{"id":11255,"date":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","date_gmt":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11255"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","slug":"nao-vou-esperar-para-sempre-um-dia-a-concha-vai-se-embora-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vou-esperar-para-sempre-um-dia-a-concha-vai-se-embora-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o vai esperar por ti para sempre, um dia ela vai-se embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fizeste-a de parva, mas foi apenas tempor\u00e1rio. Podias agir por baixo da tua m\u00e1scara, mas a tua m\u00e1scara acabaria por cair. Caem sempre; era apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo. O facto de a teres magoado foi tempor\u00e1rio, porque ela percebeu que eras tu a certa altura e foi-se embora sem olhar para tr\u00e1s. Ela ainda tinha algum respeito por si pr\u00f3pria.<\/span><\/p>\n

A decis\u00e3o era tua. Tinhas de escolher se querias atravessar a linha que ela colocou quando se fartou das tuas mentiras e manipula\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

She has been in this world, dealing with men like you for far too long. Nothing could blind her anymore because she has had her share of broken hearts and she won\u2019t let you be yet another man who strings her along and hurts her in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, she realized what you\u2019ve been doing to her and ela finalmente foi-se embora.<\/a> Num dia normal, quando acordou, ela tinha desaparecido e ficou de rastos.<\/span><\/p>\n

O momento em que a cabe\u00e7a dela clareou e quando finalmente teve a coragem de te deixar, ela voltou a ser uma mulher feliz, ao contr\u00e1rio de ti. Tu eras um desastre porque compreendeste o que tinhas e o que perdeste. A partir desse momento, vais arrepender-te, vais ficar destro\u00e7ado, mas ser\u00e1 tarde demais. Demasiado tarde para ti, n\u00e3o para ela.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o lhe deste nada na tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Deste-lhe pequenos peda\u00e7os do que ela realmente merece. N\u00e3o lhe deste respeito e amor incondicional. Passaste por cima dela porque ela nunca te negou nada disso.<\/span><\/p>\n

You never made her a priority. She was always somewhere at the bottom of your list. And what\u2019s even sadder\u2014she learned to live with that. She was sad and broken but she never lost hope that someday you will change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas nunca o fizeste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ela viu algo de bom em ti. Ela viu um enorme potencial e esperava que ele se revelasse, mas tu continuaste a jogar o teu pequeno jogo astuto porque tinhas a certeza de que ela nunca te deixaria. Acho que a piada est\u00e1 em ti, porque ela acordou do seu sonho e saiu da falsa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que tudo vai ficar bem e, por isso, finalmente foi-se embora.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tomou-a por garantida<\/a> porque pensavas que o amor era f\u00e1cil de encontrar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You thought that it\u2019s easy to find someone who will love the whole of you; someone who will take your flaws and accept them because they are a part of you and they make you what you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Did you really think she was staying with you because she had to? Let me break it to you\u2014NO! She stayed with you because she didn\u2019t want to give up on something that could be perfect, something that could last forever. If only you could have made more of an effort and made the two of you last. You would be the happiest person alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

She stayed because she wanted to fight for you. She cared for you and she wanted to keep you. She knew that things won\u2019t be great all the time. She knew she had to live through the hard times and despite that, ela continuava a escolher-te<\/a> embora a tenha tornado apenas uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

She was not asking for much. She wasn\u2019t asking for you to move mountains for her. She wasn\u2019t asking something impossible or crazy. She was only asking for you to commit to her because, despite everything, you would have made a good couple if you had wanted to try.<\/span><\/p>\n

She wasn\u2019t asking to have a Cinderella ending. She didn\u2019t want to live in a fairy tale. She knew that life is tough and relationships are even tougher. She knew you have to fight hard if you want something to succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t run away from challenges. That\u2019s why she didn\u2019t give up on you. That\u2019s why she kept giving you second chances, although you didn\u2019t deserve them. She wanted you to last because she saw something close to perfection. She saw a potential life with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She wanted to make you happy, but not at all costs. She wanted to wait for you and give you time to realize what you really want, but she didn\u2019t want to wait for you forever.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Agora, isso ela est\u00e1 farta e vai-se embora<\/a>, you realize you were being a jerk to her. But, now, it\u2019s too late to make amends. She won\u2019t take you back because she stayed with you way too long, giving you chances to join her in that beautiful love she made for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, that she\u2019s left, you feel sorry. You think over and over in your head what a jerk you were. You want forgiveness, but you aren\u2019t entitled to ask for it Even you know that you overdid it.<\/span><\/p>\n

While you were together, you should have made time for her. You should have fought for her. You should have never shut her out or ignored her. You should have known that she wanted to be yours. She wanted to spend the rest of her life with you and you selfishly ignored that because you thought she won\u2019t be going anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

You made a stupid mistake and now you\u2019re paying for it. You were dumb enough to let such a woman slip away from your fingers. Now, try to live with what you\u2019ve done because never again will you find someone who loved you like she did.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You made her a fool, but it was only temporary. You could act underneath your mask, but your mask will fall eventually. They always do; it was just a matter of time. You hurting her was temporary because she figured you out at some point, and she just left without looking back. She still had…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":11264,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-52218.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}