{"id":11497,"date":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","slug":"agradecer-nao-escolher-fazer-escolher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/agradecer-nao-escolher-fazer-escolher\/","title":{"rendered":"Obrigado por n\u00e3o me escolheres e me fazeres escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00ednhamos uma coisa boa. \u00c9ramos felizes; rimos juntos e chor\u00e1mos juntos, mas no final decidiste n\u00e3o me escolher e quero agradecer-te por isso.<\/p>\n

Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed me to be happy again. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When we were together, we had our ups and downs, but in the end when everything was over, when I cried out the tears that I\u2019d been keeping inside and when I finally healed, I remembered only the good things we had together.<\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigado por me teres partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Obrigado por me deixares sozinho para me curar. Obrigado por me ensinares uma li\u00e7\u00e3o. Obrigado por n\u00e3o me escolheres.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Toda a minha vida andei \u00e0 procura do amor. Lutei pela felicidade com tudo o que tinha.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I came to you and thank God I did because you were the one who failed to give me what I deserve.<\/p>\n

You are the one who showed me I was missing out on something\u2014love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Queria tanto amar que dei a minha aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao primeiro homem que mostrou interesse em mim. N\u00e3o fazia ideia de que existe algo mais do que apenas um interesse desvanecido, uma paixoneta.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazia ideia de que o amor \u00e9 muito mais do que pura paix\u00e3o e qu\u00edmica tempor\u00e1ria.<\/p>\n

Acho que o que quero dizer \u00e9 obrigado por me fazeres perceber o que \u00e9 realmente o amor.<\/p>\n

Ensinou-me que tenho de ter respeito por mim pr\u00f3prio. Ensinaste-me que tenho de me amar primeiro a mim pr\u00f3prio para poder amar qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

When you didn\u2019t choose me, you made me choose myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fizeste-me ficar em paz comigo mesmo e olhar para a minha vida de uma perspetiva diferente. Na minha dor, na dor que me deste, eu cresci.<\/p>\n

Ca\u00ed num po\u00e7o escuro e pensei que n\u00e3o havia maneira de sair dali.<\/p>\n

I dwelled in my own fear, choking on my tears, looking for answers. I was so frustrated and sad because you didn\u2019t choose me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I was thinking what is wrong with me and why you don\u2019t love me.<\/p>\n

Days and months passed and I still didn\u2019t find an answer until I finally realized that you not choosing me is the best thing that has ever happened to me.<\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I\u2019m good enough for myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I don\u2019t need to be chosen because I\u2019m the one who has the right to choose. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize that I\u2019m just perfeito como eu sou.<\/a> I don\u2019t have to change for anybody because that is not real love. That is not the real me.<\/p>\n

And with you, I wasn\u2019t the real me. I was something you wanted me to be. I was something you wanted to love.<\/p>\n

Percebi que era digno de ser amado e tu, ao n\u00e3o me amares, mostraste-me isso. Obrigado.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know I deserve someone who will look at me like I\u2019m the only one in the world for him. I know I deserve someone who will think I\u2019m pure magic\u2014the magic only he knows to use.<\/p>\n

Eu mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que foi feito para mim. Mere\u00e7o ser feliz para o resto da minha vida com algu\u00e9m que me ame pelo que sou.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t that person and I get it now. I\u2019m not angry you\u2019ve hurt me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t choose me and I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t see me the way I deserved because that means I won\u2019t make this mistake every again.<\/p>\n

Thank you for making me fall in love\u2014fall in love with myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel guilty for not choosing me. Don\u2019t be sad because I\u2019m not sad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so grateful to you because you made me see how much I was worth and how much I have to give to the world.<\/p>\n

Ensinou-me isso ao n\u00e3o agir como devia ao p\u00e9 de mim. Obrigado por me fazeres amar a mim pr\u00f3prio e a todos os que me rodeiam. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Thank you for letting me go and choosing yourself, thus showing me it\u2019s okay for me to choose myself, too. <\/i><\/p>\n

Ambos merecemos ser felizes. Obrigado por o tornares realidade.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Obrigado<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We had a good thing going. We were happy; we laughed together and we cried together but in the end, you decided not to choose me and I want to thank you for that. Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Thank-You-For-Not-Choosing-Me-And-Making-Me-Choose-Myself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11497"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}