{"id":112706,"date":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=112706"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","slug":"revelar-a-sua-atracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/revelar-a-sua-atracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando revelar a sua atra\u00e7\u00e3o e quando fazer-se de dif\u00edcil"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sente-se um pouco perdido no jogo dos encontros?<\/strong> I hear you, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie, namoro no s\u00e9culo XXI<\/strong><\/a> pode obter um pouco<\/em> rid\u00edculo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t ignore the fact that we live in a world that\u2019s completely different from the world people experienced even just twenty years ago.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s just so much going on!<\/strong> People are sharing their experiences everywhere and it\u2019s easier than ever to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to other people.<\/p>\n

That also means trying different methods of flirting based on someone else’s experiences.<\/p>\n

No que diz respeito aos encontros, de um lado, temos os defensores juramentados de que o caminho a seguir \u00e9 jogar duro para conseguir. Do outro lado, temos pessoas que defendem mostrar vulnerabilidade<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the right way to go?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no right answer. It all depends on what YOU want and how YOU feel. It depends on the person you\u2019re pursuing, it depends on the phase of the relationship you\u2019re in\u2026<\/p>\n

However, there are some things that can help you decide which route to take, so let\u2019s start.<\/p>\n

No strings attached or…?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Playing \u2018hard to get\u2019<\/a> s\u00f3 funciona se a pessoa j\u00e1 estiver interessada em si.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 isso j\u00e1 prova que voc\u00ea ou a outra pessoa j\u00e1 est\u00e3o atra\u00eddos pelo outro se continuarem a comunicar apesar do jogo. Por isso, se j\u00e1 tem isso controlado, podemos avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

O aspeto mais importante deste m\u00e9todo \u00e9 o facto de realmente<\/em> does work. There is actual psychological research to prove this but I don\u2019t want to bore you with facts, so let\u2019s keep it short.<\/p>\n

Why does it work? It creates mystery, it sparks interest, it\u2019s exciting.<\/strong> It says, \u201cI\u2019m desirable<\/a> and you need to work for my attention.\u201d<\/p>\n

A maior parte das coisas valiosas em qualquer \u00e1rea da vida n\u00e3o s\u00e3o facilmente alcan\u00e7\u00e1veis.<\/strong> That\u2019s why luxury exists.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something addicting about \u2018hunting\u2019 for what you want and\/or being the prize.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dito isto, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 preciso diz\u00ea-lo: While excitement is addictive, fun and great… it doesn\u2019t last long.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Depois da fase de excita\u00e7\u00e3o, as pessoas ou se apegam aos sentimentos ou perdem o interesse, uma vez que conseguem o que querem.<\/p>\n

A big mistake many people make is when they go on with the \u2018hard to get\u2019 attitude too far into a relationship, even after they both develop deeper feelings for each other.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 isto que por vezes resulta num rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>, where partners never stop conditioning each other’s attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In other words, playing hard to get is a fun way to flirt at the beginning of the relationship but ultimately, it’s pretty immature.<\/p>\n

O amor e a import\u00e2ncia de ser aut\u00eantico<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If you want real love and a long-term relationship, BE HONEST. It\u2019s as simple as that. If you like somebody, say it, if you want their attention, find a way to show it.<\/p>\n

A franqueza e a honestidade garantem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you should walk around expressing your undying love for a person you barely know… it just means that if you\u2019re honest about the way you feel, you\u2019re closer to a genuine relationship.<\/p>\n

You have nothing to lose because if they don\u2019t like you or care for you, you\u2019re better off anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensem nisso. Fazer tu<\/em> quer algu\u00e9m que brinque com os seus sentimentos ou algu\u00e9m que tenha sentimentos genu\u00ednos por si?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fazer tu<\/em> quer uma pessoa que esconde os seus sentimentos para parecer mais fixe ou algu\u00e9m que comunica com confian\u00e7a e maturidade?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ou\u00e7a-se a si pr\u00f3prio, ou\u00e7a a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o. Don\u2019t give in to societal pressure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly, don\u2019t ever feel bad about expressing your feelings to someone, even if they don\u2019t react how you\u2019d expect.<\/p>\n

Vulnerability isn\u2019t wrong<\/strong><\/a>. It\u2019s not weak, it\u2019s not something to be ashamed of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No final do dia, o que faz com que uma pessoa se sinta atra\u00edda por si e fique consigo \u00e9 voc\u00ea, tal como \u00e9, e n\u00e3o uma vers\u00e3o fabricada de algu\u00e9m que quer aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se queres jogar, prepara-te para o jogo. Se queres amor, prepara-te para algo real.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you feel a little bit lost in the dating game? I hear you, you\u2019re not the only one. I\u2019m not going to lie, dating in the 21st century can get a little ridiculous. We can\u2019t ignore the fact that we live in a world that\u2019s completely different from the world people experienced even just…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":112712,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-112706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/When-To-Reveal-Your-Attraction-And-When-To-Play-Hard-To-Get-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","parent":29643,"count":161,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29647,"category_count":161,"category_description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","cat_name":"seducing men","category_nicename":"seducing-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=112706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112706\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112712"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=112706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=112706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=112706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}