{"id":11520,"date":"2020-01-08T14:50:14","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T14:50:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11520"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:22:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:22:46","slug":"11-sinais-reveladores-de-que-ja-nao-esta-apaixonado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-sinais-reveladores-de-que-ja-nao-esta-apaixonado\/","title":{"rendered":"11 sinais reveladores de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 mais apaixonado"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all crave that romantic, passionate love that burns our lips and lifts our soul. But what to do when we find ourselves caught up in doubt about our man\u2019s feelings?<\/p>\n

Afastamo-nos ou continuar a lutar?<\/a> Teremos a certeza de que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o nos ama?<\/p>\n

Para responder, pelo menos, a algumas dessas perguntas, reunimos sinais que podem ajud\u00e1-la a perceber se ele a ama e se vale a pena lutar por ele.<\/p>\n

1. You can\u2019t remember the last time you heard, \u201cI love you\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s been ages since you heard him express his feelings toward you. You can\u2019t even remember the last time he said he loved you after you said it first.<\/p>\n

All you can remember are uncomfortable silences, looks off into the distance and him changing the subject. Trying to force the love, or the words to express it, doesn\u2019t work.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t force yourself to roll those words off your tongue if you don\u2019t feel them. This is the first and biggest sign that he\u2019s no longer in love.<\/p>\n

2. Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se ri contigo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Costumavam divertir-se juntos, rir juntos, passar tempo juntos. Mas agora ele ri-se sozinho, com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ele ri-se dos seus programas de televis\u00e3o, ensurdecendo-nos com o sil\u00eancio que permanece depois de parar de rir.<\/p>\n

And when you gather enough strength to ask him to share it with you, he simply replies with, \u201cYou wouldn\u2019t get it.\u201d But you can still clearly remember the times when you just had to look at each other and you would start laughing.<\/p>\n

Aqueles momentos em que estavam a pensar, com os cora\u00e7\u00f5es a bater e a rir em sincronia, mas parece que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se lembra deles.<\/p>\n

3. A conversa sobre o futuro desvanece-se<\/span><\/h2>\n

No in\u00edcio, voc\u00eas s\u00f3 falavam do futuro.<\/p>\n

Futuras f\u00e9rias, viagens e filmes que iriam ver juntos, e como seria a vossa casa um dia.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s natural for guys to talk about the future when they\u2019re excited to share it with someone. But now, you can\u2019t even remember the last time he mentioned a future for you two.<\/p>\n

That could be because he doesn\u2019t see you as a part of it anymore.<\/p>\n

4. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o parece uma rotina<\/span><\/h2>\n

There\u2019s no more passion<\/a> and excitement in his eyes. He doesn\u2019t wait up for you when you\u2019re working long hours. He doesn\u2019t welcome you home.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ele v\u00ea televis\u00e3o, mal se apercebe da sua presen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Quando ele te beija, a sua mente est\u00e1 a milhas de dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

When he holds you, he doesn\u2019t hold you as tight as he used to. Instead, his arms are just there, wrapped around you, cold as ice.<\/p>\n

Everything he does, he does it like a machine, with no emotions, simply doing them because he\u2019s used to doing them, not because he enjoys them.<\/p>\n

5. You don\u2019t communicate as much as you once did<\/span><\/h2>\n

He no longer talks about his life, how he\u2019s doing at work, how his day was and he isn\u2019t interested in yours.<\/p>\n

Your communication is only about chores around the house, the chores you\u2019re obliged to do together and even communication feels like a chore, something you have to do, instead of something you want to do.<\/p>\n

6. He doesn\u2019t seem to care about the little things anymore<\/span><\/h2>\n

Ele costumava reparar quando mudavas o penteado, quando usavas um vestido novo.<\/p>\n

Fazia-te o jantar, levava-te o caf\u00e9 para a cama e dava-te um beijo na testa sempre que passava por ti.<\/p>\n

He was funnily annoyed by the way you eat cookies like Cookie Monster and when you make faces when eating Indian food. But now, he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

No matter what you do, the way you do it and how hard you try, he just doesn\u2019t seem to notice at all.<\/p>\n

7. Tenta evitar a intimidade<\/span><\/h2>\n

Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vos beija nem vos abra\u00e7a. Quando v\u00e3o dormir, cada um fica no seu lado da cama.<\/p>\n

When you try to make love to him, he suddenly remembers he has something to do, or he\u2019s tired or busy.<\/p>\n

A falta de sexo \u00e9 normalmente o maior problema numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e um sinal de que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/p>\n

If you notice that your sex life is lacking, but your man refuses to talk about possible causes, that\u2019s because he already knows why.<\/p>\n

8. Come\u00e7ou a desligar o telem\u00f3vel<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

We all crave some rest from our phone after a long day at work, but most of us will just silence it. But if he starts turning his off, and you\u2019re not able to get in touch with him, that\u2019s a sign he just doesn\u2019t want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if he starts taking his phone wherever he goes, including when taking out the trash, that could be a sign that he\u2019s hiding something or someone from you.<\/p>\n

Either way, that\u2019s a sign of a doomed relationship.<\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re the only one trying<\/span><\/h2>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o precisa de duas pessoas para ser bem sucedida.<\/a> S\u00e3o necess\u00e1rias duas pessoas que se esforcem, que se amem, para que o projeto prospere.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re the only one trying, if you\u2019re the only one loving, what\u2019s the point?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only postponing the inevitable. Unless he\u2019s ready to sit down with you and discuss the issues you have and what to do to solve them, there\u2019s no point in fighting for something that\u2019s long gone.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019re only suffering more, hoping that if you try a little bit harder, it will work out.<\/p>\n

But until he puts in a little bit of effort too, there\u2019s no way that relationship can work out.<\/p>\n

10. You\u2019re exhausted after spending time together<\/span><\/h2>\n

Os seus nervos est\u00e3o constantemente \u00e0 flor da pele, pensando no que dizer a seguir, no que fazer. Pensar em como o abordar, esperando que ele n\u00e3o fuja.<\/p>\n

Coisas que costumavam ser naturais para voc\u00eas os dois parecem agora t\u00e3o assustadoras.<\/p>\n

Depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o, sente-se exausta de tentar fazer a coisa certa, de calcular todos os passos que vai dar. E acredita em mim, ele sente o mesmo.<\/p>\n

11. He doesn\u2019t care about spending time with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

No man enjoys his woman out there partying without him, without letting him know where she\u2019s going or at least making sure he knows she\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

But if he doesn\u2019t show any interest in where you\u2019re going or for how long, that\u2019s because he doesn\u2019t really care.<\/p>\n

He enjoys spending time without you, probably hoping that you will meet someone else because he\u2019s already made up his mind about this.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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