{"id":111625,"date":"2020-11-09T12:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T12:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111625"},"modified":"2022-11-20T21:39:46","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T21:39:46","slug":"envio-duplo-de-mensagens-de-texto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/envio-duplo-de-mensagens-de-texto\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis tudo o que precisa de saber sobre mensagens de texto duplas"},"content":{"rendered":"

As mensagens de texto s\u00e3o, inevitavelmente, o meio de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o mais popular atualmente e, na minha opini\u00e3o, s\u00e3o uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o e uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o. Ajuda-nos a estabelecer contacto com outras pessoas mas, ao mesmo tempo, pode ser muito frustrante.<\/p>\n

These are the drawbacks that I’ve experienced from my female perspective: Porque \u00e9 que, de repente, ele est\u00e1 a ignorar as minhas mensagens? Devo voltar a enviar-lhe mensagens ou devo esperar um pouco mais? Algu\u00e9m me pode dizer o que se passa exatamente?<\/em><\/p>\n

Depois de processar todos estes pensamentos exaustivos, normalmente dou por mim sentado ao lado do meu telem\u00f3vel 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana, levando-o comigo para todo o lado (at\u00e9 para a casa de banho) e esperando secretamente que eles me respondam em breve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este processo de ghosting virtual transforma-se num pesadelo, tornando-o incapaz de adormecer ou mesmo de comer corretamente (se gostar REALMENTE da pessoa).<\/p>\n

The thing is, we’ve all been ignored at some point when texting and I’m sure that’s how the term double texting came to life!<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o envio duplo de mensagens de texto?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know. Texting and our love lives were sufficiently complicated and nerve-wracking even without these additional terms but I guess it’s in our human nature to want to define everything.<\/p>\n

Assim, enviar uma mensagem de texto dupla (como o nome indica) significa enviar uma nova mensagem a algu\u00e9m ap\u00f3s um determinado per\u00edodo de tempo, antes mesmo de receber a resposta \u00e0 primeira mensagem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a-se por esperar pela resposta e, depois, quando se perde a coragem ou se fica ansioso ou curioso, decide-se enviar-lhe outra mensagem (e talvez outra).<\/p>\n

Here’s the million-dollar question:<\/p>\n

Enviar duas mensagens de texto \u00e9 mau?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o necessariamente. Por vezes, \u00e9 mau, mas outras vezes n\u00e3o. Tudo depende do contexto, da pessoa a quem est\u00e1 a enviar a mensagem, da sua inten\u00e7\u00e3o, etc.<\/p>\n

If you double text the right way, there shouldn’t be any problems. To help you with that, here are all the pros and cons of double-texting as well as the brilliant tip of how long you should wait before double texting.<\/p>\n

So, let’s get started!<\/p>\n

5 vantagens das mensagens de texto duplas<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pode ajudar a manter a conversa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I bet there’s nothing more annoying in the whole world than experiencing the moment where you suddenly run out of interesting things to talk about with another person.<\/p>\n

Envia-lhes uma mensagem de texto que n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo algo que gostaria de lhes ter enviado, mas f\u00e1-lo na mesma.<\/p>\n

Sente-se que a conversa est\u00e1 prestes a terminar naquele preciso momento e afasta-se e deixa o telem\u00f3vel em paz.<\/p>\n

Mas, passado algum tempo, vem-lhe \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a uma pergunta ou um tema brilhante e envia-o o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel, antes que se esque\u00e7a de o fazer.<\/p>\n

Envia-lhes uma mensagem do g\u00e9nero: Oh, I forgot to ask you something…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Before you know it, your convo is flourishing again and there’s no happier person in the world than you (assuming you really like them a lot).<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 a\u00ed que as mensagens de texto duplas s\u00e3o realmente \u00fateis. Pode ajud\u00e1-lo a manter a conversa e a dominar a arte de n\u00e3o ser um remetente seco.<\/p>\n

It shows that you’re interested<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I’m pretty sure that you’re familiar with the concept of playing hard to get, right? It’s when you’re pretending that you’re not interested in order to make the other person interested in you.<\/p>\n

Cansei-me de tentar defini-lo, quanto mais de o experimentar.<\/p>\n

Well, here’s something you probably don’t hear that often: Not playing hard to get will also show a guy (or girl) that you’re interested!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seriously, you don’t need to ignore them, wait for an eternity to text them back or refrain from sending any emojis in order to send them the message that you’re not really interested (when in reality you are).<\/p>\n

If you double text them, they will see that you don’t give a damn about any of that. They will see you as a laid-back person who is not willing to follow the rules imposed by society.<\/p>\n

They will notice that you’re interested and in a world of all that faking, who wouldn’t enjoy texting with a genuine person (finally)?<\/p>\n

See also: 10 Adorable Texting Habits That Reveal He’s Into You<\/p>\n

Mostra determina\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se achas que fazer-se de dif\u00edcil \u00e9 complicado, ouve isto. Aparentemente, algumas pessoas gostam de o testar atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto para ver se est\u00e1 REALMENTE interessado nelas.<\/p>\n

They do it by not replying to your texts and waiting to see if you\u2019ll text them again, aka double text them.<\/p>\n

If you send them a second text even though they still haven’t replied to the first one, this will let them know that you’re really into them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People usually like to do this after the first date. Now that they know you better, they decide to test you to see whether you’re interested in them as much as they are in you.<\/p>\n

It shows that you’re not afraid to show your true colors<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Raise your hand if you’re really sick of fake social media lives, texting secrets and all those trending things that shouldn’t be trending at all. I stopped typing for a moment then to honor the memory of real life.<\/p>\n

Do you want to tell the world that you’re not afraid of showing your true colors? Do you want to be genuine with that one person you really like?<\/p>\n

Then you definitely shouldn’t worry about double texting a guy or girl. By doing that, you’ll show them that you’re not interested in following the crowd or texting rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you double text them, they will know that you’re not afraid of being who you are, which is really rare and refreshing in a world full of artificiality.<\/p>\n

Pode ajudar a aliviar a tens\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Whether you met on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble or some other dating app, you can still feel equally anxious when messaging. Or if you’ve recently been on a first date, you may not have the courage to decide to text first.<\/p>\n

Ao enviar uma mensagem dupla a algu\u00e9m, pode ajudar a aliviar a tens\u00e3o dessa pessoa e ela sentir-se-\u00e1 menos ansiosa por contact\u00e1-lo primeiro. Ambos se sentir\u00e3o mais relaxados, o que vos permitir\u00e1 estabelecer uma forte qu\u00edmica textual.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, temos de ser n\u00f3s a quebrar o gelo quando se trata de enviar mensagens de texto, porque a outra pessoa n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o corajosa.<\/p>\n

Mas se tiver a certeza de que \u00e9 um verdadeiro extrovertido e que n\u00e3o tem problemas em enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto primeiro, ent\u00e3o pode deix\u00e1-lo tomar a iniciativa.<\/p>\n

5 contras das mensagens de texto duplas<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Pode parecer pegajoso ou carente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Before I write anything else, I’d like to accentuate the fact that appearing clingy or needy when texting greatly depends on the context.<\/p>\n

So, let’s say that you asked them something like: Queres ir beber um copo comigo?<\/em> You wait approximately five minutes for them to reply. If they don’t, you send them a follow-up text: Please, let’s go for a drink!\u00a0<\/em>You can’t help yourself but think: Envio sempre uma mensagem de texto primeiro<\/a> e fico sempre horas ou dias \u00e0 espera de uma resposta.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Here’s the most valuable dating advice you’ll ever receive:<\/strong> Don’t appear clingy or needy. By begging the other person to do something, you’re at risk of being seen as desperate and needy.<\/p>\n

Acredite, nenhuma rapariga ou rapaz quer sair com algu\u00e9m que age assim. Por isso, antes de decidir enviar uma mensagem dupla a algu\u00e9m, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao contexto da mensagem que lhe quer enviar.<\/p>\n

And don’t worry, I completely understand you. Things like this make an epistolary relationship (exchanging letters) sound like the promised land.<\/p>\n

Pode ser irritante para eles<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This one is also related to the context of your messages. Let’s say that you send them a normal text message and they haven’t replied yet.<\/p>\n

Depois, decide enviar-lhes toneladas de Snapchats ou HaHas para captar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that because this can be a huge turn-off. Also, don’t insist on playing fun texting games the first time you text someone. Keep in mind that not everyone is in the mood for that at the time.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re double texting a girl or guy, always imagine their potential reply or reaction to the message you want to send them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagine que o texto que lhe quer enviar foi enviado por outra pessoa. Qual seria a sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o? Ficaria satisfeito ou aborrecido?<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 14 coisas inteligentes para fazer quando ele n\u00e3o responde \u00e0s mensagens durante dias<\/a><\/p>\n

Once you double text, there’s no going back<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I’ve noticed that most of the time, I’m a quick texter, which is a bad thing. I just go with the flow and send the first thing that comes to my mind.<\/p>\n

Later, after I realize that there’s no going back after sending it, I re-read that text message a million times in order to be sure that I haven’t messed things up.<\/p>\n

But that’s just me. I’m a natural overthinker, which has cost me a lot of time and nerves. So, what I’m trying to say is once you double text them, there’s no going back.<\/p>\n

Um mau texto pode arruinar a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso tenha cuidado com a forma como se exprime.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I often find myself sending something I didn’t want to send in the first place and then end up cursing the universe, the modern era, cell phones and other things for allowing me to do that.<\/p>\n

Dependendo do seu telem\u00f3vel, pode decidir apagar a mensagem que lhe enviou, mas se o fizer, eles saber\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 ainda mais embara\u00e7oso.<\/p>\n

O meu humilde conselho \u00e9: Don’t double text them when you’re feeling anxious or mad because chances are you’ll send something you didn’t mean to send. I call that texting by impulse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

See also: 5 Signs He’s Only Texting You When He’s Bored Or Lonely<\/p>\n

Isso pode assust\u00e1-los<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Another thing you should pay attention to is the reason why they haven’t texted you back yet.<\/p>\n

Usually, we like to think that it’s because they’re not interested, they’re playing hard to get with us, they’re deliberately ignoring us and so on.<\/p>\n

Estas suposi\u00e7\u00f5es podem levar-nos \u00e0 loucura e obrigar-nos a enviar uma infinidade de mensagens de texto irrelevantes e perturbadoras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now imagine that the reason why they haven’t texted you back is because of something important that happened to them regarding their family, pet, friends, job, etc.<\/p>\n

We like to think that the world revolves around us but that’s not the truth. Even though you’re still waiting for their reply, this doesn’t necessarily mean they have forgotten about you completely.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que voltem a contact\u00e1-lo quando tiverem tempo para isso e a \u00faltima coisa de que precisa \u00e9 de os assustar com uma s\u00e9rie de mensagens de texto.<\/p>\n

Isto pode inspir\u00e1-los a seguir em frente e a esquecer-se de enviar a t\u00e3o esperada resposta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Passa o poder para eles<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter how weird it sounds, by deciding to double text someone, you might be shifting the power to them. Again, it all depends on the recipient’s interpretation of it.<\/p>\n

To help you understand it better, here’s what it means to shift the power to them in texting: When they are not replying to your texts and you’re not doing anything about it, you’re in a neutral texting position because you’re showing them that you don’t really care about any of it or that you’re indifferent.<\/p>\n

By sending them a follow-up message, you’re giving them the power to ghost you again. If that doesn’t bother you, that’s okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel comfortable with it, then you should wait for their reply first and then text them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lembro-me de quando estava apaixonada por um rapaz, por isso esfor\u00e7ava-me por lhe enviar v\u00e1rias mensagens antes de ele responder \u00e0 primeira. Passado algum tempo, apercebi-me de que ele se estava a afastar e a agir de forma estranha.<\/p>\n

Quando contei isto \u00e0 minha amiga, ela deu-me o melhor conselho de sempre sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es: P\u00e1ra de lhe enviar mensagens e v\u00ea o que acontece.<\/em> Eu disse: Est\u00e1 bem. Acho que n\u00e3o tenho nada a perder.<\/em><\/p>\n

E eis que, passados alguns dias, ele mandou-me uma mensagem a pedir desculpa<\/a> por ser esquisito e convidar-me para sair.<\/p>\n

Bem, desta vez deixei-o deliberadamente esperar um pouco mais pela minha resposta e depois concordei casualmente em sair com ele. (Deus, eu realmente odeio encontros.)<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo esperar antes de enviar uma mensagem de texto dupla?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra pergunta de um milh\u00e3o de d\u00f3lares: Quanto tempo deve esperar antes de enviar um texto de seguimento?<\/em><\/p>\n

Mais uma vez, depende do contexto. Enviar-lhes uma segunda mensagem passados alguns minutos que seja algo do g\u00e9nero: Oh, I forgot to ask you something…<\/strong><\/em> est\u00e1 bem.<\/p>\n

Or let’s say that you asked them to attend an event with you and they still haven’t replied to you. You can ask them again before the event whether they are interested to go or not.<\/p>\n

In all other situations, ideally, you should double text them after three to five days (or a week) but only if they haven’t read your message yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they did read your message and you’re sure that you saw them online, DO NOT send them a follow-up text because it might make you look desperate or needy.<\/p>\n

Trust me because I’ve tried both.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I double texted someone even though I had seen that they had read the first text and didn’t respond and it didn’t go too well.<\/p>\n

Then, when I double texted someone who hadn\u2019t yet read my first text, it all went smoothly.<\/p>\n

So, no matter how mad, furious or disappointed you’re feeling at that moment, don’t double text them if they have \u2018Seen\u2019 or \u2018Read\u2019 it. Instead, stop texting them for a few days.<\/p>\n

There are so many things you can do if they don’t text back for days.<\/p>\n

Focus on yourself, go out for a walk, have fun with your friends and do whatever you wish but don’t text them and then, when you least expect it, they will text you back.<\/p>\n

Como deixar de enviar mensagens de texto em duplicado?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se acha que tem um problema grave com o envio de (demasiadas) mensagens de seguimento e quer deixar de o fazer, aqui ficam algumas dicas \u00fateis para o ajudar:<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica altura em que deve duplicar o texto \u00e9 quando tem mesmo de o fazer<\/p>\n

Pense nisso durante algum tempo antes de se decidir a faz\u00ea-lo<\/p>\n

Esperar algumas horas antes de enviar uma mensagem dupla<\/p>\n

Over time, you can increase the waiting period before sending a follow-up message. You can wait for a few days and then, gradually, you’ll be able to stop.<\/p>\n

Don’t let the art of double texting interfere with your happiness!<\/h2>\n

Pergunte sempre a si pr\u00f3prio se algo \u00e9 suficientemente importante para enviar. Vai arrepender-se de n\u00e3o a ter enviado ou vai arrepender-se mais de a ter enviado?<\/p>\n

However, make sure not to overthink it too much. Don’t let double texting make you anxious or like you’re trying too hard not to be who you really are.<\/p>\n

If you follow the above rules and memorize all the pros and cons of texting, you’ll be just fine. O segredo est\u00e1 em encontrar um equil\u00edbrio entre ser um texter seco e um texter demasiado esfor\u00e7ado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como sempre, o equil\u00edbrio \u00e9 a chave de tudo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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