{"id":11435,"date":"2020-04-08T08:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T08:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11435"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:35:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:35:59","slug":"7-coisas-acontecem-perder-boa-rapariga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-acontecem-perder-boa-rapariga\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que acontecem quando se perde uma boa rapariga"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I bet nobody warned you about the aftermath of losing a good girl. If someone happens to do that, they\u2019d tell you to be smart and to pay attention to her and everything she does for you.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019d tell you to never take her for granted because she is a one of the kind girl and you get to have her once in your lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>So if you gamble that away, it\u2019s something <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sente-uma-rapariga-que-se-arrependera-de-ter-magoado\/\">you\u2019re bound to regret<\/a> para o resto da tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tu fazias o que querias e nunca ouvias os outros. Quem sabe o que se passava na sua cabe\u00e7a ou que tipo de raz\u00f5es ou desculpas inventou para se sentir melhor por a ter maltratado.<\/p>\n<p>The one thing you weren\u2019t counting on is that there is only so much a human being can endure.<\/p>\n<p>You never counted on her self-love or that she\u2019ll walk away once she gets tired of giving you all of her but never getting anything in return. You never thought you could lose her until you actually lost her.<\/p>\n<p>When you take a good girl for granted, that\u2019s exactly when you lose her.<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t give her the love she deserves, when you disrespect her, when you let her efforts go unnoticed and when you let her feel alone even though she\u2019s supposed to have you is when you lose her.<\/p>\n<p>When you lose a good girl, you don\u2019t just lose this one person, but you lose much more.<\/p>\n<p>You lose all the opportunities you two could\u2019ve been and all the things she was doing for you. And when reality finally hits you, it can get a bit overwhelming\u2014truth be told.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, perdemos algu\u00e9m que acreditou em n\u00f3s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81740 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem infeliz de pijama na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ver, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/um-dia-vais-perceber-que-um-sempre\/\">ela estava sempre presente<\/a> para torcer por ti. Foi ela que depositou toda a sua f\u00e9 em ti e que nunca te deixou desistir.<\/p>\n<p>Ela acreditava em si, empurrava-o para a frente e estava sempre l\u00e1 para o apanhar quando ca\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>She never let you lose faith in yourself and you could\u2019ve been so much more with her, but you gambled that away. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, perdemos algu\u00e9m que confiava em n\u00f3s com tudo o que tinha<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81744 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"homem abra\u00e7ando mulher de costas junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela deu-te tudo de si. Confiou cegamente em ti e nunca pensou que a pudesses trair.<\/p>\n<p>Nem por um segundo parou para pensar que a podia usar.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because she always believed that people are as good as she is. But you weren\u2019t good\u2014at least not for her.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que fizeste foi brincar com as emo\u00e7\u00f5es dela. E tudo o que ela fez foi confiar em ti com tudo o que era dela. Isso custou-lhe muito, mas ela acabou por conseguir ver quem tu \u00e9s.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, perdemos algu\u00e9m que estava pronto para nos dar o seu amor incondicional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81745 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a abra\u00e7ar homem de costas junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This type of love is nothing you see on a daily basis. A good girl\u2019s love is something different, you know. And when a good girl chooses to love you, she does it wholeheartedly.<\/p>\n<p>Ela ama-te incondicionalmente e sem nunca se conter. Ela estava pronta para fazer o mesmo por ti.<\/p>\n<p>But she stopped herself before you got the best of her. Because she saw you aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n<p>She realized you\u2019ll only break her and you\u2019re only going to take her love and use it but never give anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>Ela estava pronta para te amar incondicionalmente, mas tu nunca lhe deste essa oportunidade. Desperdi\u00e7aste-a demasiado cedo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, deixamos de ter algu\u00e9m que sempre esteve l\u00e1 para n\u00f3s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81747 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal encantador abra\u00e7ado no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, when you look around, you won\u2019t have someone you can count on day and night.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t have someone who was ready to listen to you regardless of what you did to her.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t have someone who would forget about her needs because she was too busy focusing on the things you needed.<\/p>\n<p>Porque <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kirsten-corley\/2017\/03\/this-is-what-you-lose-when-you-play-a-good-girl\/\" rel=\"noopener\">quando se perde uma boa rapariga<\/a>Ao mesmo tempo, perdemos uma rapariga que estava sempre presente quando precis\u00e1vamos dela.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, deixamos de ter algu\u00e9m que nunca desiste de n\u00f3s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81743 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga que acaba com o namorado e o deixa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela planeou mesmo ficar. Ela queria estar ao teu lado e nunca, num milh\u00e3o de anos, se imaginou a desistir de ti.<\/p>\n<p>You know how hard she tried and she stuck by your side even when any sane person would\u2019ve walked away long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>Ela continuou a encontrar f\u00e9 em si em s\u00edtios onde nunca ningu\u00e9m pensou em procurar. Mas ela cansou-se de ser constantemente quebrada por algu\u00e9m por quem estava a tentar tanto.<\/p>\n<p>Ela cansou-se de ser a \u00fanica que nunca desistia. Por isso, acabou por desistir tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, perdemos o nosso melhor amigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81746 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a beber cerveja num copo de pl\u00e1stico\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you lose a good girl, you don\u2019t only lose your lover, but your best friend as well.<\/p>\n<p>Perdemos o nosso amigo, o nosso companheiro de vida e algu\u00e9m com quem pod\u00edamos sempre contar.<\/p>\n<p>You know well she was the one, but you\u2019re too proud or scared to admit it now.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter because life will make you admit it at least to yourself eventually. And life will make you regret losing a good girl, too.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdemos uma boa rapariga, acabamos por nos perguntar se valeu a pena tudo aquilo por que a perdemos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81739 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo sentado ao lado da janela e a olhar para fora\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After some time passes and when reality sinks in, when you lie awake at night unable to sleep you won\u2019t be able to help yourself wondering if all of it was worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Se todas as coisas que fizeste de errado, se todo o ego\u00edsmo e descuido, os teus sonhos e objectivos valeram a pena perder uma rapariga como ela.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll wonder if she\u2019s the same girl she used to be. You\u2019ll ask if she has someone who treats her right and does all the things you didn\u2019t do but should\u2019ve done for her.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus instintos dir-lhe-\u00e3o para pegar no telefone e ligar, mas algo o impedir\u00e1 de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>That something will be the realization that girls like her don\u2019t get to be alone for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll realize that she won\u2019t be waiting for her because someone else has done everything in his power to win her over and keep a girl like her.<\/p>\n<p>By the time you realize what is it exactly you lost, she\u2019ll be with someone who actually appreciates and deserves her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81741 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas que acontecem quando se perde uma boa rapariga\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bet nobody warned you about the aftermath of losing a good girl. If someone happens to do that, they\u2019d tell you to be smart and to pay attention to her and everything she does for you. They\u2019d tell you to never take her for granted because she is a one of the kind girl&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":81742,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11435","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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