{"id":11503,"date":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11503"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","slug":"ler-esta-cansado-a-espera-que-o-amor-aconteca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ler-esta-cansado-a-espera-que-o-amor-aconteca\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00ea isto se est\u00e1s cansado de esperar que o amor aconte\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acontecia-me a toda a hora. Estava t\u00e3o cansada de \u00e0 espera do amor<\/a> para bater \u00e0 minha porta.<\/p>\n

Mas isso \u00e9 porque eu estava \u00e0 espera que ele entrasse na minha vida. Pressionei-me para querer tanto o amor<\/a> que perdi toda a l\u00f3gica que tinha e procurei cegamente o amor.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t wait for love. Love will happen to you when you don\u2019t ask for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Love will happen to you when you relax and accept the fact that things aren\u2019t going to go your way every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how it was for me. Now, I catch myself staring at the love of my life when he\u2019s doing stupid, everyday things. I catch myself staring at him like he\u2019s doing something impossibly beautiful.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how much I love him. I love every normal and ordinary move he makes. I love how he puts butter on his toast in the morning. I love every fiber of his being.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

E consegui tudo isso porque deixei de esperar que o amor acontecesse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca me imaginei a dizer estas coisas sobre algu\u00e9m. Queria diz\u00ea-las, mas era demasiado surrealista. Esperava partilhar o amor que tinha para dar com algu\u00e9m, mas nunca imaginei que ele me iria amar de volta.<\/p>\n

My whole life I was aching for love. I thought I was patient and I was always ready to love someone and to be loved. But now I get it that I wasn\u2019t patient at all.<\/p>\n

Estava tensa e agitada porque o amor nunca me bateu \u00e0 porta. Queria tanto que ele viesse, mas n\u00e3o o via de todo.<\/p>\n

Eu estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas as minhas desculpas eram o momento n\u00e3o \u00e9 adequado<\/a>, or I had some issues of my own and I didn\u2019t want to unleash my problems on someone else. Or, I was in a relationship, but that wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

That wasn\u2019t the feeling of butterflies in your stomach. I didn\u2019t go to bed thinking about him or waking up doing the same. That just wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Our whole lives we are searching for our soulmate. That\u2019s what it all comes down to.<\/p>\n

Queremos algu\u00e9m para acariciar, algu\u00e9m com quem partilhar os nossos problemas e algu\u00e9m para quem voltar para casa no final do dia.<\/p>\n

Isso leva-nos a contentarmo-nos com a primeira pessoa que aparece no momento certo, na verdade completamente errado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of giving our own lives some meaning and devotion to ourselves\u2014working on ourselves, making ourselves better\u2014we ache for something that will come, but not yet.<\/p>\n

We lose most of our lives wanting something that we shouldn\u2019t have to want yet.<\/p>\n

O amor encontrar-te-\u00e1 quando estiveres pronto para o aceitar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Somos solteiros por uma raz\u00e3o<\/a>. Ficamos com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido por uma raz\u00e3o. Tudo isso faz parte da jornada que nos constr\u00f3i como pessoas completas, mais inteligentes e melhores, que um dia estar\u00e3o prontas para amar com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E porque and\u00e1mos nas estradas acidentadas das nossas vidas, porque ca\u00edmos e nos mago\u00e1mos, tornamo-nos mais fortes mais tarde.<\/p>\n

Tornamo-nos mais fortes e finalmente prontos para o belo reino do amor verdadeiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep waiting and be patient. Believe me\u2014it will pay off in the end. Don\u2019t fool yourself that you are becoming desperate because you really have plenty of time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019ve met your true love because that person will keep you from conhecer o tal<\/a> que era suposto encontrarem.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente fizer as pazes consigo pr\u00f3pria e se deixar levar pela magia da vida, ele vir\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wish someone had told me this. I wish someone had told me I have to be alone to figure out my personal \u2018manuals\u2019 and the way I operate.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Gostava que algu\u00e9m me tivesse dito que a solid\u00e3o me traria a maior felicidade que alguma vez experimentei.<\/p>\n

Gostava de ter sabido que tinha de me amar e respeitar primeiro se quisesse que outra pessoa fizesse o mesmo.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought I was unlovable. I thought that I am never going to find love because I\u2019m broken. I was born with a mistake that can\u2019t be undone.<\/p>\n

I thought that\u2019s just the way life is. I wanted to change so many times.<\/p>\n

Eu queria ser amada, por isso moldei-me em algo que os outros queriam.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isso nunca durou porque eu n\u00e3o era assim. E pensei que era uma causa perdida. Pensei que nunca iria ter um final feliz. Mas depois encontrei um homem quando menos esperava.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Everything was so easy with him. I didn\u2019t have to pretend to be something that I\u2019m not. I was the person who I always was. I was finally myself and someone loved me for that.<\/p>\n

I really didn\u2019t see him coming. I thought I was supposed to be alone a few more years because frankly, Eu era feliz sozinho.<\/a><\/p>\n

I found myself and I was happy with my life and with whom I have become. I didn\u2019t think I was ready to love.<\/p>\n

But there he came\u2014barging in at the apparently right time.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o era nada do que eu esperava que fosse. Ele era completamente diferente do que eu tinha imaginado. E o vosso tamb\u00e9m o ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have the features you\u2019ve imagined, but he\u2019ll have that special \u2018something\u2019 that will sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n

O homem certo vale a pena esperar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you ever settle for someone just because you are scared or lonely. He will never love you the way you were made to be loved. He will never make you happy the way you were meant to be happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for the mediocre feeling when the right one is waiting for you. The right love is waiting for you to stop waiting for it to happen.<\/p>\n

Eu parei.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"L\u00ea<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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