{"id":11484,"date":"2020-01-08T10:45:47","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T10:45:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11484"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:25:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:25:05","slug":"5-coisas-que-o-ex-nunca-manda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-o-ex-nunca-manda\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que NUNCA deves fazer quando o teu ex te manda uma mensagem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os ex-namorados s\u00e3o ex-namorados por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that they feel the same way.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, quando um rapaz acaba com uma rapariga, apercebe-se de que ela era fant\u00e1stica e quer voltar para ela. Nesse tipo de estado mental, ele est\u00e1 disposto a fazer qualquer coisa para a reconquistar. E quando digo qualquer coisa, estou mesmo a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

But I just hope that you will be so smart and that you won\u2019t go back to him because of a dozen red roses or some love quote that he found on the Net.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que tem de se colocar em primeiro lugar e nunca mais deixar que ele se aproveite de si. Por isso, aqui est\u00e3o algumas coisas que nunca deve fazer se quiser salvar-se das l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

1. When he texts you don\u2019t text back immediately <\/h2>\n

You see, if you text him back immediately, he will think that he is still an important person in your life. Okay, maybe he is but he doesn\u2019t need to know about that. Let him sweat a little bit.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1 \u00e0s redes sociais e publique coisas para que ele possa ver que est\u00e1 online, mas que n\u00e3o responde \u00e0s mensagens dele. Isso far\u00e1 com que ele saiba que n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante para si como pensava e vai desej\u00e1-la ainda mais.<\/p>\n

Quem sabe, se ele come\u00e7ar a comportar-se como um homem adulto e n\u00e3o como um idiota, talvez lhe possa dar uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t ask questions right away <\/h2>\n

If you ask him questions, he will think that you are interested in his life. Let him be the one to ask questions. You just answer with a short \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno\u201d. That will make him crazy and he will feel sorry for doing all those bad things to you.<\/p>\n

Agora, ele merece o tratamento do sil\u00eancio e esse \u00e9 o \u00fanico comportamento que vai receber de si. E se ele te enviar uma mensagem depois da meia-noite, podes ver o que ele anda a fazer. Ele s\u00f3 pensa que voc\u00ea \u00e9 uma booty call para ele e tenta contact\u00e1-la porque n\u00e3o tem nada a perder.<\/p>\n

Que idiota, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t forget the reason you broke up with him <\/h2>\n

Ele traiu-a? Negligenciou-a? Abusou de si? Todas estas podem ser raz\u00f5es para ter acabado com ele.<\/p>\n

So, once he texts, don\u2019t forget why you dumped him. I bet you will change your mind and just leave your phone.<\/p>\n

Quando escolha-se a si pr\u00f3pria acima dele<\/a>finalmente ser\u00e1s feliz. E ao n\u00e3o lhe enviar mais mensagens, est\u00e1 no caminho certo para o conseguir.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t take his words personally <\/h2>\n

I know that he was an important person once in your life, but he doesn\u2019t have any right to hurt you. Actually, he never did. So whatever you do, don\u2019t take his words personally. Don\u2019t believe him when he says that he has a new girlfriend that is better in bed than you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t buy his shit that he got over you and that he is living a perfect life. Why do you think he reached out to you in the first place? If he is happy, he would never text you back. This is a sign that he is just faking and that he realized how amazing you are.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t think about getting back with him <\/h2>\n

Diga ele o que disser, n\u00e3o importa o quanto tente enganar-vos, nunca mais voltar para ele.<\/a> Ao voltar para ele, est\u00e1 apenas a dar-lhe outra bala para o matar, porque ele falhou da primeira vez.<\/p>\n

If he couldn\u2019t see how you are an amazing person the first time he was with you, he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance. Respect yourself enough to tell him to back off and find the happiness in your life you deserve so much.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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