{"id":110351,"date":"2020-11-03T19:21:29","date_gmt":"2020-11-03T19:21:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=110351"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:19:59","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:19:59","slug":"primeiro-encontro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/primeiro-encontro\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis o que falar num primeiro encontro (e 7 t\u00f3picos a evitar)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Normalmente, quando penso sobre o que falar num primeiro encontro, o meu primeiro instinto \u00e9 fugir.<\/p>\n<p>Quem \u00e9 que tem tempo para conquistar um desconhecido com quebra-gelos pirosos e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/400-frases-de-engate-sujas-a-lista-definitiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">frases de engate<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, it doesn&#8217;t have to be that bad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After having gone through an uncomfortable number of questionable first dates, I&#8217;ve picked up on a thing or two that can make the whole thing more pleasant.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be honest. Few things are more nerve-wracking than the first date.<\/p>\n<p>Os sil\u00eancios constrangedores, as conversas de circunst\u00e2ncia e as perguntas constantes podem ser esmagadores.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s precisely why figuring out beforehand what to talk about on a first date is so important! It gives you a chance to look your best and avoid seeming like a detective.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E os especialistas em encontros concordam. A melhor maneira de minimizar a sua ansiedade num primeiro encontro \u00e9 ir com um plano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong, I&#8217;m not talking about binders and notes. I&#8217;m merely saying that paying attention to a few key things will help you figure out whether there&#8217;s any compatibility.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quais ser\u00e3o essas coisas-chave?<\/em> Abaixo, divulgo tudo sobre isso e muito mais.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m bringing you a list of foolproof first date conversation starters, best first date questions and 7 things to avoid discussing if you want to enjoy a great <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/perguntas-para-um-primeiro-encontro-bem-sucedido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">primeiro encontro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pay close attention and stick to these tips and before you know it, you&#8217;ll be anxiously awaiting your second date!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-um-bom-primeiro-encontro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">21 sinais de um bom primeiro encontro e como arrasar no segundo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>What To Talk About On A First Date &#8211; A Foolproof Strategy<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The first date conversation is all about getting to know each other and exploring whether there&#8217;s a spark.<\/p>\n<p>By following these useful tips, you&#8217;re giving yourself the best chance of a great first date.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t overthink things (you&#8217;re in the same boat)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110377\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"homem a deitar caf\u00e9 na ch\u00e1vena da mulher durante o pequeno-almo\u00e7o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que ficar ansioso e sentir a necessidade de se descuidar, lembre-se de que eles est\u00e3o no mesmo barco.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you think that this person won&#8217;t like you or that they aren&#8217;t ready for your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deve-beijar-se-no-primeiro-encontro\/\">beijo no primeiro encontro<\/a>, they&#8217;re probably struggling with the same thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>So take a deep breath, relax your mind and focus on the big picture. This person might end up being someone really important to you. You&#8217;ve got this!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Admit to being a little nervous (it&#8217;ll take the edge off)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating.jpg\" alt=\"mulher t\u00edmida a comer um gelado, com o cabelo solto e a sorrir, num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is something I find very helpful. It helps both you and your date laugh (somewhat awkwardly) to realize that you&#8217;re both a little nervous and unsure of what to expect.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t worry. The sooner you start talking, the sooner it&#8217;ll become comfortable and maybe even fun!<\/p>\n<p>Just follow my tips and browse through the questions below and you&#8217;ll be fine.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Remember that you&#8217;re there to have fun!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating.jpg\" alt=\"casal birracial a namorar num caf\u00e9 com pessoas desfocadas ao fundo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not there to be stressed, anxious or nervous.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re there to have fun, meet someone new and potentially compatible and laugh the night away.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you start being in your head too much, shake it off, remember that this isn&#8217;t as big of a deal as you imagined it and ask them something funny.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/her\/caring\/encontro-espetacular-rapariga-introvertida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00c9 por isso que \u00e9 t\u00e3o fant\u00e1stico sair com uma rapariga introvertida<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tentar entrar em a\u00e7\u00e3o com confian\u00e7a e uma atitude positiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no peito e a sorrir enquanto fala com um homem no caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your attitude is everything. If you go into it with a negative attitude, expecting a disaster, you&#8217;re not giving it a chance.<\/p>\n<p>So put on a smile, blast some music as you&#8217;re getting ready and be prepared for a night filled with fun and adventure. The more you think about it positively, the better it&#8217;s going to be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar atento \u00e0 sua linguagem corporal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beber copos de vinho durante o seu jantar num restaurante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t cross your arms, look around the room, appear bored or avoid eye contact. That&#8217;s negative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/inside-his-mind\/17-sinais-de-linguagem-corporal-de-que-ele-gosta-secretamente-de-si-e-esta-interessado-em-si\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">linguagem corporal<\/a> que d\u00e1 uma m\u00e1 primeira impress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Be relaxed, look them straight in the eye, nod your head as you&#8217;re talking and don&#8217;t look around the room all the time. That&#8217;ll show them that you&#8217;re focused on the conversation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">E, finalmente, fazer as perguntas certas (e muitas)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110395\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date.jpg\" alt=\"um belo casal num encontro a bater o copo de vinho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, we get to the best bit. Asking questions is your best way to connect and engage in great small talk and meaningful conversation. And I&#8217;ve got you covered!<\/p>\n<p>Below, you&#8217;ll find the best questions to ask that will show your date you&#8217;re smart, fun, resourceful and attentive. Go get \u2018em!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/questions-and-games\/sweet-talk\/100-perguntas-profundas-para-fazer-ao-seu-par-se-quiser-realmente-conhece-lo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">100 Deep Questions To Ask Your Date If You Really Want To Get To Get To Know Them<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">120 melhores perguntas para o primeiro encontro que funcionam como um encanto<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqui est\u00e3o as \u00fanicas perguntas para o primeiro encontro de que pode precisar. Comece com as mais simples e passe para as mais giras e engra\u00e7adas \u00e0 medida que o encontro avan\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>With the help of these icebreakers, you&#8217;ll never have to wonder what to talk about on a first date again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado com luzes \u00e0 sua volta segurando velas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>1. O que \u00e9 que mais gosta de fazer nos seus tempos livres?<\/p>\n<p>2. What&#8217;s your dream job and do you ever think about pursuing it?<\/p>\n<p>3. Quais s\u00e3o os teus cinco programas de televis\u00e3o favoritos de SEMPRE?<\/p>\n<p>4. Como \u00e9 que o teu melhor amigo te descreveria e porque \u00e9 que achas que isso acontece?<\/p>\n<p>5. Se te fosse permitido ter apenas um livro para o resto da tua vida, qual escolherias e porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>6. What&#8217;s on your bucket list of things to do in your lifetime?<\/p>\n<p>7. Qual \u00e9 o membro da tua fam\u00edlia que te irrita mais depressa? (E partilha o teu!)<\/p>\n<p>8. What&#8217;s your favorite place to hide out when you need some alone time?<\/p>\n<p>9. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-favoritas-perguntas\/\">Quais s\u00e3o as suas coisas favoritas para fazer<\/a> que instantaneamente nos fazem sentir bem?<\/p>\n<p>10. Como \u00e9 que era no liceu?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher universit\u00e1rios a conversar num caf\u00e9 com caf\u00e9 em cima da mesa \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>11. What&#8217;s the longest you&#8217;ve binged a Netflix show and which one was it?<\/p>\n<p>12. What&#8217;s your social media handle? (Cheeky!)<\/p>\n<p>13. Tem alguma experi\u00eancia estranha e divertida no Tinder e, se tiver, partilhe-a!<\/p>\n<p>14. What&#8217;s your instant turn-off in a partner?<\/p>\n<p>15. Um caf\u00e9 ou um bar?<\/p>\n<p>16. O que pensa dos s\u00edtios de encontros? J\u00e1 alguma vez conseguiste encontrar um parceiro dessa forma?<\/p>\n<p>17. Tem animais de estima\u00e7\u00e3o? Em caso afirmativo, quais e como se chamam?<\/p>\n<p>18. Who&#8217;s the most fascinating person you&#8217;ve ever gotten the chance to meet?<\/p>\n<p>19. Prefere o interior ou o exterior?<\/p>\n<p>20. Diz o nome da tua bebida alco\u00f3lica e n\u00e3o alco\u00f3lica preferida!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110389\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem a beber cerveja no balc\u00e3o de um bar \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>21. Com o que tens andado obcecado ultimamente?<\/p>\n<p>22. Tens um tipo de comida internacional preferido e, em caso afirmativo, qual \u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>23. Se pudesses levar tr\u00eas pessoas (literalmente qualquer pessoa no mundo) para uma ilha deserta, quem escolherias?<\/p>\n<p>24. Prefere de manh\u00e3 ou \u00e0 noite?<\/p>\n<p>25. What&#8217;s the one food you would never touch no matter what?<\/p>\n<p>26. Tens irm\u00e3os? Se sim, descreve-os em tr\u00eas palavras!<\/p>\n<p>27. Who&#8217;s your all-time favorite author?<\/p>\n<p>28. What&#8217;s your favorite movie of all time and how many times have you seen it?<\/p>\n<p>29. Pelo que \u00e9s conhecido no teu grupo de amigos?<\/p>\n<p>30. Que artista musical podes ouvir repetidamente sem te cansares?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110403\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal ao ar livre a conversar com uma mulher que usa \u00f3culos de sol e grandes auscultadores \u00e0 volta do pesco\u00e7o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>31. Como s\u00e3o as tuas f\u00e9rias ideais?<\/p>\n<p>32. Do you have any accomplishments that you&#8217;re proud of?<\/p>\n<p>33. What&#8217;s the latest trend that you just can&#8217;t seem to understand?<\/p>\n<p>34. Qual \u00e9 a sua opini\u00e3o sobre o TikTok?<\/p>\n<p>35. What&#8217;s your go-to karaoke jam?<\/p>\n<p>36. Quais foram os seus momentos mais engra\u00e7ados e embara\u00e7osos na vida?<\/p>\n<p>37. What&#8217;s the coolest adventure you&#8217;ve ever been on?<\/p>\n<p>38. Que superpoderes gostarias de ter para o resto da tua vida?<\/p>\n<p>39. In your opinion, what&#8217;s the one thing everyone should try at least once?<\/p>\n<p>40. Com que personagem de anima\u00e7\u00e3o namoraria se tivesse de escolher uma?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110413\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a ver um filme no port\u00e1til, sentado num banco ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>41. What&#8217;s the one thing you&#8217;d never say no to?<\/p>\n<p>42. What are the weirdest things that you&#8217;re into that no one really gets?<\/p>\n<p>43. What&#8217;s the most disturbing dream you&#8217;ve ever had?<\/p>\n<p>44. What&#8217;s the weirdest joke you&#8217;ve ever heard?<\/p>\n<p>45. Quanto tempo demora a levantar-se da cama de manh\u00e3?<\/p>\n<p>46. Quais s\u00e3o os teus problemas de relacionamento?<\/p>\n<p>47. Se fosses um DJ, qual seria o teu nome?<\/p>\n<p>48. Tens alguns medos tolos?<\/p>\n<p>49. What&#8217;s the strangest place you got it on?<\/p>\n<p>50. Alguma vez enviaste uma mensagem de texto b\u00eabado a algu\u00e9m e o que aconteceu?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110415\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beber cerveja ao ar livre e a falar a s\u00e9rio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>51. What&#8217;s the one drink that you can&#8217;t imagine drinking ever again?<\/p>\n<p>52. What&#8217;s your favorite website?<\/p>\n<p>53. What&#8217;s the longest you&#8217;ve ever gone without sleeping?<\/p>\n<p>54. Se pudesses voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo, para onde irias, quem levarias e em que ano seria?<\/p>\n<p>55. If you could be BFFs with a celebrity, who do you think you&#8217;d get along with best?<\/p>\n<p>56. Qual foi a reviravolta mais inesperada na hist\u00f3ria da sua vida?<\/p>\n<p>57. S\u00ea sincero. Ias ligar-me depois deste encontro?<\/p>\n<p>58. Quanta intera\u00e7\u00e3o social \u00e9 demasiada?<\/p>\n<p>59. What&#8217;s your favorite mobile app?<\/p>\n<p>60. Prefere andar a p\u00e9 ou de carro?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a olhar um para o outro enquanto conduzem num carro de capota aberta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>61. Se tivesse a possibilidade de fazer com que o ver\u00e3o ficasse todo o ano, f\u00e1-lo-ia?<\/p>\n<p>62. What&#8217;s your guilty pleasure that no one knows about?<\/p>\n<p>63. Do you have a nickname that you just can&#8217;t stand?<\/p>\n<p>64. What&#8217;s the one country you absolutely must visit and which one do you never want to step foot in?<\/p>\n<p>65. Se pudesse ser fluente em qualquer outra l\u00edngua para al\u00e9m do ingl\u00eas, qual seria?<\/p>\n<p>66. What&#8217;s the strangest fight you ever got in with a sibling?<\/p>\n<p>67. Qual foi o teu ver\u00e3o mais memor\u00e1vel?<\/p>\n<p>68. H\u00e1 alguma suposi\u00e7\u00e3o errada que as pessoas tenham a seu respeito?<\/p>\n<p>69. What&#8217;s the most breathtaking view you&#8217;ve ever seen?<\/p>\n<p>70. \u00c9 um lobo solit\u00e1rio ou gosta de din\u00e2micas de grupo?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110430\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"homem a mostrar o seu smartphone a uma mulher enquanto est\u00e1 sentado ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>71. What&#8217;s your go-to ice-cream flavor and which one would you never want to taste?<\/p>\n<p>72. Are you a spontaneous person? What&#8217;s the most spontaneous thing you&#8217;ve ever done?<\/p>\n<p>73. Tem conhecimentos de tecnologia?<\/p>\n<p>74. Como \u00e9 que mudou desde o liceu?<\/p>\n<p>75. What&#8217;s the one thing your best friend would be most surprised to find out about you?<\/p>\n<p>76. Tens algum segredo?<\/p>\n<p>77. Neste preciso momento, se pudesses estar em qualquer lugar, para onde irias?<\/p>\n<p>78. Podes contar-me a hist\u00f3ria de quando conheceste o teu melhor amigo pela primeira vez?<\/p>\n<p>79. Qual foi uma decis\u00e3o aparentemente insignificante que acabou por mudar a sua vida?<\/p>\n<p>80. Para onde se mudaria se pudesse ir para qualquer parte do mundo, encontrar um emprego de sonho e manter um n\u00edvel de vida razo\u00e1vel?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110445\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets.jpg\" alt=\"casal com casacos ao ar livre a conversar docemente durante o outono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>81. Tens uma cita\u00e7\u00e3o ou um ditado preferido?<\/p>\n<p>82. What&#8217;s your weirdest talent?<\/p>\n<p>83. What\u2019s the most recent thing you\u2019ve done for the first time ever?<\/p>\n<p>84. Se fosses famoso, porque \u00e9 que achas que seria?<\/p>\n<p>85. Preferes ser bonito e burro ou ter uma apar\u00eancia mediana mas ser muito inteligente?<\/p>\n<p>86. Como \u00e9 que os seus pais o descreveriam e concorda com essa descri\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>87. Se encontrasses uma pasta com um milh\u00e3o de d\u00f3lares dentro, o que farias com ela?<\/p>\n<p>88. Se pudesses escolher apenas um, seria esquiar ou nadar?<\/p>\n<p>89. Who&#8217;s the one person who has had the greatest impact on your life?<\/p>\n<p>90. Para al\u00e9m do trabalho, onde passa a maior parte do seu tempo?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beber caf\u00e9 num caf\u00e9 a falar de cora\u00e7\u00e3o para cora\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>91. Gostas de gatos ou de c\u00e3es?<\/p>\n<p>92. Faz uma triagem das chamadas telef\u00f3nicas?<\/p>\n<p>93. Qual \u00e9, na tua opini\u00e3o, a parte mais essencial de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>94. O que fizeste nas tuas \u00faltimas f\u00e9rias?<\/p>\n<p>95. Quando foi a \u00faltima vez que andou durante mais de uma hora?<\/p>\n<p>96. What&#8217;s the most interesting thing you can do that would surprise the people who know you?<\/p>\n<p>97. What&#8217;s the most important thing or person in your life?<\/p>\n<p>98. Existe alguma diferen\u00e7a entre a forma como age quando est\u00e1 com conhecidos e quando est\u00e1 com amigos \u00edntimos?<\/p>\n<p>99. Que compet\u00eancia sempre quiseste aprender mas nunca o fizeste?<\/p>\n<p>100. Preferes escolher ser invis\u00edvel ou preferes ser capaz de ler mentes?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110462\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga rapaz a namoriscar num caf\u00e9 ao ar livre \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>101. Quantos pa\u00edses j\u00e1 visitaste?<\/p>\n<p>102. Se pudesse responder a uma pergunta neste momento, qual seria?<\/p>\n<p>103. Considera-se uma pessoa paciente?<\/p>\n<p>104. Are there any companies that you can&#8217;t stand so much that you&#8217;d rather go bankrupt than give them any (or any more) of your money?<\/p>\n<p>105. Se pudesses enviar uma carta ao teu \"eu\" mais novo, que idade terias e o que dirias?<\/p>\n<p>106. What&#8217;s the one trend you wish would make a comeback?<\/p>\n<p>107. What&#8217;s a foolproof way to find out what someone is really like?<\/p>\n<p>108. Quanto tempo acha que \u00e9 preciso para conhecer algu\u00e9m a um n\u00edvel profundo?<\/p>\n<p>109. H\u00e1 alguma coisa que esteja a acontecer neste momento e da qual acredita que as pessoas se v\u00e3o rir daqui a vinte anos?<\/p>\n<p>110. Is there something you&#8217;re really looking forward to in the foreseeable future?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"casal de m\u00e3os dadas sentado \u00e0 mesa num espa\u00e7o interior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>111. Quais s\u00e3o as tr\u00eas principais situa\u00e7\u00f5es sociais que tenta evitar a todo o custo?<\/p>\n<p>112. Prefere ter um carro excecionalmente r\u00e1pido ou a liga\u00e7\u00e3o Wi-Fi perfeita?<\/p>\n<p>113. What&#8217;s the one thing that floats your boat that most people have no idea about?<\/p>\n<p>114. What&#8217;s the weirdest nickname you&#8217;ve ever had?<\/p>\n<p>115. Alguma vez tiveste um encontro duplo realmente desastroso?<\/p>\n<p>116. Alguma vez se sentiu atra\u00eddo por algu\u00e9m do mesmo sexo?<\/p>\n<p>117. O que pensa sobre beijar num primeiro encontro?<\/p>\n<p>118. Alguma vez se preocupa com o que falar num primeiro encontro?<\/p>\n<p>\u200b119. What&#8217;s the silliest lie you&#8217;ve ever told a romantic partner?<\/p>\n<p>120. Amor a longo prazo ou lux\u00faria a curto prazo?<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/um-encontro-para-tomar-cafe-e-de-facto-a-melhor-ideia-para-um-primeiro-encontro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">12 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um encontro num caf\u00e9 \u00e9, na verdade, a melhor ideia para um primeiro encontro<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>7 T\u00f3picos a evitar discutir a todo o custo<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>There are certain kinds of things you just don&#8217;t discuss on a first date. They are major red flags that your date won&#8217;t take kindly to. Avoid these for the time being and focus on what I&#8217;ve covered above.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Don&#8217;t talk about religion<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110470\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe-.jpg\" alt=\"casal num caf\u00e9 a conversar enquanto come \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A religi\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que deve ser abordado numa altura posterior. Uma vez que \u00e9 um fator importante para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, deve ser abordado.<\/p>\n<p>But first dates aren&#8217;t designed for this type of conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Isso s\u00f3 pode levar a discuss\u00f5es inc\u00f3modas que podem ser evitadas. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida de que deve perguntar, mas espere at\u00e9 que tenham passado alguns encontros.<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a connection, chances are that your discussion on religion could go much more smoothly, to both of your satisfaction.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O mesmo se aplica \u00e0 pol\u00edtica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a conversar na varanda com um fundo urbano verde\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I dislike talking about politics in general but during early dating, it&#8217;s a huge no-no. What does it even matter in the great scope of things?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re there to enjoy each other&#8217;s company, that&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not like either of you can affect what politicians do or how they affect our country so you might as well keep the political discussion to a minimum.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O dinheiro tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 fora dos limites<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110478\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet.jpg\" alt=\"casal a utilizar o tablet enquanto conversa fora de casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an awkward question, isn&#8217;t it? And for so many reasons.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t really know them or their family background yet so you might say something that sounds insensitive.<\/p>\n<p>Mais uma vez, a sua melhor aposta \u00e9 evitar falar de dinheiro por agora e deixar que isso surja naturalmente \u00e0 medida que se tornam mais s\u00e9rios.<\/p>\n<p>When wondering what to talk about on a first date, just remember&#8230; not money.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t even think about trashing your ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110480\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beber vinho sentado num sof\u00e1 na sala de estar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Past relationships are off-limits, at least on the first date. Especially if it ended badly. You don&#8217;t want your date to think that you&#8217;re a bitter person.<\/p>\n<p>Se continuarem a namorar, naturalmente, os ex-arquivos v\u00e3o ser divulgados a dada altura. Mas, por agora, mantenham a amizade (por muito que acabem por desprezar o vosso ex).<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-pedir-um-segundo-encontro-regras-de-ouro-para-manter-as-coisas-a-andar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Como pedir um segundo encontro: Regras de ouro para manter as coisas em andamento<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t talk about getting it on (kind of tacky if you ask me)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110482\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"homem alegre a falar com uma mulher a sorrir e a descontrair\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t tell anyone when the best time to get it on is, it&#8217;s an entirely personal decision.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, na minha humilde opini\u00e3o, estes t\u00f3picos s\u00e3o definitivamente uma bandeira vermelha para os primeiros encontros.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t risk it by mentioning explicit activities way too early.<\/p>\n<p>They might get the wrong impression that it&#8217;s all you&#8217;re there for (unless of course, you are).<\/p>\n<p>Se queres que isto evolua e se torne mais profundo, concentra-te na liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e na vibra\u00e7\u00e3o geral.<\/p>\n<p>If you have that, it&#8217;s only going to work wonders once you get kinky.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua lista de verifica\u00e7\u00e3o do que pretende num parceiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting.jpg\" alt=\"casal alegre a descansar e a conversar num centro comercial \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t even a new relationship, you&#8217;re literally seeing if there&#8217;s even potential.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, n\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer raz\u00e3o (nem querem) para ouvir como \u00e9 o seu parceiro perfeito.<\/p>\n<p>Be real and expect them to be real, flaws and all. Nobody is perfect and it&#8217;s crazy to expect anyone to check off things from your perfect person checklist.<\/p>\n<p>People are flawed but that doesn&#8217;t mean they aren&#8217;t worthy of your attention.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to embrace everyone for who they are and don&#8217;t give the impression of being a superficial person as early as your first date.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Casamento (a n\u00e3o ser que queira afast\u00e1-los de imediato)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110512\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher alegres, a conversar e a brincar, de p\u00e9 no meio do passeio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Conversations about marriage shouldn&#8217;t arise within the first few dates.<\/p>\n<p>The topic is simply too heavy and might give them the wrong idea, plus it&#8217;s just way too early.<\/p>\n<p>Se quer que o seu par fuja para as colinas, preocupado com o facto de a sua \u00fanica prioridade ser dar o n\u00f3, for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Mas para dar uma verdadeira oportunidade a isto, aconselho-vos vivamente a deixarem de lado a quest\u00e3o do casamento.<\/p>\n<p>O primeiro encontro \u00e9 para divers\u00e3o casual e para se conhecerem melhor.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re still standing after a few dates, then you can delve into serious discussions slowly but surely.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/20-ideias-fantasticas-e-giras-para-encontros-noturnos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">20 ideias fant\u00e1sticas e giras para encontros noturnos para todos os casais<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110503\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem aproxima-se de uma mulher no caf\u00e9 a tomar a sua refei\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not only have I covered what to talk about on a first date but I&#8217;ve also helped you with some really cool and interesting questions to encourage great conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Also, make sure to pay attention to what NOT to discuss at this time. You don&#8217;t want to give out the impression that you&#8217;re desperate for a spouse.<\/p>\n<p>Recolhi estas informa\u00e7\u00f5es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-dicas-de-encontros-e-conselhos-de-relacionamento-para-homens\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dicas de namoro<\/a> durante a minha pr\u00f3pria viagem de namoro, juntamente com alguns acertos e erros.<\/p>\n<p>Estava simplesmente cansada de encontros online e de me perguntar quem estaria realmente por detr\u00e1s do ecr\u00e3.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Os primeiros encontros podem ser muito divertidos se simplesmente entrarmos neles com uma atitude positiva e o esp\u00edrito certo. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst that can happen is you don&#8217;t click and you go your separate ways. That&#8217;s it!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So when you really think about it, it&#8217;s not that scary. The first time doing anything is daunting.<\/p>\n<p>Descontraia-se, leia isto tantas vezes quantas as necess\u00e1rias e v\u00e1 disparar o seu tiro.<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a connection, the above <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/devo-ou-nao-enviar-lhe-uma-mensagem-de-texto-10-regras-de-ouro-quando-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-texto-e-quando-esperar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">regras de ouro<\/a> ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a encontr\u00e1-lo (e a desfrut\u00e1-lo) num instante.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-coisas-a-considerar-antes-de-dar-um-beijo-no-segundo-encontro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">6 coisas a considerar antes de dar um beijo no segundo encontro<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, when I consider what to talk about on a first date, my first instinct is to flee. Who has the time to win over a total stranger with some cheesy icebreakers and corny pick-up lines? Luckily, it doesn&#8217;t have to be that bad. After having gone through an uncomfortable number of questionable first dates,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":110527,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-110351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Heres-What-To-Talk-About-On-A-First-Date-7-Topics-To-Avoid-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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