{"id":11040,"date":"2020-04-26T09:23:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:23:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11040"},"modified":"2021-08-11T21:19:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T21:19:00","slug":"beleza-guardada-rapariga-queda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/beleza-guardada-rapariga-queda\/","title":{"rendered":"A beleza de ter uma rapariga reservada apaixonada por si"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O problema da rapariga reservada \u00e9 que, para alguns, ela pode parecer insens\u00edvel, mas o que muitos n\u00e3o compreendem \u00e9 que ela \u00e9 tudo menos insens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m ama t\u00e3o profunda e imensamente como ela, a dor que se segue ao desgosto \u00e9 maior do que seria numa pessoa normal.<\/p>\n<p>E quando sentiu tanta dor, jurou nunca mais deixar ningu\u00e9m entrar. Depois de ter sido quebrada por algu\u00e9m que amava, tudo na sua vida mudou.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, quem a pode culpar por guardar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, her story doesn\u2019t end with her getting her heart broken. Because even though she felt immense pain, she felt immense love once as well. Thanks to that love, she won\u2019t have to guard her heart forever.<\/p>\n<p>Once someone worthy of her love comes along, she\u2019ll let go. And if you happen to be that someone, you\u2019ll see all the beauty of having a guarded girl fall for you.<\/p>\n<h2>When a guarded girl falls for you it means you\u2019ve passed her friends\u2019 test<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92704\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/group-of-female-friends-smiling-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de mulheres amigas a sorrir em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/group-of-female-friends-smiling-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/group-of-female-friends-smiling-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/group-of-female-friends-smiling-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might seem funny at first, but trust this: If her friends hadn\u2019t given you the green light, you wouldn\u2019t have had a chance with her.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o as pessoas que estavam l\u00e1 quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/love-felt-like-hell\/\">ela estava a viver um inferno.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>They supported her, they held her hand when she couldn\u2019t stop the tears from rolling down her face and they never for a moment left her alone to deal with her pain. Of course, their opinion matters to her and she knows they only want the best for her.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve passed that test, know that they\u2019ll be there to help you around her. They\u2019ll ship you two and they\u2019ll help her realize that it\u2019s safe to give you her heart.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t mistake it for manipulation, but after what she\u2019s been through, she might need some guidance after all.<\/p>\n<h2>When a guarded girl falls for you it means she\u2019s ready to let go of the past and give it a shot with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-kisses-while-covered-mouth-with-hat.jpg\" alt=\"casal beija-se enquanto tapa a boca com um chap\u00e9u\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-kisses-while-covered-mouth-with-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-kisses-while-covered-mouth-with-hat-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-kisses-while-covered-mouth-with-hat-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Letting go of the past is something she\u2019s been struggling to do for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>She had her past clinging to her and she was unable to shake it off. But if she decided to try with you, if she decided to let you in, it means she\u2019ll do her best not to look at you through the prism of her last heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>It means she\u2019s finally ready to let someone step in and she\u2019s ready to try despite the fear that\u2019s hugging her soul.<\/p>\n<p>Significa que ela decidiu lutar contra si pr\u00f3pria e contra todas as promessas que fez a si pr\u00f3pria sobre o facto de n\u00e3o se apaixonar mais.<\/p>\n<p>It means you\u2019re one hell of a lucky guy, you know?<\/p>\n<h2>When a guarded girl falls for you it means she\u2019s finally ready to put her walls down<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92705\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-looking-each-other-while-holding-hands-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal a olhar um para o outro de m\u00e3os dadas num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-looking-each-other-while-holding-hands-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-looking-each-other-while-holding-hands-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-looking-each-other-while-holding-hands-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It took her a lot of pain to build her walls up so it won\u2019t be so easy to break them down. And it won\u2019t be happening all at once.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s probably going to take one brick out at a time because she\u2019ll need to see you\u2019re someone who she can trust before she takes all the walls down.<\/p>\n<p>Mas at\u00e9 isto requer mais energia do que aquela que se consegue compreender. E ela merece uma medalha por isso.<\/p>\n<p>Mas pense bem: tudo isto, s\u00f3 para si, ser\u00e1 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o mais fant\u00e1stica do mundo.<\/p>\n<h2>When a guarded girl falls for you it means she\u2019s ready to be vulnerable again<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92706\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/side-view-of-man-comforting-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um homem a confortar uma mulher em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"550\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/side-view-of-man-comforting-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/side-view-of-man-comforting-woman-at-home-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/side-view-of-man-comforting-woman-at-home-768x528.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even if it scares the shit out of her, she\u2019s ready to show you her soul. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/rapariga-forte-longo\/\">Esta rapariga foi demasiado forte durante demasiado tempo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ela engarrafava os seus sentimentos, parecia ser de pele grossa e n\u00e3o deixava que ningu\u00e9m se aproximasse dela.<\/p>\n<p>She had a small circle of people whom she trusted, she\u2019d pull away the minute she saw she was getting undesired emotions and she convinced everyone how she had no feelings whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>And you made her reveal to the whole world that she isn\u2019t truly like that and you reminded everyone else of this other side of her personality.<\/p>\n<p>She is still strong, but she decided to let you see this other side, too. She decided you\u2019re the one in front of her whom she\u2019ll feel comfortable bearing her soul to.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to be human again, to stop bottling up her feelings and just be true to herself. And she hasn\u2019t been that in a long time.<\/p>\n<h2>When a guarded girl lets you in it\u2019s because she wants to, not because she needs to<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92707\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lovely-couple-wearing-jacket-and-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal encantador vestindo casaco e abra\u00e7ando-se no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lovely-couple-wearing-jacket-and-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lovely-couple-wearing-jacket-and-hugging-outside-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lovely-couple-wearing-jacket-and-hugging-outside-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga deixou de precisar das pessoas h\u00e1 muito tempo. Ela aceitou que n\u00e3o se vai apegar mais na sua vida e conseguiu safar-se bem sozinha at\u00e9 agora. E depois decidiu comprometer a sua felicidade por uma tentativa consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Ela decidiu dar uma nova oportunidade ao amor e decidiu ignorar toda a dor que passou no passado. Decidiu confiar em ti e permitiu-se sentir este amor imenso como j\u00e1 sentiu uma vez.<\/p>\n<p>If this isn\u2019t one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t prove her wrong. Don\u2019t show her that she should\u2019ve stayed guarded and don\u2019t break her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her badly once she lets you in. Once she starts falling, be there to catch her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/The-Beauty-Of-Having-A-Guarded-Girl-Fall-For-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A beleza de ter uma rapariga reservada apaixonada por si\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/The-Beauty-Of-Having-A-Guarded-Girl-Fall-For-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/The-Beauty-Of-Having-A-Guarded-Girl-Fall-For-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>See, the thing with the guarded girl is that to some she might appear insensitive, but what many fail to understand is that she is anything but insensitive. When someone loves so deeply and immensely as she does, the pain that follows after heartbreak is bigger than it would be in a normal person. And&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":92701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11040","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/The-Beauty-Of-Having-A-Guarded-Girl-Fall-For-You-2.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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