{"id":11569,"date":"2020-08-09T09:00:34","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T09:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11569"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:24:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:24:57","slug":"problema-sou-sempre-um-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/problema-sou-sempre-um-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu problema \u00e9 que sou sempre eu quem ama mais"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t learn from my mistakes. Giving too much of myself away was never a problem in the beginning, but that would soon change.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o s\u00f3 contigo, mas em todas as minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es antes de ti. Parece-me t\u00e3o familiar, a mesma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o repetida vezes sem conta.<\/p>\n<p>It never changes, because I can&#8217;t stop it.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t stop loving everything and everyone so deeply. Call me too weak, but I don&#8217;t see it as a weakness anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Aos meus olhos, aqueles que tomam os meus sentimentos por garantidos s\u00e3o os fracos.<\/p>\n<p>Want to know why? It&#8217;s because they get scared. People are not used to being loved, so when they encounter someone who is willing to love them unconditionally, they either run aware or they simply take advantage of that person.<\/p>\n<p>Aproveitou-se de mim.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111755 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat.jpg\" alt=\"uma triste rapariga de cabelo ruivo est\u00e1 num campo de trigo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-red-haired-girl-stands-in-a-field-of-wheat-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Viste a possibilidade de ter finalmente a vantagem em alguma coisa e eu, algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nuo, acreditei que as tuas inten\u00e7\u00f5es eram boas.<\/p>\n<p>That you were going to be there for me, because we were going to handle everything together. Or at least that&#8217;s what I thought.<\/p>\n<p>Let me first remind you of the beginning of our relationship, and maybe you&#8217;ll remember those promises you gave me. You promised to love and cherish me because, as you said, there was no one like me in this world.<\/p>\n<p>You promised to be there for me whenever I&#8217;d need you, but remember the time my grandmother died and you said that I was going to be fine even without you?<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? I wasn&#8217;t fine! You also promised to never do anything harmful to me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Well, I guess you\u2019d changed your mind.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Poucos dias depois de me teres feito essas promessas, estava apaixonada por ti, pois pensava que eras a pessoa que eu tinha procurado durante toda a minha vida. Parece que estava cega este tempo todo.<\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t bother to make me feel loved, everyone was more important than I was. To you, I was someone who would wait for you every night.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111756 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"uma morena triste de \u00f3culos deita-se no sof\u00e1 e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-brunette-with-glasses-lies-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Actually, it would not matter if you came home at night\u2014you knew that I would still be waiting for you because I really did love you.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, tudo o que viste em mim foi algu\u00e9m que te fazia o jantar e pagava as contas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Dei-te todo o meu ser. Tudo o que eu era e tinha era teu e s\u00f3 teu.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You would leave me alone for days and I would never know where you\u2019d been, until you would come home to me explaining that the bruises on your body weren&#8217;t from other women but from fights you got into.<\/p>\n<p>Those excuses worked until the night you came home with lipstick on the back of your neck. It was too obvious, so I didn&#8217;t even bother asking why you came home so late that night.<\/p>\n<p><b>To you and everyone else wondering, I don&#8217;t know why I stayed so long either. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Disse a mim pr\u00f3prio que o amor precisava de ter sacrif\u00edcios. O meu sacrif\u00edcio foi o meu orgulho.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A verdadeira quest\u00e3o aqui \u00e9 o que \u00e9 que trouxe para a mesa? Ou nunca tencionaste trazer nada? Tudo o que fizeste foi tirar de mim, sem nunca dar nada.<\/p>\n<p>Not even the day I finally decided to pack my stuff and leave\u2014you didn&#8217;t even bother to try and talk to me about the reasons why I was leaving; probably because you knew why.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111757 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga triste, com um casaco castanho, est\u00e1 parada no corredor em frente \u00e0 porta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-sad-girl-in-a-brown-coat-stands-in-the-hallway-in-front-of-the-door-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabias que estava na altura de eu me amar mais do que te amava a ti.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o que te importasses, tinhas muitos outros l\u00e1bios para beijar para te dares ao trabalho de me dar um beijo de despedida.<\/p>\n<p>Amar e perdoar nunca foi um fardo para mim at\u00e9 te conhecer e ent\u00e3o fi-lo demasiado. Perdoei-te demasiadas vezes por causa do amor que sentia.<\/p>\n<p>Agora? Eu amo-me demasiado para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nunca-perdoara-a-quebra\/\">perdoar nunca mais.<\/a> A \u00fanica pessoa que tenho de perdoar \u00e9 a mim pr\u00f3prio. Perdoar-me por ter deixado tudo isto acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing I want to tell you is that I&#8217;m really sorry for the man who will truly love me.<\/p>\n<p>I have a feeling that I won&#8217;t be able to love him the way I loved before but that\u2019s probably because I got sick of being the one who loves and cares more in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111758 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O meu problema \u00e9 que sou sempre eu quem ama mais\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/My-Problem-Is-That-Im-Always-The-One-Who-Loves-More-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t learn from my mistakes. Giving too much of myself away was never a problem in the beginning, but that would soon change. Not only with you, but in all my relationships before you. It feels so familiar, the same feeling over and over again. It never changes, because I can&#8217;t stop it. I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11569","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11569","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11569"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11569\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}