When you meet her, you’ll think that she is material de namorada<\/a> and that she’s everything you’ve been looking for in a woman.<\/p>\n Once you realize who you’re dealing with, it’s often too late to escape her claws.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que pode sempre salvar-se, mas isso vai exigir-lhe muito mais tempo e esfor\u00e7o do que no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n Bem, para o evitar, \u00e9 preciso conhecer todos os sinais alarmantes de uma namorada psicopata. Aqui est\u00e3o 9 dos mais comuns.<\/p>\n O seu rapariga de sonho<\/a> cuida de si. Ela ouve-o, mostra interesse pela sua vida e lembra-se de todas as pequenas coisas que lhe disse.<\/p>\n No entanto, e se ela exagerar? E se ela estiver demasiado interessada em si? Bem, isso tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re involved with a girl like this, the number one problem is that she doesn\u2019t have a life of her own.<\/p>\n De facto, a partir do momento em que come\u00e7am a namorar, ela tenta tornar-se parte da vossa vida.<\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t let you have any privacy. In fact, it seems that this girl would like to have access to your thoughts and feelings; she wants to enter your mind and have full control over it.<\/p>\n Esta rapariga est\u00e1 sempre interessada nos seus assuntos. Ela interfere em todos os aspectos da sua vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n It seems that she can\u2019t understand that she can\u2019t be a part of your career, that you want to have friendships that have nothing to do with her or that she shouldn\u2019t meddle in your family affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n O problema \u00e9 que ela quer saber literalmente tudo sobre a sua vida.<\/p>\n She wants to know all the details of your previous relationships, expects you to share your friends\u2019 secrets with her and even asks you to take her to your business meetings.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso, como tamb\u00e9m a apanhou a escutar mais do que uma vez.<\/p>\n Ela justifica as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es dizendo-lhe que \u00e9 apenas curiosa por natureza mas, no fundo, sabe que este comportamento \u00e9 inaceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n Once she sees that she can\u2019t keep doing this to you, she gets angry and frustrated. She can\u2019t seem to understand that you find her snooping repulsive.<\/p>\n Another alarming red flag that you\u2019re involved with a crazy girlfriend is when she stalks you.<\/p>\n Tudo come\u00e7a com os seus perfis nas redes sociais mas, passado algum tempo, come\u00e7a tamb\u00e9m a faz\u00ea-lo pessoalmente.<\/p>\n No, I\u2019m not talking just about the fact that she is the first person who watches all of your Instagram and Snapchat stories and the one who likes and comments on literally all of your photos and status updates.<\/p>\n O problema aqui \u00e9 muito maior. O problema \u00e9 que a sua namorada v\u00ea os seus perfis nas redes sociais como a sua principal fonte de informa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ela v\u00ea-se como uma agente secreta cujo trabalho \u00e9 dissecar todas as informa\u00e7\u00f5es dispon\u00edveis.<\/strong><\/p>\n She constantly snoops through your friends\u2019 lists, looking for unfamiliar girls.<\/p>\n Ela analisa os seus gostos e coment\u00e1rios e faz um grande alarido sempre que encontra algo que n\u00e3o lhe agrada.<\/p>\n Not only that but another source of drama is your online status. According to her demands, you can\u2019t be online unless you\u2019re texting her.<\/p>\n Also, she gets mad at you if you don\u2019t reply to her text messages right away, especially if you leave her on read.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t misunderstand me; deliberately ignoring your girlfriend on social media or messaging apps while you\u2019re clearly active is rude and unnecessary. However, you can\u2019t be available 24\/7 either.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you read her text messages but simply don\u2019t have time to reply right away.<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re busy or just don\u2019t feel like talking and that is something she should understand.<\/p>\n Outra atividade que ela gosta de fazer \u00e9 mexer no seu telem\u00f3vel. <\/strong><\/p>\n Ela consulta o seu hist\u00f3rico de pesquisa, verifica os seus registos de chamadas e quer ter acesso a todas as suas conversas.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, this girl\u2019s detective skills don\u2019t end online. The fact is that you\u2019ve caught her following you around on several occasions.<\/strong><\/p>\n No in\u00edcio, pensaste que era uma coincid\u00eancia. Estava a sair com os seus amigos e, passado algum tempo, ela apareceu no mesmo s\u00edtio.<\/p>\n No entanto, ao fim de algum tempo, esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o tornou-se regular.<\/p>\n Being your romantic partner, it\u2019s perfectly natural for this girl to know your schedule and habits. The problem is that she uses this info against you.<\/p>\n She keeps showing up in places where she knows she\u2019ll encounter you and she asks her friends to look out for you when you go out without her.<\/p>\n If this sounds familiar, maybe it\u2019s time to check to see if she has installed a GPS device in your car or maybe there is a listening device in your apartment.<\/p>\n Por muito louco que isto possa parecer, acredita em mim, um perseguidor est\u00e1 pronto para fazer isto!<\/p>\n The thing that almost always comes hand in hand with psychotic behavior is lying. To be precise, this is not the \u2018ordinary\u2019 type of lying, we\u2019re talking about compulsive lying here.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that this girl just tells an occasional lie. After all, who doesn\u2019t do this from time to time? It\u2019s not that she sometimes tells you a white lie, with the purpose of sparing your feelings.<\/p>\n A mentira est\u00e1-lhe no sangue. Faz isso como um h\u00e1bito, pois \u00e9 um mentiroso patol\u00f3gico<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que todas as suas mentiras t\u00eam um \u00fanico objetivo: fazer com que a ames ainda mais e manter-te ao seu lado.<\/strong><\/p>\n For example, whenever she feels like you\u2019re getting cold in the relationship, she\u2019ll invent something to make her appear as a victim.<\/p>\n Aconteceu-lhe algo de mau, como ter sido agredida, ou precisa da sua ajuda.<\/p>\n This way, she plays the conscience card. She knows that you\u2019ll be there for her and that she\u2019ll get back under your skin.<\/p>\n Cuidado, porque ela est\u00e1 mesmo pronta a inventar uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o ou condi\u00e7\u00e3o de risco de vida.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll tell you that she is ill and that she needs your help, just to prevent you from leaving her.<\/p>\n O tipo de mentira que as raparigas malucas costumam contar tem como objetivo fazerem-se parecer melhores.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll go so far as to claim that she has a higher education than she actually has, that she was a supermodel in the past or that she\u2019s friends with some celebs or influential people.<\/p>\n Lol, the joke is on her because you couldn’t care less about any of these things. However, she still does it just to impress you.<\/p>\n Basically, what she\u2019s doing is making up a false past, so you end up thinking that she\u2019s accomplished something she hasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Se suspeitar que o seu GF \u00e9 um mentiroso compulsivo<\/a>, first of all, you need to check if the facts add up. If you\u2019re still not sure, pay attention to her body language sinais de engano e mentira<\/a>.<\/p>\n If you ask yourself: “What should my girlfriend be like?” you\u2019ll probably think that one of the most important things you want from her is to care about you.<\/p>\n What man doesn\u2019t like to be pampered and spoiled?<\/p>\n Imagina um GF que se preocupar\u00e1 contigo em todos os sentidos da palavra.<\/p>\n A girlfriend who will lose sleep over every single problem you might have and who will ask you if you\u2019ve eaten or are tired.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re involved with a crazy girlfriend, she will be overly protective.<\/p>\n In fact, most of the time, she\u2019ll act like your mother. She\u2019ll treat you like you\u2019re a child who can\u2019t take care of himself.<\/p>\n At first, you\u2019ll see this as a sign of her love for you. After all, you\u2019ve never had a woman like her by your side.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nevertheless, once some time has gone by, this behavior will start to suffocate you. You\u2019ll be tired of her and her overprotective nature.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esta rapariga vai querer saber todos os pormenores da sua vida.<\/p>\n Whenever you go out, she\u2019ll ask you a list of questions, including where you\u2019re going, what you\u2019ll be doing, who you\u2019re seeing and exactly when you\u2019re coming home.<\/p>\n She hates it when you want to do something that doesn\u2019t include her. Instead, she wants to be involved in every single aspect of your life.<\/p>\n The thing about this scenario is that it will take you somewhat longer to figure out her true intentions. At first, you\u2019ll really think that she is just being attentive.<\/p>\n This is the type of girl who\u2019ll pretend that she is actually saving you from all life troubles. If you have some errands to do, she\u2019ll offer to do them for you.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll buy your mother\u2019s birthday present for you, so you don\u2019t have to do it, she\u2019ll make you an appointment at her hairdresser or your doctor, she won\u2019t allow you to eat out because she\u2019ll cook for you, she’ll be the one who chooses what T-shirt to wear\u2026<\/p>\n The list can go on forever but I\u2019m sure you get the point.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the same with your friends, co-workers and even family.<\/p>\n Do seu primeiro encontro<\/a> onward, you\u2019ll see her as some sort of messiah who came into your life to rescue you from all the pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> na sua vida.<\/p>\n She is the one who\u2019ll allegedly see right through their bad intentions. According to her, nobody in your surroundings means you well.<\/p>\n They all have a hidden agenda and they\u2019re using you. Of course, she won\u2019t tell you directly to ditch your old friends but this is her final goal.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be straight here; every girl wants her boyfriend\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n After all, this shouldn\u2019t even be questioned because otherwise what are you doing with a woman you won\u2019t give any of your time or interest to?<\/p>\n No entanto, o problema de uma namorada psicopata \u00e9 que ela quer toda a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o. E quando digo toda, quero mesmo dizer toda.<\/p>\n If it were up to her, you wouldn\u2019t have a melhor amigo<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n There is no need for you to visit your parents, siblings or other relatives. In fact, it would be best if you didn\u2019t have to go to work either.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ela \u00e9 t\u00e3o carente<\/a> that she can\u2019t stand the fact that you had a life before she came along. She can\u2019t grasp the fact that you can\u2019t be with her 24\/7.<\/strong><\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t accept the fact that you have interests or hobbies or that you need some space and time without her.<\/p>\n In fact, as soon as you want to go out or do anything that doesn\u2019t include her, she\u2019ll make a fuss about it.<\/p>\n Apparently, it\u2019s a sign that you\u2019ve got bored of her, that you got tired of your relationship and finally, that you don\u2019t love her anymore.<\/p>\n Esta rapariga \u00e9 possessiva ao ponto de se sentir intimidada por todos os que a rodeiam.<\/p>\n \u00c9 amea\u00e7ada quando sai para beber um copo com os rapazes, quando v\u00ea um jogo de futebol ou quando fala com a sua m\u00e3e ao telefone, o que \u00e9, obviamente, uma loucura.<\/p>\n O pior de tudo \u00e9 que ela faz-nos sentir culpados por passarmos tempo ou darmos aten\u00e7\u00e3o a outra pessoa que n\u00e3o ela.<\/p>\n You\u2019re the center of her world and she expects the same treatment back.<\/p>\n Of course, she doesn\u2019t realize that this is not what a healthy relationship should look like.<\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t understand (or refuses to understand) that you two are separate individuals who have separate lives, despite your romance.<\/p>\n The next sign that you\u2019re dealing with a namorada psic\u00f3tica<\/a> \u00e9 que voc\u00eas os dois continuam a discutir.<\/p>\n Embora todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es sejam uma via de dois sentidos e ambos os parceiros tenham uma parte de responsabilidade por tudo o que se passa entre eles, a verdade \u00e9 que a sua namorada \u00e9 quem arranja mais brigas.<\/p>\n O facto \u00e9 que ela tem mudan\u00e7as de humor incr\u00edveis.<\/p>\n It\u2019s one thing if these mood swings are a consequence of something. However, with this kind of woman, you never know what to expect. <\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019ll be laughing in one moment and then start crying, out of the blue.<\/strong><\/p>\n At first, you think that you\u2019re responsible for these changes in behavior. To be exact, this is what she will try to make you think.<\/p>\n No entanto, passado algum tempo, compreende que isto \u00e9 apenas uma parte da personalidade dela e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer para a ajudar a sentir-se melhor ou para a tornar mais calma.<\/p>\n The worst part is these fights. There is absolutely nothing she won\u2019t argue about if she is in her angry phase.<\/p>\n Tudo com esta rapariga se torna um problema.<\/p>\n Durante algum tempo, tenta manter a paz e faz o seu melhor para n\u00e3o responder \u00e0s suas provoca\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, you can\u2019t keep up with this behavior forever.<\/p>\n Mais cedo ou mais tarde, ela consegue arrast\u00e1-lo para todas estas discuss\u00f5es e a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se ainda mais venenosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n In fact, now you have only two stages: one in which you\u2019re about to leave one another for good and one where you\u2019re more crazy about each other than anything and when your love skyrockets.<\/p>\n Basically, the problem is that there is no peace. There doesn\u2019t exist a calm phase and a relationship like that cannot be maintained.<\/p>\n Quando a sua namorada tenta controlar toda a sua vida, isso pode ser um sinal claro de que ela \u00e9 uma psicopata.<\/p>\n Yes, the truth is that you two are a couple now so you shouldn\u2019t be making any radical changes in your life which might affect both of you without consulting her.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, seria mais do que falta de considera\u00e7\u00e3o decidir mudar-se para outra cidade sem falar com a sua parceira e sem a informar da sua escolha.<\/p>\n No entanto, s\u00f3 porque ela \u00e9 a sua cara-metade, isso n\u00e3o significa que tenha o direito de mandar em tudo o que faz ou pensa.<\/p>\n No entanto, \u00e9 exatamente isso que esta rapariga quer, tomar o controlo da sua vida, uma vez que \u00e9 uma man\u00edaco por controlo<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ela seria a pessoa mais feliz do mundo se tivesse a oportunidade de o tratar como um fantoche dela. <\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s like you have no brain of your own and she is in charge of your entire existence.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ela quer controlar com quem passas o teu tempo, quantas horas dormes, que programas de televis\u00e3o v\u00eas e outras coisas parecidas.<\/p>\n O problema central aqui \u00e9 que ela \u00e9 de facto paranoica.<\/p>\n She lives in constant fear that sooner or later, you’ll romper<\/a> with her and she’ll become your ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n Para onde quer que olhe, ela v\u00ea diferentes amea\u00e7as \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Segundo ela, todos os que vos rodeiam querem afast\u00e1-lo dela e prejudicar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n Assim, em vez de tratar esta doen\u00e7a e fazer algo para, pelo menos, a minimizar, a \u00fanica coisa que ela pode fazer \u00e9 tornar-se uma man\u00edaca do controlo.<\/p>\n Esta rapariga louca est\u00e1 convencida de que nada de mal acontecer\u00e1 entre voc\u00eas os dois, desde que todos os pormenores da vossa vida e do vosso romance estejam nas m\u00e3os dela.<\/p>\n Claro que isto s\u00f3 produz um efeito contraproducente. Em vez de o manter mais perto, ela est\u00e1, na verdade, a persegui-lo cada vez mais.<\/p>\n \u00c9 que h\u00e1 uma diferen\u00e7a entre comportamento possessivo e ci\u00fames. Bem, a m\u00e1 not\u00edcia \u00e9 que a tua namorada psicopata \u00e9 tanto possessiva como loucamente ciumenta.<\/p>\n When you get with a new girl, you\u2019re flattered by the fact that your partner is apparently afraid of losing you.<\/p>\n Acha os ci\u00fames dela bonitos e v\u00ea-os como um sinal dos seus sentimentos por si.<\/p>\n No entanto, a sua namorada n\u00e3o \u00e9 ciumenta dessa forma gira. De facto, os ci\u00fames dela ultrapassam todos os limites poss\u00edveis do comportamento normal.<\/p>\nEla est\u00e1 sempre interessada nos seus assuntos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEla persegue-o online e pessoalmente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/upset-young-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla \u00e9 uma mentirosa compulsiva<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-man-sitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla \u00e9 demasiado protetora<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/latin-couple-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla quer toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sad-man-having.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla arranja brigas desnecess\u00e1rias<\/h2>\n
![\"jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-walking-.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/stressed-and-sad.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla \u00e9 uma man\u00edaca paranoica por controlo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEla \u00e9 loucamente ciumenta<\/h2>\n
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