{"id":11304,"date":"2019-11-04T11:01:39","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T11:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11304"},"modified":"2022-04-01T11:10:35","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T11:10:35","slug":"nunca-foi-necessario-sair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-foi-necessario-sair\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou indo embora porque voc\u00ea nunca esteve l\u00e1 quando eu precisei de voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Precisava que partilhasses as minhas m\u00e1goas. <\/b><\/p>\n

I needed you to listen. To be there when I couldn\u2019t even be there for myself. When I was weak and out of strength. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisava que estivesses ao meu lado. Precisava que me abra\u00e7asses com tanta for\u00e7a que a dor congelasse nesse momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

I needed you… but you were never there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisava que partilhasses a minha felicidade.<\/b><\/p>\n

You were always the first one on my mind when things were going great. When the sun shone down on me and I couldn\u2019t believe how lucky and successful I was, you weren\u2019t there to really share it with me. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were listening but you didn\u2019t hear me. You were more interested in your own happy moments as well as those sad ones. When it was all about you and I had the role of the listener, only then you were at ease.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisava de ti para partilhar os meus sonhos e sonhar alguns novos contigo.  <\/b>Mas nunca estiveste l\u00e1.<\/a> <\/span><\/p>\n

Estavas sempre demasiado ocupado. Nunca tinhas tempo para mim e havia sempre algo que exigia mais o teu tempo do que eu. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was never at the top of your priority list\u2014 that\u2019s if you would find the time at all.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Eu precisava de ti como tu precisavas de mim. <\/b>A diferen\u00e7a \u00e9 que eu estava sempre ao teu lado, a apoiar-te, a ser feliz porque tu eras feliz, mas tu n\u00e3o estavas em lado nenhum quando se tratava de mim. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t blame you for anything I am just letting you go. That\u2019s something that was bound to happen at some point. I just delayed the inevitable.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Acho que me senti sortuda por te ter, apesar de agora saber melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t see clearly that you weren\u2019t investing in me at all while I was giving everything to you. I was always the one who understood everything. I thought my love and my effort will be enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t\u2014I couldn\u2019t love for the both of us. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tentei racionalizar e continuei a dizer a mim pr\u00f3prio que as coisas iriam melhorar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estava sempre \u00e0 espera de dias melhores, que encontrasses tempo para mim. Para que encontrasses tempo para n\u00f3s. Esses dias nunca chegaram. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eles nunca vieram porque tu estavas apenas inventar desculpas<\/a> to cover the fact that you want me just when it suits you. Your friends, your career, you yourself and the part of your life without me were all more important. And I never wanted to put myself first on your priority list\u2014I just wanted to be equally important. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 queria sentir que sou importante. <\/span><\/p>\n

That even though you don\u2019t have time, you would find some for me. Because that\u2019s what people in love do\u2014eles arranjam tempo<\/a>. Fazem tudo para ver algu\u00e9m de quem gostam. Podem n\u00e3o passar tanto tempo quanto gostariam, mas passam tanto quanto t\u00eam. O problema \u00e9 que nunca tiveste esse tempo para mim; nunca estiveste presente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos aqueles pequenos momentos estavam engarrafados dentro de mim. Estavam \u00e0 espera, como uma bomba-rel\u00f3gio, para explodir e eu quase que conseguia ver isso a acontecer. Todos eles se misturaram naquele grande momento em que te liguei e chorei, implorando-te que viesses ver-me, que estivesses l\u00e1 para mim, pelo menos naquela altura em que eu mais precisava de ti. Nessa altura, senti que o meu mundo estava a desabar. <\/span><\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t there and suddenly I realized I was all by myself all this time. I will make it on my own in the future. I realized I never truly had you but you had me.<\/b><\/p>\n

And you know what? The time has come to finally put me first and to find time for my needs. You can find someone else to feed your ego and look good next to you because I’m out. <\/p>\n

The equation is pretty simple, if you loved me, you’d be there for me. And since you weren’t, since you were always absent when I needed you the most, I learned that I’m enough on my own. This purifying revelation saved me. <\/p>\n

I’m enough. I don’t need you. I can make it on my own. <\/p>\n

\"VOU-ME<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I needed you to share my sorrows. I needed you to listen. To be there when I couldn\u2019t even be there for myself. When I was weak and out of strength. I just needed you to stand by my side. I needed you to hug me so tightly that pain would freeze at that moment….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11307,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/warren-wong-318319.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11304\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11307"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}