{"id":113572,"date":"2020-11-18T10:30:10","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T10:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113572"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:00:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:00:31","slug":"so-quero-ser-amada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/so-quero-ser-amada\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu s\u00f3 quero ser amado: 11 raz\u00f5es surpreendentes para desejar o amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu s\u00f3 quero ser amado<\/em>. At first glance, there’s nothing unusual about this notion. But when you take a second look, a lot can be uncovered.<\/p>\n

Nem toda a gente tem a oportunidade de viver um conto de fadas vida amorosa<\/a>. Para alguns, o amor rom\u00e2ntico deixa muito a desejar. E este artigo \u00e9 para todos aqueles que t\u00eam dificuldade em encontrar aquela pessoa com quem passar a sua vida para sempre.<\/p>\n

The first thing I want you to know is that there’s nothing wrong with being desperate for love. At the end of the day, isn’t that the entire purpose of our existence?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter what anyone tells you, don’t beat yourself up for being a little bit lost. Just because you find yourself thinking: Eu s\u00f3 quero ser amado<\/em> quite often, doesn’t mean you’ll never find it.<\/p>\n

At this point, you’re probably done wasting time on social media, dating sites, scrolling through lovey-dovey Tumblr memes, and listening to podcasts that just won’t shut up about encontrar a pessoa certa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It seems like all your close friends and family members have their love lives figured out. But let me tell you something…<\/p>\n

There are lots of terrible things in this world, but not having a loved one isn’t one of them.<\/strong> Trata-se apenas de um contratempo tempor\u00e1rio que pode ser facilmente corrigido.<\/p>\n

There are numerous possible reasons why you’re feeling particularly impatient for that all-encompassing love right now.<\/p>\n

Below, I\u2019ll reveal all about them and how you can open your heart to finding the kind of love you deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isto que tens tanta vontade de amar<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 se perguntou porque \u00e9 que \u00e0s vezes se sente t\u00e3o ansioso e desesperado por amor e afeto? As raz\u00f5es podem surpreend\u00ea-lo.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’ve set the bar way too high<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t beat yourself up about this. We all expect a lot from love, even though it doesn’t always work out the way we envisage it.<\/p>\n

What’s important to take away from this is the following: By having your bar set so high, you chase away all the potential love interests that might be good for you.<\/p>\n

You’re not going to find a person who checks all your boxes.<\/strong> That’s just not real life.<\/strong> Mas \u00e9 poss\u00edvel encontrar algu\u00e9m que se esfor\u00e7a todos os dias, apesar de ter defeitos (tal como todos n\u00f3s).<\/p>\n

You’re feeling super anxious and desperate for love right now because you haven’t given yourself a chance to experience it. Lower the bar (just a little bit) and see what’s out there.<\/p>\n

Estar solteiro durante um minuto fez com que n\u00e3o se sentisse amado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o ter tido um parceiro durante algum tempo foi arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental<\/a>. It has made you feel as if there’s something about you that screams ‘unlovable.\u2019<\/p>\n

Tira esta ideia da cabe\u00e7a. A quantidade de tempo que passa solteiro ou tomado n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o facto de n\u00e3o ser am\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, things just pan out that way. But you can’t let this affect your view of yourself. You’re most probably a great person with a stroke of bad luck. That’s all.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 9 estere\u00f3tipos sobre mulheres solteiras que precisam de parar imediatamente<\/a><\/p>\n

Passa tempo com pessoas que n\u00e3o o amam<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estar rodeado de narcisismo pode fazer-nos sentir em baixo. J\u00e1 alguma vez parou e olhou \u00e0 sua volta?<\/p>\n

As pessoas que nos rodeiam afectam-nos mais do que imaginamos. N\u00e3o deixes que pessoas narcisistas e t\u00f3xicas se aproximem de ti e encham a tua cabe\u00e7a com a sua l\u00f3gica distorcida.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 deves passar tempo com pessoas que te apreciam, encorajam e amam tal como \u00e9s. As restantes merecem ser despedidas.<\/p>\n

Ver filmes rom\u00e2nticos deu-lhe expectativas irrealistas<\/h2>\n

\"foco<\/p>\n

Ever since you were a little girl, you’ve been dreaming about that seemingly perfect movie love. But movies are not real life.<\/p>\n

While it’s understandable that a young girl would idealize and romanticize love, it’s time to face reality as a grown-up.<\/p>\n

You’re not going to find your Prince Charming, who’ll knock you off your feet and take you to his kingdom where you’ll live happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

Os filmes s\u00e3o um \u00f3timo escape da vida real, n\u00e3o<\/em> um substituto para um.<\/strong> Apanhar-se a pensar desesperadamente: Eu s\u00f3 quero ser amado<\/em> pode ter algo a ver com esta ilus\u00e3o auto-infligida.<\/p>\n

You’re jealous of the “perfect” social media couples<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The first time you see the #couplegoals hashtag (and others like this trend), naturally, you’re going to start feeling jealous.<\/p>\n

But with time, hopefully, you’ll understand that redes sociais<\/a> is just that. It’s not anyone’s reality. Sure, those couples might be genuinely happy at that moment in time.<\/p>\n

Mas acha, sinceramente, que as coisas s\u00e3o sempre perfeitas? Longe disso. As pessoas s\u00f3 publicam o que querem que se veja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t shake the feeling of desperation and hopelessness<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I get it. There were times when I was single for a bit where I’d think to myself: I just want to use your love tonight…<\/em><\/p>\n

And when I’d realize that it’s not going to happen, I’d just fall into a bottomless pit of hopelessness and desperation. While it can be discouraging at times, it’s important to know how to pick yourself up.<\/p>\n

Encorajo-vos a ler diariamente palavras de for\u00e7a, se necess\u00e1rio. Falem com algu\u00e9m que saiba o vosso valor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Boy George gets you too (If you’re not familiar, play his bop \u2018I just wanna be loved,\u2019 ASAP). All joking aside, you’re not going to feel like this forever. Remind yourself of this.<\/p>\n

Uma rutura recente fez com que questionasse a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Your ex has filled your mind with self-doubt. That’s what bad break-ups can do to a person. I’ve been there myself.<\/p>\n

Para se ajudar a esquecer, vai \u00e0s compras na Amazon e participa nos seus brindes, como se os retalhistas pudessem ajudar de alguma forma (j\u00e1 l\u00e1 estive, j\u00e1 fiz isso).<\/p>\n

But an awesome purchase won’t help you get your self-esteem back. Do you know what will? Realizing that this uma pessoa<\/em> N\u00c3O tem o direito de o estragar desta maneira.<\/p>\n

You’re so much more than what your ex has to say about you. There’s a reason why they’re no longer in your life.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que fazer quando se est\u00e1 a recuperar de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o: Regra dos 90 dias sem contacto<\/a><\/p>\n

Todos \u00e0 sua volta est\u00e3o demasiado ocupados com as suas pr\u00f3prias vidas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parece que os seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos est\u00e3o todos a fazer o que gostam e os seus familiares t\u00eam as suas pr\u00f3prias coisas.<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m disso, a maior parte delas est\u00e3o completamente situadas nas suas vidas amorosas. Naturalmente, isto pode fazer com que se sinta sozinho e alienado.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing like watching your loved ones living their lives to the max, and you\u2019re standing on the sidelines. But to get where they are now, they probably experienced some bad stuff too, right?<\/p>\n

Who knows, maybe you’re at a crossroads right now too. You just have to stick it out a bit longer to get through this mess.<\/p>\n

You don’t know how to love yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando foi a \u00faltima vez que fez algo de bom para si pr\u00f3prio? Melhor ainda, o que pode<\/em> you do for you that’ll make you appreciate yourself more?<\/p>\n

The love in your life starts with loving yourself. You cannot be self-deprecating and then wonder why you’re n\u00e3o amado<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seja o primeiro a oferecer uma abund\u00e2ncia de amor a si pr\u00f3prio. Fa\u00e7a as coisas que o fazem feliz. Perceba a incr\u00edvel import\u00e2ncia do amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Once you do, I promise, what’s ahead will no longer seem so gloomy and dark.<\/p>\n

Sente falta de afeto f\u00edsico<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 algo com que toda a gente se pode identificar. H\u00e1 imensas vantagens em estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n

Algumas das mais importantes s\u00e3o os mimos, beijos e abra\u00e7os constantes. Estar no sof\u00e1 a ver um filme enquanto o seu parceiro segura a sua m\u00e3o ou acaricia o seu cabelo.<\/p>\n

Andar na rua e sentir a nossa m\u00e3o firmemente agarrada \u00e0 deles. Pequenas coisas como essas fazem a vida parecer muito melhor.<\/p>\n

If you’ve been struggling with thoughts like I just querem ser amados<\/em> ultimamente, pode ser por isso. No final do dia, o afeto f\u00edsico liberta hormonas de bem-estar. Como \u00e9 que n\u00e3o sentimos falta disso?<\/p>\n

Tem muito amor para dar e nenhum lugar para o concentrar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 verdade que este \u00e9 um dos piores sentimentos que existem. Temos tanto amor para dar, mas n\u00e3o temos ningu\u00e9m a quem o dar.<\/p>\n

After having been through so many trials and tribulations and working hard at learning to love yourself, you’re left all alone. But don’t let this discourage you.<\/p>\n

O amor surge nos momentos mais inesperados. Hoje, pode estar a sentir-se em baixo e sem amor, mas amanh\u00e3 as coisas podem melhorar.<\/strong> And that’s the beauty of life.<\/p>\n

You never really know what it has in store for you. To think that it’s always going to be like this is foolish. Don’t lose faith in yourself and all the love you have to give.<\/p>\n

I don’t know when, but one day, this is all going to be but a memory that will fizzle out as you’re drinking your morning coffee with the love of your life.<\/p>\n

5 dicas \u00fateis para abrir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t wave a magic wand and have the love of your life appear on your doorstep. But you can make a continuous effort that will give you the necessary tools for finding them.<\/em><\/p>\n

Permita-se ser vulner\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As coisas (n\u00e3o t\u00e3o) pequenas como ser vulner\u00e1vel podem ajud\u00e1-lo a criar la\u00e7os mais profundos com os seus entes queridos (e potenciais futuros amantes).<\/p>\n

Let your vulnerabilities out in the open. This is the only way to attract someone and get them to like you. Why? Because it\u2019s the only way they can meet the real you.<\/p>\n

People go through an array of emotions throughout their lives. You cannot close yourself off from everyone and wonder why you’re so alone.<\/p>\n

Show them you’re ready to open up. Vulnerability and transparency are attractive. Putting up walls isn’t.<\/p>\n

Learn to be happy on your own before finding a partner who’ll add to it<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that if you’re not happy alone, you’re not going to be happy with someone else.<\/p>\n

As I’ve already mentioned, love comes from within. Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio (com defeitos e tudo) e aprende a encontrar a felicidade na tua solteirice. <\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantas vantagens em n\u00e3o estar preso a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

While you’re on the lookout, find yourself in the process. What makes you smile from ear to ear? What do you like to do when you don’t have to consider your partner’s needs?<\/p>\n

Do ALL the stuff you normally wouldn’t get to do and see that being on your own is not the end of the world. When you find your happy place alone, then you’re ready to find your bae who’ll only add to it.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Desafio do amor-pr\u00f3prio de 30 dias: Torne-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n

Change your beliefs about what love is “supposed to be”<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixem de lado todas as vossas no\u00e7\u00f5es idealizadas do que \u00e9 o amor deve<\/em> be, and understand what it really is: compromise, sacrifice, moodiness, and picking up your partner’s slack when they’re at 20%.<\/p>\n

Love is never going to be roses and butterflies 24\/7, and as long as you keep expecting it to be, you’ll always remain utterly disappointed.<\/p>\n

There will be happy days, sad days, confusing days, and moments when you’ll want to strangle them (not really, though).<\/p>\n

That’s love in all its messy glory;<\/strong> o bom, o mau e o feio de tudo.<\/p>\n

PARE de deixar que os outros ditem o que sente por si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Or should I be more precise\u2013stop letting a disgruntled ex make you think you’re not enough. You’ve broken up for a reason.<\/p>\n

It’s foolish to keep letting someone from your past affect you so badly. Let go of them. They’re no longer a part of your life.<\/p>\n

The only thing that matters is how you see yourself, as well as those who know you best. Everyone else doesn’t get to have a say.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que eles poderiam? They don’t know you well enough for their opinion to matter.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Surround yourself with a small circle of people who uplift you, and watch your life ‘magically’ change for the better.<\/p>\n

Don’t model your love life after others’ (everyone has their struggles)<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Pare de olhar para as publica\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais e de pensar que as coisas s\u00e3o t\u00e3o perfeitas e perfeitas como parecem.<\/p>\n

Nada \u00e9 o que parece \u00e0 superf\u00edcie. O amor \u00e9 mais do que apenas uma foto de um casal feliz e uma hashtag quente.<\/p>\n

Love is everything that the post doesn’t say. Don’t let a s\u00edndrome da relva mais verde<\/a> arruinam-no por amor. As pessoas s\u00e3o nunca<\/em> v\u00e3o publicar sobre as suas lutas. Lembrem-se disso.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

We all have ugly stuff we deal with. Just because it’s not out in the open doesn’t mean it’s not real. Chances are, those happy couples go through the same stuff you do.<\/p>\n

The only difference? They never let it show. But hey, now that you know, hopefully, you’ll never let appearances fool you again.<\/p>\n

15<\/strong> Eu S\u00f3 Quero Ser Amado Cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u201cTo be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow\u2013this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.\u201d\u2015Elizabeth Gilbert<\/p>\n

2. \u201cMy great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return.\u201d\u2015Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

3. \u201cThere’s nothing stupid about wanting to be loved. Believe me.\u201d\u2015Nina LaCour<\/p>\n

4. \u201cHe’s not your Prince Charming if he doesn’t make sure you know that you’re his princess.\u201d\u2015Demi Lovato<\/p>\n

5. \u201cSeize the moments of happiness, love, and be loved! That is the only reality in the world, all else is folly. It is the one thing we are interested in here.\u201d\u2015Leo Tolstoy<\/p>\n

6. \u201cThe supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves\u2014say rather, loved despite ourselves.\u201d\u2015Victor Hugo<\/p>\n

7. \u201cTo be deeply loved means a willingness to cut yourself wide open, exposing your vulnerabilities…hopes, hurts, fears and flaws. Hiding behind the highlight reel of who you are, is the real you, and that person is just as worthy of love. There is nothing more terrifying or fulfilling than complete love. It\u2019s worth the risk…Reach for it.\u201d\u2015Jaeda DeWalt<\/p>\n

8. \u201cWhat a grand thing, to be loved! What a grander thing still, to love!\u201d\u2015Victor Hugo<\/p>\n

9. \u201cOnce someone loves you that much, loves you more than you deserve, you can\u2019t go back to being loved the normal way.\u201d\u2015Tiffany Reisz<\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

10. \u201cWhen you are loved, you can do anything in creation. When you are loved, there’s no need at all to understand what’s happening, because everything happens within you.\u201d\u2015Paulo Coelho<\/p>\n

11. \u201cTo be loved and to love takes courage. To be fully seen is incredibly rare and breathtaking. We lower our masks and see a celestial inner being. It is our full self\u2015the supernova as well as the black holes. Our fears and doubts. Our anger and joy…This is love.\u201d\u2015Carolyn Riker<\/p>\n

12. \u201cUltimately, everything we do is merely in hopes of being loved or spreading it.\u201d\u2015Nalini Dhiman<\/p>\n

13. \u201cLoving is giving, and being loved is receiving. Loving should not depend on being loved, but to all intents and purposes, your commitment in a relationship is grossly expressed by how much of yourself you share with your partner.\u201d\u2015Olaotan Fawehinmi<\/p>\n

14. \u201cBehind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are.\u201d\u2015Shannon L. Alder<\/p>\n

15. \u201cHope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.\u201d\u2015Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Esperando pelo amor - Cita\u00e7\u00f5es: 130 prov\u00e9rbios que mostram que vale a pena esperar pelo amor<\/a><\/p>\n

No final do dia, s\u00f3 quero ser amado<\/a> tamb\u00e9m. Todos n\u00f3s sentimos. Mas nunca deve deixar que este sentimento comprometa a sua felicidade.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hopefully, you’ve pinpointed the reasons for feeling so unloved at the moment. When you learn to encontrar a verdadeira felicidade<\/a> in yourself, you’ll be closer to finding it elsewhere.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nas palavras de Paul Pearsall: \u201cStop looking for love and start showing it.\u201c<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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