{"id":113616,"date":"2020-11-18T11:05:55","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T11:05:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113616"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:31:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:31:42","slug":"ser-a-outra-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-a-outra-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser a outra mulher ensinou-me li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas que mudaram a minha vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez foi a outra mulher? Ou, pelo menos, j\u00e1 esteve apaixonada por um homem que estava apaixonado por outra pessoa ou que estava comprometido?<\/em><\/p>\n

Yes? Then you’ll get me. Other people who haven\u2019t been through it will never be able to sympathize with us, and there will always be judgemental looks.<\/p>\n

It’s okay. In the beginning, it was so difficult for me to go outside and to confront people, but I learned how to live with it. I still get those awkward judgemental looks, but the thing is that I don’t care anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Was it a mistake? Did I hurt innocent people who didn’t deserve it?<\/em><\/p>\n

Sim, e infelizmente, sim de novo. It was the biggest mistake of my life. But still, I’m so thankful to God for that temptation because later, it turned out to be the most valuable lesson of my life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Magoei outros, mas a pessoa que mais magoei fui eu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Felizmente, reuni for\u00e7as para me perdoar e compreendi algumas das li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida mais valiosas que esta experi\u00eancia me ensinou e, com a sua ajuda, consegui finalmente seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Os erros tamb\u00e9m fazem parte da vida<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, I made a mistake. So what? We’re all human, and we all make them. The important thing is what we learn from that erro<\/a> e se alguma vez voltarmos a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Aprendi a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o. Nunca mais o farei, porque sei como foi doloroso, quantas pessoas magoei e as consequ\u00eancias que me deixaram.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, I’ll never do it again because I know I’m so much better than that.<\/p>\n

Should I let that one mistake ruin my entire life? No, I shouldn’t, and I couldn’t accept that. I regret it, and only I know how much I suffered because of it.<\/p>\n

I repented sincerely to God, hoping He’ll forgive me too, and I left it all behind. I accepted it as a mistake and moved on with my life.<\/p>\n

Tenho de me perdoar por amar o homem errado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It wasn’t my fault that I didn’t know he was tomadas<\/a> quando nos conhecemos. Apaixonei-me sinceramente por aquele homem e s\u00f3 queria ser amada da mesma forma.<\/p>\n

Inicialmente, culpei-me a mim pr\u00f3pria, mas mais tarde percebi que tinha de me perdoar para seguir em frente. Para me curar, tinha de perdoar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o por ter amado o homem errado, por ter amado algu\u00e9m que o partiu num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Para a mulher que leu a mensagem que enviei ao seu marido<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

All men aren’t the same<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Even after this awful experience, I know that all men aren’t the same. To be honest, in the beginning, I didn’t even think that way.<\/p>\n

I locked my heart and promised myself that I\u2019d never again allow anyone to find the key to it.<\/strong> Mas agora apercebo-me que seria injusto.<\/p>\n

I deserve a man who’ll love me honestly. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 novamente aberto e \u00e0 espera da pessoa certa.<\/em><\/p>\n

I’ll never trust a man’s words again because their actions are what really counts<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He was the one that played with us both. In the beginning, I didn’t even know that there was another woman in his life. He wanted to make me fall in love with him before I found out, and he managed to do that.<\/p>\n

Ele sabia que seria mais dif\u00edcil para mim deix\u00e1-lo. Era apenas um dos seus jogos doentios. Quando descobri que Eu era a outra mulher<\/a>, he swore that he’d leave her and that I was the only woman he loved.<\/p>\n

He used my honest emotions to manipulate me. I did make a mistake for believing in his false promises, but I swore to myself that I\u2019d never again believe in a man’s palavras <\/a>if they aren’t backed up with his actions.<\/p>\n

I’ll never again allow other people’s opinions to bother me<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As pessoas que sabiam de tudo o que acontecia culpavam apenas a mim. Fechei-me completamente para o resto do mundo.<\/p>\n

I didn’t have the strength to go outside and confront all the judgemental looks that followed me everywhere I went.<\/p>\n

Isso afectou muito a minha autoestima. Sentia-me um completo fracasso. Tive tantos pensamentos negros e pensei que nunca mais seria feliz.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, I overcame it all. My biggest mistake was allowing other people’s opinions of me to control my life. That’s something I’ll never allow again, for sure.<\/p>\n

Perdoo as pessoas que me magoaram, mas s\u00f3 para ter a paz que mere\u00e7o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I perdoar<\/a> him and all the other people who hurt me. I know they don’t deserve it, but I also know that I would never be able to leave it all behind until I forgave them.<\/p>\n

Forgiving them is my closure to everything. It’s how I’m leaving this story and this awful experience in the past.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O karma est\u00e1 do meu lado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Many people asked me if I plan to take revenge on him. No, I don’t want that. Trust me, that is the last thing I would do right now.<\/p>\n

Acredito em karma<\/a>, and I’m letting it do its job. I’m sure it will do a better job than I could. The last message I sent to that man was, ‘What goes around comes around…’ and I truly believe that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I deserve to be someone’s only choice<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Even though this was one of the hardest and most painful experiences of my life, I’m not letting it destroy my faith in true love.<\/p>\n

I’m still convinced that there is a right man for me somewhere out there, and I still believe that our paths will cross one day.<\/p>\n

I know I deserve it. I deserve someone who’ll show me what true love looks like. I don’t only deserve to be someone’s first choice, I deserve to be their one and only choice, and I won’t stop until I find a man like that.<\/p>\n

Sei que ele existe e que est\u00e1 \u00e0 minha espera.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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