And even though you’re probably well aware of how incredibly lucky you are, it never hurts to be reminded, right?<\/p>\n
So today, I’d love to focus my attention on all the brilliant things that come with growing old with the love of your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whether you’re one of those lucky married couples whose love only grew stronger with old age or you’re hoping to be able to experience such a thing, this is for you.<\/p>\n True love doesn’t know age. Love each other the same during the honeymoon period and after many years of marriage.<\/p>\n Se voc\u00ea e a sua cara-metade est\u00e3o verdadeiramente destinados a ficar juntos, \u00e9 isto que podem esperar ao entrarem em novas esta\u00e7\u00f5es da vida em comum.<\/p>\n As coisas mais bonitas de envelhecer juntos<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n From loved-up youngsters who were still trying to figure out their place in the world to a healthy, happy couple who have found it all in each other, you\u2019ve experienced the most amazing transformation with the love of your life by your side.<\/p>\n It’s almost like your life flashed before your eyes and you didn’t even notice as you were so immersed in your bubble of happiness.<\/p>\n If they need you, you’re there, no questions asked. Nobody deserves your attention more than them. There aren’t a million errands to run or people to please anymore.<\/p>\n It’s just the two of you enjoying each other’s company to the fullest. You wouldn’t dream of putting their needs second.<\/p>\n See also: How To Explain Love (Because It\u2019s More Than Just A Feeling)<\/p>\n Quando finalmente nos reformamos, podemos voltar a fazer as coisas que nos fazem felizes! E, consequentemente, isso torna-vos muito mais felizes enquanto casal.<\/p>\n You both get to finally do the stuff that you love and not worry about anything or anyone else. This is your time to shine and you’re making the most of it.<\/p>\n Grandchildren. They’re one of the best parts of growing old together. You spend just enough time with them to please your heart, then you return them to their parents and unwind. Kind of the best deal out there.<\/p>\n After many years of marriage, you’re qualified to give out some amazing relationship advice. To grow old means to have garnered enough life experience to help those around you.<\/p>\n Your children (and at some point, even your grandchildren) will get to enjoy first-hand invaluable advice from someone who’s lived to tell the tale.<\/p>\n Quando se chega a uma certa idade, aprende-se a apreciar o outro por todos os seus defeitos e falhas. Algo que vos teria feito querer acabar h\u00e1 anos atr\u00e1s, faz com que hoje se esforcem muito mais.<\/p>\n There are no do-overs in life. You work best with what life gives you and you make the most of it. Whatever happens, it’s you and them against the world.<\/p>\n You know what makes them tick and what will cheer them up instantly. You know what they’re thinking without them needing to say a word.<\/p>\n You know how they feel about a person just by looking at them. And it feels so good. Most of the time, you don’t even need to utter a word, you just saber<\/em>. Isn’t that so comforting?<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: 25 factos divertidos sobre o amor que v\u00e3o p\u00f4r um sorriso na sua cara<\/p>\n You’re each other’s caregiver. If one of you gets ill, the other one is your personal medic. Whatever they need, you’re there and the best thing? You live it all together.<\/p>\n Growing old and getting ill is no fun but at least you’re in the best possible company. How can you be sad when you know this person would do anything to make you feel better?<\/p>\n One of my favorite things about relationships is being able to comfortably sit in silence with each other. And it’s not awkward or weird. It’s just soothing.<\/p>\n This is something you’ll learn after many, many years together. There is no need to fill every silence with meaningless words. Sitting in companionable silence is just as pleasant as having a riveting conversation.<\/p>\n Pode fazer uma viagem de mochila \u00e0s costas pelos Estados Unidos ou tirar um m\u00eas de f\u00e9rias algures nos Alpes. O mundo \u00e9 seu.<\/p>\n You don’t have to worry about taking time off from work, errands getting in your way or being away from your kids. It’s finally just the two of you! And you can go wherever you want, whenever you want.<\/p>\n The little things that used to irk you and caused fights no longer hold any power over you. Over time, you’ve learned what’s important and what isn’t. And life is so much better that way.<\/p>\n When you get to a place where you know what to let go of and what to dedicate time to, you’ve learned what true joy is.<\/p>\n You don’t expect your partner to read your mind; that\u2019s so childish. If you want something, you say it outright. If you’re upset over something they did, you discuss it.<\/p>\n Simplesmente n\u00e3o h\u00e1 tempo para arrastar as coisas. A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para andar com rodeios. Envelhecer juntos significa dominar a arte da comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: 25 tipos diferentes de casais e suas caracter\u00edsticas<\/p>\n Pessoalmente, isto tamb\u00e9m me parece uma noite de jackpot (e ainda me considero jovem).<\/p>\n Brincadeiras \u00e0 parte, passar uma noite confort\u00e1vel a beber cacau quente (ou qualquer outra bebida que goste) e a ver o Jeopardy com o seu melhor amigo ao seu lado \u00e9 tudo o que pode desejar.<\/p>\n As coisas simples significam o mundo.<\/p>\n When you were younger, you were always stressed about work, obligations, people’s expectations of you and a million things in-between. And that prevented you from living life the way you know you should have.<\/p>\n Today, you’re not phased by any of it. If only someone had told you then how irrelevant all those things are in the grand scheme of things.<\/p>\n It’s all about living your happiness with the one who adds to it. Everything else is white noise.<\/p>\n On the rare occasion that you do fight, it’s always more than fair. There are no cheap shots or screaming matches. You talk like the mature adults you are and always aim to find the middle ground.<\/p>\n Envelhecer juntos ajudou-vos a perceber que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel n\u00e3o pode sobreviver se as duas pessoas continuarem a lutar uma contra a outra em vez de lutarem contra o problema.<\/p>\n E, depois de cada discuss\u00e3o, n\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as de dizer Eu amo-te<\/em> (e \u00e9 a s\u00e9rio).<\/p>\n You make sure to spend your golden years in happiness and solidarity with the one you’re \u2018stuck\u2019 with for life (and you wouldn’t have it any other way).<\/p>\n Nobody else could take the top spot in your heart anymore. Everything you’ve been through together, the good and bad, has bonded you for life.<\/p>\n You love all your loved ones with all your heart but nobody gets you the way your partner does. And for that reason, there is nothing you wouldn’t do for them and vice versa.<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: 9 valores fundamentais de relacionamento que todo casal deve ter<\/p>\n When you look at him, you don’t see an old man (and vice versa). You see the person you fell head over heels with who still makes you giggle every single day. And that makes you feel young again.<\/p>\n You don’t care what anyone else sees. All that matters is that whenever you look at your best friend, you feel like the vibrant, happy-go-lucky person you were at the start of your love story.<\/p>\n Quando dizem \"amo-te\" um ao outro, isso tem tanto valor como quando o disseram pela primeira vez h\u00e1 tantos anos.<\/p>\n The thing is, when you look at your partner, you see the only person you’d ever want to share life with. And it makes you so happy that life blessed you in such a special way.<\/p>\n If today was your last day on Earth, you’d know that you did it right, with your one true love along for the ride. Zero regrets.<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: As 9 fases do relacionamento pelas quais todos os casais passam<\/p>\n Aqui est\u00e3o algumas das minhas cita\u00e7\u00f5es favoritas sobre a alegria de partilhar para sempre com o amor da sua vida. Desfruta delas hoje tanto quanto o terias feito h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/em><\/p>\n 1. “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, The last of life, for which the first was made: Our times are in his Hand Who saith, ‘A whole I planned, Youth shows but half; trust God: see all, nor be afraid!”\u2015Robert Browning<\/p>\n 2. “Go directly to Nirvana. Don’t pass go – or you’ll have kids, you’ll grow old together, you’ll be born into another realm where you’ll forget that there was even nirvana.”\u2015Frederick Lenz<\/p>\n 3. “Let’s grow old and die together. Let’s do it now.”\u2015Ani DiFranco<\/p>\n 4. “I hope we’ll get lucky enough to grow old together.”\u2015Paula McLain<\/p>\n 5. “And it feels good to feel young with you, and at the same time to grow old with you. And it’s all those things together at the same moment.”\u2015Dave Isay<\/p>\n 6. “\u2019With a telescope, some munchies, and a warm blanket, watch for Halley’s comet.’ Yeah. I like that. There’s no time limit. Just sit there and grow old together.”\u2015David Cross<\/p>\n 7. “We were supposed to grow old together,… Have kids. Take walks under old trees. I wanted to watch the lines etch themselves into your flesh and know when each and every one of them appeared. Die together.”\u2015Dennis Lehane<\/p>\n 8. “The mere process of growing old together will make the slightest acquaintance seem a bosom friend.”\u2015Logan Pearsall Smith<\/p>\n 9. “Some lovers were fortunate enough to grow old together. They’d grown old apart. She did not think him any less handsome. She only wished that she’d been there when the first line on his face had appeared, so that she could have stroked and kissed and cherished it.”\u2015Sherry Thomas<\/p>\n 10. “Sometimes, just sometimes, when people say \u2018forever\u2019, they mean it.”\u2015Unknown<\/p>\n 11. “When couples stay together they will learn what the other’s personality and thought processes are, and eventually could finish each other’s sentences due to their familiarity with each other.”\u2015Betty Thomas & D. Lloyd Thomas<\/p>\n 12. “Growing old with someone else is beautiful, but growing old while being true to yourself is divine.”\u2015Dodinsky<\/p>\n 13. “Each moment of a happy lover’s hour is worth an age of dull and common life.”\u2015Aphra Behn<\/p>\n 14. “I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn’t matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.”\u2015Julia Roberts<\/p>\n 15. “Maybe you don’t need the whole world to love you. Maybe you just need one person.”\u2015Jason Segel & Nicholas Stoller<\/p>\n 16. “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”\u2015Nora Ephron<\/p>\n 17. “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.”\u2015Maya Angelou<\/p>\n 18. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.”\u2015Philippa Boyens<\/p>\n 19. “Soul mate: two little words, one big concept. A belief that someone, somewhere, is holding the key to your heart…”\u2015Michael Patrick King<\/p>\n 20. “The compatibility of a couple and the quality of a relationship lies in the way they handle their arguments and differences.”\u2015Nishan Panwar<\/p>\n 21. “It’s a wonderful thing, as time goes by, to be with someone who looks into your face, when you’ve gotten old, and still sees what you think you look like.”\u2015Steve Cohen<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: Objectivos para o casamento: 15 coisas principais em que todos os casais devem se concentrar<\/p>\n Growing old together requires a high level of commitment and two people who genuinely love each other’s company.<\/p>\n You’re not just a couple. You’re partners in life, lovers and best friends. And when you look at them, you just know that there is no one else out there for you.<\/p>\n Once you’re with the right person, these 18 amazing benefits are what you can look forward to; making the most of every single day with the one who makes it all worthwhile.<\/p>\n The ups and downs and the trials and tribulations have got nothing on you, as long as you’ve got your best friend along for the ride.<\/p>\n Veja tamb\u00e9m: 150 maneiras diferentes de dizer eu te amo de uma forma profundamente rom\u00e2ntica<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" When you’re with the right person, growing old together is the dream. Nothing beats welcoming your golden years with your best friend who still looks at you the same way as when you first met. To grow old together means to experience life’s trials and tribulations side by side, helping each other push through, never…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":111397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18-Amazing-Perks-Of-Growing-Old-Together-That-No-One-Tells-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=111395"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111395\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=111395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=111395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=111395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Experimentar uma transforma\u00e7\u00e3o espantosa com o amor da sua vida<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou enjoy each other’s undivided attention<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPassa o seu tempo a fazer apenas as coisas que ADORA fazer<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPode desfrutar (e mimar) os seus netos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA capacidade de dar conselhos preciosos sobre relacionamentos aos jovens<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou get that life isn’t a social media account (there’s no deleting and starting over)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nConhecem-se de dentro para fora (o que \u00e9 muito reconfortante)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nViver os altos e baixos da velhice lado a lado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDesfruta plenamente de um sil\u00eancio agrad\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPodes ir ver o mundo sem que nada te impe\u00e7a<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nJ\u00e1 n\u00e3o se preocupa com as coisas pequenas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComunicam aberta e honestamente sobre os vossos desejos e necessidades<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nVer o seu programa de perguntas e respostas preferido com cacau \u00e9 a sua noite ideal<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAprende finalmente a aproveitar a vida ao m\u00e1ximo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLuta com justi\u00e7a (e raramente)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nD\u00e3o prioridade um ao outro em detrimento de qualquer outra pessoa<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou feel young at heart when you’re together<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nThe reassurance of knowing you’ve chosen the right person<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCita\u00e7\u00f5es comoventes sobre envelhecer juntos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAll Things Considered…<\/h2>\n