{"id":111381,"date":"2020-11-09T12:36:24","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T12:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111381"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:43:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:43:52","slug":"mitos-sobre-o-unico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mitos-sobre-o-unico\/","title":{"rendered":"Estes 8 mitos sobre \"The One\" precisam de ser quebrados o mais depressa poss\u00edvel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Acredita em almas g\u00e9meas? Achas mesmo que \u00e9 verdade que todos n\u00f3s temos aquela pessoa que est\u00e1 destinada para n\u00f3s, que \u00e9 perfeita para n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n<p>I believe in soulmates too. However, this other part is tricky. Most people are waiting for that one person who&#8217;ll be perfect but unfortunately, they aren&#8217;t aware that such a person doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/p>\n<p>None of us is perfect and it&#8217;s perfectly fine. Because after all, <em><strong>we shouldn&#8217;t be searching for someone perfect, we should be looking for someone who will love us in a perfect way.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you still haven\u2019t found the right person, you should check these myths that most people believe about their soulmate but aren&#8217;t aware that it&#8217;s only holding them back and standing in the way of true love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">When you meet that person, you&#8217;ll instantly know they&#8217;re \u2018the one\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111385 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher em contacto visual durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quantos casais conhece que come\u00e7aram como amigos mas que agora t\u00eam uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz e duradoura? Sim, o seu instinto pode estar errado mesmo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 pessoa que est\u00e1 destinada para si.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe love at first sight does exist but still, even if you click instantly, you can&#8217;t know for sure that they are the person you&#8217;ll spend the rest of your life with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must be aware that there is no true unconditional love without trust and it&#8217;ll definitely take time to build that trust between you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>O amor \u00e0 primeira vista \u00e9 apenas uma fase de paix\u00e3o, a atra\u00e7\u00e3o que se sente por algu\u00e9m quando se conhece essa pessoa pela primeira vez.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You shouldn&#8217;t be searching, your soulmate will find you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111386 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beijarem-se junto a uma \u00e1rvore\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many people believe that we shouldn&#8217;t be looking for our soulmate because they&#8217;ll find us. But when you stop for a moment to think about it, is it really logical?<\/p>\n<p>Either way, one person will be searching. Yes, I do believe that true love will find a way to cross your path but that doesn&#8217;t mean you should just sit there and wait for it to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Deves p\u00f4r-te \u00e0 vontade. Sair, conhecer novas pessoas e abra\u00e7ar novas aventuras na vida. Nunca se sabe onde essas aventuras nos podem levar. Para a tua pessoa eterna, talvez?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A pessoa certa ficar\u00e1 ao seu lado, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111387 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados numa doca a olhar para a \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is one of many soulmate definitions you can find online. So, let&#8217;s put it this way; if you cheat on them, humiliate and disrespect them, they&#8217;ll still stay by your side?<\/p>\n<p>No, it definitely doesn&#8217;t work like that. No person should tolerate being disrespected in a relationship, no matter how much they love the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Para encontrar a pessoa certa e ter uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 preciso fazer algum esfor\u00e7o. <em>You must show your partner the way you want to be treated and you&#8217;ll only do that by treating them exactly the same way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>See also: 10 Things To Do If You\u2019re Being Disrespected In Your Relationship<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll never argue with that person<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111388 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a sorrir sentados numa rocha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you really think that you and your soulmate will be exactly alike? That there won&#8217;t be any differences between you?<\/p>\n<p>Oh, how wrong that is. I don&#8217;t and I truly don&#8217;t want to find anyone similar to me because I know it would be a total mess. I&#8217;m more of an &#8216;opposites attract&#8217; kind of person.<\/p>\n<p>Lembrem-se disto primeiro: <strong>\u00e9 permitido ter algumas pequenas discuss\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque essas coisas ir\u00e3o efetivamente refor\u00e7ar os la\u00e7os entre v\u00f3s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 casais saud\u00e1veis e empenhados sem algumas diferen\u00e7as entre eles.<\/p>\n<p>The question is how you&#8217;ll manage those differences. It&#8217;s important to accept and embrace your differences and to make the most of them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essa pessoa tornar-se-\u00e1 tudo para si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111389 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7am-se em p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bem, isto \u00e9 bastante fascinante para mim. Enquanto os teus pais estiverem vivos, enquanto tiveres amigos honestos e leais, o teu parceiro nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de se tornar tudo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>It would be completely unfair to all the other people in your life who are there for good reason. It&#8217;s good to know your priorities but don&#8217;t ever make the list of your priorities a one-person list.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll never have to make any compromises<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111390 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados numa rocha durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oh, really? Sometimes, we have to make compromises with ourself, so how could we find someone we won&#8217;t have to make any compromises with?<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think it&#8217;s possible. We are all unique human beings with unique perspectives and different opinions.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we all have to settle for some compromises from time to time if we want to keep the engine (our relationship) going.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;ll be a completely effortless relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111391 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de m\u00e3os dadas enquanto caminham na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Acredita mesmo que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre duas pessoas pode ser bem sucedida sem qualquer esfor\u00e7o? Ser\u00e1 o amor o \u00fanico ingrediente necess\u00e1rio para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, n\u00e3o, n\u00e3o. <strong>To get such a complicated thing as a romantic relationship to work, you&#8217;ll need so many more ingredients.<\/strong> O amor \u00e9 crucial, mas fazer compromissos e sacrif\u00edcios e criar confian\u00e7a tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o essenciais.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essa pessoa ser\u00e1 a tua outra metade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111392 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher prestes a beijarem-se em p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>How many times have you heard someone saying, &#8220;When I finally meet the right one, my life will be complete,&#8221; or, &#8220;My partner is my other half.&#8221;?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>O qu\u00ea? Este \u00e9 um grande mito falso sobre almas g\u00e9meas que precisa mesmo de ser quebrado imediatamente. Deus fez-te uma pessoa completa, por que raz\u00e3o te sentirias incompleto?<\/p>\n<p>Se sente que falta algo na sua vida, nenhuma outra pessoa ser\u00e1 capaz de o preencher. S\u00f3 tu tens essa capacidade.<\/p>\n<p><em>You don&#8217;t need anyone to complete you, you just need someone to accept you, the WHOLE you, just the way you are.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you believe in soulmates? Do you really think it\u2019s true that all of us have that one person who is meant for us, who\u2019s perfect for us? I believe in soulmates too. However, this other part is tricky. Most people are waiting for that one person who&#8217;ll be perfect but unfortunately, they aren&#8217;t aware&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":111384,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/These-8-Myths-About-\u2018The-One-Need-To-Be-Broken-ASAP-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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