Whether controlling behavior leads to some serious emotional and physical damage or not, it\u2019s not a healthy situation to be in. If you recognize any of these signs in your partner\u2019s behavior, take it seriously and consider walking away as the right call to make.<\/p>\n
Cr\u00edtica cr\u00f3nica<\/h2>\n
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Criticism starts with something small, something you don\u2019t even notice until it\u2019s too late. You might even think it\u2019s for your own good, it\u2019s because he wants you healthy.<\/p>\n
Maybe you don\u2019t think that it\u2019s doing any damage to you, but hearing constant criticism, constant complaints on the way you behave, the way you dress or work, slowly makes you feel less worthy and makes it hard to feel loved, validated or accepted.<\/p>\n
If everything you do needs some kind of improvement in your partner\u2019s eyes, then how can that be unconditional love? How can that be a relationship between two equal partners?<\/p>\n
Fazendo-nos duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/h2>\n
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A controlling partner finds a way of planting a seed of doubt in you, about whether you\u2019re smart, pretty or talented enough. This is a way he can take away your autonomy and make you completely depend on him.<\/p>\n
Ele j\u00e1 vos tirou o apoio e a for\u00e7a, e quando vos tira os sonhos, tem todo o poder.<\/p>\n
If you find yourself giving up on your dreams because your partner thinks they\u2019re silly, or because he thinks you\u2019re not smart or hard-working enough, give up on him instead.<\/p>\n
Nenhum homem \u00e9 digno de perder os seus sonhos e esperan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n
Amea\u00e7as<\/h2>\n
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We often believe that threats are not problematic until they\u2019re physical, but threatening to leave or to harm themselves or cutting off privileges are as harmful as the physical ones.<\/p>\n
We feel trapped in such relationships not because we\u2019re scared to leave or because we\u2019re scared of a new beginning but because we\u2019re scared of something our partner will do to himself.<\/p>\n
Threats such as being denied access to children, financial support or a home to live in, whether they\u2019re genuine or not, are still forms of controlling abuse in a relationship.<\/p>\n
Espionagem ou exig\u00eancia de divulga\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/h2>\n
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Os man\u00edacos do controlo t\u00eam esta necessidade de saber todos os minutos do seu dia. Ele pode bisbilhotar secretamente o seu telem\u00f3vel ou exigir abertamente que lhe d\u00ea as suas palavras-passe e detalhes do seu dia.<\/p>\n
His favorite excuse\u2014If you have nothing to hide, then what\u2019s the big deal? It is a big deal if you\u2019re being questioned all the time in the one place where you should feel accepted. Your privacy is being violated in the one place where it should be safe. It\u2019s a huge deal.<\/p>\n
Isolamento dos amigos ou da fam\u00edlia<\/h2>\n
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This often starts subtly, but he will try to strip you of your family and friends and the support they provide you, to strip you of your strength. This way, you won\u2019t be strong enough to step up against him when he wants to win.<\/p>\n
Pedir-lhe-\u00e1 que passe tempo com ele, falar\u00e1 mal dos seus amigos, manipulando-a lentamente para que s\u00f3 confie nele, o que lhe dar\u00e1 controlo total sobre a sua vida.<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o respeitar o seu tempo a s\u00f3s<\/h2>\n
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It\u2019s another way of stripping you of your strength. He finds a way to make you feel guilty for taking time to recharge, or making you feel like you don\u2019t love him enough to share all of your time with him.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s completely normal if partners have different needs for time alone, but in a healthy relationship that\u2019s something you can talk about and compromise on. But in a controlling relationship, all of your alone time becomes his time.<\/p>\n
Ci\u00fame hiperativo<\/h2>\n
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