{"id":113967,"date":"2020-11-19T12:22:14","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T12:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113967"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:25:55","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:25:55","slug":"quando-e-que-e-demasiado-cedo-para-mudar-de-casa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-e-que-e-demasiado-cedo-para-mudar-de-casa\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 demasiado cedo para viverem juntos? 15 coisas a considerar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hooray, are you ready for another huge milestone in your relationship? But, wait… how soon is too soon to move in together?<\/p>\n

Ir viver com a pessoa amada \u00e9 um grande passo em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas saber quando \u00e9 a altura certa para o fazer pode ser uma decis\u00e3o dif\u00edcil de tomar.<\/p>\n

Se se mudar demasiado cedo, arrisca-se a arruinar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes mesmo de ela come\u00e7ar oficialmente.<\/p>\n

Deciding to move in together depends on so many factors from finances to the way you’re dealing (or not dealing) with relationship problems.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every couple’s relationship is unique and develops at a different pace, so learning how soon is too soon to move in together is an individual thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Usually, couples agree to move in together after they’ve known each other for six months or a year.<\/p>\n

A coabita\u00e7\u00e3o oferece muitas vantagens, como a divis\u00e3o das tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, a partilha das finan\u00e7as, a possibilidade de abra\u00e7ar a pessoa amada sempre que quiser e muitas outras.<\/p>\n

Now, it wouldn’t be realistic of me if I only focused on the pros of cohabiting, so I’ll be honest with you: Living with your significant other can (at times) be a real nightmare.<\/p>\n

BUT, it’s nothing that can’t be fixed with an open and honest conversation.<\/p>\n

Veja, living together is all about compromising, respecting each other’s differences, supporting one another, and being willing to work on improving yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you think you and your partner are ready for all that? Let’s find out together!<\/p>\n

5 Warning Signs It’s Too Soon To Move In Together<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You’re using it as a way to test the strength of your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Do you feel deep down in your heart that moving in with him or her might be a bad decision because it’s too soon, but you’re still determined to do it?<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o pela qual querem viver juntos \u00e9 o desejo de testar a for\u00e7a da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

If the person you’re in love with is giving you mixed signals or if you have some underlying issues in your relationship, it’s natural for you to start suspecting that things aren’t as they seem or as they should be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Still, this doesn’t mean that you should force yourself to move in with someone just for the sake of testing your relationship.<\/p>\n

Se o fizer, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ambos acabem por ficar desiludidos quando come\u00e7arem a deparar-se com todos os sinais de alerta que deveriam ter tratado de antem\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You haven’t had a conversation about your financial goals<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eu sei o que est\u00e1s a pensar: Falar de finan\u00e7as \u00e9 t\u00e3o aborrecido e nada excitante.<\/em> Mas, adivinha? Se pretende viver com o seu parceiro, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter uma conversa sobre os seus objectivos financeiros.<\/p>\n

Se evitar estas conversas, arrisca-se a ter muitas discuss\u00f5es com o seu parceiro no futuro, caso decidam viver juntos.<\/p>\n

Defini\u00e7\u00e3o alguns objectivos<\/a> \u00e9 a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 muito tempo atr\u00e1s, eu estava namorar um jogador<\/a> durante seis meses. Est\u00e1vamos a passar muito tempo juntos.<\/p>\n

Ele era o meu melhor amigo, amante e parceiro no crime, mas quando fal\u00e1mos em ir viver juntos, pela primeira vez, eu estava c\u00e9tica em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo (especialmente quando pensava nas finan\u00e7as).<\/strong><\/p>\n

Since his main job was playing games 24\/7, I knew I wouldn’t be able to rely on him when it came to financial goals, so I politely rejected the idea of moving in together.<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que todas as novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o cheias de entusiasmo, mas tamb\u00e9m de press\u00e3o. Quando a fase de lua de mel<\/a> acaba, a realidade come\u00e7a a fazer-se sentir.<\/p>\n

You still haven’t had your FIRST big argument<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

How soon is too soon to move in with someone? Well, if you haven’t had your first argument yet, then I’m sorry to disappoint you, but this means it’s too soon to move in with someone.<\/p>\n

Quando se come\u00e7a a viver com algu\u00e9m, you will have more arguments than ever before because you’ll be spending more time together than ever before.<\/strong> Isto \u00e9 totalmente saud\u00e1vel e at\u00e9 desej\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Cada um de n\u00f3s tem uma abordagem diferente quando se trata de discutir.<\/strong> Alguns de n\u00f3s s\u00e3o teimosos at\u00e9 ao tutano, enquanto outros s\u00e3o mais realistas e est\u00e3o dispostos a fazer ced\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

If you still haven’t had your first big argument, then it’s hard to know how it will look. The last thing you need is having to end your long-term relationship right after you’ve had an argument.<\/p>\n

Ambos os parceiros t\u00eam de estar dispostos a admitir quando est\u00e3o errados e a lidar com as coisas de uma forma saud\u00e1vel (ou, melhor dizendo, n\u00e3o t\u00f3xica).<\/p>\n

You’re using it as a way to fix problems in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"imagem<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea ou o seu parceiro t\u00eam quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a> because you’ve been hurt before and now it is reflecting on your current relationship?<\/em><\/p>\n

Tem quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/a> ou quaisquer outros problemas que s\u00e3o caracter\u00edsticos das rela\u00e7\u00f5es modernas?<\/em><\/p>\n

If yes, then you shouldn’t rush into moving in together.<\/strong> Se pensa que a coabita\u00e7\u00e3o ir\u00e1, de alguma forma, resolver magicamente todos os seus problemas, pense novamente.<\/p>\n

Com base na minha experi\u00eancia pessoal, posso dizer-lhe com toda a certeza que ir viver juntos antes de enfrentar problemas na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode fazer a si pr\u00f3prio e ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

By rushing to move in together, even though you know there are some things in your relationship you need to deal with first, you’re fugir dos problemas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Os seus problemas n\u00e3o v\u00e3o desaparecer, v\u00e3o tornar-se ainda maiores e mais complexos do que antes.<\/p>\n

Sente-se pressionado a faz\u00ea-lo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Normalmente, quando um dos parceiros est\u00e1 pronto para viver em conjunto e o outro n\u00e3o, os n\u00edveis de press\u00e3o aumentam significativamente.<\/p>\n

If your partner is constantly reminding you that you should start living together with him or her and you’re not really sure whether it’s a good idea, then they are subconsciously pressuring you to make a decision.<\/p>\n

Se \u00e9 este o seu caso, esque\u00e7a por um momento o que o seu parceiro quer e pense no que realmente quer!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you want to move in with them? Do you think you’re not ready for it? Or, do you need more time to make a decision?<\/em><\/p>\n

Whatever your answer is, keep in mind that you shouldn’t move in just because you feel forced to do it.<\/p>\n

Be honest with yourself and you’ll find an answer to the question: Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 demasiado cedo para se mudar?<\/em><\/p>\n

10 Signs You’re Ready To Move In With Your Partner<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve had an honest conversation about your budget and finances<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas evitam ter esta conversa porque pode ser muito embara\u00e7oso, mas viver juntos n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 Netflix e relaxar.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas coisas s\u00e9rias que t\u00eam de ser discutidas previamente.<\/p>\n

Uma dessas coisas \u00e9 falar sobre o vosso or\u00e7amento e as vossas finan\u00e7as. Se est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura de novas habita\u00e7\u00f5es, t\u00eam de chegar a acordo sobre um intervalo de pre\u00e7os. Como sempre, a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 chegar a um compromisso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seja realista e pense se ser\u00e1 poss\u00edvel ou n\u00e3o viver em conjunto, tendo em conta o(s) seu(s) rendimento(s). O seu parceiro est\u00e1 a ganhar mais dinheiro do que voc\u00ea? V\u00e3o partilhar as despesas?<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas outras quest\u00f5es que deve colocar a si pr\u00f3prio antes de decidir viver em conjunto.<\/p>\n

You’re not doing it just because of finances<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I’m not a relationship expert, but I can tell you for sure that moving in just because of finances is a surefire way to doom your relationship.<\/p>\n

Yes, sharing your expenses with another person is a huge advantage, but you shouldn’t base your decision on that.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 genuinamente interessado em viver com o seu parceiro porque sente que \u00e9 a coisa certa a fazer? Acha que ir viver juntos \u00e9 a sequ\u00eancia natural da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Reserve algum tempo para refletir sobre tudo isto.<\/p>\n

You’ve already practiced living together for a few days<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Are they a long-distance person you met on social media or have you been dating them in real life so far? There’s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n

If you’ve been dating for some time now, chances are that you have already spent some time living together. For example, they come to your place or you come to theirs and spend a few nights there.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se sentiu quando acordou ao lado deles? Sentiu-se ansiosa por t\u00ea-los em sua casa ou pareceu-lhe totalmente natural e como deve ser?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Antes de decidir ir viver com algu\u00e9m, \u00e9 aconselh\u00e1vel fazer um per\u00edodo experimental de alguns dias.<\/p>\n

Ficaria surpreendido com a quantidade de coisas que pode aprender sobre o seu parceiro num curto per\u00edodo de tempo que passa com ele.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 6 problemas de relacionamento mais comuns que n\u00e3o t\u00eam solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

You’ve successfully traveled together<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Viajar \u00e9 a minha parte preferida de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Imagino instantaneamente a excita\u00e7\u00e3o nos olhos de ambos os parceiros ao descobrirem coisas novas, visitar novos lugares e fazer coisas divertidas<\/a> juntos.<\/p>\n

But, sometimes, traveling with your significant other can be frustrating. For example, let’s say that your partner is interested in visiting one place while you’re interested in visiting another.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que faria? Comprometer-se-ia ou obrig\u00e1-los-ia a fazer o que deseja?<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’ve successfully traveled together, then you know how to deal with this and similar situations, and there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n

You’re completely honest with each other<\/h2>\n

\"doce<\/p>\n

Honesty is the best policy. You’ve probably heard this saying multiple times and there’s a reason why it’s so popular. Honesty and trust are the two most important things in every relationship.<\/p>\n

Pense se tem algum segredo financeiro, como d\u00edvidas, empr\u00e9stimos estudantis, etc., ou algum outro segredo que o seu parceiro deva saber.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas pensam: Oh, this is not a big deal and it’s none of my partner’s concern.<\/em> Mas, ei, voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o viver juntos e, nesse caso, isso tamb\u00e9m lhes diz respeito.<\/p>\n

If you feel that you’re having difficulty being honest with your partner, or if you are dealing with some other relationship issues, then consider visiting a relationship therapist.<\/p>\n

You don’t feel pressured to move in together<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos factores que podem fazer com que se sinta pressionado a viver em conjunto, como um confinamento global devido ao coronav\u00edrus, as suas finan\u00e7as, entre outros.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, pode ser o seu parceiro a pression\u00e1-lo para partilhar o espa\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

If you don’t feel any kind of pressure to move in together, then this is a good sign. It means that you want to do it because you feel it’s the right thing to do and not because you HAVE TO.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing worse than making decisions on the fly. Whatever you’re experiencing in life at the moment, know that moving in together is not a solution to your personal or relationship problems.<\/p>\n

You’ve had your first big argument (and you survived it)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When it comes to dating and relationships, one thing is for sure: You won’t experience your first argument on your first date, your second date, or even after a few weeks.<\/p>\n

Passar\u00e3o muito tempo juntos antes de surgirem as primeiras grandes discuss\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

And, when it happens, you want to make sure that you’re capable of surviving it and dealing with it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Living together means facing plenty of arguments on a daily basis (or on a weekly basis), so it’s good to know that this won’t affect the quality of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perhaps your partner enjoys longer showers, which might annoy you, especially when you’re in a hurry. Or, they have different self-care practices and other habits that you might find annoying.<\/p>\n

Discutir repetidamente sobre as mesmas coisas n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o. Por isso, antes de come\u00e7ar a procurar uma nova casa, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio uma das quest\u00f5es mais importantes quest\u00f5es de relacionamento<\/a>:<\/p>\n

Ambos t\u00eam estilos de discuss\u00e3o saud\u00e1veis? Discutem de uma forma saud\u00e1vel ou de uma forma t\u00f3xica?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t sweep your relationship problems under the carpet<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

How do you know you’re ready to move in together? Well, if you don’t sweep your relationship problems under the carpet, but instead, face them, then you’re definitely ready for cohabitation with your partner.<\/p>\n

Muitos casais pensam que o facto de se recusarem a reconhecer os seus problemas far\u00e1 com que estes desapare\u00e7am por magia. Isto nunca acontece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you don’t address your relationship issues, you’re subconsciously helping them to grow bigger and bigger until they explode and turn into a big, toxic argument. Don’t let that happen.<\/p>\n

If you’re ready to be open and honest about everything, then you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Guia sobre como lidar com estados de esp\u00edrito dif\u00edceis numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

You’ve had a conversation about your future<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Have you talked to your partner about your big step – moving in together? Deciding to live together is not something that you choose to do on impulse.<\/p>\n

Antes de viverem juntos, t\u00eam de conversar sobre o vosso futuro e as vossas expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 vossa coabita\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que vou viver em conjunto? O que \u00e9 que significa para mim vivermos juntos? Quais s\u00e3o os nossos planos para o futuro?<\/em><\/p>\n

These are the questions that you need to ask yourself. If you or your partner wants to start living together for the wrong reasons, then it’s better to talk about it on time.<\/p>\n

Tem um plano B<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Many people think that having an exit strategy or a plan B is for pessimistic individuals. I don’t see it that way, and here’s why.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you two love each other, there’s no guarantee that you won’t face some hardships in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Problemas de relacionamento que n\u00e3o t\u00eam solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> pode arruinar at\u00e9 as rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais fortes.<\/p>\n

When that happens, it’s good to know that you have a plan B. Talk to your partner about what would happen in case things didn\u2019t work out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez voc\u00ea ou o seu parceiro fiquem no apartamento ou um de v\u00f3s decida poupar algum dinheiro para comprar um novo.<\/p>\n

A pior coisa que lhe pode acontecer \u00e9 ficar preso no mesmo apartamento s\u00f3 porque n\u00e3o tem outras op\u00e7\u00f5es devido a um mau plano financeiro.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o prontos para viver juntos ou precisam de mais tempo para tomar uma decis\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 demasiado cedo para ir viver com o seu novo parceiro? Decidir quando \u00e9 a altura certa para come\u00e7ar a viver com a sua cara-metade \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o individual.<\/p>\n

Alguns parceiros est\u00e3o prontos ap\u00f3s alguns meses de conv\u00edvio, enquanto outros (por v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es) precisam de mais tempo para tomar essa decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

If you’re having second thoughts about moving in with your partner, you need to be honest with yourself and take a look at every aspect of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You need to focus on the reason(s) why you are insecure about that move. It’s perfectly normal if you need more time to think about all the pros and cons of such an important decision.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, viver em conjunto n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que possa ser decidido de um dia para o outro. H\u00e1 muitos factores que podem influenciar a qualidade da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e da sua coabita\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se ambos forem respons\u00e1veis, estiverem dispostos a chegar a um compromisso e prontos a lidar com os desafios do dia a dia em vez de os varrerem para debaixo do tapete, ent\u00e3o podem ter a certeza de que ir viver juntos \u00e9 a decis\u00e3o certa!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hooray, are you ready for another huge milestone in your relationship? But, wait… how soon is too soon to move in together? Moving in with your significant other is a big step in any relationship, but knowing when the right time is to do it can be a challenging decision to make. If you move…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":114158,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/How-Soon-Is-Too-Soon-To-Move-In-Together_-15-Things-To-Consider-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113967"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113967\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114158"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}