{"id":113388,"date":"2020-11-16T00:52:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T00:52:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113388"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:13","slug":"manter-se-real-manter-se-leal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/manter-se-real-manter-se-leal\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja real, seja leal ou fique longe de mim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you ever feel like you\u2019ve just had enough of it all? Like, you’re sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth?<\/p>\n

Alguma vez come\u00e7aste a pensar que devias desistir do amor? Como se ele n\u00e3o fosse realmente destinado a ti?<\/p>\n

I know that giving up on love is wrong because deep down, I’m sure that we all have a soulmate, that one person who is meant for us and with whom we’ll spend the rest of our lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas mesmo assim, honestamente, depois de a minha \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o ter terminado, estava a um passo de me tornar numa louca dos gatos e de ficar assim para o resto da minha vida.<\/em><\/p>\n

What’s the point of cheating?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t get it. What’s the point of playing with someone’s heart? How can someone betray the person they swear they honestly love?<\/p>\n

When will some people learn that a human heart and emotions aren’t their toys? You can’t play with it and then throw it away when you get bored or find a new ‘toy’ for yourself.<\/p>\n

Procurar conforto no karma<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

The thing that comforts me is that those people don’t believe in karma<\/a>. Mas eu sei. E sei que um dia lhes vai bater \u00e0 porta.<\/p>\n

It’ll catch them off guard and make them pay for hurting another human being and breaking their heart. O seu tempo pode ser lento, mas o karma ser\u00e1 servido um dia, porque o karma vence sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

My soul is full of bruises, and my heart is full of marks. They were both hurt so many times, and I think they’ll never be able to heal completely.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for change<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why I have decided to change some things. This is where I’m putting my foot down. It’s enough. I’ve had enough of the mistreatment and half-hearted love. It needs to stop right here, right now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m not saying it all was my fault. Maybe some people will judge me and say how I was guilty of letting my heart get broken again and again for so many years or how it’s my fault for allowing others to treat me poorly.<\/p>\n

Sinceramente, eu s\u00f3 queria ser amada. Queria sentir-me verdadeira, incondicional<\/a>, eternal, forever kind of love that I was giving to others. If that’s a sin, a crime, or a mistake, then I am guilty, and I’m admitting to my crime.<\/p>\n

To the man I will love next…<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Neste momento, odeio-me um pouco por permitir que os homens me fa\u00e7am sentir insegura.<\/p>\n

Now, when I’m completely aware of how much I am worth, I will never allow another man to treat me any less than I deserve ever again.<\/p>\n

I won’t accept being treated as basic anymore. From now on, a man who’ll want to date me will have to try hard to win over my heart.<\/p>\n

I will never again commit my time or give my honest and pure feelings to a man who isn’t ready to reciprocate them the way he should.<\/p>\n

Nunca mais perdoar<\/a> ser tra\u00edda ou enganada. Nunca mais darei a um homem mais do que uma oportunidade, porque acredito verdadeiramente que se amamos honestamente uma pessoa, nunca a magoaremos.<\/p>\n

I will never again settle for half-hearted love. There are no halves when it comes to real love. It’s either to the fullest or not at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo homem com quem eu sair ter\u00e1 de me colocar no topo de todas as suas listas, mas especialmente na sua lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n

He’ll have to prove his feelings, but most of all, he’ll have to prove to me that love isn’t complicated.<\/p>\n

And, the only way he’ll be able to do that is simply by truly and deeply loving me with his entire being.<\/p>\n

I know that I don’t ask for too much. I just want to be loved, truly loved without any games or betrayals. Unfortunately, I see that’s too difficult to find in this fake world today.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve decided that I won’t tolerate or entertain any more nonsense. It’s definitely time to start appreciating myself more.<\/p>\n

It’s high time to stop allowing men who don’t deserve me to waste my precious time.<\/p>\n

I’m tired of forgiving and sick of giving second chances. From now on, it is going to be like this: Sejam verdadeiros, leais, ou afastem-se de mim!<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you ever feel like you\u2019ve just had enough of it all? Like, you’re sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth? Do you ever start thinking like you should give up on love? Like it is really not meant…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":113404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Stay-Real-Stay-Loyal-Or-Stay-Away-From-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113388\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113404"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}