{"id":113642,"date":"2020-11-18T11:09:25","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T11:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113642"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:25:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:25:53","slug":"traido-por-aquele-que-jurou-que-nunca-o-faria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/traido-por-aquele-que-jurou-que-nunca-o-faria\/","title":{"rendered":"Lembre-se disto se foi tra\u00eddo por quem jurou que nunca o faria"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez esteve tra\u00eddo<\/a> por algu\u00e9m que amava de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o? Alguma vez foi magoado por uma pessoa que prometeu e jurou nunca o trair?<\/p>\n

Eu sei, \u00e9 uma treta ser tra\u00eddo<\/a> by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever.<\/p>\n

It bruises your soul, wounds your heart… In a way, it leaves some marks that change you completely and forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixa-nos com medo de que a mesma coisa possa voltar a acontecer, que outras pessoas nos magoem da mesma forma.<\/p>\n

Abala a nossa f\u00e9 nas pessoas e faz-nos pensar em como nunca mais devemos permitir que algu\u00e9m se aproxime demasiado de n\u00f3s.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, if a person you love the most betrays you, you must be stronger than that and rise above it. The only way you’ll succeed is if you remember these following things.<\/p>\n

It’s never your fault<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That person will probably try to manipulate you into thinking how it was all your mistake, but you must remember that it’s not. It can’t be your mistake.<\/p>\n

Confiaste em algu\u00e9m que amavas de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que te fez pensar que nunca faria nada que te pudesse magoar.<\/p>\n

That person broke their own words and that’s their mistake for which they’ll repent of later, trust me.<\/p>\n

Accept that some people aren’t who they seem to be…<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There are so many great, Oscar-worthy actors amongst us. Many people aren’t what they seem and we have to be careful all the time.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you trust someone, don’t forget that there is always a risk of being hurt by that person. Sometimes, you can even spend years with a person and find out that they aren’t what they seem like at all.<\/p>\n

… Fortunately, those kinds of people aren’t meant to stay in your life<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um sinal de Deus de que o tipo de pessoas que nos magoam dessa forma nunca foi feito para ficar na nossa vida para sempre.<\/p>\n

Essa pessoa estava l\u00e1 como um transeunte aleat\u00f3rio que estava destinado a entrar na sua vida, dar-lhe uma li\u00e7\u00e3o e deix\u00e1-la para sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop seeking revenge, that won’t help you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Neste momento, pode estar a conspirar um ato de vingan\u00e7a<\/a>. Pensamos em como isso nos far\u00e1 sentir melhor e seguimos em frente mais depressa.<\/p>\n

I hate to break it down for you, but seeking vengeance won’t help you. It’ll only deepen your pain and you’ll probably regret doing it later.<\/p>\n

You aren’t like that person who hurt you. You have a pure heart unlike them and that is preventing you from hurting them.<\/p>\n

Transforme-o numa li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa e aprenda algo com ele<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Look at it all as a huge lesson. Try to see that person as God’s way of making you learn that you mustn’t trust people easily.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a maneira de Ele te mostrar que, apesar de nunca seres capaz de magoar algu\u00e9m intencionalmente, h\u00e1 outras pessoas que o fariam.<\/p>\n

It’s just His way of saying that person isn’t good for you and making you realize that you need to remove that person from your life once and for all.<\/p>\n

Don’t lose faith in good people<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust anyone else ever again. That would be a huge mistake because there are still so many good and honorable people.<\/p>\n

There are still people who deserve to be trusted completely, people with good and kind hearts who could never hurt another human being. People like you…<\/p>\n

Believe in yourself; you’re strong, you’ll heal<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You might be thinking right now how you’ll never be able to overcome this. I know it’s so difficult to understand.<\/p>\n

Sei como \u00e9 dif\u00edcil fazer com que o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o compreenda que a pessoa que o partiu era, na verdade, aquela por quem ele batia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, with time and with faith in yourself, you’ll be able to move on. You’ll never be able to fully heal, but that’s okay because it’ll serve you as a great reminder for the future.<\/p>\n

Despeja o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao teu melhor amigo<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t go through it alone. Find a shoulder to cry on because there will be a lot of tears for sure. And, there should be because I know how much it hurts.<\/p>\n

Fale com o seu melhor amigo<\/a> or a person you trust the most. That will be the best healing therapy. There are still so many people who deserve to be in your life, and they’ll show you that you aren’t alone in all of this.<\/p>\n

Eles nunca permitir\u00e3o que passe por isso sozinho.<\/p>\n

Perdoar para esquecer<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This may not seem as simple as it sounds, but in fact, it is. You’ll never be able to forget and leave it all behind until you perdoar<\/a> essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

Remember, you aren’t doing it because of them, you’re doing it to get the closure you long for. You’re doing it to close that chapter and to finally move on with a new, so much better chapter of your life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever been betrayed by someone you loved with your whole heart? Were you ever hurt by a person who promised and swore never to betray you? I know, it sucks being betrayed by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever. It bruises…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":113653,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Remember-This-If-Youve-Been-Betrayed-By-The-One-Who-Swore-They-Never-Would-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113642"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113642\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}