{"id":11639,"date":"2019-06-09T12:44:20","date_gmt":"2019-06-09T12:44:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11639"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:33:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:33:41","slug":"nao-ir-a-lado-nenhum-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-ir-a-lado-nenhum-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se n\u00e3o vamos a lado nenhum, deixa-me ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

They say when nothing goes right in life, turn left. But I don\u2019t want to turn left, I don\u2019t want to move anywhere from you, I want to move in this life with you.<\/p>\n

I want you and I\u2019ve been wanting you for a long time. And I want us to finally be serious about our future and about life. I don\u2019t want to be stuck in the same spot my whole life and I don\u2019t want to be one of those people who is not moving anywhere.<\/p>\n

I know we\u2019re capable of achieving so much more, I\u2019m just not sure why we aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Pod\u00edamos ser muito mais<\/a> and we could be going places, but something has kept holding us in the same spot for a long time now. I don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m adventurous and I want to be able to look back on my life knowing that I made the best of it. I want to have only a few regrets or no regrets at all. And knowing that I stayed in a relationship that wasn\u2019t moving anywhere for too long is something that I\u2019ll regret at some point in life.<\/p>\n

See, this is something I can\u2019t allow.<\/p>\n

Detesto r\u00f3tulos e detesto fazer promessas mas, verdade seja dita, agora preciso de ambos.<\/p>\n

I need to know we\u2019re not just some irrelevant stop-off in each other\u2019s lives and I need to know that we\u2019re both on the same page.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be a victim of an almost relationship or that woman who was hoping to get something out of a man who was just messing around. No. I\u2019m just not going to willingly waste my time, my efforts and myself on something that has no future whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Sometimes things don\u2019t need to be complicated in life too much.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want to be with me, be with me. But only me. Be with me and don\u2019t play games. No other options, no other girls, no messing around or putting others in front of me.<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re doing this, let\u2019s do it right. Because if we aren\u2019t going to do it right, what\u2019s the point in doing it at all?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me perguntamo-nos o que somos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Depois de todo este tempo, acho que ambos merecemos mais do que estarmos presos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem nome, perguntando-nos o que significamos um para o outro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not afraid to tell you I want you. I want all of you and I want just you with me in this relationship. So if you\u2019re not ready to do the same, if our wishes don\u2019t overlap, let\u2019s not waste each other\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s not create an illusion that we have a future together or that we\u2019re going somewhere.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let me keep hoping that we\u2019re something more than we actually are. Just be true to me\u2014I deserve at least that much.<\/p>\n

And if you don\u2019t want me as much as I want you, then just say it. Say you\u2019re letting me go. Say I\u2019m allowed to move on and that you\u2019re just not ready to commit.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll understand. It will hurt and it will shatter all my hopes and all my dreams I had for the two of us, but I won\u2019t make you commit to me. I don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not how things should go between two humans. No one should be forcing anyone to do anything. I don\u2019t want to force you to commit to me either.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t expect me to stick by your side like this naive girl who\u2019s absolutely fine with getting just crumbs of your love. That\u2019s not me and that was never me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know I deserve whole love, the full package, and I know I\u2019m ready for serious things in my life. I\u2019m ready to move from where I am because I feel I\u2019ve grown enough. If you\u2019re not, that\u2019s okay. But I don\u2019t have to stay behind and wait for you if you don\u2019t show me you\u2019re ready to move.<\/p>\n

Demorei algum tempo a ganhar coragem e a enfrentar os meus medos<\/a>. I want to move in life and it can be with or without you. If we’re a thing, let’s define us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And let’s make goals, let’s build a future together and let’s be there for each other.<\/p>\n

If not, I’m done, I’m moving on without you and I’m giving up on this idea that we could be something more than ‘just a thing’.<\/strong>
\nYou know, giving up doesn\u2019t always mean you\u2019re weak; sometimes it simply means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go and grow. And this is me finally realizing that.<\/p>\n

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