{"id":113364,"date":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113364"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","slug":"dizer-ao-meu-eu-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dizer-ao-meu-eu-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"13 coisas que o meu eu casado gostaria de poder dizer ao meu eu solteiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tem alguns sonhos ou objectivos por realizar, aqueles que deveria ter alcan\u00e7ado antes de se casar? Tem algum arrependimento relacionado com a sua vida de solteiro?<\/p>\n

Eu tenho. Bem, talvez n\u00e3o arrependida, mas sim com algumas mensagens que eu gostaria de voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo e dizer \u00e0 minha m\u00e3e solteira, para que aquela pobre e ing\u00e9nua rapariga n\u00e3o permitisse que ningu\u00e9m a magoasse ou maltratasse.<\/p>\n

Gostaria tamb\u00e9m de lhe dizer que ela nunca ser\u00e1 mais descuidada do que \u00e9 agora. Se eu soubesse disso na altura, talvez aproveitasse melhor esse tempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s too late for me now. Unfortunately, I can\u2019t travel back to the past and change it, but maybe this can help you.<\/p>\n

Sim, tu, uma rapariga solteira linda e fant\u00e1stica que sonha em usar um vestido branco muito em breve.<\/p>\n

Well, stop dreaming. You\u2019re only wasting your time. Stand up and enjoy your vida de solteiro<\/a>. H\u00e1 tantas coisas que deves fazer antes de te casares.<\/p>\n

Embrace your single life and don’t waste a second of it because time flies so fast. If you don\u2019t use that precious time well, you\u2019ll definitely regret it one day.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You will never be perfect and that’s perfectly okay<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I was always trying to be the best at everything, so I could find someone who\u2019d also be the best. I was trying to find the perfect man.<\/p>\n

Bem, isso foi um grande erro.<\/p>\n

There is no perfect person. You can neither find one nor can you become one, and that\u2019s the truth. This delusion made me suffer a lot and miss many good people.<\/p>\n

Desfrute de todos os momentos da sua vida de solteiro<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Tick tock, tick tock, tick tock… O rel\u00f3gio n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de bater e o tempo passa demasiado depressa<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 mesmo uma bala veloz<\/em>. Quando damos por isso, estamos casados, temos filhos e, sem mais nem menos, tudo muda num segundo.<\/p>\n

Of course, this is also a beautiful period of life, but it is definitely more challenging. Your single life is much more careless and that’s why you should embrace, use and enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\n

Amar a si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t ever love another human being more than you love yourself. That’s how you give them the power to control you and your life.<\/p>\n

Also, if you love yourself, you\u2019ll be aware of your self-worth, too, and you\u2019ll never allow others to treat you any less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a> \u00e9 muito mais importante do que pensas. Qualquer pessoa pode entrar e sair da sua vida, mas voc\u00ea \u00e9 a \u00fanica constante na sua vida, a \u00fanica que esteve e estar\u00e1 presente at\u00e9 ao fim.<\/p>\n

Cuidar da sua sa\u00fade deve ser sempre a sua prioridade<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s negligenciamos um pouco a sa\u00fade na nossa juventude. Estamos sempre com pressa, perseguindo os nossos sonhos e objectivos para o futuro, e damos prioridade a outras coisas em detrimento da nossa sa\u00fade.<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que a melhor coisa que podemos fazer pelo nosso futuro \u00e9 dar sempre prioridade aos cuidados com a nossa sa\u00fade, tanto mental como f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

Apreciem sempre tudo o que t\u00eam<\/h2>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

It’s good to always strive for more in life, but you must also cherish and estar grato por<\/a> tudo o que tens em cada momento.<\/p>\n

Apreciar o seu tempo a s\u00f3s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In our youth, we don’t like to be alone often because we feel too lonely in those moments. This is only because we aren\u2019t aware of the importance of passar tempo sozinho<\/a> ocasionalmente.<\/p>\n

Once you marry, especially when you have kids, you won’t have a lot of time for yourself and you’ll regret not enjoying that time when you were single. You’ll see, then you’ll be thankful for every minute of your ‘alone time’.<\/p>\n

Manter a mente aberta<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

You’re so afraid to step out of your comfort zone from time to time. You don’t know what you are missing. Go, grab your life by the horns and explore it.<\/p>\n

Ainda h\u00e1 muitas coisas, novas experi\u00eancias e aventuras \u00e0 tua espera.<\/p>\n

Don’t be cheap with yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Buy those beautiful shoes you were looking at for so long, but you think they’re a little bit expensive. Stop overthinking it. Click that ‘buy’ button.<\/p>\n

Treat yourself as much as you can. You can be cheap on so many other things, but don’t ever be cheap on yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once you marry and have kids, you’ll have many other obligations and then you’ll have to think hard before you buy something for yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should use your single life to treat yourself more often.<\/p>\n

Defender os seus princ\u00edpios<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, no matter who tells you you’re wrong, you should stand by your beliefs and principles.<\/p>\n

Never allow your partner to affect your opinion too much or make you change it. By doing so, you’re giving them the power to control you, and by giving them that power, you’re slowly losing your identity in the relationship.<\/p>\n

Confiar mais frequentemente na sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e3os<\/p>\n

There is something with women and their intuition and it’s almost never wrong. That’s why you should believe it more often.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t silence that inner voice every time it\u2019s telling you something about your partner.<\/p>\n

You can’t change a person by loving them harder<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que, por muito que se tente ou por muito que se ame algu\u00e9m, nunca se conseguir\u00e1 mudar essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

A person can change only if they want to. Your love can be their motive, but that’s it. And, don’t even think about changing your partner because it would be a huge waste of your time.<\/p>\n

Tudo \u00e9 tempor\u00e1rio na vida, exceto o amor verdadeiro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Your life will have ups and downs, and it\u2019s the same with your relationship. The important thing is that you don’t give up after just one fight.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa quantas vezes ca\u00edmos, temos de encontrar uma forma de nos levantarmos e continuarmos a lutar. A felicidade e a dor s\u00e3o ambas tempor\u00e1rias, tal como tudo o resto nas nossas vidas, tudo exceto amor verdadeiro<\/a> de facto.<\/p>\n

Viajar, viajar, viajar<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sempre que tiveres uma boa oportunidade de viajar para algum lado e visitar um novo local, aproveita-a. Conhe\u00e7a novas pessoas, visite novos s\u00edtios e conhe\u00e7a culturas diferentes.<\/p>\n

You can’t be sure if you’ll be able to travel with your spouse or if they\u2019ll like it, so use this chance before you have to beg someone to go with you, and travel as much as you can because that’s true wealth.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you have any unfulfilled dreams or goals, the ones you should have achieved before you got married? Do you have any regrets related to your single life? I do. Well, maybe not regrets, more like a few messages I would gladly go back in time and tell my single self, so that poor, naive…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":113386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/13-Things-My-Married-Self-Wishes-I-Could-Tell-My-Single-Self-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}