{"id":115280,"date":"2020-11-26T12:53:22","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T12:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=115280"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:06:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:06:56","slug":"abracar-as-discussoes-com-o-seu-namorado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/abracar-as-discussoes-com-o-seu-namorado\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso e como aceitar as discuss\u00f5es com o seu namorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por vezes, tem medo de falar por si pr\u00f3prio na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Acha que isso pode prejudicar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Discutir leva a uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, certo?<\/p>\n

No, and it\u2019s really a big NO. You\u2019re wrong. All couples argue, and having some little disagreements is actually healthy for your relationship.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t ruin your relationship; on the contrary, it\u2019ll deepen your connection.<\/p>\n

Mas, eu percebo-te perfeitamente. Eu j\u00e1 fui assim. Tinha tanto medo da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o que guardava tudo o que me incomodava dentro de mim.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I wasn’t aware of how big a mistake it was<\/strong> e foi, sem d\u00favida, um grande problema. Por causa do meu medo, criei uma atmosfera t\u00f3xica e pouco saud\u00e1vel na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que quase me custou perder uma pessoa que amo.<\/p>\n

I thought that it was all okay, that I would be able to handle it and contain them inside until one day, I just couldn’t keep all those emotions and things that were bothering me inside, and they just burst out fiercely. To be more exact, they exploded.<\/p>\n

Isto revelou muitos problemas por resolver na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Felizmente, o nosso amor foi mais forte do que isso e conseguimos ultrapassar tudo e salvar a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

However, we promised that we’d never hide our feelings or try to bury them inside us. We understood that we should embrace and accept all of our differences and issues and try to deal with them in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Discutir est\u00e1, na verdade, a aproximar-nos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Every time we have a disagreement or we get angry at each other, we become aware, once again, that we can’t live without each other.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que nos reconciliamos depois de uma discuss\u00e3o, ficamos mais convencidos de que a nossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte que nada a pode danificar.<\/p>\n

Aceitar as discuss\u00f5es ensinou-nos a comunicar de forma mais eficaz<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sabe realmente qual \u00e9 a import\u00e2ncia de uma alimenta\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel? comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> for a good relationship? Well, we weren’t at the beginning and it almost ruined our relationship.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edamos que t\u00ednhamos problemas, mas opt\u00e1mos por n\u00e3o falar deles como se isso os fizesse desaparecer.<\/p>\n

Agora, aprendemos a falar mais eficazmente. Aprendemos a assumir a responsabilidade pelos nossos erros. Aprendemos a pedir desculpa e a perdoarmo-nos uns aos outros pelos nossos erros. <\/em><\/p>\n

These things didn’t just improve our relationship, but they made our bond stronger than ever before.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ajudou-nos a ouvir e a compreendermo-nos melhor uns aos outros<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I didn’t know how to be a good listener and that was probably causing most of the problems in our relationship.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, by embracing some small disagreements in my relationship, I also learned to listen and pay more attention to my partner’s needs. After all, they are as important as my own ones.<\/p>\n

Esses pequenos desentendimentos ajudaram-nos a adotar algumas mudan\u00e7as na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, antes, nenhum de n\u00f3s estava satisfeito com algumas coisas na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas t\u00ednhamos medo de falar sobre elas porque ambos pens\u00e1vamos que isso poderia arruinar a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Depois de aceitarmos o facto de que \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel ter alguns pequenos desentendimentos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, apercebemo-nos de que altera\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> s\u00e3o de facto boas para a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

We are now ready to make compromises, and satisfying each other’s needs is our priority.<\/p>\n

Torn\u00e1mo-nos mais afectuosos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As discuss\u00f5es tamb\u00e9m nos ensinaram a ser mais afectuosos um com o outro. Tenho de admitir que nos ajudou mesmo a refrescar e a reacender a chama da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Sempre que um de n\u00f3s comete um erro, tentamos resolv\u00ea-lo de uma forma saud\u00e1vel e depois a pessoa que cometeu o erro pede desculpa<\/a> and tries to prove that they’re really sorry for what they did.<\/p>\n

Ensinou-nos a domar o nosso ego para bem da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Trust me, there was a constant fight going on and it was between our egos and our feelings. We weren’t even aware of the fact that it was slowly ruining our relationship.<\/p>\n

A nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tinha-se tornado uma competi\u00e7\u00e3o em que est\u00e1vamos constantemente a tentar provar o nosso valor e a ser melhores do que a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Felizmente, quando aprendemos a domar os nossos egos, a nossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e a nossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m melhoraram.<\/p>\n

Admita, a maquilhagem depois de uma luta \u00e9 definitivamente a melhor!<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Concorda que os casais que se amam apaixonadamente tamb\u00e9m lutam apaixonadamente? Sim? Eu tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

But, you know what’s the good part of it? They also make up after the fight more passionately and those kinds of reconciliations are the best.<\/p>\n

Jur\u00e1mos que o nosso amor estaria sempre em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Yes, I agree that arguing over some little things is simply an inevitable part of every relationship and that it’s actually healthy to have some disagreements.<\/p>\n

Fizemos um voto de nunca ir para a cama zangados ou com problemas por resolver.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Our relationship is and will always be our main priority. We know how strong our love truly is and that’s why we’ll never allow anything to jeopardize our relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the only important thing is that we have each other… all other things can be resolved.<\/p>\n

Our love will overcome all obstacles because it’s truly the greatest force in the universe.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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