{"id":115648,"date":"2020-11-30T13:09:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-30T13:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=115648"},"modified":"2022-01-19T21:39:02","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T21:39:02","slug":"como-abordar-as-mulheres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-abordar-as-mulheres\/","title":{"rendered":"Como abordar mulheres: 14 dicas que n\u00e3o v\u00e3o sair pela culatra"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vamos l\u00e1, malta. Sejam honestos e admitam que a coisa que todos n\u00f3s gostar\u00edamos de saber \u00e9 como abordar as mulheres em p\u00fablico, iniciar uma conversa e obter uma resposta afirmativa quando as convidamos para um encontro.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, that can be terrifying, especially if you’re a shy guy or if you’ve never approached a woman before because you won\u2019t get a second chance to make a good first impression.<\/p>\n

Most men wait until they muster up the courage to do this, but a lot of guys don’t do it in the end because we’re com medo<\/a> de sermos rejeitados ou simplesmente pensamos que seria muito humilhante receber uma resposta negativa.<\/p>\n

That’s so wrong. Maybe you’ve missed out on many great chances for true love because of that fear. Actually, that fear is stopping you from finding real love and true happiness in life.<\/p>\n

O objetivo da vida \u00e9 encontrar algu\u00e9m com quem a partilhar; encontrar algu\u00e9m por quem valha a pena viver<\/strong>… to find a companion on this crazy, unpredictable journey we call life.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m acredito que as almas g\u00e9meas se encontram sempre e que Deus encontra uma forma de cruzar os seus caminhos, mas, mesmo assim, \u00e9 preciso dar a cara.<\/p>\n

To be honest, the reason why I’m writing this is because I was also terrified to approach women before.<\/p>\n

Mas, com estes passos muito simples, encontrei uma forma de ultrapassar a ansiedade de aproxima\u00e7\u00e3o e de superar o medo da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o, que era um grande obst\u00e1culo para mim.<\/p>\n

Como abordar as mulheres e fazer com que elas o desejem muito.<\/span><\/h2>\n

“Women are not attracted to men who are good looking – they are attracted to men who are attractive.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esta cita\u00e7\u00e3o do famoso treinador de vida e de encontros, Zan Perrion, ajudou-me muito e deve, sem d\u00favida, t\u00ea-la em mente sempre que quiser abordar uma mulher bonita e arranjar uma namorada<\/a>claro. <\/p>\n

Also, below, you’ll find some powerful revolutionary conselhos de namoro para homens<\/a> sobre conhecer mulheres e fazer com que uma rapariga atraente se apaixone por si.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como abordar uma rapariga? 9 dicas que funcionam como um encanto<\/a><\/p>\n

Acredite em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se aborda uma rapariga na vida real e, pelo menos, se consegue o n\u00famero dela ou se consegue que ela saia consigo? Este \u00e9 o primeiro passo que tens de dar.<\/p>\n

Se quiser arranjar uma namorada<\/a>\u00c9 preciso faz\u00ea-lo com confian\u00e7a. Tem de conhecer o seu valor e acreditar em si pr\u00f3prio que pode seduzir e conquistar aquela mulher atraente de que gosta h\u00e1 tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Tens de trabalhar a tua autoestima.<\/strong> If you’re a shy guy or you have high self-doubt, you should practice in front of a mirror.<\/p>\n

Just try to imagine that the person in the mirror is the woman you like and that you’ve just approached her. It’s a great way to practice your body language and prepare yourself for approaching the girl you like.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que o ajudar\u00e1 muito na sua auto-confian\u00e7a \u00e9 ter uma boa apar\u00eancia e prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu aspeto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

Cuide de si fisicamente, mas tamb\u00e9m emocional e espiritualmente. O facto \u00e9 que a nossa imagem corporal influencia diretamente a nossa autoestima. Por outras palavras, para se sentir no seu melhor, tem de estar no seu melhor.<\/em><\/p>\n

Procurar os sinais.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se aproxima de uma mulher e a atrai, antes de dar o primeiro passo, deve primeiro observar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e procurar sinais do outro lado.<\/p>\n

A woman always knows what she wants, and if she wants you, she’ll make it clear to you.<\/strong> She won’t give you any mixed signals; she’ll be clear and direct about what she wants.<\/em><\/p>\n

No entanto, esses sinais podem muitas vezes ser muito pequenos e impercept\u00edveis, especialmente se a mulher for t\u00edmida.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, se estiver num caf\u00e9 e ela estiver a olhar para si com frequ\u00eancia, mas sempre que come\u00e7ar a olhar para ela, ela desvia o olhar muito rapidamente.<\/p>\n

Or, for example, she runs her hands through her hair or arches her back every time you look at her… you need nothing more because those are some clear signals that she’s into you and she wants you to approach her.<\/p>\n

BUT, that doesn’t mean that you should immediately approach her. You must wait for the right moment and you must be fully prepared for that step.<\/p>\n

Primeiro, namorisque com a sua linguagem corporal.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Just as she’ll be sending you some signals that she\u2019s into you by using her body language, you should do the same.<\/p>\n

It’s called flirting with your body language, and if you do it right, it will definitely help you win over the girl you like.<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably asking yourself, How do I attract women using my body language? Well, it\u2019s called the art of charm and seducing and it’s pretty simple, actually.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, tem de ouvir a sua mente e o seu corpo e encontrar uma forma de os controlar. A segunda coisa \u00e9 prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua postura corporal.<\/p>\n

It must be saying, ‘Hi, I’m here to win your heart over and I’m not leaving until I succeed.’ So, pull your stomach in, keep your shoulders back, stand up straight and smile in her direction.<\/p>\n

Isso vai, sem d\u00favida, fazer com que se note.<\/p>\n

Estabelecer um contacto visual profundo.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Isto tamb\u00e9m faz parte da sua linguagem corporal para namoriscar. Depois da boa postura, o contacto visual \u00e9 a segunda coisa mais importante para atrair as mulheres.<\/p>\n

Deve estabelecer contacto visual com a rapariga que pretende abordar. Tente apanhar o momento em que ela est\u00e1 a olhar na sua dire\u00e7\u00e3o e olhe-a diretamente nos olhos.<\/p>\n

You should maintain that eye-contact for at least three seconds in order to show her that you’re into her and to know whether she’s interested in you, too.<\/p>\n

I know that most men have struggled with making this step, but you must overcome that eye-contact anxiety because by making a genuine eye connection and opening your body to the woman you like, you’ll be showing her that you’re into her and that you want to make the move and approach her.<\/p>\n

If you get positive feedback from the other side, if she maintains eye contact for several seconds or smiles at you, that\u2019s her way of telling you that it’s okay for you to approach them and how they would like you to do that because they’re interested in you, too.<\/p>\n

Smile… positive vibes attract women the most.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The most powerful weapon for seducing women is your smile. That’s probably one of the first things they’ll notice and fall in love with.<\/p>\n

Sempre que a apanhar a olhar na sua dire\u00e7\u00e3o ou estabelecer contacto visual com a mulher que gostaria de abordar, deve sorrir-lhe.<\/p>\n

Mesmo antes de abordar uma mulher de quem gosta, deve deixar a impress\u00e3o de um homem positivo e otimista, porque um homem positivo e otimista (e bem-humorado) \u00e9 o tipo de homem que todas as mulheres querem.<\/p>\n

Claro que todos temos dias maus em que nos sentimos mal-humorados, mas mesmo nesses dias, deve pensar positivamente e sorrir apesar desses maus momentos, especialmente se a mulher de quem gosta estiver perto de si.<\/p>\n

Preparar um \u00f3timo in\u00edcio de conversa.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u200bThis is the last step you should take before taking the most important one… approaching that beautiful woman you like.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso encontrar um bom in\u00edcio de conversa<\/a> antes de se aproximar dela.<\/p>\n

Don’t think that you’ll come up with something at the last minute or after you approach her because you won’t. You’ll get nervous and ruin everything that way.<\/p>\n

Deve procurar um bom ponto de partida para uma conversa que possa suscitar um bom t\u00f3pico e dar in\u00edcio \u00e0 conversa.
\nYou must find something that will show her that you’re an interesting guy and that you’re worth taking her time.<\/p>\n

Please, don’t use cheesy pick-up lines.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ok, eu sei que disse que estava a preparar uma boa in\u00edcio de conversa<\/a> \u00e9 o \u00faltimo passo antes de abordar uma mulher de quem se gosta, mas isto \u00e9 algo para o qual tenho mesmo de o avisar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel utilizar um linha de engate<\/a> to break the ice and start the conversation when you approach women, but please don’t use some bad and lame cheesy pick-up line that will make you look like a total jerk.<\/p>\n

Acredita em mim, h\u00e1 alguns muito m\u00e1s frases de engate<\/a> that you wouldn’t even believe are real.<\/p>\n

Don’t even think to try to approach women by using them because they’re very insulting and you’ll ruin every chance you’ve had to attract the woman you like.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 305 frases de engate rom\u00e2nticas que v\u00e3o derreter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela<\/a><\/p>\n

Faz A jogada.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Cheg\u00e1mos finalmente ao passo mais importante. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se aborda as mulheres da forma correcta e faz com que elas o desejem?<\/p>\n

Well, if you did all these steps above the right way, you’re totally ready for this most important step.<\/p>\n

Se decidir optar por uma frase de engate, deve us\u00e1-la como uma abertura humor\u00edstica e interessante e diz\u00ea-la antes de se apresentar.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se decidir iniciar uma conversa, deve apresentar-se e perguntar-lhe educadamente se pode tirar alguns momentos do seu precioso tempo.<\/p>\n

Use a conversation starter that you’ve prepared already and get the conversation going.
\nEither way, I’m sure you’ll wow her and leave a good primeira impress\u00e3o<\/a> que far\u00e1 com que ela tamb\u00e9m se interesse por ti.<\/p>\n

S\u00ea sempre tu pr\u00f3prio.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don’t act, don’t pretend you’re someone else just to get her liking. Be yourself always because she must fall in love with the real you.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way you’ll be able to create and maintain a healthy relationship one day. And, trust me, even though I know you don’t think like that sometimes, the real you is the best version of you.<\/p>\n

Falar, mas tamb\u00e9m ouvir.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Once you approach her and get her attention, don’t be the only one talking. Listening is one of the most important social skills, and that’s the one you need the most when you approach the woman you like.<\/p>\n

It’s how you’ll show her that you’re interested in her, and also interested in what she has to say to you.<\/p>\n

It’s a well-known fact that women love men who are good listeners.<\/strong> You should listen actively and be focused when she’s talking about herself and try to remember as much as you can about her life.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 9 Sinais de que ela est\u00e1 te testando para decidir se voc\u00ea \u00e9 material de namorado<\/a><\/p>\n

Compliment her, but don’t overdo it.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Compliments are always welcomed. All women like to hear a good compliment even if it comes from a man they’ve just met or one they aren’t interested in.<\/p>\n

Compliments build attraction, and that’s definitely a powerful weapon to get the woman you like to fall for you.<\/p>\n

No entanto, \u00e9 preciso ter cuidado com isso. Os elogios s\u00e3o bons, mas se o fizer da forma errada ou se exagerar, pode ser mau para si e deixar uma m\u00e1 primeira impress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

If you give too many compliments after you approach a woman you just meet, it can make her think that those compliments aren’t honest and that you’re telling them to her just to seduce her.<\/p>\n

And, don’t compliment her physical appearance because she might think that you’re only looking for a hookup and it can make her lose interest in you.<\/p>\n

Um bom sentido de humor ajuda sempre.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Acho mesmo que todas as mulheres se apaixonam por homens humor\u00edsticos.<\/p>\n

If you’re sitting near her in a coffee shop or in a restaurant, you should tell jokes to your friends and make them laugh, so she can hear them and think how funny and interesting of a guy you are.<\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, todos n\u00f3s gostamos de estar na companhia de pessoas que nos fazem rir e, na minha opini\u00e3o, um sentido de humor<\/a> \u00e9 uma das qualidades mais interessantes que uma pessoa pode ter.<\/p>\n

So, when you approach her and start a conversation, try to make her laugh and she’ll be yours for sure.<\/p>\n

Arranja o n\u00famero de telefone dela.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se um de voc\u00eas tiver de ir embora, deve pedir-lhe o n\u00famero de telefone ou o e-mail ou enviar-lhe um pedido de amizade nas redes sociais e pedir-lhe que o aceite.<\/p>\n

Deve encontrar uma forma de se manter em contacto com ela, para poder convid\u00e1-la para um encontro e conhec\u00ea-la um pouco melhor.<\/p>\n

But, don’t push. If she doesn’t want to give you her phone number, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you… maybe she wants you to try and find it out by yourself.<\/p>\n

Maybe that’s how she wants you to prove you’re really interested in her.<\/p>\n

Don’t invite her on a date immediately.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The first time you approach her, you shouldn’t invite her on a date immediately. You should ask her to stay in touch for a while, so that you two can get to know each other better.<\/p>\n

Espere pelo momento certo e convide-a para um encontro.<\/p>\n

Even if you invite her out immediately, she probably won’t accept it because she would also like to get to know you better before that.<\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I hope this article has answered your question, ‘how do you approach women with confidence’? The most important thing is to remember that n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de que devas ter medo<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, as outras duas dicas de encontros muito importantes s\u00e3o que, quando quiser conhecer mulheres, deve deixar o seu orgulho masculino de lado e trazer apenas a sua autoestima.<\/p>\n

Eu digo sempre que it’s way worse never to try than to fail or be rejected once or several times<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

And, even if you are rejected the first time you approach and try to seduce a woman, that’s not a reason for you to stop doing it.<\/p>\n

Even if a woman rejects you, that’s not your loss, it’s theirs because she’s missing the chance to meet a nice guy like you truly are.<\/p>\n

Believe me, once, it’ll pay off. Once, when you meet the right one, you’ll be the happiest person alive, and you’ll be very proud of yourself for having the courage to approach your beautiful woman and win her over.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your fear to control you. Be strong, be a man and overcome it. Don’t just sit there waiting for true love. Go out there and attract it… Approach that woman you like and win her heart over forever.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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