interessava.<\/p>\n

You took her hand and hugged her when she needed your touch. But none of these things were sincere. None of it was real. This wasn\u2019t unconditional love\u2014it was something completely else.<\/p>\n

Estavas a desperdi\u00e7ar o tempo dela e a dar-lhe falsas esperan\u00e7as. Isto foi aproveitares-te do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mole.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She was scared to love you because she knew you would disappear with no closure at all, not even a goodbye or you would make false excuses and stupid reasons which she wouldn\u2019t understand.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sabia que ficaria sozinha, sem esperan\u00e7a de saber o que tinha feito de errado, apesar de a culpa nunca ter sido sua.<\/p>\n

Ela tinha medo de te amar porque sabia que se ia magoar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She is a girl with a soft and sensitive heart. She is just an ordinary girl who didn\u2019t want to love you in the first place. You sneaked up on her and seduced her heart with empty words and your false appearance.<\/p>\n

You enchanted her wearing your \u2018good guy\u2019 mask. You\u2019ve hurt her because you never cared about her.<\/p>\n

Nunca se preocupou em perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio porque \u00e9 que ela estava t\u00e3o assustada ou o que \u00e9 que ela passou e porqu\u00ea she doesn\u2019t want to trust you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t ask any of those questions because you didn\u2019t want them answered.<\/p>\n

You needed someone to be there for you\u2014someone to talk to you, someone to love you. She did all that and all she got in return was heartbreak and some more pain.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que conseguiu foi chorar no seu quarto a meio da noite, vendo as paredes a estreitarem-se \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Teve vontade de se arrancar da pele para acabar com a dor. Era demasiado para ela aguentar. Queria rastejar para o lugar mais escuro do mundo, sozinha, e morrer.<\/p>\n

When you hurt her, she dwelled in pain and she kept asking herself why she can\u2019t be loved the way she deserves. She knows how to love and she has loved before.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

So, why can\u2019t she even get to experience even the smallest portion of the love she has for others on her own skin?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Love showed her its bitchy face. To her, love is every time she has made a mistake, every time she was the one who wasn\u2019t trying enough. To her, love is that \u2018It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u2019 sentence.<\/p>\n

Para ela, o amor \u00e9 um sentimento de abandono sem raz\u00e3o aparente. \u00c9 claro que ela tem medo de amar.<\/p>\n

O amor bateu-lhe com a porta na cara sempre que ela estava prestes a entrar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Despite all she went through. Despite her warning you and telling you she doesn\u2019t want to be with you, you continued to push her. And what\u2019s even worse, she became even more interesting because she didn\u2019t want you.<\/p>\n

Em vez de a deixar ir<\/a> and keeping her heart safe from you, you chose to be selfish. You chose to play with her to fulfill your needs and toss her away when you\u2019d had enough.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You chose to give her hope which made her stay a bit longer\u2014thinking you will change.<\/em><\/p>\n

Optou por desrespeit\u00e1-la, fazendo-a passar por parva.<\/em><\/p>\n

Escolheste ser cobarde e acabaste com tudo, fugindo sem dizer uma palavra.<\/em><\/p>\n

Escolheu ficar em sil\u00eancio quando ela lhe implorou que falasse para tentar salvar-vos aos dois.<\/em><\/p>\n

Escolheste mago\u00e1-la e fizeste-o.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ela ainda tem medo do amor. Continua a ter medo dos desgostos. Continua a duvidar das pessoas.<\/p>\n

But, real love will come to her doorstep sooner or later. It will wipe away the fear and fill her heart with true love like she\u2019s always wanted.<\/p>\n

\"Vai-te<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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