{"id":11577,"date":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11577"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","slug":"para-de-pensar-que-ele-nao-esta-a-pensar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-de-pensar-que-ele-nao-esta-a-pensar\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e1ra de pensar nele, porque ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pensar em ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are now. I&#8217;ve been there and I have felt just the way you&#8217;re feeling now.<\/p>\n<p>Hopeless, right? Like you weren&#8217;t good enough to please him, no matter what you did.<\/p>\n<p>You gave everything you could to that relationship, but it simply wasn&#8217;t enough. Love wasn&#8217;t enough.<\/p>\n<p>Now you&#8217;ve come to the point where your memories are overwhelming you and you can&#8217;t seem to understand why or even how to quit thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>You continue to go over everything that happened and you can&#8217;t believe the outcome. <b>He&#8217;s gone and you&#8217;re now left alone with your thoughts.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As recorda\u00e7\u00f5es voltam sempre.<\/p>\n<p>You remember the time he brought you that huge bouquet of roses and he told you that, as beautiful as they were, they couldn\u2019t compare to your beauty.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-se tamb\u00e9m da vez em que ele lhe fez o jantar depois de um longo dia de trabalho e lhe disse que isso era o m\u00ednimo que podia fazer por si.<\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se dos sorrisos e das gargalhadas, das noites passadas a falar um com o outro sobre assuntos que s\u00f3 voc\u00eas os dois entendiam.<\/p>\n<p>Voltamos \u00e0s mem\u00f3rias que cri\u00e1mos e choramos, porque nos d\u00f3i.<\/p>\n<p>O que mais d\u00f3i \u00e9 que te esqueceste da vez em que ele chegou a casa tarde nessa noite, a cheirar a outra mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Esqueceste-te da vez em que lhe disseste para sair do teu apartamento porque ele te deu uma bofetada quando estava b\u00eabado, e ele fez-te um jantar para te compensar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esqueceste-te de todas as vezes que lhe perdoaste os erros, s\u00f3 porque ele te trouxe um ramo de rosas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perdoaste-lhe porque ele jurou que te amava.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Foram apenas palavras e n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a aceitar a verdade.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil para as mulheres acreditarem em mentiras do que encararem a verdade? Ser\u00e1 que somos assim t\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/matthew-b-james-phd\/blinded-by-love_b_9269502.html\" rel=\"noopener\">cego pelo amor<\/a> que sentimos pelos homens que nos traem?<\/p>\n<p>Esse mesmo amor faz-nos passar por tantas tristezas e mis\u00e9rias que ningu\u00e9m v\u00ea, porque guardamos tudo para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Voltamos a esses homens nas nossas mem\u00f3rias. Esquecemos a dor que sentimos e recordamos apenas os momentos felizes, sem nunca os lamentar.<\/p>\n<p>Os nossos olhos ficam cegos pelos nossos sentimentos. <b>Somos criaturas t\u00e3o puras.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A quest\u00e3o aqui \u00e9: Achas que ele tamb\u00e9m se lembra de ti? Debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is de outra mulher? A comprar-lhe rosas sempre que faz asneiras?<\/p>\n<p>A beijar-lhe o pesco\u00e7o e a jurar-lhe o quanto a ama? Achas mesmo que ele tem tempo para pensar em ti quando provavelmente est\u00e1, neste preciso momento, a beij\u00e1-la?<\/p>\n<p>No. As much as you don&#8217;t want to hear it, he&#8217;s not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/alguem-esta-a-pensar-em-si\/\">a pensar em si.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You were just a phase in his life, but he was everything you ever dreamed of. That&#8217;s the problem here.<\/p>\n<p>Why would you want to think about a man who doesn&#8217;t bother to think about you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher atenta a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who doesn&#8217;t bother to go through his memories of you, because he has another woman to hug right now?<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s not thinking about the way your skin felt under his fingers, because he&#8217;s too busy touching the skin of another.<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que lhe d\u00e1s o prazer de estar constantemente na tua mente e em tudo o que fazes?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Parem com isso, j\u00e1!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-tempo-deixa-de-se-importar-um-nao-se-importa\/\">Est\u00e1 a perder tantas oportunidades maravilhosas<\/a> para conhecer um homem que a possa valorizar, tal como realmente merece.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 finalmente conhecer algu\u00e9m que cumpra as suas promessas e lhe mostre como deve ser o verdadeiro amor!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you need to stop thinking about your past, now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it&#8217;s much harder than I make it sound, but there is no other option but to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o era mais do que uma importante li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida que precisavas de aprender.<\/p>\n<p>Wasn&#8217;t that enough? He had the pleasure of being in your life for a short period of time and his time is done.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stop chasing lost moments, when your future could be filled with so much beauty that you can&#8217;t even imagine.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let go of him and you will open your heart to receive love again. Isn&#8217;t that what we all live for?<\/p>\n<p>O dia em que seremos libertados do nosso passado e continuaremos no futuro, a sorrir, a rir e a amar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"P\u00e1ra de pensar nele, porque ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pensar em ti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are now. I&#8217;ve been there and I have felt just the way you&#8217;re feeling now. Hopeless, right? Like you weren&#8217;t good enough to please him, no matter what you did. You gave everything you could to that relationship, but it simply wasn&#8217;t enough. Love wasn&#8217;t enough. Now you&#8217;ve come to the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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