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<\/p>\nYou’ve spent a significant amount of time in your life figuring out dating and romance. Truth be told, this has been one of your primary concerns ever since your teenage years. Well, you’re not alone.<\/p>\n
But is it possible that you never got to the bottom of your love life because you had no idea how many types of relationships there are? Yes, there is much more out there than the patterns that you’re used to.<\/p>\n
Ent\u00e3o, quais s\u00e3o os tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es? Como \u00e9 que se reconhece cada um deles? E o mais importante: como lidar com eles da melhor forma poss\u00edvel?<\/p>\n
We’ve got you covered. Here are the answers to all of these questions and more.<\/p>\n
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Many people see this kind of interpersonal relationship as normal and typical; the truth is that it\u2019s anything but healthy.<\/p>\n
Basically, when you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de codepend\u00eancia<\/a>, you don\u2019t love your partner the right way \u2013 you just think you do.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019re addicted to them. It’s normal for your partner to play an important role in your life, but it’s much worse than this in your case.<\/p>\n You\u2019re obsessed with their presence in your life, and everything they do or say affects you.<\/p>\n Com o tempo, o perder-se<\/a> completely. Your primary goal in life is to keep this person by your side because you\u2019re convinced that you would literally die without them.<\/strong><\/p>\n No, this is not romantic, and it\u2019s certainly not the way a romance saud\u00e1vel<\/a> should look. I hate to break it to you, but you\u2019re a namorada pegajosa<\/a> or boyfriend if you\u2019re codependent.<\/p>\n You have no self-sufficiency, no autonomy, and no life outside of your relationship. Truth to be told, you\u2019re unable to express any type of emotion that doesn\u2019t concern your partner.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t care what happens in the world outside of your intimate relationship, as it\u2019s the only thing that really matters to you.<\/p>\n Sofre de falta de autoestima e vive com um medo constante de que o seu parceiro se afaste de si.<\/p>\n With time, you develop serious abandonment trauma. Your entire world revolves around this person \u2013 they give you meaning and make you fulfilled.<\/p>\n Without them, you\u2019d be utterly lost, and your existence would be pointless. At least, this is how you feel.<\/p>\n O pior \u00e9 que o seu namorado ou namorada permite a sua obsess\u00e3o. Eles gostam do facto de voc\u00ea depender deles, mesmo que provavelmente nunca o admitam.<\/strong><\/p>\n Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t have stayed with you so long, would they? The truth is that the other party enjoys the emotional control they\u2019ve managed to impose on you.<\/p>\n This is the only way for them to feel relevant. Your behavior serves them as an ego boost, and that\u2019s the only reason they keep you around.<\/p>\n O oposto de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o codependente \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o independente. \u00c0 partida, os casais independentes podem parecer tudo menos verdadeiros parceiros, uma vez que raramente seguem os padr\u00f5es tradicionais de relacionamento.<\/p>\n Imagina-os a viver vidas completamente separadas e, para algumas pessoas, podem at\u00e9 parecer estranhos. No entanto, isso est\u00e1 longe de ser verdade.<\/strong><\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re in an independent relationship, you remain the person you were before meeting your loved one.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not subject to personal growth and improvement.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s just that neither of you changes the essence of their beings just to please the other person. Even though you\u2019re in a relationship, you keep the life you had before your partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes, you two meet halfway on some things \u2013 that is completely normal. However, you still have your goals, career, friends, family relationships, and hobbies.<\/p>\n Now you\u2019ve just found someone to accompany you on this journey called life. You\u2019ve found someone who won\u2019t try to mold you and who won\u2019t do anything to endanger your individuality.<\/p>\n A melhor parte desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 que you don\u2019t actually need your partner<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019ve just chosen to be with them.<\/p>\n Of course, you would miss them if they were gone. You would grieve their absence, but your world wouldn\u2019t stop spinning if that happened.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t depend on them financially, emotionally, or in any other way. Their departure wouldn\u2019t mess up your life too much, and it certainly wouldn\u2019t significantly reduce its quality.<\/strong><\/p>\n This might sound harsh, but in this situation, you both put yourselves first. It doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t love your boyfriend or girlfriend \u2013 you just love yourself more.<\/p>\n Trust me: this doesn\u2019t make you selfish. It only shows that you\u2019re both mature and have the capacity to look at things realistically, without feelings included.<\/p>\n Quer queiram admitir ou n\u00e3o, o vosso amor pode desaparecer um dia. Podem separar-se. You\u2019ll be left with the life you\u2019ve built outside of your romance, so it better be a good one.<\/p>\n The title says it all: in this relationship, there is a clear difference between an active and a passive partner. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve seen tons of relationships, especially marriages like this.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking about the ones where, for example, a wife\/mother is in charge of basically everything. She does the cooking, the cleaning, and other chores.<\/p>\n She is the one responsible for the children\u2019s upbringing, and the one everyone consults with before making a life-changing decision.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, o marido segue a corrente. Na maior parte das vezes, \u00e9 um espetador passivo perante os seus pr\u00f3prios familiares.<\/p>\n He has no interest in how the kids are raised, where they will go on their next vacation, or what they\u2019ll have for lunch. This man\u2019s only responsibility is to go to work and bring money home.<\/p>\n Durante o resto do dia, deita-se no sof\u00e1, v\u00ea televis\u00e3o e age como um verdadeiro parasita. \u00c9 claro que as coisas podem acontecer nos dois sentidos, e este \u00e9 apenas um exemplo.<\/p>\n However, an active\/passive relationship doesn\u2019t always have to be this obvious \u2013 sometimes you don\u2019t even realize that your relationship struggles with this kind of dynamic.<\/p>\n Na maioria dos casos, o parceiro ativo \u00e9 aquele que carrega toda a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s costas, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/strong><\/p>\n At the end of the day, they\u2019re the ones keeping it alive, while the other person just tags along.<\/strong><\/p>\n A raz\u00e3o pela qual este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 mais comum do que se possa pensar \u00e9 que os opostos atraem-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n Quando se encontram pela primeira vez, o parceiro passivo acalma o ativo. Por outro lado, a parte ativa traz a excita\u00e7\u00e3o de que a passiva sente falta.<\/p>\n However, as soon as the initial butterflies are gone, you face trouble in paradise. The active partner starts to feel overwhelmed while the passive one can\u2019t handle the pressure.<\/p>\n Muitas pessoas cometem um erro ao pensar que ativo\/passivo e dominante\/tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es submissas<\/a> s\u00e3o a mesma coisa. No entanto, o facto \u00e9 que diferem em muitos aspectos.<\/p>\n Just because you\u2019re an active partner doesn\u2019t make your boyfriend or girlfriend submissive.<\/p>\n You might be louder, more capable, or even more aggressive when it comes to your common interests, but that doesn\u2019t mean that the other person is automatically compliant.<\/p>\n Quando ouve estes termos, a primeira coisa que provavelmente lhe vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9 o quarto de dormir.<\/p>\n Bem, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante\/submissa \u00e9 muito mais do que isso, e as suas actividades entre os len\u00e7\u00f3is s\u00e3o apenas uma parte dela.<\/p>\n A submissive partner has no say in and out of the bedroom, and all control is in the hands of the dominant one. They\u2019re the one who governs both of your lives in all of its aspects.<\/p>\n \u00c0 primeira vista, o parceiro dominante tem mais vantagens neste tipo de din\u00e2mica de poder. A verdade \u00e9 que ele tem muito mais direitos.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, their responsibilities are bigger, as well. It’s their duty to protect their esposa submissa<\/a> ou marido, para cuidar deles de todas as formas poss\u00edveis e para os conduzir na vida.<\/p>\n They\u2019re in charge of the entire decision-making process in the relationship and, therefore, take all the blame if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n Para a maioria das pessoas, uma din\u00e2mica de poder dominante\/submissa \u00e9 a pior coisa de sempre. No entanto, algumas gostam da sua superioridade e outras adoram ser obedientes.<\/p>\n So, if it works for them \u2013 who are we to judge?<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que existe uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre um romance em que ambas as partes concordaram com esta configura\u00e7\u00e3o e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que esta luta pelo poder \u00e9 for\u00e7ada.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you\u2019re a submissive partner, you\u2019re not your loved one\u2019s slave, nor are they your master.<\/p>\n O mais importante \u00e9 que pode e deve p\u00f4r fim a este jogo no momento em que ele o come\u00e7a a incomodar.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you heard about this kind of relationship. It was named after the famous philosopher Plato. With time, the concept has been modified, although the source idea has remained the same.<\/p>\n Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o plat\u00f3nica, voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro partilham emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas um pelo outro.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re committed to making your romance work; you share the same values, common interests, and you plan a future together.<\/strong><\/p>\n No entanto, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de f\u00edsico a acontecer entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/strong> It\u2019s not that you just don\u2019t sleep together \u2013 there is also no touching and kissing. Basically, there is no physical attraction and chemistry.<\/p>\n Isto pode parecer estranho ou mesmo imposs\u00edvel para encontros modernos<\/a> but trust me \u2013 a lot of people choose this relationship as something that suits them best.<\/p>\n Para estes casais, a intimidade \u00e9 muito mais do que satisfazer os seus impulsos prim\u00e1rios. Concentram-se noutras coisas, como formar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda e mais forte e tornarem-se as melhores vers\u00f5es poss\u00edveis de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n Parece demasiado bom para ser verdade, certo? Bem, o facto \u00e9 que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitas as pessoas que conseguem fazer com que este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o resulte.<\/p>\n Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have needs that we can\u2019t control.<\/strong><\/p>\n This is why these relationships fail in most cases: one of the partners finds the passion they\u2019re lacking back home and realizes that this is not how they can continue living.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, please don\u2019t mistake friend-zoning for a platonic relationship. Theoretically, they\u2019re similar, but not the same.<\/p>\n Em ambos os casos, h\u00e1 duas pessoas que s\u00e3o amigas e, de certa forma, partilham uma vida em comum, mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de f\u00edsico entre elas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nevertheless, when you\u2019re in a platonic relationship, you both agree to these terms.<\/strong> Por outro lado, uma friendzone significa que uma pessoa tem sentimentos n\u00e3o t\u00e3o plat\u00f3nicos pela outra.<\/p>\n They would never choose to be platonic if they had the chance \u2013 they are just left with no other choice.<\/p>\n Ao mesmo tempo, na maioria dos casos, a outra pessoa n\u00e3o faz ideia dos seus sentimentos e v\u00ea-o apenas como um amigo.<\/p>\n When you start a new relationship, you don\u2019t know where it will take you or how long it will last. But every time, you hope that this is the real deal.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t think about the end, nor do you plan a break-up now that everything is going smoothly. At least, this is how things usually work. Well, with a rela\u00e7\u00e3o tempor\u00e1ria<\/a>, tudo \u00e9 diferente.<\/p>\n From the very first day, this romantic relationship has an expiration date. You know it\u2019s not permanent, and you don\u2019t give your entire self to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n You don\u2019t plan your future with this person, you don\u2019t introduce them to your friends and family, and you don\u2019t share your deepest thoughts and feelings with them.<\/p>\n Officially, they\u2019re your boyfriend\/girlfriend, but they\u2019re not your life partner.<\/p>\n You might be moving out of town in a couple of months but don\u2019t want a long-distance relationship. Or you\u2019re not ready to share your life with someone else but don\u2019t want to be alone either.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado com os romances tempor\u00e1rios sob uma condi\u00e7\u00e3o: que ambos concordem com os termos da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. A pior coisa que pode fazer \u00e9 dar falsas esperan\u00e7as ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, na maioria dos casos, este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00f3 \u00e9 visto como tempor\u00e1rio para uma pessoa. Para ela, este romance tem uma data de validade, enquanto a outra pessoa n\u00e3o faz a m\u00ednima ideia.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ou a outra parte recusa-se simplesmente a aceitar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual. L\u00e1 est\u00e3o eles, a fazer planos e a esperar que tudo mude no futuro.<\/p>\n V\u00eaem-se a ir para o altar com a pessoa que os v\u00ea como um solu\u00e7\u00e3o tempor\u00e1ria<\/a> em vez de uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o permanente. Neste caso, este romance n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel, \u00e9 t\u00f3xico e, acima de tudo, \u00e9 injusto.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, hoje em dia, cada vez mais pessoas se envolvem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de evitamento sem sequer o saberem. Em termos simples, trata-se de um romance entre duas pessoas que evitam qualquer tipo de intimidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n But I\u2019m not referring to physical intimacy this time. I\u2019m talking about real liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a>.<\/strong> Consequently, they\u2019ve built strong walls around their hearts. They\u2019ve become overly careful, and their worst fear is of being hurt again.<\/p>\n So, they act as if they\u2019re heartless since they\u2019re convinced it\u2019s the only way to protect themselves from going through the same hell once more.<\/p>\n Estas pessoas s\u00e3o emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis e escolhem conscientemente parceiros com quem podem ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o do tipo evitante.<\/strong><\/p>\n The avoidant person doesn\u2019t include their boyfriend\/girlfriend in their life, they refuse to open up completely, and they never give them their whole heart.<\/p>\n Instead, they\u2019re constantly on the lookout. They avoid any situation that might reveal their vulnerabilities and force them to lay down their shield.<\/p>\n T\u00eam problemas de confian\u00e7a profundamente enraizados e est\u00e3o prontos a fugir no momento em que v\u00eaem que a outra pessoa se aproximou demasiado.<\/p>\n O problema com estas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 que o outro parceiro acaba quase sempre por se sentir emocionalmente negligenciado.<\/strong> At first, you think that you\u2019ll tear down your loved one\u2019s walls with time.<\/p>\n However, despite all of your attempts, that doesn\u2019t happen. You end up feeling unloved and unwanted, which severely damages your self-esteem and mental health.<\/p>\n Sabe aqueles casais que est\u00e3o juntos h\u00e1 muito tempo?<\/p>\n Fizeram tudo de acordo com as regras: licenciaram-se juntos, ficaram noivos, casaram e agora t\u00eam filhos, um c\u00e3o e vivem numa casa grande, vedada com um postigo branco, nos sub\u00farbios.<\/p>\n At first glance, this kind of life looks like a fairytale. After all, this is what we\u2019ve all dreamt of while growing up.<\/p>\n Mas, por vezes, as coisas s\u00e3o demasiado boas para serem verdade.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not claiming that every seemingly perfect relationship is not as great as it seems.<\/p>\n No entanto, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es com gui\u00e3o s\u00e3o exatamente assim. De facto, na maioria dos casos, fazem lembrar aquelas fam\u00edlias Stepford.<\/strong><\/p>\n They are together and do everything by the book because that is how things should be. These couples aren\u2019t living the life they want because they\u2019re too busy fulfilling expectations.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t know whether they\u2019ve been told that their life has to look like this, if they come from a traditional family who taught them that this was the only way, or if they\u2019re just too obsessed with meeting society\u2019s standards.<\/p>\n Para os espectadores, estes casais t\u00eam tudo: t\u00eam empregos est\u00e1veis, pagam a hipoteca e v\u00e3o de f\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n O dia do seu casamento foi m\u00e1gico, os seus filhos est\u00e3o bem criados, visitam as suas fam\u00edlias, passam os domingos juntos e convivem com outras fam\u00edlias semelhantes \u00e0 sua.<\/p>\n Mas ser\u00e1 que eles t\u00eam amor verdadeiro? Existe aqui uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional genu\u00edna? Ser\u00e1 que se ouvem realmente um ao outro?<\/p>\n Nobody has ever heard them arguing \u2013 but you won\u2019t see them kissing either. One question arises here: Are people in scripted relationships robots or human beings?<\/strong><\/p>\n As pessoas que lidam com v\u00e1rias inseguran\u00e7as t\u00eam um desejo incontrol\u00e1vel de valida\u00e7\u00e3o em diferentes formas de relacionamento.<\/p>\n They need someone who will tell them that they\u2019re enough, that they\u2019re doing okay, and that they\u2019re valuable. Otherwise, they won\u2019t see their own worth.<\/p>\n Normalmente, isto come\u00e7a na primeira inf\u00e2ncia, quando uma crian\u00e7a pede a valida\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus pais, amigos ou professores.<\/p>\n However, if they don\u2019t get the right kind and amount of proof that they matter, they\u2019ll continue seeking it through adulthood.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in this type of relationship, all you need is your partner\u2019s acceptance. Your self-esteem completely depends on their opinion, so you\u2019re also, in a way, co-dependent.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whatever you do, you do it for them to think that you\u2019re enough. You have the need to prove your worth to them because you don\u2019t have it without their validation.<\/p>\n You constantly wonder if you could do better, if they\u2019re happy with you, and if you\u2019re giving them all you should. The moment you see their dissatisfaction, you\u2019re convinced that you did something wrong.<\/p>\n Pensa demasiado em cada palavra e movimento. Culpa-se a si pr\u00f3prio por tudo o que est\u00e1 mal na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, como se a pessoa n\u00e3o tivesse qualquer responsabilidade na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight: someone else can never give you confirmation of your worth until you start feeling valuable. It shouldn\u2019t depend on your relationship but your own opinion and feA primeira pessoa que se cruza no seu caminho, e voc\u00ea fica<\/strong>elings.<\/p>\n I\u2019m trying to say that your starting point for change has to be learning how to build your self-confidence.<\/strong><\/p>\n All the love you\u2019re getting from your partner is completely pointless unless you learn como amar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, you\u2019ve been in a long term relationship which ended badly. In fact, it\u2019s irrelevant how long it lasted. Truth to be told, maybe it wasn\u2019t an actual relationship in the first place.<\/p>\n Either way, the bottom line is the same: you got your heart broken. I don\u2019t care if it was infidelity, if the other person didn\u2019t want you, abused you, or just didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n You\u2019re disappointed and see no light at the end of the tunnel. You\u2019ve stopped believing in love and hoping that one day, you\u2019ll find happiness.<\/p>\n Pensa que todas as mulheres ou os homens s\u00e3o iguais<\/a> e que toda a gente te vai magoar da mesma forma que o teu ex.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t see yourself giving your heart to another person ever again, and you gave up on your \u201chappily ever after.\u201d<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que faz? Processa as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es? Fica \u00e0 espera que as coisas melhorem?<\/p>\n Do you heal in a healthy way? Do you accept that you\u2019re emotionally unavailable and abstain from any romantic relationships?<\/p>\n No \u2013 you do the complete opposite. Andamos por a\u00ed a resolver os nossos problemas criando novos problemas, o que, como \u00e9 \u00f3bvio, nunca d\u00e1 bons resultados.<\/strong><\/p>\n Agarramos na primeira pessoa que se cruza no nosso caminho e come\u00e7amos a sair com ela.<\/strong> Not only that \u2013 you also start things seriously.<\/p>\n However, you\u2019re doing it all to forget about your ex.<\/strong> You\u2019re using this person who has nothing to do with your scars, and you\u2019re hurting them the same way you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n E isto, meu amigo, \u00e9 um exemplo t\u00edpico de como rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete<\/a> roll. The sad thing is that they\u2019re all around us.<\/p>\n The problem is that the other person has no clue that they\u2019re your rebound. They have no idea that you\u2019re taking advantage of them and that they\u2019re serving as a bandage for your crushed heart.<\/p>\n That is precisely what makes this entire arrangement wrong and evil \u2013 you\u2019re hurting someone harmless in the process. Tu condu-los<\/a>e d\u00e1-lhes falsas esperan\u00e7as.<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes, you\u2019re with your BF\/GF physically, but mentally and emotionally, you\u2019re somewhere far away. And that is something no person in this world deserves. Basically, you\u2019re no better than your ex.<\/p>\n Quando se come\u00e7a a namorar com algu\u00e9m novo, a \u00faltima coisa que se quer \u00e9 parecer desesperado.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want your new boyfriend\/girlfriend to think that you\u2019ve hit the jackpot by meeting them or to see you as some loser whose only goal is to find someone to love them.<\/p>\n After all, being emotional is out of style, isn\u2019t it? We\u2019re all acting casual, and the one who shows feelings first is a loser.<\/p>\n So, you don\u2019t put your cards on the table. Passam tempo juntos e dormem juntos, mas nunca perguntam qual \u00e9 a vossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ve never committed to not seeing other people, even though this is what you\u2019d secretly like to happen.<\/strong> Esperamos que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o comece a parecer outra coisa um dia destes.<\/p>\n O number one problem is that everything looks like you\u2019re in a real relationship, but you\u2019ve actually never defined it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tudo parece perfeito, at\u00e9 que chega uma altura em que se sente incomodado com alguma coisa. Talvez eles quase namorisquem com outras pessoas ou ainda tenham aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros instaladas.<\/p>\n But you can\u2019t say anything, can you? After all, you haven\u2019t made things clear, and they never promised their fidelity.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, this is what\u2019s called an quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> \u2013 a trap almost all of us have fallen into at least once.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not against these types of relationships. But remember that it\u2019s all fun and games until one of you catches feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n And I assure you that this will happen sooner or later. I know what you must think: you\u2019re above that, and you can control yourself.<\/p>\n Well, in most cases \u2013 you can\u2019t. So, it\u2019s better not to start these relationships in the first place to avoid any regrets later.<\/p>\n A balanced relationship is basically the one in which you receive just as much as you take. You put in the amount of effort you\u2019re getting from your partner.<\/p>\n Mas sabes o que diz uma cita\u00e7\u00e3o famosa? \u201cA relationship isn’t always 50\/50. Some days a person will struggle. You suck it up and pick up that 80\/20 cause they need you. That’s love.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to say is that you shouldn\u2019t measure the devotion, time, and effort both of you put into a relationship.<\/p>\n But at the end of the day, when you calculate everything, you\u2019re pretty much on the same level.<\/p>\n Neither partner feels like they\u2019re making all the sacrifices. They don\u2019t feel like they\u2019re moving mountains for someone who isn\u2019t ready to move a finger for their sake.<\/p>\n Tudo neste romance \u00e9 equilibrado, incluindo os seus sentimentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not the one who loves more, nor does your partner feel like their love is unrequited. <\/strong>You two are equals, and that\u2018s the magic of it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ll be straight with you: out of all types of relationships, this is one of the best. Not only that: it also has the most chance of succeeding.<\/p>\n A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o entre si e o seu parceiro \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel. Ambos d\u00e3o tudo de si e unem esfor\u00e7os para que as coisas funcionem.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m sente emocionalmente negligenciada<\/a> ou usado. Ningu\u00e9m se sente mal amado e indesejado. This one is quite similar to the rebound relationship we\u2019ve already discussed. It is also temporary, and one person doesn\u2019t share the same feelings.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re dating someone convenientemente<\/a>, you\u2019re not doing it primarily to get over a person from your past. You\u2019re not necessarily heartbroken or hurt.<\/p>\n In fact, you don\u2019t even have to be extra careful. In this case, you\u2019re not scared of going through the same hell you went through in your past.<\/p>\n Here, you\u2019re with your boyfriend or girlfriend just because you don\u2019t want to be alone. On the other hand, there is no one better around.<\/strong><\/p>\n Despite all of your attempts, you can\u2019t seem to find your perfect match. You know exactly what you\u2019re looking for, but sadly, you haven\u2019t crossed paths with your dream guy or girl yet.<\/p>\n So, you start dating the first person that comes along. There is no extreme chemistry here, and you certainly don\u2019t plan on spending the rest of your life with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n But they\u2019re convenient for the moment.<\/strong> They don\u2019t bother you much, they meet some of your basic standards, you like them to a certain extent, and they keep you company.<\/p>\n It\u2019s better than being alone, isn\u2019t it? Especially if all of your friends are taken, and you could use a plus one.<\/p>\n Well, isn\u2019t it obvious how wrong this is on so many levels?<\/p>\n Let\u2019s start with the fact that you\u2019re dragging someone innocent along. You\u2019ll end up breaking their heart with your little games once you leave them for the person who has everything you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n But not only that: this is also damaging for you. You\u2019re living a lie, and you\u2019re wasting your time on the wrong person while you could be out there searching for your Mr. or Ms. Right.<\/p>\n You know those relationships where it\u2019s all about the fireworks? You feel like you can\u2019t live without this person, but it\u2019s pretty obvious that you two don\u2019t function well together either.<\/p>\n So, you keep going back and forth. You\u2019ve split up more times than anyone can count, but you always find a way back to each other.<\/p>\n Claro que, pelo caminho, arrasta outras pessoas para a sua confus\u00e3o. Come\u00e7a a sair com algu\u00e9m novo, mas, de alguma forma, acaba sempre com o seu ex.<\/p>\n It\u2019s enough for your loved one to look at you to tear down all of your walls. No matter what happens, your love trumps everything.<\/p>\n At least, that is what you think, isn\u2019t it? This must be love \u2013 after all, it\u2019s clear that the two of you are meant to be together.<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. This is a rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> you\u2019ll waste years of your life on.<\/p>\n It\u2019s in human nature to chase what they can\u2019t have. That is exactly what you two do: you run after each other because you\u2019re both so unattainable.<\/p>\n Even though deep down, you\u2019re sure of your partner\u2019s emotions, you never know their next move. They\u2019re unpredictable, and all of this drama makes you feel more alive.<\/strong><\/p>\n As much as you hate to hear this, this is anything but healthy. Instead, it\u2019s poisonous, and it will leave severe consequences for your mental health.<\/p>\n Once again, the name says it all: this is the type of relationship where you\u2019re physically apart from your loved one. But the distance doesn\u2019t impact your love, or at least \u2013 it shouldn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, it all depends on how far away you live from each other. Most long-distance couples don\u2019t meet as often as they\u2019d like, and most of the time, they rely on technology.<\/p>\n A grande quest\u00e3o \u00e9 saber se as rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia acabam por resultar ou n\u00e3o. Bem, tal como em tudo na vida: n\u00e3o existe uma regra e tudo depende.<\/p>\n Antes de mais, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter um plano<\/a>. You can\u2019t continue living like this forever, especially if you want to start a family.<\/strong><\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s crucial that you\u2019re both on the same page here.<\/p>\n Quem se vai mudar para onde? Encontrar-se-\u00e3o a meio caminho, ou um de v\u00f3s deixar\u00e1 a sua vida para tr\u00e1s e juntar-se-\u00e1 \u00e0 outra pessoa?<\/p>\n O que vai acontecer \u00e0s vossas carreiras, amigos, passatempos e fam\u00edlias? Est\u00e3o realmente preparados para dar este grande passo? Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas a que t\u00eam de responder antes de efectuarem quaisquer mudan\u00e7as cruciais.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you don\u2019t have any concrete plans and don\u2019t talk about the future, what\u2019s the point of your rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a>? Planeiam ter encontros FaceTime para o resto da eternidade?<\/p>\n Outra coisa que deve esquecer \u00e9 o ci\u00fame excessivo. Quer queira quer n\u00e3o, o seu parceiro vive do outro lado do pa\u00eds, pelo que n\u00e3o tem outra alternativa sen\u00e3o confiar nele.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re dating, you\u2019re out there on the market. You\u2019re looking for your soulmate, and you\u2019re meeting new people during your quest.<\/strong><\/p>\n You might find your potential dates on a dating app, on social media, or you\u2019re going on blind or speed dates.<\/p>\n But this is not the only definition of dating. There is also an option when you\u2019re dating only one person at a time, but you still don\u2019t call it a relationship.<\/p>\n Either way, dating is completely harmless under the condition that everyone involved knows what they\u2019re getting themselves into.<\/p>\n You have to be clear that you\u2019re not seeing anyone specific and that you\u2019re not ready to be exclusive just yet.<\/p>\n Also, there is nothing wrong if you don\u2019t feel like dating. You\u2019re allowed to flirt and text with someone, but that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re obligated to go on a date with them.<\/p>\n The good thing about being on the dating market is that you get a chance to meet a bunch of new people. You won\u2019t like some of them, but you can always remain friends.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por outro lado, aumenta significativamente as suas hip\u00f3teses de conhecer o \u00fanico<\/a>. <\/strong>Don\u2019t be fooled into thinking that real love has to happen \u2013 sometimes you need to put effort into finding it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not always like in the movies, and you won\u2019t necessarily fall in love with a tua pessoa para sempre<\/a> \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you\u2019ll go out on a few dates, and then you\u2019ll realize that they stand out from everyone else you might be seeing.<\/p>\n Spontaneously, you\u2019ll become exclusive, start a more intimate relationship, and understand that you\u2019re meant for each other. You know, the old fashioned way.<\/p>\n Em poucas palavras, amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> is a type of intimate relationship when you\u2019re hooking up with someone who is your friend. It\u2019s more than a casual affair in which everything revolves around physical pleasure.<\/p>\n Voc\u00ea e essa pessoa t\u00eam uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda. Ela compreende-nos, cuida do nosso bem-estar, ouve-nos e aparece quando precisamos da sua ajuda ou de um ombro amigo.<\/p>\n Para al\u00e9m disso, t\u00eam uma qu\u00edmica fant\u00e1stica e d\u00e3o-se muito bem entre os len\u00e7\u00f3is. Assim, surge a pergunta l\u00f3gica: em que \u00e9 que isto \u00e9 diferente de uma verdadeira rela\u00e7\u00e3o e porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o exclusivos?<\/strong><\/p>\n Bem, antes de mais, este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es quase nunca \u00e9 p\u00fablico. Escondem as vossas pequenas aventuras, o que as torna ainda mais bonitas e excitantes.<\/p>\n Also, you two don\u2019t go out on actual dates. There is no jealousy involved, and you\u2019re allowed to meet and date other people. How perfect is that?<\/p>\n It seems that almost nothing could possibly go wrong here. You get to kiss your best friend whom you\u2019re physically attracted to, but you don\u2019t get the bad sides every romantic relationship brings to the table.<\/p>\n Mas o que \u00e9 que acontece quando se conhece algu\u00e9m novo?<\/strong> I know what you\u2019ll say: \u201cwe\u2019ll end our little fling.\u201d<\/p>\n Mas ser\u00e1 que v\u00e3o mesmo? Continuar\u00e3o a conviver como se nada tivesse acontecido, ou um de v\u00f3s acabar\u00e1 com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido?<\/p>\n Will you be honest with your partner about the romantic history you had with your friend? If the answer is yes, how do you think they\u2019ll take it?<\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 que eles n\u00e3o se importam que voc\u00eas continuem a ser amigos \u00edntimos? Ou pedir-lhe-\u00e3o que se afaste do seu amigo com benef\u00edcios? Se assim for, quem \u00e9 que vais escolher?<\/p>\n Dilemmas, dilemmas, dilemmas. The truth is that it\u2019s quite likely that you\u2019ll find yourself in this situation. And according to relational experts, it will happen sooner than you might think.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you don\u2019t have the answers to all of these questions, I’ll give you a piece of relationship advice: maybe it\u2019s better to stay away from this arrangement.<\/p>\n Outra raz\u00e3o para n\u00e3o o fazer \u00e9 a sua instabilidade emocional. It\u2019s more likely that you\u2019ll apaixonar-se pelo seu amigo<\/a> (who you already love in a non-romantical way) than with some stranger you\u2019ve just met.<\/strong><\/p>\n What happens if one person\u2019s feelings grow, but the other\u2019s don\u2019t? The end of your friendship, that\u2019s right. An open relationship doesn\u2019t equal infidelity. When you\u2019re unfaithful in a monogamous relationship, you go behind your partner\u2019s back.<\/p>\n You deceive them into thinking that they\u2019re the only one in your life while you\u2019re actually backstabbing them with your lover.<\/p>\n In an open relationship, all cards are on the table, without anything hidden. You\u2019re both allowed to see other people, to go on dates, or even to sleep with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n No entanto, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, voltam sempre um para o outro. Por mais estranho que isto possa parecer a alguns, alguns casais gostam realmente deste tipo de romance.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t love each other any less than \u201cregular\u201d couples, and they only see this as a little hobby that keeps the spark alive.<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que acontece quando algu\u00e9m ultrapassa os limites? Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta, h\u00e1 sempre um conjunto de regras: uma lista de coisas que s\u00e3o aceit\u00e1veis e inaceit\u00e1veis.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mas ser\u00e1 que nos conseguimos controlar? Quem s\u00e3o <\/strong><\/p>\n can guarantee that you won\u2019t fall in love with one of your dates?<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: this level of trust is admirable, and not many could stand it. However, things go unplanned in a split second.<\/p>\n No final do dia, lembre-se que cada romance \u00e9 uma hist\u00f3ria de amor \u00fanica. Estes tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem servir como ponto de partida para identificar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e, com sorte, melhor\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n Esque\u00e7a o que os outros v\u00e3o dizer e escolha a op\u00e7\u00e3o certa que mais lhe conv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n The only thing that matters is you and your partner’s satisfaction and joy, and nobody else, besides you two have a say in these things.<\/p>\n Also, if you’re intrigued and want to learn more about tipos interessantes de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>, consulte o nosso novo conte\u00fado sobre o poliamoroso<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, de que tipo \u00e9 que gosta mais?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" You’ve spent a significant amount of time in your life figuring out dating and romance. Truth be told, this has been one of your primary concerns ever since your teenage years. Well, you’re not alone. 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Independente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
O que \u00e9 que faz com que seja uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n
\nAnd if that happens, what remains? Well, you\u2019ll be left alone with yourself.<\/p>\nAtivo\/passivo<\/h2>\n
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-holding-mans-hand.jpg\")
<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que funciona?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 insustent\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n
Dominante\/submissa<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-hugging-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Poder\u00e1 ser bem sucedido?<\/h3>\n
Plat\u00f3nico<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-smiling.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
O que \u00e9 que pode correr mal?<\/h3>\n
Friendzone<\/h3>\n
Tempor\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-kissing-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que funciona?<\/h3>\n
Quando \u00e9 que n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n
Evitar<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-standing-outdoor.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
\nMuitas vezes, estas pessoas foram magoadas no passado.<\/p>\nNeglig\u00eancia emocional<\/h3>\n
Com gui\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"fam\u00edlia](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/family-having-fun-in-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nQual \u00e9 o seu aspeto?<\/h3>\n
Onde \u00e9 que pode correr mal?<\/h3>\n
Valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nPorque \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/h3>\n
O que \u00e9 que o torna errado?<\/h3>\n
Recupera\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-holding-hands-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
O que \u00e9 que o torna pouco saud\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n
Quase<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-sitting-near-water-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 prejudicial?<\/h3>\n
Equilibrado<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-hugging.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel?<\/h3>\n
\nYou\u2019re 100% into the other person. There are no hidden insecurities or traumas.<\/p>\nConveniente<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-sitting-on-pavement.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 mau?<\/h3>\n
T\u00f3xico<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-kissing-3.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o apelativo?<\/h3>\n
Longa dist\u00e2ncia<\/h2>\n
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Dura?<\/h3>\n
Namoro<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-having-coffee-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Onde \u00e9 que isso pode levar?<\/h3>\n
Amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-laying-on-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que pode correr mal?<\/h3>\n
\nDo you want to ruin it forever for a few moments of passion? Of course, you don\u2019t. That\u2019s what I thought.<\/p>\nAberto<\/h2>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o mau?<\/h3>\n
Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais
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<\/h2>\n