{"id":11617,"date":"2020-08-09T12:01:09","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T12:01:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11617"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:07:18","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:07:18","slug":"vai-se-embora-sem-deixar-alternativa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vai-se-embora-sem-deixar-alternativa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ela se for embora, \u00e9 porque n\u00e3o lhe deixaste outra escolha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Conhece-la demasiado bem e sabe que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 o tipo de pessoa que desiste de nada t\u00e3o facilmente. Ela n\u00e3o vira as costas a nada sem uma boa raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 uma crente e uma pessoa que, de alguma forma, continua sempre a encontrar esperan\u00e7a em s\u00edtios onde mais ningu\u00e9m pensaria em procurar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ela \u00e9 uma lutadora.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She fights for the things and people she thinks are worth it to her last breath. She never rests and she doesn\u2019t settle no matter what others tell her.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because she just isn\u2019t that type of person. When she puts her mind and heart on something, she goes to the very end. And it\u2019s the same with you.<\/p>\n<p>You know how much she wants you and how hard she\u2019d fight for you. She\u2019d fight anyone who\u2019d tell her a single bad word about you.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone who&#8217;d tell her you&#8217;re not good she&#8217;d convince them of the opposite.&nbsp;And she\u2019d never let anyone throw dirt on you no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of the things you do to her, she\u2019d never let anyone make you look bad. Nobody has the right to do that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tu significas o mundo para ela.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108165\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-and-woman-kissing-e1603880541909.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beijarem-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-and-woman-kissing-e1603880541909.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-and-woman-kissing-e1603880541909-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The thing is you probably don\u2019t deserve all the things she does for you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/stop-fighting-someone-whos-okay-losing\/\">a sua luta constante<\/a>, you don\u2019t deserve her endless efforts and you don\u2019t deserve to have her next to you because you don\u2019t appreciate her.<\/p>\n<p>There is probably someone who\u2019d be the most grateful man in this world to have her next to him but she doesn\u2019t want anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t picture herself next to some other man. Because it\u2019s you she wants. It\u2019s you she knows and it\u2019s you\u2014it has always been you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ter\u00e1s um lugar no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para sempre.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No matter how things turn out between you two, no matter if she\u2019s still with you in the next few years or not, no matter if you find someone else or if she realizes she\u2019s capable of loving someone else other than you, you\u2019ll always have a special place in her heart.<\/p>\n<p>Plenty have tried to convince her that she deserves better than you and perhaps she\u2019d be able to wrap her mind around it, but her heart doesn\u2019t want to listen.<\/p>\n<p>O cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela quer-te a ti e provavelmente s\u00f3 te querer\u00e1 a ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, se alguma vez vires <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/left-no-choice-give\/\">ela desistir de ti<\/a>, know it isn\u2019t because she wants to, but because she feels like she has no other choice.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>If she sees that she doesn\u2019t mean to you as much as you mean to her, it will break her.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108178\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-e1603881692283.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-e1603881692283.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-e1603881692283-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Saber que \u00e9 ela quem ama mais ou que nunca receber\u00e1 tanto quanto d\u00e1, apunhalar\u00e1 o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o como o punhal mais afiado.<\/p>\n<p>You know why? Because she is always the one who cares more. She\u2019s always the one to love more and she\u2019s always the one who tries the hardest.<\/p>\n<p>And for once, she hoped to find someone who\u2019ll do the same for her. She hoped you will be that someone. So if she sees her hopes were in vain again, she won\u2019t be able to bear it.<\/p>\n<p><b>If she feels alone when she\u2019s with you, she\u2019ll choose to walk away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the point of being with someone if you&#8217;re going to feel alone? The moment she feels like this with you, she\u2019ll know what to do.<\/p>\n<p>Because being with someone and feeling alone is a clear promise that at the end, she\u2019ll be the one to get broken. Why would she willingly allow something like that to happen to her?<\/p>\n<p>No sane person would, so if you ever make her feel like she doesn\u2019t have you or that she can\u2019t count on you when there isn\u2019t a single thing she wouldn\u2019t do for you, she will realize it\u2019s time for her to walk away.<\/p>\n<p>Ela ver\u00e1 que n\u00e3o tem nada a procurar consigo.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you make her feel like she doesn\u2019t matter, she won\u2019t see the point in fighting for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108182\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-with-long-black-hair-e1603881840434.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste com cabelo preto comprido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-with-long-black-hair-e1603881840434.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-with-long-black-hair-e1603881840434-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She is a fighter, but she isn\u2019t stupid. She can only fight for someone for a certain amount of time before she realizes she\u2019s fighting in vain.<\/p>\n<p>If she needs to fight for your love, if she needs to fight for your time or for you to notice her, then she\u2019s fighting for someone who clearly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/13-razoes-para-nao-merecer\/\">doesn\u2019t deserve her.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s fighting for someone who either doesn\u2019t value or love her. And no matter how much she might want you, she\u2019ll rather leave than stay and fight for the things you should give her on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Staying would make no sense. There is no point in fighting for someone who doesn&#8217;t see her.<\/p>\n<p><b>If it crosses her mind that you\u2019d be happier without her than with her, she\u2019ll choose to make you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you tell her she\u2019s hard to love, that she\u2019s too needy or that she\u2019s choking you with all her emotions, she won\u2019t try to convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>She can fight the whole world for you, but she can\u2019t fight you for you.<\/p>\n<p>The minute she notices you are bugged by her presence or that the happiness you feel comes from her absence, she will choose to make you happy, and she&#8217;ll do that by leaving.<\/p>\n<p>Veja, n\u00e3o importa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/15-sinais-comprovados-de-que-ama-profundamente\/\">o quanto ela te ama<\/a> or how much she needs you, she won\u2019t try to tie you down. She won\u2019t force you to choose her and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vai-implorar-escolher-merecer\/\"> she won\u2019t beg you for anything.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>She will fight as long as you give her something to fight for. But she\u2019ll also know when to stop giving all of her to someone who isn\u2019t giving her anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>E se ela se for embora, saiba que se foi porque n\u00e3o lhe deixou outra alternativa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108429\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se ela se for embora, \u00e9 porque n\u00e3o lhe deixaste outra escolha\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know her too well and you know she isn\u2019t the type of person who gives up on anything that easily. She doesn\u2019t turn her back on anything for no good reason. She is a believer and she is a person who somehow always keeps finding hope in places where no one else would ever&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":108186,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-She-Walks-Away-Its-Because-You-Left-Her-No-Other-Choice.jpg",1000,667,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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