{"id":116161,"date":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116161"},"modified":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","slug":"nao-o-novo-amor-que-te-assusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-o-novo-amor-que-te-assusta\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o \u00e9 o novo amor que te assusta, \u00e9 a velha dor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por vezes, tem medo de voltar a dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m? A simples ideia de se apaixonar de novo assusta-o?<\/p>\n

You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right?<\/p>\n

Acabaste de juntar todos os peda\u00e7os do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e colaste-os de novo, e agora tens medo de te apaixonar por algu\u00e9m que pode voltar a partir o teu fr\u00e1gil cora\u00e7\u00e3o num milh\u00e3o de pedacinhos.<\/p>\n

Yes, that’s an option, a risk, but you have to take that risk because sometimes, believe me, things turn out completely different. <\/em><\/p>\n

Por vezes, as coisas correm bem e tudo o que temos de fazer \u00e9 acreditar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acreditar no amor verdadeiro porque ele existe<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Acreditar e esperar que tudo vai correr bem. Mant\u00e9m a f\u00e9 no amor verdadeiro porque ele existe.<\/em><\/p>\n

That real, honest love isn’t some imaginary, ordinary or temporary feeling. It’s so much more than that. It’s one very powerful force that can make your whole world spin.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t scary, it’s incredibly beautiful<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Why should you be scared of something so pure and wonderful like true love is? It won’t hurt you, and if it does, then it’s n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor verdadeiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor abala-nos completamente. D\u00e1-nos uma raz\u00e3o para viver e d\u00e1-nos a for\u00e7a para continuar sempre na vida, por muito m\u00e1s que as coisas se tornem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Traz tantas cores bonitas para a nossa vida. Muda-nos completamente e torna-nos uma pessoa melhor. Faz-nos apaixonar por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e pela nossa vida tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

So, tell me one good reason why you should be afraid of something so wonderful? Don’t allow that fear to ruin your chances of feeling true happiness.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your old pain to make you lose faith in true love<\/h2>\n

\"pensativo_sonhando<\/p>\n

Okay, it didn’t work out for you once, but that’s not a reason to push love to the side. It’s not a reason to close all the doors of your heart to real love.<\/p>\n

I know that once you’re tra\u00eddo pelo \u00fanico<\/a> who swore they would never betray or hurt you, it’s difficult to give your trust and your heart to someone new, to someone who could hurt you the same.<\/p>\n

I know it’s tough, but you must be tougher than that. No matter how much someone hurt you, don’t ever allow it to burn all the bridges between you and true love.<\/em><\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 um conto de fadas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It doesn’t just happen. It requires tra\u00eddo pelo \u00fanico<\/a>A vida de uma pessoa \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil, com tantos sacrif\u00edcios e compromissos diferentes e tanta compreens\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That’s exactly why your last fairy tale didn’t have a happy ending. He wasn’t your prince and Deus retirou-o da sua vida<\/a> s\u00f3 porque Ele quer que encontres a pessoa certa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants you to find a man with whom you won’t have a \u201chappy ending\u201d either because your love story won’t ever end. He wants you to find your prince.<\/em><\/p>\n

Abrir-se de novo ao amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t close your heart to a new love just because someone has hurt you before. Don’t be afraid to fall in love again because love truly is the most beautiful thing in the entire universe.<\/p>\n

Love is the whole point of living. To know this, we have that other person who’ll always be there by our side no matter what.<\/p>\n

If you close all your doors to a new love, you’ll regret it one day for sure. Life is too short and it might be too late for regrets afterward.<\/em><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Porque mereces ser amado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sei que, no fundo, tudo o que queres \u00e9 ser amado dessa forma altru\u00edsta e incondicional.<\/p>\n

I know you want to feel that fairy tale kind of love, and one day, you will because it’s what you deserve. You’re a little bit damaged, but you still have a pure heart full of love that also deserves it.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll meet someone who’ll make you feel loved, happy and respected every damn day.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll get everything tra\u00eddo pelo \u00fanico<\/a> e muito mais. Basta esperar, ter esperan\u00e7a e acreditar.<\/p>\n

Deixem o vosso passado onde ele pertence<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It’s high time to forget about your past and leave it where it belongs, indeed, once and for all. Forgive those who hurt you and forgive yourself for being naive enough to trust them.<\/p>\n

Forget about your painful past and those bad experiences. You’re only wasting your precious time.<\/p>\n

You should turn to the future and forget about those things that happened when you couldn\u2019t change anything about it.<\/p>\n

You’re not afraid of new love, your old pain is what hurts and scares you. Free yourself from the shackles of your past. Let the pain go out of your life and let the happiness in.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you sometimes feel scared of giving your heart to someone again? Does that bare thought of falling in love again scare the hell out of you? You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right? You just collected all the broken pieces of your heart and glued them back together, and now, you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":116243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116161","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Its-Not-The-New-Love-That-Scares-You-Its-The-Old-Pain-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116161"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}