{"id":112333,"date":"2020-11-16T01:02:26","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T01:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=112333"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:29:53","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:29:53","slug":"assumir-a-responsabilidade-pelos-seus-actos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/assumir-a-responsabilidade-pelos-seus-actos\/","title":{"rendered":"12 maneiras reveladoras de assumir a responsabilidade pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Pergunta r\u00e1pida: Assume a responsabilidade por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-suas-palavras-nao-significam-nada-porque-as-suas-accoes-mostraram-a-verdade\/\">as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> ou tem tend\u00eancia para culpar os outros pelos acontecimentos da sua pr\u00f3pria vida?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se gosta de jogar o jogo da culpa, isso significa que desiste do seu poder de mudar para melhor. A sua vida \u00e9 <em>seu<\/em> responsabilidade pessoal e as pessoas bem sucedidas s\u00e3o conhecidas por aceitarem a responsabilidade total pelas suas pr\u00f3prias ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Este artigo \u00e9 sobre aceitar a responsabilidade e trabalhar para se tornar um ser humano consciente e atencioso.<\/p>\n<p>We all, on occasion, make bad choices that lead us to do bad things. That doesn&#8217;t make you a bad person; it only means you&#8217;re flawed just like the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To become a better person, you must learn to control your own behavior. Start using the &#8216;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/se-a-amas-nao-ha-desculpas-para-a-tratares-mal\/\">sem desculpas<\/a>&#8216; motto and start realizing that when you make mistakes, it&#8217;s on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When things go wrong and your hard work goes to waste, it&#8217;s vital to understand the importance of personal accountability because this leads to an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vida-mais-facil\/\">vida mais f\u00e1cil<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-e-a-verdadeira-felicidade\/\">O que \u00e9 a Verdadeira Felicidade? (E os segredos para a alcan\u00e7ar)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><em>Mas o que \u00e9 que isso significa exatamente?<\/em><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112582 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com chap\u00e9u preto encostada a uma veda\u00e7\u00e3o de madeira\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It means stepping up and accepting the role you play in your own life. It&#8217;s acknowledging the good stuff along with the bad.<\/p>\n<p>Significa n\u00e3o olhar em volta para apontar o dedo, mas sim dizer: <em>&#8220;I messed up. And it was through no one else\u2019s fault but my own.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porqu\u00ea? Porque VOC\u00ca \u00e9 o respons\u00e1vel pelo que acontece na sua vida.<\/strong> Sim, h\u00e1 pessoas \u00e0 sua volta que influenciam algumas das coisas que acontecem, mas, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, a sua vida = a sua pr\u00f3pria responsabilidade.<\/p>\n<p>Se fizeres algo de errado, pede desculpa. Se a sua m\u00e1 escolha custou algo a algu\u00e9m, seja material ou emocionalmente, reconhe\u00e7a a sua parte nisso.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 perguntar-se o que \u00e9 que isto significa exatamente para si.<\/p>\n<p><em>Que tal o desenvolvimento pessoal? Que tal substituir o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-uma-pessoa-negativa\/\">personalidade negativa<\/a> com tra\u00e7os positivos?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112583 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top preto de p\u00e9 na floresta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-in-forest-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Que tal aprender a levar uma vida plena, n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para aparecer no Facebook e no LinkedIn, mas tamb\u00e9m na realidade?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>The best way to get to that place is through self-discipline and self-respect. And with each small step in the right direction, you&#8217;ll start noticing changes in both your private and professional lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now that you&#8217;re starting to realize that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti\/\">tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico criador da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade<\/a>, you&#8217;re ready to take it further.<\/p>\n<p>Seguem-se os passos que o encorajo a dar na sua viagem rumo \u00e0 auto-responsabiliza\u00e7\u00e3o. Cada a\u00e7\u00e3o positiva ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a recuperar a sua autoestima e a assumir o controlo das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A dada altura, \u00e9 preciso dar um passo em frente e assumir a responsabilidade pelas nossas vit\u00f3rias e derrotas.<\/strong> E hoje \u00e9 um \u00f3timo dia para fazer isso mesmo. Por isso, experimente e fa\u00e7a-o valer a pena!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/afirmacoes-para-a-felicidade\/\">25 afirma\u00e7\u00f5es positivas para a felicidade e o sucesso<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Como assumir a responsabilidade pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">PARAR com o jogo da culpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112584 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com chap\u00e9u preto ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O primeiro passo \u00e9 aceitar a responsabilidade. Culpar os outros e arranjar constantemente desculpas para as suas dificuldades e asneiras \u00e9 incrivelmente f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know what isn&#8217;t? Accepting that <em>tu<\/em>&#8216;re the one who caused your own suffering. Accepting that <em>seu<\/em> As falhas de car\u00e1cter conduziram a uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz.<\/p>\n<p>Da pr\u00f3xima vez que tiveres vontade de apontar o dedo, quero que pares por um segundo e penses.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Foi essa pessoa que criou esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o negativa ou \u00e9 o seu ego que est\u00e1 a impossibilitar que assuma a sua confus\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>At first, it&#8217;ll suck. Trust me, I&#8217;ve been down that road. I always used to blame others whenever I was unable to do what I was supposed to or deliver on a promise.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so easy to relinquish any personal responsibility and go through life playing the victim card.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 quando perceberes que o crescimento pessoal \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel enquanto n\u00e3o parares com o jogo da culpa, \u00e9 que poder\u00e1s amadurecer em todos os aspectos que realmente importam.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Parem de procurar um bode expiat\u00f3rio e olhem-se ao espelho.<\/strong> Quer queiramos quer n\u00e3o, vamos fazer m\u00e1s escolhas ao longo do caminho. O que faz uma boa pessoa \u00e9 a sua capacidade de <strong>ser o dono<\/strong> e <strong>aprender com isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Be true to your word and do what you say you&#8217;ll do<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112585 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres abra\u00e7am-se perto de uma montanha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first thing I&#8217;d like you to understand is that making promises you know you won&#8217;t be able to keep is never a wise move.<\/p>\n<p>Not only does it make people lose trust in you but it also paints a picture of you as an unreliable person. So from today on, I want you to think twice before you make a promise you&#8217;re unlikely to keep.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s unfair to the people who count on you. If you&#8217;re not down with something, just say it. Nobody&#8217;s going to think less of you if you occasionally say no.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sempre que deres a tua palavra a algu\u00e9m, certifica-te de que a fazes valer. Uma pessoa s\u00f3 \u00e9 t\u00e3o boa quanto a sua palavra.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Be someone your loved ones can count on and I guarantee you that your life will improve. If you said you&#8217;d do something, do whatever it takes to deliver.<\/p>\n<p>Believe it or not, people don&#8217;t forget these things. The more trustworthy you are, the stronger your relationships will become.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixe de ser passivo e tome medidas para melhorar a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112586 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 numa rocha a olhar para a montanha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-rock-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Start being proactive. If you want to change, you&#8217;re going to have to make it happen for yourself. All changes start with you.<\/p>\n<p>Ser passivo ou rodear-se de emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas, raiva e ressentimento s\u00f3 vai arruinar a sua autoestima. Deixe de se concentrar no passado e comece a olhar em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever happened in the past is over. There&#8217;s no reason for you to dwell on something that&#8217;s gone. <strong>Assuma a responsabilidade pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es no passado e deixe que elas o orientem para um futuro mais proactivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Figure out what you want to do, what kind of person you&#8217;re eager to become and the best ways to get there.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, don&#8217;t rush it. Follow your own pace, take small steps and look ahead. If you want to change for the better, you&#8217;re going to have to take action.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Embrace the \u2018NO excuses\u2019 mantra<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112587 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz de top preto de p\u00e9 no interior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-indoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer fazer progressos ou continuar a arranjar desculpas? Esperemos que j\u00e1 saiba a resposta a esta pergunta.<\/p>\n<p>Ouvir desculpas nunca o vai levar longe. Quer queira ter sucesso na sua vida profissional ou na sua vida privada, a responsabilidade pessoal desempenha um papel vital.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nobody&#8217;s going to hire an individual who can&#8217;t admit when they&#8217;re at fault. Nobody&#8217;s going to appreciate a coworker who keeps pointing fingers at them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mais importante ainda, n\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/dinamica-de-relacoes-romanticas-push-pull\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/a> at\u00e9 que aprendas a assumir a tua parte da culpa.<\/p>\n<p>From now on, no excuses. Before you look at someone else, take a look within. It&#8217;s scary but oh so necessary.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixar de sentir pena de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112599 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos de sol num campo de trigo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-in-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The importance of a positive attitude cannot be stressed enough. Yes, life is going to bring you a fair share of drama and at times, you&#8217;ll even feel as if the world is out to get you. <strong>It&#8217;s not, though.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bad things happen to every single one of us. One mess after another might feel like a personal attack but it&#8217;s just reality. A brutal, harsh reality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mas algo que ningu\u00e9m pode tirar de ti \u00e9 a tua atitude. Tu escolhes a forma como deixas que as coisas te afectem!<\/p>\n<p>Please don&#8217;t be that person. Don&#8217;t be someone who constantly feels sorry for themselves and expects pity. Life doesn&#8217;t take it easy on anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Aguente os golpes, levante-se e persevere. Aprenda a encontrar o lado positivo em qualquer situa\u00e7\u00e3o e <strong>renunciar \u00e0 mentalidade de v\u00edtima.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/desafio-30-dias-de-amor-proprio\/\">Desafio de 30 dias de amor-pr\u00f3prio: torne-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Criar objectivos realistas para a sua vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112601 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com casaco de ganga a olhar para o mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Knowing your limitations is important. You don&#8217;t want to set yourself up for failure, right? So don&#8217;t! Be realistic about what you can and cannot accomplish regarding your future.<\/p>\n<p>You know yourself better than anyone so you&#8217;ll be the best judge of what that is. <strong>A raz\u00e3o pela qual isto \u00e9 vital \u00e9 que um sentimento de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o o ajudar\u00e1 a ver o seu valor pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In turn, you&#8217;re going to be less inclined to blame others for your mess-ups, as you&#8217;ll be more self-aware as a human being.<\/p>\n<p>And accomplished, self-aware people don&#8217;t go around pointing fingers. They&#8217;re too busy making stuff happen for themselves. The only validation that you&#8217;ll ever need is your own.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aprender a perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio quando faz asneiras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112604 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de olhos fechados ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am my own worst critic. When I do something wrong, no one is harder on me than myself. I guess that&#8217;s how most people are. But at what cost?<\/p>\n<p><strong>O mundo j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficientemente duro. H\u00e1 tantas pessoas que est\u00e3o prontas para o deitar abaixo e que t\u00eam prazer em v\u00ea-lo cair. Porque \u00e9 que os ajudaria a fazer isso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aprender a import\u00e2ncia de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio. Seja o seu melhor amigo. Quando, inadvertidamente, fizeres uma coisa m\u00e1, perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Toda a gente comete erros!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re willing to acknowledge it and learn from it, then you&#8217;re more than deserving of being forgiven. Kindness is so important, <em>especialmente<\/em> para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconhecer e quebrar os maus h\u00e1bitos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112612 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres a conversar sentadas em sacos de pregui\u00e7a\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Taking responsibility for your actions (or a lack of them) is one of your habits, right? The first step toward betterment is pinpointing your bad habits. Looks like that part is covered. Now, it&#8217;s time to break away from it.<\/p>\n<p>This is the tough part but I&#8217;m positive that by now, you&#8217;ve started seeing that it&#8217;s not impossible.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned the importance of proactivity and the no-excuses mantra. The next time you sense that you might say something you know you&#8217;ll regret, stop yourself. Think about whether that is the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t make an excuse as to why it is but rather acknowledge the mistake, apologize if needed and do better next time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixar de deixar que as outras pessoas afectem a forma como se v\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112633 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz com cabelo encaracolado perto de uma planta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-plant-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Someone&#8217;s opinion of you does not define you in any way, shape or form. So why would you let it affect you so badly?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be the first to admit that I tend to let others&#8217; opinions get to me badly. Or should I say, used to let it get to me? Ever since I decided to take control of my life, things have changed significantly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o deixo que ningu\u00e9m me controle. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o permito que estranhos (ou qualquer pessoa irrelevante) afectem a minha vis\u00e3o de mim mesmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve realized that everyone has an opinion and that&#8217;s something I&#8217;ll never be able to change. But what I CAN change is my perspective. And <em>que<\/em> tem sido um grande fator de mudan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>The only opinion that matters is your own! The sooner you realize it, the better you&#8217;ll feel for it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio (com defeitos e tudo)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112636 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz de blusa amarela a olhar-se ao espelho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-in-the-mirror-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/nao-deixaras-que-ninguem-te-faca-estas-coisas\/\">Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a> nos dias em que acorda e nada parece estar a correr bem. Ame-se nos dias em que se sentir particularmente em baixo.<\/p>\n<p>Love yourself even more when you don&#8217;t believe that there&#8217;s anything to love about you.<\/p>\n<p>We are all just trying to find our way in this mess called life. But guess what? Life doesn&#8217;t come with instructions, so all you can do is wing it.<\/p>\n<p>Just remember that no matter how bad things seem to be at the time, there&#8217;s one thing you should never forget&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>To LOVE YOURSELF. Because if you don&#8217;t, who will?<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/estar-sempre-grato\/\">Um lembrete para estar sempre grato pelo que se tem<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar perto de pessoas que o encorajam e o elevam<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112651 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1.jpg\" alt=\"quatro mulheres abra\u00e7adas perto de plantas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/women-hugging-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma das coisas mais importantes quando se trata de auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento \u00e9 rodear-se das pessoas certas.<\/p>\n<p>You need someone you can count on day and night. You need someone who won&#8217;t push you aside as you learn to take responsibility for your actions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You deserve someone who&#8217;s going to love you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-um-amigo-que-me-apoiou\/\">em todos os momentos<\/a>com defeitos e tudo. N\u00e3o aceitem menos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Reavalie o seu c\u00edrculo \u00edntimo e elimine aqueles que o menosprezam a si e \u00e0s suas escolhas. Quanto melhores forem as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta, maior ser\u00e1 a probabilidade de fazer mudan\u00e7as positivas na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Good people encourage their friends and root for them behind their back. It&#8217;s not about how big your circle is; it\u2019s the quality of it that makes all the difference.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconhecer as suas escolhas para aprender o que N\u00c3O fazer de novo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112654 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no cabelo enquanto est\u00e1 perto de uma janela no exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-hair-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every day, you&#8217;re faced with numerous choices. Those tiny moments that seem irrelevant but that can change your entire life.<\/p>\n<p>Algumas s\u00e3o verdadeiramente passageiras e sem grande impacto, mas outras conduzem a coisas grandes e importantes.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, essas coisas levam a m\u00e1s escolhas que acabam por ser a \u00faltima coisa que quer\u00edamos que acontecesse, mas l\u00e1 estamos n\u00f3s. Em momentos como esse, mostras as tuas verdadeiras cores.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Will you be able to take responsibility for your actions and own up to that unintentional mistake? Or will you blame it on external factors that didn&#8217;t actually play a role in it?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ser capaz de dizer que fez asneira ajuda-o a crescer como ser humano. Ajuda-nos a amadurecer de uma forma que acaba por ter um grande impacto em quem somos como pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Reconhecer a sua m\u00e1 escolha e assumi-la, quanto mais n\u00e3o seja com o \u00fanico objetivo de saber o que <em>n\u00e3o<\/em> para repetir nunca mais.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 sempre duas op\u00e7\u00f5es simples: <strong>Aceitar a culpa e retificar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o ou apontar o dedo e evitar assumir a responsabilidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Qual deles \u00e9 que vai ser?<\/p>\n<h2>Cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre assumir a responsabilidade pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112658 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com batom roxo perto de flores cor-de-rosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-flowers-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Como toque final e a forma perfeita de exemplificar a import\u00e2ncia da responsabilidade pessoal, apresento-lhe as cita\u00e7\u00f5es mais instigantes sobre como assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>1. &#8220;It is only when you take responsibility for your life that you discover how powerful you truly are.&#8221; \u2013 Allanah Hunt<\/p>\n<p>2. &#8220;Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber.&#8221; \u2013 Frank Crane<\/p>\n<p>3. &#8220;When you think everything is someone else\u2019s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.&#8221; \u2013 Dalai Lama<\/p>\n<p>4. &#8220;Attack the evil that is within yourself, rather than attacking the evil that is in others.&#8221; \u2013 Confucius<\/p>\n<p>5. &#8220;The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life.&#8221; \u2013 Hal Elrod<\/p>\n<p>6. &#8220;The power behind taking responsibility for your actions lies in putting an end to negative thought patterns. You no longer dwell on what went wrong or focus on whom you are going to blame. You don\u2019t waste time building roadblocks to your success. Instead, you are set free and can now focus on succeeding.&#8221; \u2013 Lorii Myers<\/p>\n<p>7. &#8220;The key is taking responsibility and initiative, deciding what your life is about, and prioritizing your life around the most important things.&#8221; \u2013 Stephen Covey<\/p>\n<p>8. &#8220;Stop blaming other people for your own behavior! Own the truth. If you don\u2019t like it, then invest the time and energy to change it.&#8221; \u2013 Akiroq Brost<\/p>\n<p>9. &#8220;You are responsible for your life. You can\u2019t keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on.&#8221; \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/p>\n<p>10. &#8220;Responsibility to yourself means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and naming for you; it means learning to respect and use your own brains and instincts; hence, grappling with hard work.&#8221; \u2013 Adrienne Rich<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112662 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos a segurar um livro aberto, de p\u00e9 junto a uma parede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-book-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>11. &#8220;If you want to change something about yourself, you need to be willing to take full responsibility for yourself. If you are going to hide behind stories and excuses, it won\u2019t work!&#8221; \u2013 Akiroq Brost<\/p>\n<p>12. &#8220;Take responsibility for your own happiness, do not expect people or things to bring you happiness, or you could be disappointed.&#8221; \u2013 Rodolfo Costa<\/p>\n<p>13. &#8220;With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry his own weight, this is a frightening prospect.&#8221; \u2013 Eleanor Roosevelt<\/p>\n<p>14. &#8220;Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>15. &#8220;Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.&#8221; \u2013 Dietrich Bonhoeffer<\/p>\n<p>16. &#8220;A sign of wisdom and maturity is when you come to terms with the realization that your decisions cause your rewards and consequences. You are responsible for your life, and your ultimate success depends on the choices you make.&#8221; \u2013 Denis Waitley<\/p>\n<p>17. &#8220;Accepting personal responsibility for your life frees you from outside influences \u2013 increases your self-esteem \u2013 boosts confidence in your ability to make decisions \u2013 and ultimately leads to achieving success in life.&#8221; \u2013 Roy T. Bennett<\/p>\n<p>18. &#8220;When we have begun to take charge of our lives, to own ourselves, there is no longer any need to ask permission of someone.&#8221; \u2013 George O&#8217;Neill &amp; Nena O&#8217;Neill<\/p>\n<p>19. &#8220;The disappearance of a sense of responsibility is the most far-reaching consequence of submission to authority.&#8221; \u2013 Stanley Milgram<\/p>\n<p>20. &#8220;Character \u2013 the willingness to accept responsibility for one\u2019s own life \u2013 is the source from which self-respect springs.&#8221; \u2013 Joan Didion<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112675 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz com olhos verdes perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>21. &#8220;In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.&#8221; \u2013 Eleanor Roosevelt<\/p>\n<p>22. &#8220;The victim mindset dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.&#8221; \u2013 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n<p>23. &#8220;Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.&#8221; \u2013 Les Brown<\/p>\n<p>24. &#8220;Stop pointing fingers and placing blame on others. Your life can only change to the degree that you accept responsibility for it.&#8221; \u2013 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n<p>25. &#8220;There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction. The moment you are old enough to take the wheel, the responsibility lies with you.&#8221; \u2013 J.K. Rowling<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/21-life-changing-decisions-to-make-in-2021\/\">21 decis\u00f5es que mudar\u00e3o a sua vida em 2021<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Se quer aprender a assumir a responsabilidade pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, os 12 passos acima s\u00e3o o seu bilhete de ouro para l\u00e1 chegar.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t keep skating through life fault-free. There comes a time when you need to learn the importance of personal responsibility and start living your life accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>Assuma a responsabilidade pelo que diz e faz e aceite as vit\u00f3rias e as derrotas. Ou, por outras palavras, <strong>stop making excuses and decide that it\u2019s time to start making progress.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quick question: Do you take responsibility for your actions or do you tend to blame others for the events of your own life? If you like to play the blame game, it means you give up your power to change for the better. 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